₦airaland Forum

maak400:
Yes I like CRP, he has a more balanced view of life in my opinion. I also prefer CRP to Coach Greg Adams.

Skepticus:
There are no "know-it-alls" in the red pill community. From every author, blogger, youtuber etc, there are bits to be picked from each one of them. Despite their little differences and niche of the red-pill, they all have a common theme.

Any true red-piller's is open to double-check.

It's normal to have your favourites. Personally, I roll with "Thinking Ape". He gives a sociopolitical angle to red-pilling and that's my interest. My earlier years in red pilling were those who often talked about women. I've grown beyond all that now.

BlackNeo:
Good evening Brothers. Hope you all had a great day? Like Tai Solarin said, may your roads be rough, because raw diamond doesn't become a jewel without going through high pressure and temperature. The hustle of normal life is to build a man who has reached realization of himself. It is not just to be rich or popular or anything, but to be the man you've always wanted to be

Miggs:
Like i said before,many of you guys dont just get it .If it had been the lady with the umbrella and the guy just stood under it just like that,the lady would have screamed "Will you get out of here!! Ordinary umbrella you no fit buy! Useless man! E won take style molest me"
By the way,women are attracted to men who say NO to them

Miggs:
Like i said before,many of you guys dont just get it .If it had been the lady with the umbrella and the guy just stood under it just like that,the lady would have screamed "Will you get out of here!! Ordinary umbrella you no fit buy! Useless man! E won take style molest me"
By the way,women are attracted to men who say NO to them

sunny4life:
Imagine
Will Smith wey we dey look up to from the days of fresh prince...With all the money and fame wey him get, all he could do was to act like a demented pussy.Infact between Will Simp and Prince Harry.....I wonder who has the title of the King of simphood.

Mandela27:
@BlackNeo

I appreciate You for coming in .

All You mentioned is either the truth about my case or veeery close to the truth.


I'm glad to tell the house that My confidence is improving again,just that I'm being too rude to girls reason being that I no longer see them as what i need,and that attitude probably scares them away..

sunny4life:
Am telling u my brother.If paternity test becomes cheap in Nigeria, it will lead to many divorce and suicide.When I watch paternity court program on dstv, I feel sorry for men.The least cost of paternity test in Nigeria is 100k.As for me, I will do paternity test for evry child my baby mama gives birth to and I advice every man to do same.

Martinez39s:
I choose to remain a monk because it's just the way I like and there are many reasons why I like my lifestyle. At the end of the day, you do the one you like.

Junnior:
What are the reasons

Martinez39s:
I will compile them and give you tomorrow on my meme thread. I dey watch match, no vex.

patoski39:
to convince a normal Naija guy make he treat gals like d way d gals dae treat dem,, b like say u dae wait make fowl lay cooked egg..

90% of niggers 4 street dae think with dier gbola

Skepticus:

Skepticus:
It's no joke and not an easy path to tow.

I have so much respect for monks.

You'll have to control your sexual desires, fight the existential crises that comes when you stop catering to the whims of women (men, by nature find confidence and fulfillment in being providers to women and children) and channelling your masculine energy elsewhere.

Meedon:
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I'm fully ready for anything that is required to go through this part

mattfeuter:
Lol

Are you SURE?

I’ve noticed so many people on here at at the “anger” stage.

Meedon:
Bro.

Forget the anger stuff abi stage

No be by force to F<>k na

mattfeuter:
See my point? It’s not all about fccccking

Miggs:
Men LOVE women.I mean LOVE them!! Ready to end their lives for them.Unfortunately for men,women DO NOT feel thesame way about them but men don't understand this female point of view of them because they project their male perspectives onto women

Meedon:
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I'm fully ready for anything that is required to go through this part

phoenix90:
@Blackneo
Just got a PDF copy of Positive Masculinity by Rollo Tommasi , it’s quite a long read but I will take time to go through it. Takes a lot of balls and commitment to do what you’re doing right now, man. Your steps are quite relatable and easier to undertake.

Skepticus:
I'm no monk. I get pusey when I want it and the knowledge of the red pill helps me around to minimize the chances of being manipulated and burnt.

I'll drop a some of the ideas I know on going monk.

Be aware that being called a "monk" in the manosphere doesn't mean one is celibate. The monk phenomenon found among western world men occurs for various reasons.

I. Some have been badly burnt by the family courts in these western countries where their wives have been handed almost half of what they worked for in their lives. Some have ended up in jail when they couldnt meet up with child support payments and their Lives ruined totally. The US is a case in point. These men dump the dating market and women generally for good.

II. The gynocentric (pro-women) laws in a lot of western societies (a consequence of the rise in feminism) is so biased against men that you don't need to marry or date on a long term to get into trouble with the law. It's a reason why these folks abandon gaming women, one-night stands/flings and cohabiting with women (Common laws in some countries recognize living with a woman for 4 years and above as technically, "marriage". The Me Too movement where a lady just need to make a false accusation after you picked her up for the night with her consent has wrecked all the reputation some men have built up, into shambles.

III. For a significant number of men who have gone monk, some have had their best of fun with women, spending time, money and energy, later realizing that the effort spent in getting and bedding these women isn't worth it. They find fulfilment in other things and see women for what they really are, a pastime.

IV. Biological factors like low libido, hormonal imbalances, etc.

V. Personal choices like improving semen retention etc.

The only pass for Nigerians is that the family courts (also pro-women) in nigeria isn't harsh on men. Plus, the conservative culture of the Nigerians society still protects essence of decent manhood.

Going monk is a state of mind. You have to prepare your mind for it. The redpill, MGTOW community don't compel or generally advise men to go monk. Those who went that route have their peculiar reasons for it and they are respected for it. Get sex when you want but keep your red pill cap always so you don't lose guard.

Forget the "tough-guy 100% alpha" some clowns might want to sell you.

A lot of them still have unhealthy obsession with sex, women and are just a "Hi" "kiss" or "Blówjob" away from falling back into the beta state of mind that a rail about.

darasiiimiii:
On the topic of marriage,i'll always advice any male(beta/alpha) to get a pre-nup,so this women will have no power over you when it comes to the issue of separation.Once you bring up the idea of getting a pre-nup and she resists,my man she belongs to the streets

Skepticus:
Prenups are good, especially to test the loyalty of a woman but in itself, not fool proof.

There have been several cases of prenups being trashed by law courts as nonbinding documents.