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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Kokaine(m): 8:57am On Aug 01, 2020
Curvinus:
The world is already sliding into degeneracy. So why bother.

Op just do whats on your mind, but here are some of the pros and cons if you decide to go with the new guy.

The cons:
1. Other ladies would also see him as their dream man so expect fierce cmpetition and possibly lots of cheating.

2. There is a possibility that the guy's genetics is superior to yours and he may soon be on the lookout for a match.

3. He may not also be willing to inconvenience himself financially or otherwise to ensure your comfort.

4. He may not be emotionally available in the long run.

5. Our society will not hold him accountable if he decides to become a deadbeat.


THE PROS:

Much as there are donwsides to dating him, here are some of the upsides;

1. He would constantly give you the tingles at least until you meet another stud or he decides to leave.

2. Any offspring from the affair would be very pleasing to you.

3. He might push you beyond your limits to be a better person.

4. Your friends would always say nice things about him and tell you how lucky you are to have him.

5. You would be following your gut instincts and instincts are never wrong.


I don't understand the second con. Superior genetics as in what sense
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by JahsentH: 8:57am On Aug 01, 2020
Most Guys can come to you and show you all qualities you would like just to get under your pants and once they do it's win win or Mission accomplished.

Those qualities might not last more.
Look yourself and ask if there is gonna be love and understanding between you and this two guys after 20 years.
Then make your decision

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by sweetilicious(f): 8:58am On Aug 01, 2020
dukeprince50:
dont go and make up ur mind, be here doing DELAYtionship and decamping from one man to the other every three months,
U think relationship is build on physical qualities? In life u will always find someone more attractive than the one u are currently dating, wen that time comes, emotional maturity will help u, self control will come to ur rescue and commitment will keep u going, u think happily married couples dont see better qualities, Relationship should not be build on qualities but understanding that commitment is ur greatest arsenal, u can fall in love with anyone but building a relationship takes more than that, but u are just 16yrs, u wont understand
dicey dice u there, Rubbish
Exactly!
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Maxboss(m): 8:59am On Aug 01, 2020
What is boyfriend likes u more than that man
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by wonder233: 9:03am On Aug 01, 2020
You're trying hard to make people ignore the story because that's how you are too.
merieam16:
Fake story. i kno is a guy under dat moniker

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Crownstar01: 9:04am On Aug 01, 2020
A bitch is always a bitch. Jumping from one guy to another.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:04am On Aug 01, 2020
ndidibabe:
I really do not understand the kind of girl or woman you are!

He's a guy. Forget the pink "f"

It's weird how females can tell almost instantly that there's something wrong with this moniker were it to be a woman grin
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Juliearth(f): 9:04am On Aug 01, 2020
dukeprince50:
dont go and make up ur mind, be here doing DELAYtionship and decamping from one man to the other every three months,
U think relationship is build on physical qualities? In life u will always find someone more attractive than the one u are currently dating, wen that time comes, emotional maturity will help u, self control will come to ur rescue and commitment will keep u going, u think happily married couples dont see better qualities, Relationship should not be build on qualities but understanding that commitment is ur greatest arsenal, u can fall in love with anyone but building a relationship takes more than that, but u are just 16yrs, u wont understand
dicey dice u there, Rubbish






Wisdom!!!!
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by IJEYdiamond(f): 9:05am On Aug 01, 2020
J111333:
The second always appear to be better than the first because of see finish but most times, it's not.
Choose wisely.

This see finish syndrome... has crashed marriages and relationships... hmmmm... well and well...!!

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Crownstar01: 9:06am On Aug 01, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


He's a guy. Forget the pink "f"

It's weird how females can tell almost instantly that there's something wrong with this moniker were it to be a woman grin
I think it has to be with the mod. They always know better your identity. grin

Also women do not write like that. The guy can waffle on and on but his identity has been exposed I guess.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Germi9: 9:09am On Aug 01, 2020
she's just a hoe
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:09am On Aug 01, 2020
Liposure:
Women can't be trusted

grin grin

Let me not say what's on my mind.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:14am On Aug 01, 2020
Crownstar01:
I think it has to be with the mod. They always know better your identity. grin

Also women do not write like that. The guy can waffle on and on but his identity has been exposed I guess.

I think it's more a woman's intuition more than anything else. Once I see any comment, I can almost tell who is behind the moniker. I've seen comments by ladies without any gender tag that men thought were their fellow men. I've also noticed that some times without the gender tag on your moniker, most guys will address you as bro if you say something that aligns with what they said. It has happened to me.

So that a moniker has "f" is hardly anything. A woman can always tell vis your initial comment.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by oluwatodimu1(m): 9:15am On Aug 01, 2020
I pray that after 3years of marriage, you don't fall in love with another guy that has better qualities than your husband!
I don't know why some girls (although not surprised) keep being dumb (and silly) mostly.
I want to ask you this question, when you are trying to displace another person, would you be appearing lesser than your competition? I am sure your answer would be "better".
It's your life and your decision to make
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 9:16am On Aug 01, 2020
Stupidity. This ones are looking for a perfect guy.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Crownstar01: 9:18am On Aug 01, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


I think it's more a woman's intuition more than anything else. Once I see any comment, I can almost tell who is behind the moniker. I've seen comments by ladies without any gender tag that men thought were their fellow men. I've also noticed that some times without the gender tag on your moniker, most guys will address you as bro if you say something that aligns with what they said. It has happened to me.

So that a moniker has "f" is hardly anything. A woman can always tell vis your initial comment.
That's interesting. Seems like you're talented. Really cannot fathom why he did that. But for me, it's really crazy.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Amb1045(m): 9:22am On Aug 01, 2020
the new guy is playing games with your emotions. that's how I get girls or the way you bang girls into serious relationship before they realised it was all planned game. Don't call the new guy for a while, he will get back to tell you and say you never cared all this while. the new guy is a Bleep boy don't fall for the tricks
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by waliezia(m): 9:25am On Aug 01, 2020
be disciplined, stick to what u hv and stop jumping from one man to another...... judging from ur story line, I guess u still left someone in this manner u want to leave this current boy friend of urs.....keep ur nyash one place
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 9:26am On Aug 01, 2020
You will end up bleeped. You think the second guy is a fool? Knowing fully well you dumped someone for him? He will use you and move over to another girl he trust or love then your eyes will open and Brain will clear.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Sixfeetbelle: 9:26am On Aug 01, 2020
Crownstar01:
That's interesting. Seems like you're talented. Really cannot fathom why he did that. But for me, it's really crazy.

angry angry
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Munachisom95(f): 9:27am On Aug 01, 2020
Favour2323:

Please don't dissuade those that want to offer their opinions.
This is my story and it's not fake.
Swerve plsssssssssss.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by DaInferno(m): 9:27am On Aug 01, 2020
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
if u contest for president, baba my whole family must vote you grin
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by officialfestus(m): 9:28am On Aug 01, 2020
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
dude you got the highest likes I've ever seen on NL kiss
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by FluxEmpire(m): 9:29am On Aug 01, 2020
Ishola87:



God Almighty bless you and your words.Amen.You sound good so far
Thank you so much; God bless you too, Sir.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by billioncypher(m): 9:31am On Aug 01, 2020
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends.

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!
am touched! Infact am wiser now!
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by ediama(m): 9:35am On Aug 01, 2020
dukeprince50:
dont go and make up ur mind, be here doing DELAYtionship and decamping from one man to the other every three months,
U think relationship is build on physical qualities? In life u will always find someone more attractive than the one u are currently dating, wen that time comes, emotional maturity will help u, self control will come to ur rescue and commitment will keep u going, u think happily married couples dont see better qualities, Relationship should not be build on qualities but understanding that commitment is ur greatest arsenal that destroy those unhelpful impulses if and wen it comes. u can fall in love with anyone, it takes little or no effort but building a relationship that could survive the test of time takes more than that, but u are just 16yrs, u wont understand
dicey dice u there, Rubbish

you hv said it all.

God blessd u.

Everything in this life wil b tested to kow wat source it is.

Love is a stand against all odds, nt only feelings
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by billioncypher(m): 9:36am On Aug 01, 2020
Favour2323:


Please don't dissuade those that want to offer their opinions.

This is my story and it's not fake.
If u leave ur nice bf 4d attractive new catch, ur heart wil be broken beyond repair and no 2nd chance wil come ur way, "fact"
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by stevups(m): 9:41am On Aug 01, 2020
merieam16:
Fake story. i kno is a guy under dat moniker
It's a reality.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Toboski: 9:41am On Aug 01, 2020
All I see here is youthful exuberance, you are in a relationship in which you claim to love your boyfriend, you meet a new guy that you barely know but get carried away by the superficial... I call it superficial because for all you know this guy might be looking all charming because you hardly know him and all his negative attributes and in the same vain, he does not know your negative side as well so both of you cannot say for sure if you will be able to accommodate each others flaws. You will soon find out that all that glitters is not gold and maybe he will too. On the other hand, you and your boyfriend already know yourselves to an extent and can tolerate each other's excesses. I advise you thread cautiously so you don't make a decision you might soon regret. You can mold your boyfriend to become a better person while the new guy might turn out to be a monster. However, in the end, it is your call... it wouldn't matter what anyone of us will say here, you will still go ahead to do what you will do so my last words to you will be goodluck as life itself is a risk... you win some, you loose some. Cheers.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Lanre6: 9:42am On Aug 01, 2020
gaius01:


well I understand your point let's talk this talk out of the basket. like you said no signs of abuse neither unfaithfulness. Do you know a girl could break up with you because of lack care, incompatibility, too boring and lots more. from what I can deduce her boyfriend ain't giving her the vibes the other was giving her can you imagine the qualities she listed. dam look at it again, and Las Las her boo is not cheating neither does he abuse her. when I was dating I never allow my chatting vibes to be low, I read alot of wide range so that when we start chatting men she won't have time texting those boys because I know if I don't occupy her with vibes others will

one problem with we Nigerians is that when our Bea is cheating, look at your self, take a deep scan through, ask your self, What makes that guy different from me not getting angry or shouting at her every body want a lively boo no one boring, faithful dude. learn new ways to be Romantic, learn her phycology so that you can inflict it for your sef. if she love your vibes trust me she woñt look out albeit you been faithful.
Lolzz. You sound like a pussy licker. Nobody is perfect, no matter how better engaged u r how do u know u r really satisfying ur girlfriend? how did u know she does not v other admirer engaging her? it seems u r still new in d game, see if u meet a hoe u can't satisfy her because she will always jump to d best available Nigga than u. A hoe is an adventurer who always likes to taste the best and very smart. Like I said u can't get everything u need in partner because of imperfections of human being but there can always be a room for adjustment and improvement if there is good communication. If u jam a hoe u ll understand Olamide's song "won ma do" very well.

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Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by NkemChukwudi: 9:43am On Aug 01, 2020
dukeprince50:
dont go and make up ur mind, be here doing DELAYtionship and decamping from one man to the other every three months,
U think relationship is build on physical qualities? In life u will always find someone more attractive than the one u are currently dating, wen that time comes, emotional maturity will help u, self control will come to ur rescue and commitment will keep u going, u think happily married couples dont see better qualities, Relationship should not be build on qualities but understanding that commitment is ur greatest arsenal that destroy those unhelpful impulses if and wen it comes. u can fall in love with anyone, it takes little or no effort but building a relationship that could survive the test of time takes more than that, but u are just 16yrs, u wont understand
dicey dice u there, Rubbish

You don blow oooo, with the huge number of likes.

But how old are you?

Most marriages are hell on earth anyways but for the public pretence.
Re: I Want To Leave My Boyfriend For A New Guy. by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 01, 2020
donstan18:
If you are a Guy reading this, please pay attention.



You see this?



You see this?


And this?


And this too....

You see those 4 parts I highlighted? They should be the reason why you should never expect much from GIRLFRIENDS, they are just hoes parading as Girlfriends. thanks man

The earlier you understand this the better for you. Thanks!!

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