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Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by oyetpel(m): 6:23pm On Jul 21, 2020
ubunja:
no. I did not say women need sex to be submissive. But today's self-sufficient woman is only prepared to submit to good dick and nothing more.

To get pussy easy pussy must mean NOTHING to you. That's the psychology of game. The more you prize pussy the more it will cost you. Its like when someone is selling you something, if you appear truly impressed by that thing he'll charge more. But if you pretend you don't even need that thing he'll sell it to you for cheap. That's the same psychology with women and sex. When you act like you can't be bothered with sex women will give it to you easy.

And its when you pretend pussy is actually nothing to you that you'll control women because the power of women lie in the value YOU put on their pussy.

Women only have pussy to bargain with. When a man is not bothered with pussy women don't know how else to proceed. Because they now have to prove their worth through other ways. But men are so much better than women in ALL other areas. So a woman who's pussy has been rejected questions her very existance and value as a human being. And a man who puts women in that position is the one who's dick they need because it validates them and make them feel like women again.
Boss, i hail.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Jul 21, 2020
micolaj:
Truly, my grandpa is right: Women don't THINK; they only feel.
Brother your grandpa WAS right, but it will be very dangerous to carry that notion when relating to women of these days. Very Dangerous!
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Miratus(m): 7:33pm On Jul 21, 2020
It is not that they change character. It is that the man changes his view of her because they are married and staying together. Maybe she was always like that but he never knew. That is why it is important to know what a person is like before you marry or get married to them. What do you guys thin about it?
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Analasroston: 7:46pm On Jul 21, 2020
I think the reason why a lady would change their charecter after they get married to you is because they never wanted you to find out because if you did then you would have never married them. Now that you are married there is nothing that you can do about it except to accept the way she is.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Daijin(m): 7:50pm On Jul 21, 2020
It is not that the ladies change character after marriage but it is that they were just hidng their character or the man never took time to know her well. Sometimes you may think that you know someone very well when infact you barely know anything about them. You only know what they want you to know and you discover the truth later.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Favour22amaka(f): 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
@ Favour22amaka | what's your take on the subject matter?cheesy
The girl Neve loved the guy, maybe went into the marriage cos of pair pressure, or family pressure or cos of his money, so all through the dating period, the guy didnt see all those traits in her.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Smile4mee01: 8:33pm On Jul 21, 2020
pansophist:
I feel you. To be a man and awake (redpilled) is to be in a constant state of rage, all the time. You get pissed off on how common sense becomes so uncommon and the apostles of truth persecuted.

The best is to keep ushering the good news, and he who has ears, let him hear.
Funny enough.Redpill is not about hate or rage..its just about men understanding female.nature... and ultimately choosing to improve himself. Nothing she does catches him off gurad...

Unlike the bad part of feminism that wants to bring down men, redpill just chooses to go a different way and focus on himself. When he however deals with women, he is better prepared for what she is throwing at him.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Degrezhaa: 8:48pm On Jul 21, 2020
ubunja:
no. I did not say women need sex to be submissive. But today's self-sufficient woman is only prepared to submit to good dick and nothing more.

To get pussy easy pussy must mean NOTHING to you. That's the psychology of game. The more you prize pussy the more it will cost you. Its like when someone is selling you something, if you appear truly impressed by that thing he'll charge more. But if you pretend you don't even need that thing he'll sell it to you for cheap. That's the same psychology with women and sex. When you act like you can't be bothered with sex women will give it to you easy.

And its when you pretend pussy is actually nothing to you that you'll control women because the power of women lie in the value YOU put on their pussy.

Women only have pussy to bargain with. When a man is not bothered with pussy women don't know how else to proceed. Because they now have to prove their worth through other ways. But men are so much better than women in ALL other areas. So a woman who's pussy has been rejected questions her very existance and value as a human being. And a man who puts women in that position is the one who's dick they need because it validates them and make them feel like women again.
Wow.. this has given me better understanding of it...
The Gospel of redpill must spread
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 9:16pm On Jul 21, 2020
Favour22amaka:
The girl Neve loved the guy, maybe went into the marriage cos of pair pressure, or family pressure or cos of his money, so all through the dating period, the guy didnt see all those traits in her.
Nicecheesy
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by frozen70(f): 9:34pm On Jul 21, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
I've heard and observed that most married men complain of this issue, 9 out of 10 men will tell same story of how their wives is no longer desame caring, thoughtful, altruistic, loving, calm, easy-going and peaceful lady she was before marriage.

she is now a nagging, violent, swearing and cursing regret to her husband who now detests staying @ home. He will rather sit @ the bar with friends instead of going home to his wife.

The mere thought of going home after work scares the hell out of him.

I know of a married man with grown kids, he got fed up with the toxic presence and attitude of his wife and pretended he was processing a visa to travel abroad only to change location but was within the country and away from his wife.

He calls her with a foreign number and sends money for their upkeep and needs, he returns home quaterly to see his family as he endures another short stay with his wife and then travels again.

His wife once threatened, asking him not to return but he replied saying his source of income largely depends on his travel.

He revealed, should it not be for his children, he would either abandon his marriage or send her back to her parents.


Now my question is;

Is there a reason or an unexplainable phenomenon that possesses women when they finally move in to cohabit with a man as his wife?


I believe this is the same reason why we have so many single guys out there who may have it all and all it takes to settle down, but due to the fear of the unknown, they have decided to be more meticulous and careful.


Also read;
https://www.nairaland.com/6003143/reasons-why-every-guy-must
Circumstances are one of the major reasons
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Haywhymido(m): 9:55pm On Jul 21, 2020
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by brownemmanuel43(m): 10:34am On Jul 25, 2020
nkwuocha1:
Short sighted men usually fall for such men.
I have always hated goody two shoes ladies;I don't like ladies who are overly quiet and seemingly reserved or who appears to be perfect.Not me!
I have always dated ladies other guys warn me to stay away from, as overtime I realized my instincts are better than blind warnings.

There's a difference between crazy girl and a loose one,I always go for the first as it's easier to know their secret as most are damn too straight forward.

I don't like being taken unaware at all.
I like straightforward, carefree, crazy,smart and industriousness women.I don't like all those holier than thou ones claiming reserved.
Nnam Odogwu na en u bi, I never wanted to comment on this topic but seen your comment brought me out.
U just summarized the whole thing. One crate for u jare
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by wwwtortoise(m): 8:50am On Jul 31, 2020
ubunja:
it's not a code name bro. It's a movement that teaches men to love themselves and watch out for one another. It stops men from living and dying for women but for once to watch out for their own interests because the world has changed and their sacrifices for women mean nothing in today's feminist driven world. Its about the long forgotten brotherhood of men.
Interesting !

I have always had the intuition that 'most' women are not worth the stress.

Kindly add me to the whatsapp group. I need to rub minds with my likes.
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Nobody: 9:02am On Jul 31, 2020
When you see that you're no longer happy in a marriage just file for divorce to avoid violence
-Thanks
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by Adeniyi33(m):
Ok
Re: Why Do Most Ladies Change In Character And Attitude In Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2(op): 4:50pm On Feb 04, 2022
Palema007:
Brother your grandpa WAS right, but it will be very dangerous to carry that notion when relating to women of these days. Very Dangerous!
grin
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