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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by adekS1(m): 8:26pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
listen n listen well....

I won't raise my hand on a lady provided she didnt raise hers on mine but the moment she hit me she has pass her boundary n also left me wt no other choice than lose my guard too..
In this two wrongs will make a right.

But definitely it will av to be she first raise her hands

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Reckyd123(m): 8:26pm On Jul 26, 2020
That's pure lie!! Where did you study your own law?

quote author=NockMedia post=92098994]
C'mon man, it doesn't work that way. We both know that ladies are the weaker sex. You're not only at a risk of severely hurting her but you also stand the chance of getting locked up. Regardless of whoever started the drama.[/quote]
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by benicta(f): 8:29pm On Jul 26, 2020
TheManOfTheYear:
Yeah Missy, but a lady can lay her hands on a guy right?

Awesome Missy!!! You're so intelligent. In fact, I would love us to go on a date, I believe I can learn more from you

This sounds somehow sarcastic cool
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Reckyd123(m): 8:38pm On Jul 26, 2020
Am not gonna walk away from even a confirmed dead lady that hit me. For wetin nah? Talk with your mouth, no wahala but touch me, I fvck you up. The only woman that can try to hit me without retaliation is my mum, an elderly or a pregnant woman. But they wouldn't because they get sense. But all these ones that are firming craze and brace ehh, I go beat craze comot for there head.

quote author=Opemi93 post=92128737]I am not in support of what the lady did but in situations like this its better to just walk away, keeping quiet or walking away doesn't make you a coward, so many people are walking but inside they are dead, what if the lady died in the process, the wedding would have bin a disaster and he would have bin living the rest of his life in prison...[/quote]
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by 4four(m): 8:45pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
even she is about to kill me?
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lookingfly: 8:48pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
so a woman should raise her hand on a man abi.......see Dem see dem awon feminist abi you've raped me crew! lipsrsealed
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lookingfly: 8:51pm On Jul 26, 2020
Na because them see boys for the sit na him make them get liver.....had it been na men with thick beard them for respect themselves jejely.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by ademasta(m): 8:52pm On Jul 26, 2020
Gavrelino123:


Women are stronger?

what a weak and stupid quote you have up there...

If you are a wise and intelligent man,you will know how to deal decisively with every woman.
You are a slowpoke
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Samfloxin(m): 8:52pm On Jul 26, 2020
Sarang:


Pray the ladies does not have brothers with her cause they will beat you sotee blood will be oozing everywhere NO MATTER what their sister did

Cause you will do the SAME.
Let her pray I don't have my brothers with me cos we will beat her and her brothers until blood starts oozing out of their noses.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by 4four(m): 8:54pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

LOL I just see things differently.
bros NA abnormal things u de c
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 26, 2020
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NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
[/s] ode

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 9:01pm On Jul 26, 2020
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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Nobody: 9:04pm On Jul 26, 2020
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NockMedia:

Whenever a lady tries to get violent with you as a guy, the best thing to do is to walk away from the heat of the moment.[/s]
imbe !!!
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MUTERIKA(m): 9:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.
what do you mean? I once had a course mate that sees nothing wrong in being physical but takes offense when I retaliate. Do you think continuous suppression of anger wouldn't have repercussions?
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by earnit3: 9:09pm On Jul 26, 2020
Really
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by nkemjacob2(m): 9:26pm On Jul 26, 2020
The crowd handled the situation with immaturity. How can a lady slap or poor a content inside a glass cup to the face of a man? that shows the lady is wrongly brought. They would have sent the lady out also to give her a sense of belonging
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by repogirl(f): 9:30pm On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:


But ladies can raise their hands on a man?
No, women should never resort to such brazen manners...However, if one does, kindly do not retaliate.

Even in boxing and wrestling, both fighters are evenly paired... It wouldn't be fair if a stronger one is paired with a weaker one... It's inequal and unfair.

The lady was wrong for what pouring the drink on him and I trust if the guy had not retaliated, he would have received all sympathy from everyone and the girl would have been reprimanded.

That females want to be treated equally does not mean we are no longer females... Physiologically, most men have an advantage physically over most women. When you have such advantage, use it wisely.

And the quest for equality is not of equal strength to men... It's more about opportunities. We are still females, not males.

Even if an elder kid beats up a smaller kid when the smaller one was the one who started it, who who gets all the sympathy? This is not about equality... It's about using one's sense.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MNDY(m): 9:43pm On Jul 26, 2020
LaReinaa:

It isn’t a hidden fact that 95.5% of male NLs are misogynists..

It’s also not too difficult to realize that the strory the Op posted up there never happened.

Some female commenters here are even afraid to express their opinions because of the fear of being attacked.. this is also a very serious problem that needs to be addressed.. sometimes, I read comments here and wonder if these guys actually have sisters.



But daily experiences of female unreasonable attitudes towards men do happen. Even towards their own females too. Men don't hate women. Men are just becoming more and more annoyed at such unreasonable attitudes exhibited for Feminism purpose most times.

I will emphasize what someone already said above. Women naturally don't think deeply about consequences before acting. That differentiates them from men and accounts for women's unreasonable attitudes. THIS IS A FACT AND NOT SOME THEORY.

She pours the drink on him and became annoyed that the boy revenged and poured the drink on her too. She did not think of any revenge. And in anger she jerks the boy by his shirt for revenging the drink poured on him.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by shalomp: 9:48pm On Jul 26, 2020
Heathrow44:




Is u that is a bitter femininst, men hater and misandrist! U hate men so much, is that y u fail to see this is not how public occasion or functions go! Lemme ask u, when u go to wedding or burial and u sat down in one chair and then all of a sudden u get a call and rush home and then u drive back to the wedding and u go to the sit and someone else is sitting there! Do u tell the person to stand up, that it is ur seat? Did they write ur name on d seat or was the seat reserved for u? Are other people not relatives to the wedding couples or are u that special, if u re that special y didn't u ask them to reserve a seat 4 u or write ur name on d seat? Being a man hater won't get u any where in life, at every point u would av to deal with a man, the earlier u learn to drop ur bitterness towards men in ur toilets, d earlier u would be respected in the society cos u re not! Just negodu! A mushin girl talking to a VI boy!


go and cook your respect and feed yourself with it
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by LaReinaa(f): 9:50pm On Jul 26, 2020
MNDY:


But daily experiences of female unreasonable attitudes towards men do happen. Even towards their own females too. Men don't hate women. Men are just becoming more and more annoyed at such unreasonable attitudes exhibited for Feminism purpose most times.

I will emphasize what someone already said above. Women naturally don't think deeply about consequences before acting. That differentiates them from men and accounts for women's unreasonable attitudes. THIS IS A FACT AND NOT SOME THEORY.

She pours the drink on him and became annoyed that the boy revenged and poured the drink on her too. She did not think of any revenge. And in anger she jerks the boy by his shirt for revenging the drink poured on him.
That story never happened bro
We can talk about men/women unreasonable attitudes another day but the story is 100% fake grin

It’s your hatred for women and your readiness to bully and attack the female gender that made you all to believe the fake story.. that’s my point!

If this story was the other way round, most of you won’t comment, some of you will definitely find a way to swing it around!

N.B: if this was a real story with proof, I will never support/defend the said lady because I don’t support violence irrespective of the gender
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by nurain150(m): 9:52pm On Jul 26, 2020
Oladayo12:
The day u try raise a hand on a woman in pubic the day ur face will be disfigure by other men like u b4 locking u up. who does that to ladies in this time and age
See this wasted life ....ooo.Use sense na....you are a disgrace to manhood.anyway...Until they stab you before you go get sense..were werewere is doing you.Come and lock me up na ..shebi na u be court idiot.If any girl assault me first if I no do my own or better still charge am for court tell me say I be mumu
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MNDY(m): 9:53pm On Jul 26, 2020
repogirl:
No, women should never resort to such brazen manners...However, if one does, kindly do not retaliate.

Even in boxing and wrestling, both fighters are evenly paired... It wouldn't be fair if a stronger one is paired with a weaker one... It's inequal and unfair.

The lady was wrong for what pouring the drink on him and I trust if the guy had not retaliated, he would have received all sympathy from everyone and the girl would have been reprimanded.

That females want to be treated equally does not mean we are no longer females... Physiologically, most men have an advantage physically over most women. When you have such advantage, use it wisely.

And the quest for equality is not of equal strength to men... It's more about opportunities. We are still females, not males.

Even if an elder kid beats up a smaller kid when the smaller one was the one who started it, who who gets all the sympathy? This is not about equality... It's about using one's sense.

And what of the humiliation involved? Do you know that in life, everyone respects himself/herself well enough to avoid humiliation, especially in public. It is very serious that an individual can even be ready to go to jail for protecting his/her ego.

Women under the guise of equality have taken it upon themselves to shame men at every opportunity and most men will not take it.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lereinter(m): 9:54pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

Your head isn't correct

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by seunayantokun(m): 9:55pm On Jul 26, 2020
I wish to add this: I witnessed an incident many years ago at Ijora. A young woman fought a bus conductor over a matter I can't remember now. She got hold of his dress and shredded it. The conductor retaliated in the same manner. Women around had to help her with something to cover her unclothedness.

Please ladies, respect yourselves first and stay away from assaulting a man. You all have fathers, brothers, and maybe husbands/lovers and sons. You don't want to see them molested, so embrace the way of peace always.

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Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by nurain150(m): 9:55pm On Jul 26, 2020
Oladayo12:
That is bad, a pregnant woman for that matter. it will take u nothing to allow her withdraw before u. change ur perspective about women, expecially pregnant, elderly and disable ones. respect women abeg and dont u ever raise a hand on any woman no matter what.
Some thing yaff do you.bc me self dey send me look train abi.the only person I respect is the person who respect.Respect is reciprocal
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by Oladayo12(m): 9:59pm On Jul 26, 2020
nurain150:

Some thing yaff do you.bc me self dey send me look train abi.the only person I respect is the person who respect.Respect is reciprocal
Lol, honestly u make me laugh. funny u
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by MNDY(m): 10:00pm On Jul 26, 2020
LaReinaa:

That story never happened bro
We can talk about men/women unreasonable attitudes another day but the story is 100% fake grin


Wow! You are so sure the story did not really happen. Whereas even worse cases happen everyday. Women under the guise of equality have taken it upon themselves to shame men at every opportunity and most men are not ready to take it. Men have nothing against women. It is those unreasonable attitudes exhibited by women in line with their equality game that annoys men.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by LaReinaa(f): 10:08pm On Jul 26, 2020
MNDY:


Wow! You are so sure the story did not really happen. Whereas even worse cases happen everyday. Women under the guise of feminism have taken it upon themselves to shame men at every opportunity and most men are not ready to take it. Men have nothing against women. It is those unreasonable attitudes exhibited by women in line with their equality game that annoys men.
If you have a real story related to this with proof, you can share it but cooking up stories just to get the misogynistic male to bash the women isn’t acceptable..

I am not saying that women don’t do all the things you listed above. Also know that this unreasonable attitude you keep mentioning are equally exhibited by men. women don’t have monopoly to bad attitudes if you must know.

And yes! NL guys actually got huge issues with the female gender and you know it!
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by chelsea04(m): 10:36pm On Jul 26, 2020
Women want to rule men,seen in their decisions becos the claim they were first educated in knowledge of good and evil. They are beautiful in the flesh but queen in the spirit. How will you know who is who.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by mozele(m): 10:36pm On Jul 26, 2020
30naira:

Do you want equality or not?
Personally I respect and treat everyone equally, but if you initiate physical contact, male or female I will retaliate with the same ferocity.

First off, there's nothing like gender equality. It's just a castle in the air thing... Secondly, it's natural for ladies to want to engage their male counterparts in physical combat. It started from childhood but they seem never to get hold of it.

Howbeit as an adult, try as much as you can to avoid anything that will make you directly involved in a physical combat with a woman. Not even argument. That's wisdom bro. Because if you engage them, you'll feel sorry in the end!

Generally, desist from fight itself. Not be everybody you see for road normal. Most are dead already looking for who to foot their burial bills.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by mechanics(m): 10:41pm On Jul 26, 2020
Fighting for just a plate of food, drinks and that's all, that's a shame on them.
Re: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by tete7000(m): 10:47pm On Jul 26, 2020
NockMedia:

I am not trying to justify what the lady did, but never raise your hand on a lady as a man. Don't.

Don't preach this to your daughter, it won't help her. Tell her violence begets violence and she should try to stay away from violence. Have you never read that those who sow wind reap whirlwind? People should stop starting what they can not finish. If a lady gets up and slaps a man, as far as I know she deserves one in return. The only reason I won't advocate for her getting a reply is because I am a Christian and Christ says we shouldn't reply evil witn evil not because someone is a woman. A woman who looks for trouble, for justice to be seen dome deserves a backlash.

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