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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nyamuriflathead: 4:55pm On Jul 26, 2020
ubunja:
focus on getting pussy not ruling the world. Betas and women already rule the world.

If you think I'm wrong, You can always punch back a woman in public and see how that will work out for you. It's not a matter of right or wrong. It's about the fact that 80% of men will not take kindly to seeing a woman cry, no matter she's wrong or right.
It's better you track her down later and revenge.

Use your heads gents. The world has been simpified. We say it all the time.

Well it depends on who is involved in the fracas.. if a lady slaps me and I slap her back and any idiotic simp tries to retaliate on her behalf it will turn into a full blown war. People have being dying because of women and more saviour's will still die.. no time for plenty talk abeg.. women dey look face dey try those nonesense

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by onoja12: 4:57pm On Jul 26, 2020
And who taught you that trash,the law is clear any woman you raises her hand at you,you are allowed to return fire,it is called self defense garanteed by law.useless people who support abuse against men go round spread that lie,that you do not raise you hand against woman.


ote author=NockMedia post=92096759]
I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.[/quote]
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ademasta(m): 4:57pm On Jul 26, 2020
adolf444:


It is because of comments like yours that gives a woman the ordacity to slap a man twice and claiming she's angry and it is perceived as defending herself by people even when she initiated the first attack. Continue pushing your narrative. You're doing well.
Smiles... Comment or not bro, this is reality and they are tapping into it.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by LordsBattleAxe(m): 4:58pm On Jul 26, 2020
NerdyRudeGyal:
The girls were at fault. I'm not going to take their side b/c they're females. They were 100% in the wrong.

1. Them leaving their seats made them available to anyone else, which is what happens in public settings involving seatings. Unless their names were on the chairs, they should've accepted that the seats were no longer theirs once they got up.

2. The physical assault [which is what it is] was started by one of them who threw juice on his face. I don't blame him for retaliating by pouring a can of whatever on her b/c anyone would've done the same thing in that moment. In fact, another dude would've likely hit her after this but he simply did the same thing she did to him, which I'm not going to blame him for at all.

3. The physical assault was further continued by her when she grabbed him and tore his skin w/ her nails, which again, made him retaliate and which I can't blame him for b/c she had gone too far.


Clearly, the girls felt somewhat entitled and Idk why. They were wrong on all three counts.

Nne biko.. Your bride price grin

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Sandor2: 4:59pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:


Walkaway from any and every potential confrontation with a lady.

I am afraid that there is something fundamentally disorienting in the meninges of globular substance of your anterior ending.
My deepest sympathy
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MrColdsweat: 4:59pm On Jul 26, 2020
thotsofnaij:
The truth is the guys were wrong. If a white woman had left here seat and come back the guys would have respectfully stood up. They won't do that for the ladies here because they see them as black.

WAIT! what i'm saying is the guys should have behaved like gentlemen towards the ladies (who knows what good things would have come out of it). They could have just said I didn't anyone was sitting here and the ladies might have said sorry we didn't leave anything here or that person over there saw us leave for a brief moment.

Slapping the lady is not manliness. You get no points for that. It just shows how lowly we see our women which is what women are fighting against.

Women are bad at consequential thinking. They don't think or care about consequences. They just act as animals unlike men who are logical and think things thoroughly before they act.

Look at how men, through thinking, created partriachy, how they structured society and created a system where men have to sacrifice their own lives to protect and be responsible for women.

Now that women have their voices heard run society alongside men, do they look like they care about men even though it is the same men who protects women?
If men pulled out of the police, army, Do women look like they can protect themselves from goats, dogs and monkeys?

No, they don't care about consequences.

When a woman hits a man, the man owes it to humanity to correct her thinking. By beating her so hard to the point that next time she wants to hit a man, She'll think of the consequences.


That is how I treat women. This is not about hating women. This is about forcing them to start thinking of consequences.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jul 26, 2020
internationalman:


A Potential simp..

I slapped my girl back the day she slapped me first... Now imagine what would happen if a total stranger girl slaps me.

The only women I don't touch no matter what are pregnant women and very old women..


So if a pregnant and old woman behaves the same way the girls did, you won't react? May I know your reasons?

And please don't tell me because they are old or pregnant, because those girls in the story might be suffering from a disease which could cause them to collapse if you had laid your hands on them.

The same way you will restrain yourself with a pregnant woman, learn to restrain yourself with a woman.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by holytribe(m): 5:01pm On Jul 26, 2020
stanliwise:
Very true at some point someone has to leave else one can harm one. As a guy I always leave first. But if a girl slaps me once I will return just one equal slaps before I back out.
If she slap you twice nko?
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by JB4life: 5:03pm On Jul 26, 2020
Gender equality concept came from the pit of hell.

A part of man( if you like,call it fraction) was used to create woman, according to the Holy scriptures, as a helper to the man.

In others,woman was created to provide for man ,and not the other way around.

The day women start to climb palm tree, pay bride groom price,and take man to her house to stay permanently,then we can talk of gender equality.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by deleodd: 5:05pm On Jul 26, 2020
Very good observation.

30naira:
Today, I attended a wedding ceremony. At the reception, the couple tried to maintain social distancing inside the reception hall, so there were limited seats. Most of the guests were in the open field outside. I sat behind two ladies, who should be in their mid or late twenties. I wasn't really paying much attention to them.

After a while, they left their seat and went out. After about 5 minutes two guys came, and sat down in the empty seats the ladies left. These guy are obviously in their early twenties.

About 30 minutes later, the two girls came back inside, I noticed that one of them has had a change of cloths. So obviously they went home and returned.

The girls demanded that the guys should leave the seat, because they got there first. It is their seat. As expected the guys bluntly refused. The girls started raising their voice and cursing. No one really cared to listen to them, the boys were busy consuming the drinks on the table.

One of the ladies got frustrated by the indifference of the boys, grabbed a glass of juice from the table and threw the content at the guy's face. The guy in turn opened the entire can, got up and started pouring it on the girl's head, ruining her make up and soaking her weavon.

Next thing we saw, the girl grabbed him by the collar with both hands, tearing at his skin with her nails. Before you could say Jack, the guy started raining down slaps on her face, she fought back too.

Before we could rush down, the girl had a bleeding nose and a red swollen face.

Now this is the part that particular offended me. Everyone that gathered round started heaping insult on the boy for beating up a girl, despite the fact that she initiated physical contact. Some women even went as far as threatening to arrest the boy. The entire narrative changed quickly. Some stupid men even tried to beat up the boys. I stood my ground and insisted that if anybody lays a finger on the boy, I ll see to it that everybody is kicked out of the reception.

It took the intervention of the officiating minister to calm the crowd. Everyone was insisting that he would pay for the girl's medical bills. Funny thing is that the guy had finger marks all over his neck. She was sobbing and attracting sympathy left and right, as if she was not the one barking like an animal moments earlier. In the end, it was the guys that were kicked out, the girls had the seat.

I get confused about this gender equality stuff, women want to be treated like men and treated differently at the same time. You can't claim equality only when it suits you. If it were two guys fighting, I'm sure they ll both be kicked out and nobody will spare a thought for the injured, there ll be no sobbing or comforting, it ll just be seen as two people disturbing the peace. But everyone is suddenly acting up to protect an equal specie, who is also the offender, and the females see nothing wrong in this inequality

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by emmnprince(m): 5:06pm On Jul 26, 2020
pocohantas:
And you had to open a new account to tell this your true life story. Impressive.

That said, they are all mad. I won’t be surprised they brought nothing for the couple. This is why miscreants shouldn’t be allowed into some kind places. No matter how well-dressed they are.

First f to comment. But your comment was out of place
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by pocohantas(f): 5:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
emmnprince:


First f to comment. But your comment was out of place

Maybe it is your brain that is the problem. Just saying...
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Facidio: 5:07pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
Just shut the fucck up. This is why the society keeps giving uncultured girls the guts to abuse men. Who goes to a party, leaves ur seat, not that u are one vip or the seat is specially reserved for u, you come back 30mins later found someone on the seat and want ur seat back? If you run ur mouth as a woman makesure u have strength to back ur mouth up.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Froshloaded: 5:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
pocohantas:


Maybe it is your brain that is the problem. Just saying...

Poco
Long time no mentions
I hope you are good smiley
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.




Shut up and go and sit down!! People that gave a Bleep about this nonsense phrase about "Don't touch a woman no matter wat she does" went that way to hell! Cos its this same women that has taken them to early graves cos they failed to protect themselves!
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by pocohantas(f): 5:10pm On Jul 26, 2020
Froshloaded:


Poco
Long time no mentions
I hope you are good smiley

I am fine. I just dey avoid you, before you sef go beat me up because I scratch you small scratching. grin

Happy Sunday. Cc: Jornwhite grin

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ubunja(m): 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
Nyamuriflathead:


Well it depends on who is involved in the fracas.. if a lady slaps me and I slap her back and any idiotic simp tries to retaliate on her behalf it will turn into a full blown war. People have being dying because of women and more saviour's will still die.. no time for plenty talk abeg.. women dey look face dey try those nonesense
as i said, if you can fight her and the simps then go ahead.

I promise you my anger boils over when women abuse men knowing they can get away with it. But between walking away or ending up beaten to a pulp by stupid simps, I will walk away. I have nothing to prove to anyone. My ego I beheaded it ages ago.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nyamuriflathead: 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
Nooil:



So if a pregnant and old woman behaves the same way the girls did, you won't react? May I know your reasons?

And please don't tell me because they are old or pregnant, because those girls in the story might be suffering from a disease which could cause them to collapse if you all your hands on them.

The same way you will restrain yourself with a pregnant woman, learn to restrain yourself with a woman.



Shut up... In Africa we respect elderly people whether male or female. If an elderly man slaps me too, I'll possibly not retaliate. It has nothing to do with gender. It's simply respect for the elderly.. meanwhile a pregnant woman can be forgiven for the sake of the unborn baby she's carrying. Nobody gives a fvck about the woman herself, especially if she decides to display repugnant behaviors. Again it has nothing to do with gender.. it's simply for the unborn childs sake.

But if any woman who is neither elderly or pregnant cannot respect a man to not raise her hands, why should I respect her by not retaliating?

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by IamPlato(m): 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
traware:

If any of the ladies in the OPs story ever behaves towards me the way the OP described,Insha Allah I shall beat her to death cool
you Dont Have Sense...

I Have Never Seen Nigerians Misbehave more Than When They See Party Food.


Somebody Told You They Were Seating somewhere Before, the Best You Can Do Is Get Up from There dont Be Foolish about It. It Can Cost You Your Life

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by emmnprince(m): 5:12pm On Jul 26, 2020
pocohantas:


Maybe it is your brain that is the problem. Just saying...

Your saying is also out of place.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Froshloaded: 5:13pm On Jul 26, 2020
pocohantas:


I am fine. I just dey avoid you, before you sef go beat me up because[b] I scratch you small scratching[/b]. grin

Happy Sunday.
Can't remember @ the bolded...


Happy Sunday


Modified
Remove the sticker
Let's see your fine face nah
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 5:14pm On Jul 26, 2020
Nyamuriflathead:




Shut up... In Africa we respect elderly people whether male or female. If an elderly man slaps me too, I'll possibly not retaliate. It has nothing to do with gender. It's simply respect for the elderly.. meanwhile if a pregnant woman can be forgiven for the sake of the unborn baby she's carrying. Nobody gives a fvck about the woman herself, especially if she decides to display repugnant behaviors. Again it has nothing to do with gender.. it's simply for the unborn childs sake.

But if any woman who is neither elderly or pregnant cannot respect a man and not raise her hands, why should I respect her by retaliating?

In the same Africa, we see women as the weaker sex. That is why they got the support of other people who attended the party. If you can respect the elders like Africa expects you to, you can also respect the women... It's a simple sturv!
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by 30naira: 5:14pm On Jul 26, 2020
SPDAZZY:
Wow! Just Wow!!

Has anyone ever considered why one of the ladies returned with a changed attire? What if she was stained or something caused her to go home and change?

How would you feel if you return and someone has taken your seat in a place with few seats and lots of people were outside. Did it not occur to the guys that haven seen lots of people outside, that it wasn't a miracle to find empty chairs?

OP, you too didn't try. Why didn't you avert the plenty talk and subsequent fight by informing the guys that the ladies were there earlier? But you could intervene when the matter was already out of control.

That said, the ladies could have resolved it better and not fight despite their frustration. I believe that the guys would have given up the seats if they originally belonged to someone they know was stronger than them. They obviously felt the ladies were not strong enough to challenge them.

Aunty, you can not go home and return to claim the same seat, it doesn't work like that. They did not leave any item to indicate that the seat is taken. Its like leaving a queue and going home, then returning after an hour to argue that you are in front
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by internationalman(m): 5:16pm On Jul 26, 2020
Nooil:



So if a pregnant and old woman behaves the same way the girls did, you won't react? May I know your reasons?

And please don't tell me because they are old or pregnant, because those girls in the story might be suffering from a disease which could cause them to collapse if you all your hands on them.

The same way you will restrain yourself with a pregnant woman, learn to restrain yourself with a woman.

Madam I'm not in the mood.
Just know that I won't ever touch a pregnant woman
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nyamuriflathead: 5:17pm On Jul 26, 2020
Nooil:


In the same Africa, we see women as the weaker sex. That is why they got the support of other people who attended the party. If you can respect the elders like Africa expects you to, you can also respect the women... It's a simple sturv!

That's why feminism is DOA in Africa too...

And trust me, the guys in question were people of no Importance.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by IamPlato(m): 5:18pm On Jul 26, 2020
Mr 30naira If Not That You Too Dont Have Sense You Would Have Told The Guys That the Ladies Already Took That Seat but You Decided To Enjoy The Fight.


Nigerians Dont Know When To Apply Wisdom. Somebody Tells You That They Were Here Before You the Best You Can Do Is Move so As To Avoid Problems.


Something Like This Has Caused Somebody His Life
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by IamPlato(m): 5:21pm On Jul 26, 2020
Cowbell521:
See another pussy worshipper
shut up that is not pussy worshipping.


common sense would have stop the guy from embarrassini himself but jollof rice and drink don block him sense.


if somebody challenges you to a seat they previously occupied, just give up the seat and avoid trouble,
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by stanliwise(m): 5:21pm On Jul 26, 2020
holytribe:

If she slap you twice nko?
one thunder slap that brings stars is just enough. When in public girls dont back out. But a good slap leave a good memory
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 26, 2020
internationalman:


Madam I'm not in the mood.
Just know that I won't ever touch a pregnant woman


Apply that same self-control to all human beings, and you'll never have a regret in life.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by NACE13: 5:22pm On Jul 26, 2020
This kinda topic here is exactly what I was arguing about with a females friend recently; I told her point blank if a woman hits me, I'd return it same way she did to me. She was like "No matter what a woman does to you, never hit a woman, just walk away". I was like " Really, so if she attacks me first with slaps and punches I should just walk away, yeah?". To my amazement, she said yes, because I am meant to know women are the weaker sex.
she just kept on saying some mumbo jumbo stuff about how fragile women are and so on.

This life, you get what you deserve. Simple. I 100% support what this guys did. To be frank, I won't even pour the content of the can on her, I'd introduce myself with a heavy slap on her cheek. Rubbish!

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nyamuriflathead: 5:22pm On Jul 26, 2020
ubunja:
as i said, if you can fight her and the simps then go ahead.

I promise you my anger boils over when women abuse men knowing they can get away with it. But between walking away or ending up beaten to a pulp by stupid simps, I will walk away. I have nothing to prove to anyone. My ego I beheaded it ages ago.
Yeah I understand you..
But I don't think it's right to give women the perception that they can always get away with such brazzen display of impudence just because they have a vagina. It will get into their heads and more men will be assaulted. We need to speak against it and condemn it totally till the society starts frowning against assault by any gender.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Brodello: 5:23pm On Jul 26, 2020
When I was in Primary school, there is this class work we did often in class.

Our class teacher would dictate English words to us while we spelt them on our books. When we were done spelling, we would exchange our books with seat partners to mark.

After marking, the teacher would call each person on a seat to read out the error his/her partner made.

My seat partner was a girl and she mockingly announced the spellings I failed and the whole class laughed at me.

When It got to my turn to check out the spellings she failed, I retaliated and also called it out to spite her, the whole class did not laugh cheesy cheesy angry

My two class teachers told me that it was a little error and I should have corrected it for her.

My ego was crushed and I learnt two lessons. I learnt how to spell cartoon and that a lady will always get sympathy irrespective of the situation.

You see this war on misunderstood gender equality that some women a fighting for, trust me these women will win it. It will just take small time.

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