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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by jericco1(m): 5:56pm On Jul 19, 2020
gunners160:
Na thunder go fire u. U had such a loving gf yet you broke her heart. You thought she can't live without you but shame catch u she survived and acted like u never existed. Whoa, Mr Indispensable hope u don win award

God don shame am
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Shakaranews2020: 5:56pm On Jul 19, 2020
Depends.

Meanwhile, Hushpuppi faces more trouble as he Dumps his Chicago based lawyer.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DKtFIGsLaY
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nobody: 5:57pm On Jul 19, 2020
From my friend's case. Girls move on easily
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SeanBeezy(m): 5:58pm On Jul 19, 2020
Zoie:

Aswear. The sad thing is that the man coming after him might suffer for his sins.
Nah, I doubt that. That girl he explained on that post has got a good heart which is now becoming rare
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Morrison91(m): 6:01pm On Jul 19, 2020
ClassicMan202:
It depends on who invested more in the relationship
The Most reasonable comment ever read.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by chatinent(m): 6:01pm On Jul 19, 2020
That's why I warn girls against pre-marital sex. It's like opening a surprise before it's been given to you. Little wonder this guy needs a new catch for no just reasonable reason like the girl did sth wrong or other. Now he thinks back of their romance and wants the sexperience again.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Munzy14(m): 6:01pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

The bolded is the reason u miss her now...She bleeped u good..
When a man has cash his third leg will be rising anyhow.

oga move on, don't go and disturb the lady again...Beautiful ones are not yet born.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SweetCunt97(f): 6:02pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:


Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.
So you think she'll be there waiting for you? Y didn't u manage with her instead of breaking up? Now u wanna go back huh? Better respect yourself
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Mandela27: 6:06pm On Jul 19, 2020
Like the Wise teachers will say and now I've come to believe majority of men have lost their manly pride and the honour they hold for being Men.imagine what a man is posting.
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by peacettw: 6:06pm On Jul 19, 2020
Ariza:
Not only are you selfish, you are so disrespectful too. Just imagine the way you describe your woman and your worries. Please stay your lane ,she deserves better.

Don't mind the simpleton. Bunch of idiots parading as men

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jul 19, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So you think she'll be there waiting for you? Y didn't u manage with her instead of breaking up? Now u wanna go back huh? Better respect yourself
I thought girls want nothing to do with broke guys?. To the best of my knowledge, he did the right thing, or do you not think so?

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by madridsta007(m): 6:06pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.


Once a lady moves on, she moves on. You can NEVER bring her back.

But guys.... Na. It takes a long time to move on. Guys know how to pretend well anyway.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Dwhyte(m): 6:06pm On Jul 19, 2020
Preshieben:
Girls sha
Probably coming from a fellow lady like them
Na wa
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SweetCunt97(f): 6:08pm On Jul 19, 2020
theForth:
I thought girls want nothing to do with broke guys?. To the best of my knowledge, he did the right thing, or do you not think so?
Not every lady. You'd b a lucky man to find a woman willing to stick by you during ur dry pockets.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Greystone: 6:09pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:


Not so. I only wanted to give her a better life by indirectly allowing someone else to come in cause mine was difficult.

Things have changed now.
You can correct someone without abusing the person.

You are a man of very little faith.

She was willing to stick with you thru bad times but u pushed her away. angry

Do you know how difficult it is to find an honest and truly loving woman in this time?

You are so shortsighted that you couldn’t see that in one instant, God can change your situation and make you a success story.

I sincerely hope she meets and marries a man who will give her the love she deserves and may Karma come back to bite you very painfully in the future. Amen. angry

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by SmartPolician: 6:09pm On Jul 19, 2020
carammel:

You are still naive.

How so?

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by jadyclem(m): 6:14pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

Who move on easily is dependent on several factors: Investment in the relationship, emotional attachments, expectations, intentions, who initiated the breakup, etc. Sometimes the guy may be the one to move on faster and some other time it will be the lady. The one with the most investment and expectations will always find it harder to move on mostly if he/she is not the initiator of the breakup. But one thing is sure: they will hardly forget how they made each other feel during the course of the relationship.
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by HOB777(m): 6:15pm On Jul 19, 2020
Whosoever believes and invested more in the relationship don't call the shot and whoever love less always call it up. As per who move on fast ? It's never on a gender basis but on who announced breakup .

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by akinade28(f): 6:18pm On Jul 19, 2020
Those of you guys breaking the heart of good ladies, all in the name of I'm helping her to have a better life or I'm not ready for marriage, just because you don't have your dream job, car house or account balance yet. When you are ready It is your type that eventually end up with bad ladies who don't love but are just after your money and you will come and tell us marriage is a scam. By then, you won't be able to complain because deep down you'll know you blew up your chance at having a good woman in your life. You will have no choice than to manage and endure.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Ladycewhy(f): 6:19pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.

After breaking the heart of good women una karma go push una go meet Jezebel una go come here dey shout women are this and that.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by quadriolakunle(m): 6:27pm On Jul 19, 2020
I had a similar case recently, this babe I met during nysc, we got close and became really attached.

I told her I had a girlfriend in Lagos, while we served in osun state, somehow she managed to forget that fact and we started dating.

We had many memorable times together, I am proud of helping her greatly career wise but I was careful not to have sex with her, I knew the thing would not last.

After service, I got back to Lagos and could not continue, we broke up and for 3 months, she could not move, she was sick and admitted, I had to go back and be the guy she would cry on her shoulder.... Very emotional moments

We got back together in the process of getting back together, long story short

After about 4 months, I started giving her signs that we can't continue, she got the signs and she told me that "even if it means being my side chick, she woukd remain"

We broke up, I had to delete her contacts and refrain from speaking with her... I had to be compensating her friends to help see her through it.

So in summary, moving on in a relationship is factor of the investments in the relationships.

The attachments, the memories and the genuineness of the those things.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by kasim155: 6:38pm On Jul 19, 2020
ClassicMan202:
It depends on who invested more in the relationship

Dis is d rightful answer to the question asked by d OP.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Nehyooh(m): 6:39pm On Jul 19, 2020
catwalq:
She stopped calling and talking to you don't mean she has moved on, she might be holding her peace to make you think that way cause that's what you want.

Besides, she's a woman and may not want you looking down on her for hanging around after you told her to go.....see finish no good.

If you still want her just talk to her and ask her out again instead of assuming. It's better you say something and Bleep up your pride than keep quiet and let it Bleep you up instead


But it's none of my business though....
Believe me, I like your write-up. It make sense !

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by doris4u(f): 6:41pm On Jul 19, 2020
Moving on isn't an easy thing to do especially when you genuinely loved your partner. Time heals all wounds so it's not a gender thing.

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Babanlagenius: 6:46pm On Jul 19, 2020
flyingpig:

Same position I am in with my current gf. Exactly how your ex is, no difference in anyway. Extremely beautiful, loves me billion times than I love her. Do all those things your did. But very expectant of marriage whereas I'm not even close to financially stable and I'm thinking of moving her on. So i can settle my little brothers, establish myself before getting a wife.

Don't know if I'll regret moving her on for someone more ready for marriage.

Bro please don't make the mistake I made. Since we broke up I haven't seen any lady of my choice. As a matter of fact, they all want my money. I totally regret ever leaving the lady and I don't even know if I will see anyone like her. I recently met one on Facebook, we had nice convo, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She called me 3 days ago that she would come and spend one week at my place, since then, my feelings went off totally.

It left because we've not met before yet she wants to come spend the night.

That means Na so she dey with other boyfriends.

Right now I don't know what to do. All I think of is my ex

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by hollywater: 6:49pm On Jul 19, 2020
Guys.
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by donMIG(m): 6:51pm On Jul 19, 2020
Oga
U just used n dumped her stop sugarcoating thus shi... Na u go complain give her say based on u no get moni?
I'm sorry I didn't come here to give u n asna came here to find out for myself too
That girl played u out man!


As for me
We didn't really breakup... But someone u'd talk to erday n den y'all don't talk anymore do u need to b told yal no longer together?
Mines left coz she got tired of putting up wit ma shisss
She said I don't tell her I love her anymore
Said I don't spend much time wit her no more
That I ignored her call... N I got mad wen she complained about this shiiii
Fact is,,, I did love her
I didn't say I love her like i used to
I didn't spend time wit her like I used to
But mehn I was busy wit work need to hustle
Shiii hit me like a brick on the head... I threw away my pride called her begging to know where it all went wrong... Notin really really serious that this was her not complaining anymore... I wanted to hear her say I was a cheat or she heard shiiis about me
Tins didn't go well wit me ever since... I hated girls, I haven't been in a relationship since march n I don't even feel d need to
I miss her even as I type this shiiii
I don't think she misses me or my borin gists but I do miss her a lot... I'm just forming hard guy n wen she eventually comes back I promise myself not to take her back coz I've never loved a girl so damn much that I didn't have to cheat not for once on her!

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by nasstil2(m): 6:51pm On Jul 19, 2020
Guys always move on even before the breakup
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by bukatyne(f): 6:54pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
She was more emotionally attached to me. As in she used to call me more than I did. She didn't sleep without talking to me and more often than not she would ask me to send her voice notes on WhatsApp even after our convno before going to bed. I felt the love within and without. She showed me so much love and made me to have extra focus in live because she was in full support of everything I was doing.

She saved money from work to buy me gifts. She was down to earth. She always give guys my number when they asked for hers. I was only bothered that she was 26years and just maybe the pressure of getting married was there. I sensed her mood swings expecially on Saturdays. I left her way back in 2019 because I couldn't secure a job for myself and needed to give her a better life by giving some other guy a chance to get married to her quickly.

Speaking of beauty, she is the most beautiful lady I have ever dated. As a matter of fact the first thing I asked her on our first date was

DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE TOO MUCH FOR ME?

Now that I am stable to an extent all I could think of is this lady. I just don't know how she managed to forget about me. I'm even afraid of contacting her cause I don't want to hear that someone else is presently digging that hole and probably about to get married as well.


Why don't you reach out to her again and see what pans out?

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Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by bukatyne(f): 6:55pm On Jul 19, 2020
catwalq:
She stopped calling and talking to you don't mean she has moved on, she might be holding her peace to make you think that way cause that's what you want.

Besides, she's a woman and may not want you looking down on her for hanging around after you told her to go.....see finish no good.

If you still want her just talk to her and ask her out again instead of assuming. It's better you say something and Bleep up your pride than keep quiet and let it Bleep you up instead


But it's none of my business though....

100%

They just broke up a year ago.
Re: Guys Or Ladies: Who Moves On Easily After Breakup? by Hathor5(f): 6:55pm On Jul 19, 2020
Babanlagenius:
Honestly I had an experience with a lady I dated for 3 years. We sang together, made love and we thought we would get married but one faithful day I told her I wanted to move on cause I was broke and I needed her to start a new relationship with someone that was willing to satisfy her needs and also ready to get married.

She abused me, cried and begged me to come back that she would wait no matter how long it takes. Albeit, I didn't change my mind.

Few months later, I noticed how I started missing her and always wanting to call her but pride wouldn't allow me. How did she cope without me? How did she forget about me so easily? Is it common for ladies to forget their exes so easily than men?

Please I want to know from you guys cause this is really crux to me.

Maybe she followed your advice and found someone 'better'. If this is the case, forgetting was very easy.

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