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Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men.
Please share your own Experiences .

'just hustle and make money' gang would soon show up

what you attract with HONEY, you will equally lose with HONEY. any man that thinks that money is relevant to a woman's loyalty, is indeed a dreamer. women attracted to you because of the money you spend on them, are only loyal to MONEY!

any smart man knows that A) there will always be a man with more money than you out there and B) you cant turn a HOE into a respectable housewife. some women out there are hoes and should be treated as such. the minute you believe that money can turn a bad woman into a good one, thats when you have lost the game. a woman who values a man for his money is a BAD WOMAN

Lamba42:
Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men.
Please share your own Experiences .

This happens more when you do not define the relationship from the onset.

So many (male & female) commercial sex worker out there!

You are dating 4 guys and you are mocking a prostitute my sister it's the same company. It is just that you are in the private sector and she is in the public sector.

A woman is a complex being, emotional being, this, that, and all. But above all she is a woman and all she needs is a man. You must be of strong character and mind, must be capable to solve your own problems, show that you love her but still prefer your dreams and not her. Subtly make her see that she has competitors.
You can come to thank me later.

Disclaimer: This may not work for small girl with big gods.

decatalyst:
This happens more when you do not define the relationship from the onset.

So many (male & female) commercial sex worker out there!

You are dating 4 guys and you are mocking a prostitute my sister it's the same company. It is just that you are in the private sector and she is in the public sector.

You've said it all especially that aspect of prostitution.


All girls are hoes.

Trash

MrSly:
A woman is a complex being, emotional being, this, that, and all. But above all she is a woman and all she needs is a man. You must be of strong character and mind, must be capable to solve your own problems, show that you love her but still prefer your dreams and not her. Subtly make her see that she has competitors.
You can come to thank me later.

Disclaimer: This may not work for small girl with big gods.

Wo

Meedon:
Trash

It seems that's all you got in that your empty skull. I am sorry for that anyway.

MrBrownJay1:
what you attract with HONEY, you will equally lose with HONEY. any man that thinks that money is relevant to a woman's loyalty, is indeed a dreamer. women attracted to you because of the money you spend on them, are only loyal to MONEY!

any smart man knows that A) there will always be a man with more money than you out there and B) you cant turn a HOE into a respectable housewife. some women out there are hoes and should be treated as such. the minute you believe that money can turn a bad woman into a good one, thats when you have lost the game. a woman who values a man for his money is a BAD WOMAN

No truer words. I really admire the way you comment on this forum

As long as money is loyal to me, loyalty of a woman doesn't matter.

MrSly:
It seems that's all you got in that your empty skull. I am sorry for that anyway.

Okay.

I mean, you can get the pussy with money, but the loyalty? That's not guaranteed

MrBrownJay1:
what you attract with HONEY, you will equally lose with HONEY. any man that thinks that money is relevant to a woman's loyalty, is indeed a dreamer. women attracted to you because of the money you spend on them, are only loyal to MONEY!

any smart man knows that A) there will always be a man with more money than you out there and B) you cant turn a HOE into a respectable housewife. some women out there are hoes and should be treated as such. the minute you believe that money can turn a bad woman into a good one, thats when you have lost the game. a woman who values a man for his money is a BAD WOMAN

Gbam!!!

Well it all depends on how the relationship started in the first place.
Any guy who's game plan is to get the babe with money shouldn't of all things expect loyalty.

On another note, I really don't get the idea of having money and still get tied down by one small girl in the name of a relationship.

Adasun:
'just hustle and make money' gang would soon show up

Lol... and one is left to wonder on how much money one must have to get a loyal girlfriend.

MrBrownJay1:
what you attract with HONEY, you will equally lose with HONEY. any man that thinks that money is relevant to a woman's loyalty, is indeed a dreamer. women attracted to you because of the money you spend on them, are only loyal to MONEY!

any smart man knows that A) there will always be a man with more money than you out there and B) you cant turn a HOE into a respectable housewife. some women out there are hoes and should be treated as such. the minute you believe that money can turn a bad woman into a good one, thats when you have lost the game. a woman who values a man for his money is a BAD WOMAN

God bless you Sir!

These days, one does not need any lady to be loyal, just collect your portion and move on

And poverty makes a woman more infidel

J111333:
As long as the money is loyal to me, loyalty of a woman doesn't matter.

i strongly stand with u

You and you friends were dating prostitutes I do not know what else you guys expect. Who dates a prostitute and expect loyalty pls?

Meedon:
All girls are hoes.

thinking in such above way will always have you fail in this subject... unless you decide to now join the "other" team (aka tutti frutti).

If you used money to get her..dont expect loyalty cause another guy definetely has more money than you

MrBrownJay1:
thinking in such above way will always have you fail in this subject... unless you decide to now join the "other" team (aka tutti frutti).

If you say so.

That is why I love Ubunja.He said it all

A lady collects money from simp and give it to Aphal male
It's better to be an alpha male with average wealth than to be a simp will fortunes

All those stupid guys that like saying "Make money and girl will follow" yeah,they'll follow you but to make you wretched. E.g the man that discovered that the children are not his and killed the wife then himself at lekki

Lamba42:
Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men.
Please share your own Experiences .

All of them @bolded.

A'ight. She will tell you money is not love. But she enjoys looting your money and spending it on materials.

The foolish mentality of an average Nigerian when the see a very cute girl is that, to get her attention or to even make her your GF, you need to have a fat account balance. Very pitiful thinking.

Fact is, any girl that'd give you attention only because of your account balance or because of your expensive phones or wears is a prostitute and not we worthy woman to give you kids.

I think this society has a long way to go when it comes to understanding women and love. Most aren't ready to. Most just preferred to continue dumbing around.

Money definitely attracts a woman....


Anyone that says otherwise is a lier.... But love and respect I think keeps them.....

Well I would choose to have the money and attract alot of women which I know that the will cheat on me than to use live and respect and still b cheated on

MrBrownJay1:
what you attract with HONEY, you will equally lose with HONEY. any man that thinks that money is relevant to a woman's loyalty, is indeed a dreamer. women attracted to you because of the money you spend on them, are only loyal to MONEY!

any smart man knows that A) there will always be a man with more money than you out there and B) you cant turn a HOE into a respectable housewife. some women out there are hoes and should be treated as such. the minute you believe that money can turn a bad woman into a good one, thats when you have lost the game. a woman who values a man for his money is a BAD WOMAN

If there's anyone I respect on nl... You're one of them... Your comment are usually 1000% on point.... I hail bro.. Respect

Auladimeji:
That is why I love Ubunja.He said it all

A lady collects money from simp and give it to Aphal male
It's better to be an alpha male with average wealth than to be a simp will fortunes

All those stupid guys that like saying "Make money and girl will follow" yeah,they'll follow you but to make you wretched. E.g the man that discovered that the children are not his and killed the wife then himself at lekki

That is not what happened ooh. The Lekki murder-suicide didn't happen because of the children weren't his.

Lamba42:
Had a chat earlier this week with some of my older colleagues (very late 30's to Mid 40's) about 6 of us all together ,mind you they're all doing very well for themselves and rather successful.The topic came up concerning how everyone's relationship/flings were going and apparently the summary was..Money doesn't make a woman loyal to you ,in fact most(including me)were of the opinion that a woman's loyalty is by the grace of God. Each of them narrated stories about women they had spent huge funds, taken them on vacations(Commot naija o), gotten jobs for ,invested in businesses for them only to find out they were soliciting attention from other men via dm's and texts, and some even went as far sleeping with those other men, for reasons best known to them.Not all women are cheaters but it seems a lot of them just naturally enjoy being the Centre of attention for Multiple men.
Please share your own Experiences .

So you are just waking up to reality. A large percentage of Hoes are and can never be truly loyal, It's just deception. Even we men are kinda worst. The only difference Is the manipulation. Just swim your swim, assist her with money and material things or whatever If you have the capacity and get the fvck out and stop looking for nonsense loyalty wey no lost......Just have It In your mind you can never satisfy female beings, #CaseClosed.....