J111333:
Ishilove can you see what you've caused?
Walahi, no heaven for you on the last day.

lol

J111333:
Ishilove can you see what you've caused?
Walahi, no heaven for you on the last day.

Oga go for deliverance from every spirit of acute tightfistedness

Ishilove:

That one carry PHD honours for stinginess and iberibeism.

Take am.

Alexaonfleek:
Nice thread op.
Stingy guys are very annoying to date,and most of the guys bashing you will not even want their sisters to date a stingy guy.
You can imagine visiting your bf and he can't even out of politeness offer you water to drink.
Or you get him a gift for Christmas and the only thing he does for you on your birthday is to send WhatsApp message.
Speaking from experience....

The way many guys responded to this thread is not only lame but very worrisome.

It is very obvious that they did not read or comprehend the thread. They kept referring to ladies with entitlement mentality whilst I clearly made it clear in the thread that it is about them being sensitive even without the lady asking for a dime.

Ishilove:

Oga go for deliverance from every spirit of acute tightfistedness

The last deliverance you recommended, they nearly snatched my keke on the bush path to your yahoo deliverer.

Tekuataim dia oo.

Stingy guys? God forbid bad thing.

Female speaking:
Please spend your money on your parents, they struggled for you. Help them out. Other than that, you are only obligated to spend on your wife and children.

You can be generous with a girlfriend but that’s within reason; dinner, movie, an event here and there. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a good time. She also should be generous on you.

You should not be responsible for her rent, school fees, business idea, hair and clothes etc. Your relationship is not transactional, she is not your wife.

A good woman shows ambition, just like a good man does. Instead of being broke or stretched by a girlfriend, use your money to invest and build a side business for yourself.

But some men are paying for everything to assuage their ego and because they need a trophy girlfriend to feel accomplished or lauded by friends.

Ishilove:

LMAAAAO! Did I actually name him that??

Ishi ehn, you are never serious

MrBrownJay1:


ARRANT NONSENSE #1
thinking that, as soon as a man dates a woman, he now should take care of her needs, because he has money, is not only narrow minded/foolish but it is also very dangerous.
are you really telling men that if they have money saved for a new car/house/business/better life or whatever, and they start dating some woman, they should forget about their own life plan and suddenly put that woman as the priority in their lives and spend their life savings on some deluded woman (who learned from men like you that begging is now a profession)?!?!?!? really?!



ARRANT NONSENSE #2
a man not spending foolishly on some deluded woman's BS has nothing to do with WHO HE IS AS A MAN. see how you foolishly value his all life on the sole ability to give money to some deluded woman, because they are dating. haba!
how did this woman take care of herself before meeting him?
how did this woman take care of her needs before meeting him
why should a man be generous to a woman, if he doesnt believe she deserves it?

no wonder so many woman view dating as a poverty alleviation tool, when we have men boys like you.



ARRANT NONSENSE #3
- LOVE has nothing to do with being generous
- a poor man can love and give absolutely nothing
- a bastard good for nothing cheating man can be generous
- doesnt this woman have a job...what about HER being generous to her man. is that against your "boys" rules?! or is it just a man thing to be generous while woman's job is to open their legs, cook and clean?



ARRANT NONSENSE #4
no man should be generous, just because thats what a woman desires. let this man decide WHEN he believes this woman deserves a gift. boys like you who use their money to attain the affection of women are seriously lacking. you are not dating, you are BUYING women with money/gifts.
the minute you make women believe that a man should be generous to them (regardless of who she is, what she does, how she is with her man), is the minute you have lost the plot of life.

as for you saying that a man should give 10% of his income to a woman.... ***spit on floor***

You deserve a bottle of hero.

Filmdirect:
Female speaking:
Please spend your money on your parents, they struggled for you. Help them out. Other than that, you are only obligated to spend on your wife and children.

You can be generous with a girlfriend but that’s within reason; dinner, movie, an event here and there. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a good time. She also should be generous on you.

You should not be responsible for her rent, school fees, business idea, hair and clothes etc. Your relationship is not transactional, she is not your wife.

A good woman shows ambition, just like a good man does. Instead of being broke or stretched by a girlfriend, use your money to invest and build a side business for yourself.

But some men are paying for everything to assuage their ego and because they need a trophy girlfriend to feel accomplished or lauded by friends.

Give this lady a medal.

Op seriously , you get big issues.
your stupidity is like Peak milk,"it's in you".

Geminita1:
Stingy guys? God forbid bad thing.

spotted!

J111333:
Take am.

Aiming with mathematical precision

Toks2008:
I once wrote about the need for guys to stop giving their money to ladies and I also wrote about the need for ladies to drop their entitlement mentality and YES I still reiterate these facts as they referred to ladies with an unrealistic sense of entitlement but nevertheless, there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman.

Giving should be a two-way street and it will be very selfish for any lady to expect her man to give without her reciprocating but it is no longer new that ladies love to be taken care of and any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

Now I want ladies to understand this...it is one thing if a guy does not have and it is another if he has but just chooses to be stingy....it is also very important to note that generosity should not be measured by the amount of substance be it money or gift but must be accessed based on the proportionality of the gesture in relation to the resources at the guy's disposal....this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly.

What is the point?

John 3:16 KJV 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave... You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back.

The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love. Love is something we can't see, but we can see the evidence of love in the action it produces, which is giving. Where you give your time and resources also reveals what you love. If we think we love someone, yet never give to them of our resources, then we are just deceiving ourselves.

Hope this makes sense.

if person say you no get sense now, Dem go ban person....if you get money to dey waste on woman keep at it, spend am well who send you message dey give rules to guys about how to spend their money.... smh Moda...

Zoie:
Take it from me, if you marry a stingy guy. Your children will suffer.

Are you married?


Are your children suffering now?

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poweredcom:


See this dingbat that can't even dash someone 1k is here saying she hate stingy guys

Even if the spender na criminal so you will fall in love with him abi and the so called stingy guys is a wise person that is futuristic

Na why Dem don take many of naija gals destiny do juju ..many gals don run mad for street

@womenareapes come here and see these folks

u ain't noticed... next please

[May God bless You for this......quote author=Toks2008 post=91703696]I once wrote about the need for guys to stop giving their money to ladies and I also wrote about the need for ladies to drop their entitlement mentality and YES I still reiterate these facts as they referred to ladies with an unrealistic sense of entitlement but nevertheless, there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman.

Giving should be a two-way street and it will be very selfish for any lady to expect her man to give without her reciprocating but it is no longer new that ladies love to be taken care of and any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

Now I want ladies to understand this...it is one thing if a guy does not have and it is another if he has but just chooses to be stingy....it is also very important to note that generosity should not be measured by the amount of substance be it money or gift but must be accessed based on the proportionality of the gesture in relation to the resources at the guy's disposal....this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly.

What is the point?

John 3:16 KJV 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave... You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back.

The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love. Love is something we can't see, but we can see the evidence of love in the action it produces, which is giving. Where you give your time and resources also reveals what you love. If we think we love someone, yet never give to them of our resources, then we are just deceiving ourselves.

Hope this makes sense.

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Can't someone for once advice men to avoid stingy, mother-insulting and man's-family-members-abusing ladies?

Toks2008:
I once wrote about the need for guys to stop giving their money to ladies and I also wrote about the need for ladies to drop their entitlement mentality and YES I still reiterate these facts as they referred to ladies with an unrealistic sense of entitlement but nevertheless, there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman.

Giving should be a two-way street and it will be very selfish for any lady to expect her man to give without her reciprocating but it is no longer new that ladies love to be taken care of and any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

Now I want ladies to understand this...it is one thing if a guy does not have and it is another if he has but just chooses to be stingy....it is also very important to note that generosity should not be measured by the amount of substance be it money or gift but must be accessed based on the proportionality of the gesture in relation to the resources at the guy's disposal....this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly.

What is the point?

John 3:16 KJV 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave... You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back.

The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love. Love is something we can't see, but we can see the evidence of love in the action it produces, which is giving. Where you give your time and resources also reveals what you love. If we think we love someone, yet never give to them of our resources, then we are just deceiving ourselves.

Hope this makes sense.

abeg, sharap!

Toks2008:
I once wrote about the need for guys to stop giving their money to ladies and I also wrote about the need for ladies to drop their entitlement mentality and YES I still reiterate these facts as they referred to ladies with an unrealistic sense of entitlement but nevertheless, there is a wide gap between a lady making lame financial demands from a man and a man being sensitive to the needs of his woman.

Giving should be a two-way street and it will be very selfish for any lady to expect her man to give without her reciprocating but it is no longer new that ladies love to be taken care of and any guy who has what it takes to take care of his lady and yet refrains is a stingy man who does not deserve to be with any lady and ladies who are looking for a real purposeful romance should avoid such guys not just for their sake but for the sake of the future as such a man may not be generous enough to take care of his family financially....and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

Now I want ladies to understand this...it is one thing if a guy does not have and it is another if he has but just chooses to be stingy....it is also very important to note that generosity should not be measured by the amount of substance be it money or gift but must be accessed based on the proportionality of the gesture in relation to the resources at the guy's disposal....this means a guy who earns 100k a month but gives his woman an average of 10k in a month has given 10% of his total income and he is more generous than a guy who makes far more but gives his lady sparingly.

What is the point?

John 3:16 KJV 16 For God so loved the world, that he gave... You can give without loving, but you can't love without giving.
When a man truly loves a woman he will give even without her asking, he will be sensitive to her needs and will always give her from what he has no matter how small even if the lady is financially buoyant, there are still little gestures that go a long way to express your affection for her. If a man truly loves his woman he will give of his time and his resources. Those who truly love, hold nothing back.

The measure of your giving reveals the measure of your love. Love is something we can't see, but we can see the evidence of love in the action it produces, which is giving. Where you give your time and resources also reveals what you love. If we think we love someone, yet never give to them of our resources, then we are just deceiving ourselves.

Hope this makes sense.

abeg, sharap!

very shitty!!

So this is your problem today the 16th of July 2020?

I come from a family that gives, I'm a giver.

So whether it's a man friend or a girlfriend, I'm always giving. I see humans first

Summary is I'm not stingy

lexy2014:


It clearly shows that u depend on men for a living

really ok!

Toks2008.. I hear say ur galfriend dey call u mugu...

Filmdirect:
Female speaking:
Please spend your money on your parents, they struggled for you. Help them out. Other than that, you are only obligated to spend on your wife and children.

You can be generous with a girlfriend but that’s within reason; dinner, movie, an event here and there. You don’t have to spend a lot of money to have a good time. She also should be generous on you.

You should not be responsible for her rent, school fees, business idea, hair and clothes etc. Your relationship is not transactional, she is not your wife.

A good woman shows ambition, just like a good man does. Instead of being broke or stretched by a girlfriend, use your money to invest and build a side business for yourself.

But some men are paying for everything to assuage their ego and because they need a trophy girlfriend to feel accomplished or lauded by friends.

You said it all!!

Brownjay said some truths too,just in a hardcore, gangster way.

Toks2008:


The way many guys responded to this thread is not only lame but very worrisome.

It is very obvious that they did not read or comprehend the thread. They kept referring to ladies with entitlement mentality whilst I clearly made it clear in the thread that it is about them being sensitive even without the lady asking for a dime.

Stop trying to be clever by half. You're not dealing with neophytes, nor are we dyslexic.

This is an excerpt from your spit-deserving twaddle.

and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

So, a man's love is directly proportional to how much he's willing to part with(hmmm, i wonder what sugar daddies have to say about this). And this brings me to the ineluctable question; " what moral rectitude does the kind of women you herald have over road side prostitute who predicate their relationship on money? Since pecuniary gratification is the proviso for the love you preach.

I'll willingly spend on a woman in distress who is not my girlfriend, but I can't spend on a woman just because we're in a relationship.

That's contemptible horseshit that foster laziness, venality and nauseating entitlement mentality.

BTW, it's quite risible for you to summon the testicular fortitude to set sail on the part of ignominy in branding your fellow men with the epithet "stingy," just because they go against the grain of pussy-worship to bide when and how they want to spend their money.

For the fact you suggested giving 10% of our income, as if relationship is an employment or we're repaying some sort of mortgage(at least, this is profitable), is a confession of your incorrigibility in pussy-worship.

Actually, I've lost the capacity to be outraged by the kind of sickening tosh you call opinion, but you just actuated the wow-factor of disgust in me this night.

MrBrownJay1:
just like ladies can date who they desire, men also should stay away from goldigging good for nothing women.

there is nothing wrong with a stingy man, and people should stop trying to make them look like there is something wrong with them. if a man earns money, he has all the right to decide how to spend his money. NOBODY (especially broke women) has any right to demand that he spends HIS money the way some deluded stranger deems fit.

as the proud chairman of the NL "money dont grow on trees" club, i can assure you, if a woman has the audacity to call anybody stingy, then simply reply to her:" biitch, since you think that money grows on trees, then why dont you spend YOUR money... and shut your dirty mouth, instead of thinking that MY money is "your" money"

the best way for a man to be broke is by wasting his money trying to impress good for nothing women that havent worked a day in their lives and dont know the VALUE of money.

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Poseidon000:


Stop trying to be clever by half. You're not dealing with neophytes, nor are we dyslexic.

This is an excerpt from your spit-deserving twaddle.

and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

So, a man's love is directly proportional to how much he's willing to part with(hmmm, i wonder what sugar daddies have to say about this). And this brings me to the ineluctable question; " what moral rectitude does the kind of women you herald have over road side prostitute who predicate their relationship on money? Since pecuniary gratification is the proviso for the love you preach.

I'll willingly spend on a woman in distress who is not my girlfriend, but I can't spend on a woman just because we're in a relationship.

That's contemptible horseshit that foster laziness, venality and nauseating entitlement mentality.

BTW, it's quite risible for you to summon the testicular fortitude to set sail on the part of ignominy in branding your fellow men with the epithet "stingy," just because they go against the grain of pussy-worship to bide when and how they want to spend their money.

For the fact you suggested giving 10% of our income, as if relationship is an employment or we're repaying some sort of mortgage(at least, this is profitable), is a confession of your incorrigibility in pussy-worship.

Actually, I've lost the capacity to be outraged by the kind of sickening tosh you call opinion, but you just actuated the wow-factor of disgust in me this night.

You are still reading upsidedown. I understand that ladies input emotions into their comprehension but i never knew some guys do too. Read your comment again and see if they correlate with the write up.

Where did i write that a guy should give 10% of his salary? was that not an allegory?

And where on earth did you read that a man's love is directly proportional to how much he's willing to part with?

Seems una jjust wan type for the sake of typing.

Make i ignore una abeg. I no get strenth. If my thread no make sense to una then make una go back to primary school to learn how to read and comprehend....Abeg make i go piss go back to bed.

Alexaonfleek:
LMAO!!!!
OBO kwa

You see...
A good number of guys(not all) won't like to accept money from a girl....maybe just the occasional gift.
And yet,most guys go about calling girls stingy.
The question really shouldn't be 'Ladies,what do you have to offer your man'
The question should be 'Men,what do you really want from your girl'

naww, keep ur moni, i can handle myself. Can't speak for every man, so lemme speak for masef. Wota want from a woman is more valuable dan moni. Respect n loyalty. Gimme dat, an am ok. Buh u see, 90% of d girls ou der, their name is HOPE 7 days a week, but the "P" is silent half the time

DAVE5:


I actually like all his responses to the toks guy, very meticulous

Most Nigerian women are just something else, love according to a Nigerian lady is who can give her money and once you don't succumb you are either stingy or you don't love them

That's why yahoo boys dey use their renew jazz

They can render a successful man broke thought their give me give me that attitude, beggars everywhere

My own anthem used to be what I can't spend on a fellow padi, hell, no lady can collect it from me

Abeg you suppose get one bottle and one olosho for this cold weather jare.

Poseidon000:


Stop trying to be clever by half. You're not dealing with neophytes, nor are we dyslexic.

This is an excerpt from your spit-deserving twaddle.

and worse still, I believe a man who is not generous to his lady does not truly love her cos there is no love without giving.

So, a man's love is directly proportional to how much he's willing to part with(hmmm, i wonder what sugar daddies have to say about this). And this brings me to the ineluctable question; " what moral rectitude does the kind of women you herald have over road side prostitute who predicate their relationship on money? Since pecuniary gratification is the proviso for the love you preach.

I'll willingly spend on a woman in distress who is not my girlfriend, but I can't spend on a woman just because we're in a relationship.

That's contemptible horseshit that foster laziness, venality and nauseating entitlement mentality.

BTW, it's quite risible for you to summon the testicular fortitude to set sail on the part of ignominy in branding your fellow men with the epithet "stingy," just because they go against the grain of pussy-worship to bide when and how they want to spend their money.

For the fact you suggested giving 10% of our income, as if relationship is an employment or we're repaying some sort of mortgage(at least, this is profitable), is a confession of your incorrigibility in pussy-worship.

Actually, I've lost the capacity to be outraged by the kind of sickening tosh you call opinion, but you just actuated the wow-factor of disgust in me this night.

Bros the erudite grammar that you've showered on that human being is beyond their comprehension. Be down to earth biko.

uuzba:

Look for a humble woman.
Let her behave herself.
Give what your have.
When you have extra, give her
Later go back to your standard.
That way, she will have idea what you have without you telling her your salary.
But don't be mean to her.
If you realise that you can't take care of this girl, please leave her and go and find the one you can take care of.
Do not have any sex or commit her life with pregnancy and please don't kill/abort an innocent child.
Just have simple, trusting relationship.

Wow! So a boyfriend automatically becomes a FATHER!!!

Chai!!!!