Toks2008:
I once wrote about the need for guys to stop giving their money to ladies and I also wrote about the need for ladies to drop their entitlement mentality and YES I still reiterate these facts as they referred to ladies with an unrealistic sense of entitlement but nevertheless, there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman.

Giving should be a two-way street and it will be very selfish for any lady to expect her man to give without her reciprocating but it is no longer new that ladies love to be taken care of and any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

Now I want ladies to understand this...it is one thing if a guy does not have and it is another if he has but just chooses to be stingy....it is also very important to note that generosity should not be measured by the amount of substance be it money or gift but must be accessed based on the proportionality of the gesture in relation to the resources at the guy's disposal....this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly.

What is the point?

John 3:16 KJV 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave... You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back.

The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love. Love is something we can't see, but we can see the evidence of love in the action it produces, which is giving. Where you give your time and resources also reveals what you love. If we think we love someone, yet never give to them of our resources, then we are just deceiving ourselves.

Hope this makes sense.

ibkonekt:


MEN, this is why you dont tell a woman your salary

myles16:


Seconded

They should go and hustle too, money doesn't grow like grass and even Jeff Bezos doesn't spend any how

atheistandproud:


Barman give this guy two cans of bullet. He's doing well.

ibkonekt:


MEN, this is why you dont tell a woman your salary

Ishilove:

You made too much sense.

To all my extremely stingy boyfriends: JasonJi denna, Izzo u, J111 333, Josep h1832, Truth 234, this is a wake up call for all of you to sit up.

Zinny25:
I hate stingy guys with passion.

MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE #1
thinking that, as soon as a man dates a woman, he now should take care of her needs, because he has money, is not only narrow minded/foolish but it is also very dangerous.
are you really telling men that if they have money saved for a new car/house/business/better life or whatever, and they start dating some woman, they should forget about their own life plan and suddenly put that woman as the priority in their lives and spend their life savings on some deluded woman (who learned from men like you that begging is now a profession)?!?!?!? really?!



ARRANT NONSENSE #2
a man not spending foolishly on some deluded woman's BS has nothing to do with WHO HE IS AS A MAN. see how you foolishly value his all life on the sole ability to give money to some deluded woman, because they are dating. haba!
how did this woman take care of herself before meeting him?
how did this woman take care of her needs before meeting him
why should a man be generous to a woman, if he doesnt believe she deserves it?

no wonder so many woman view dating as a poverty alleviation tool, when we have men boys like you.



ARRANT NONSENSE #3
- LOVE has nothing to do with being generous
- a poor man can love and give absolutely nothing
- a bastard good for nothing cheating man can be generous
- doesnt this woman have a job...what about HER being generous to her man. is that against your "boys" rules?! or is it just a man thing to be generous while woman's job is to open their legs, cook and clean?



ARRANT NONSENSE #4
no man should be generous, just because thats what a woman desires. let this man decide WHEN he believes this woman deserves a gift. boys like you who use their money to attain the affection of women are seriously lacking. you are not dating, you are BUYING women with money/gifts.
the minute you make women believe that a man should be generous to them (regardless of who she is, what she does, how she is with her man), is the minute you have lost the plot of life.

as for you saying that a man should give 10% of his income to a woman.... ***spit on floor***

DAVE5:


Only 2 cans, abeg bar-man add 1 full pack of bullet for Mrbrownjay1

We go see who go spend money pass this night

Lol

Ariza:
Toks don remarry? Lol...

Nothing wey love no fit do.

Na you remain now.

Toks2008:


Were re o!

Bro just remain single abeg... Lol!

I guess you are just venting without comprehending the post. You talked about a man spending only on a lady that deserves it which was exactly my point.

I did not talk about flings or trade by batta.

izzou:


I thought I just sent you money to fix your Brazilian hair and nails just last week?

What sort of ungratefulness is this one?

And please remove Thursday Erakpotorbor's name from the list

Alexaonfleek:
With my irresistibly charm,you'll probably end up transferring all the money in your account to me

Twoclans:


Hmmmmm

And ishi exempts naptu.2 from the stingy list.

Rolls eyes .

AfroKnight:


Baba dropped the hint a while ago. Ever since, his tendencies have changes somewhat. This is the furthest he has veered from the noble path of truth!

Love na scam jare


Na so we see am.

MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.

Mypeople2:
My guy I wonder o.You worked for the money, so you have the right to spend the money the way you want .I am not saying the guy shouldn't give his lady money but I don't like this attitude of people saying it is a must.You mean as a lady you can not work so that you can reciprocate his love? The last time I checked we are all humans.....and a lady has more body parts than a man .

joseph1832:

Alexaonfleek:
With my irresistibly charm,you'll probably end up transferring all the money in your account to me

Toks2008:


Were re o!

Bro just remain single abeg... Lol!

I guess you are just venting without comprehending the post. You talked about a man spending only on a lady that deserves it which was exactly my point.

I did not talk about flings or trade by batta.

MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.