Zoie:

You done?

Lmaoooo...

I have not been in any long relationship before .... all my relationships ends after two to three months for no reason.. longest was three months and two weeks.. maybe they swear give me....

Reminds me of R.Kelly "when a woman is fed up"

It might be teary at the beginning but when a woman makes up her mind there is no going back.

Even if she comes back it can be the same.

Best for both parties to move on.

luminouz:


How many times you go post this same reply? Na Glo you dey use?

Lol. Na opera o

It's easier for ladies to move on, especially the pretty ones with character and prospects. Good things are easy to spot. Another man will be ready to wipe all her tears and do everything possible to win her heart without her her making any effort to move on. But most times it's the man that has to start the search all over again, and getting a good girl is not so easy.
A man makes the effort to move on, while the ladies have men that are ready to force her to move on

Guys off course

Table has turn

I am witnessing the same thing now, I broke up with my girl today, I have not eaten since morning, am even tempted to call her since morning, she haven't even feel a damn thing.

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

The one who moves on easily after a relationship break up is that one who loved less.

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

You made a very big mistake by letting go of the one who loved you.
You might probably regret it for the rest of your life.

Ernestforyou:
Ladies moves on easily,infact they can get ten toasters same day you end the relationship but it might takes guys years before you get another girl.

Take a guy years to get another girl??


Wetin Musa no go hear for gate

Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

I just blocked one yesterday on my watsapp handle and she rained all the insults on me.

Zoie:
Guy you're suffering from a plethora of issues.
Low self esteem as one of them.

I noticed a lot of guys get easily intimidated.
So they tuck tail and run, right after making one very comfortable with and in love with them.
She loved you but you were too weak.
Please don't go after her. You clearly DO NOT deserve her heart.
Go, heal your esteem.

On point!

MOGPman:

I just blocked one yesterday on my watsapp handle and she rained all the insults on me.

Why did you block her?

kokaneprodigy:

This is totally false!

That she stopped calling doesn’t mean she moved on. Trying blocking a lady after a perhaps messy break up. Few months from that when all is calm she’ll beg u to at least unblock her. Unless she was never emotionally involved with u.

This is true. A lady once begged to never block her if we should break up

And i finally left her but kept my promise not to block her because opposite of love is not hate, but indifference

Whiteways:
Like seriously, all this excuses is not making sense to me.

If shes comfortable with you for many months or years of dating and never complained about your standard of livelihood why then would you look down on your self.

No condition is permanent as long as you are not relaxing waiting for miracle.

Guys, pls always beleive in yourself and stop breaking our ladies heart because of your high low self esteem.

Only broke niggars miss their ex. You probably don't have the resources to find a new relationship

Babanlagenius:



Thanks bro. I will. I am still afraid but I will summon courage and give my best shot. Mehn! I will be completely down if she tells me she is getting married. I still have our pictures together. Her beauty and love still disturbs my sleep.

I know that fear. But you are lucky. You just didn't know how lucky you are/were.

I say you are lucky because not many girls will say what she said when you wanted to end everything.

A girl I was planning something for, hustling like mad just make sure the relationship move to next stage, started by giving me attitude and then told me she is no longer interested in the relationship.

But I thank God for everything still because had corona not happened,had my pending contracts not been delayed, I would not know that her feelings for me were not deep and I would have ended up keeping 1M from the contract for her school and she would have feigned and faked it all...

You are lucky bro... I pray she would still be free but you know, since you said you ended it in 2019, it would take her a few months to start dating again AND, corona happened this year, which means, question of marriage from anyone is out of it!

Give it a shot bro. I pray it works out well for you.

Uniquekriss:
Females tend to heal faster. To some of them that have been so emotionally attached, they keep loving the guy or still feeling the whole affair even long after separation buh they have a way of hiding their feelings deep within and making it look like they never lost anything.

I completely agree with you. some ladies can be very very deceptive. The same way a lady hides her feeling after break up is the same they hide their feelings when a guy starts wooing them from the onset. some ladies would be acting like rebecah, waiting for you to serve them for years like Issac before they acknowledge your feelings. but deep down, they are desperately longing for the guy .some ladies can be very insecure Sha.

gunners160:
Na thunder go fire u. U had such a loving gf yet you broke her heart. You thought she can't live without you but shame catch u she survived and acted like u never existed. Whoa, Mr Indispensable hope u don win award

Until a man fulfils purpose and financially balanced, he may never be happy. See ehn, women dont love us men as we think they do, they often love a man for what he can provide.

I dont know how good a woman is, is her man is broke enough for a long time she wld begin to think twice. Its thier nature. Hypergamy plays its role...

I think the OP may actually mean well for her cause the most valuable asset for anyone especially women is time not love...

luminouz:


OP is a fraud.

He created the thread to garner views and start another gender war

This is my life I am talking about here. I just want to know if every other guy is experiencing the same thing. Who cares about gender equality.

seanwilliam:
but that doesnot deny the fact that Okafor can still come to play between them right?

Okafor kee you dia!

Babanlagenius:


Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

But according to you she was willing to wait till you make it and that's all that matters. If she left you to follow a made man you'll still cry that she left you, now she decides to stick with you through thick and thin till you arrive and you sent her away. There's something you're not telling us bro.

Zoie:

Aswear. The sad thing is that the man coming after him might suffer for his sins.

Not necessarily...

futurism:
I know that fear. But you are lucky. You just didn't know how lucky you are/were.

I say you are lucky because not many girls will say what she said when you wanted to end everything.

A girl I was planning something for, hustling like mad just make sure the relationship move to next stage, started by giving me attitude and then told me she is no longer interested in the relationship.

But I thank God for everything still because had corona not happened,had my pending contracts not been delayed, I would not know that her feelings for me were not deep and I would have ended up keeping 1M from the contract for her school and she would have feigned and faked it all...

You are lucky bro... I pray she would still be free but you know, since you said you ended it in 2019, it would take her a few months to start dating again AND, corona happened this year, which means, question of marriage from anyone is out of it!

Give it a shot bro. I pray it works out well for you.

Thanks bro, I will. I am willing to settle down with her this year by God's grace. And I intend to go with my friends this weekend. Maybe to her parent's house so as to show her how much I want her back. Or what do you think? I am just a bit too calculative, perhaps, confused.

I just pray she has not changed.

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

You are just so stupid and childish, may God never allow that girl come back to you.

Spiff20:
But according to you she was willing to wait till you make it and that's all that matters. If she left you to follow a made man you'll still cry that she left you, now she decides to stick with you through thick and thin till you arrive and you sent her away. There's something you're not telling us bro.

Yes but she always develop mood swings everytime she attends weddings or when her friends are getting married.

There was a time her ex got married, that period I did all I could in shame just to make her smile but all to no avail.

Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

if she's still not married, don't miss the opportunity.

Richie77:
Naija ladies walking around with spear tyres since 1960. In case, the real G fuckup, the guy on suspense[On Bench] will just swim in .

Yeah! The lady must be blamed regardless...

Babanlagenius:


Thanks bro, I will. I am willing to settle down with her this year by God's grace. And I intend to go with my friends this weekend. Maybe to her parent's house so as to show her how much I want her back. Or what do you think? I am just a bit too calculative, perhaps, confused.

I just pray she has not changed.

My brother, you sound someone that is too calculative in everything you do. But the downside of such is that you can end up making up things that doesn't exist.

See you were thinking u won't have or make money when you ended it but here you are with an improvement.

I used be like that but I found out that over thinking things can be detrimental to our lives more than we realize it.

Don't over think it. Just do it. Don't go with your friends yet. Call or chat her up and indirectly or playfully ask the questions to find out if she is getting married soon but if you don't know how do that such that it won't be obvious, then find another way to do it.

Or better still meet her one on one, at a private place and trash everything like a man.

Whoever did wrong in that relationship suffers simple anybody could be victim

vickydevoka:

Lol. Na opera o

Lol...pele mai dear..


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