Is My Sister Doing The Right Thing? Please Your Advice Is Needed

Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.

Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment, even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it,she won't even mind if the mother come to spend days with them.

Is my sister doing the right thing?

It depends on a lot of things. Man and woman should leave their parents house to live together as husband and wife. Anything other than that for a start is a bad foundation.

The way I'm seeing it, the guy is a mummy's boy, as such won't want to leave his mums side, otherwise the best thing to do is to first of all use the funds for the wedding to get himself accommodation before the wedding proper.

She should try and convince him that nothing comes out of a married guy living in his mother's house with his wife, if the mother comes to visit him every once in a while that's manageable but outrightly sharing the same roof is a recipe for disaster. Meanwhile suspension of the wedding while they talk things over is better than outrightly cancelling it.

I dunno oo.
let's just wait for the Alpha~male elders to arrive.. I'm sure they will have what to say, and advice to give..
the only problem is.. They might call the guy wanting to marry your sister a simp!

Yea, your sister is doing the right thing. The man should at least kill his mum or chase her away before planning to get married so as not to discomfort his wife.

Biko advise your sister to keep waiting on the Lord for a good man.

Hmmmm this matter stong o, let me wait for the elders. But your sister is right anyways, if the man can't get a house before the marriage, he should rather use the money for the house then the marriage.

OluwaLina1:
Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.
Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment,even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it.
Is my sister doing the right thing?

Not even his father's house.
Abeg make dem postpone the wedding.

She's doing the right thing

The question should be is the husband going to take the right decision? Your sister has made her choice. Is the man going to be smart enough to let her go without begging her?

You can't love me and not love my family, there's no point. It's not like they are going to stay there forever, probably to save up some money first. No man who doesn't like his independence, it circumstances that makes people take some decisions.

I'm not saying your sister doesn't have a right to her decisions, the man just has to be wise enough to let her go to avoid future problems.

OluwaLina1:
Advice needed
Don't mind my typo errors.

My sister cancel her wedding plans all because her husband to~be insists they are going to be living with his mum after the wedding before they will build their own house.
Now,my sister said she won't go on with the wedding plans if he didn't rent an appartment,even if it's face-me-i-slap-you room,she will be okay with it.
Is my sister doing the right thing?

your sister did the right thing

The man shouldn't be a SIMP and do what the entitled old hag wants he should dump her ass as quickly as possible

Don't know why SIMPs still view marriage as something important when it clearly favors women

MAY THE PATRIARCHY RULE

Your sister never ready marry.
She should try and know the reason why the guy wants it that way and try to reach a compromise.
The guy has known his mother all his life and there might be a strong bond between both of them., she cannot just come and destroy it because he wants to marry her.
That your sister will chase the guys family from him.

Your sister has pride let her keep it to herself .

Real mummy's boy....He said he can't do without his mum

hosemujica:
It depends on a lot of things. Man and woman should leave their parents house to live together as husband and wife. Anything other than that for a start is a bad foundation.

The way I'm seeing it, the guy is a mummy's boy, as such won't want to leave his mums side, otherwise the best thing to do is to first of all use the funds for the wedding to get himself accommodation before the wedding proper.

She should try and convince him that nothing comes out of a married guy living in his mother's house with his wife, if the mother comes to visit him every once in a while that's manageable but outrightly sharing the same roof is a recipe for disaster. Meanwhile suspension of the wedding while they talk things over is better than outrightly cancelling it.

he said he can't do without his mum

Powerfly:
I dunno oo.
let's just wait for the Alpha~male elders to arrive.. I'm sure they will have what to say, and advice to give..
the only problem is.. They might call the guy wanting to marry your sister a simp!

Don't mind them

Squillaci:
Not even his father's house. Abeg make postpone the wedding.

she's a single mother

zed7:
The question should be is the husband going to take the right decision? Your sister has made her choice. Is the man going to be smart enough to let her go without begging her?

You can't love me and not love my family, there's no point. It's not like they are going to stay there forever, probably to save up some money first. No man who doesn't like his independence, it circumstances that makes people take some decisions.

I'm not saying your sister doesn't have a right to her decisions, the man just has to be wise enough to let her go to avoid future problems.

The man is financially okay.My sister loves his family.

Timbers:
The man shouldn't be a SIMP and do what the entitled old hag wants he should dump her ass as quickly as possible

Don't know why SIMPs still view marriage as something important when it clearly favors women

MAY THE PATRIARCHY RULE

HMMMM....

sexy74:
Your sister never ready marry.
She should try and know the reason why the guy wants it that way and try to reach a compromise.
The guy has known his mother all his life and there might be a strong bond between both of them., she cannot just come and destroy it because he wants to marry her.
That your sister will chase the guys family from him.

Your sister has pride let her keep it to herself .

He said he don't want his mum to feel lonely and his mum won't be free if she comes to stay in his appartment

OluwaLina1:

he said he can't do without his mum

Then your sister did the right thing. Nothing good comes out of that arrangement at all

OluwaLina1:

HMMMM....

Ogun kill you and Hmmmm there

.......

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

Husband no easy to find o.

She should weigh her options carefully.

He should try to get an apartment
He get why

it depends mayb ur sister have other options because this days girls de find marriage badly but i think that guy isnt serious with that house ides because his excuse sounds too childish..

Yea! she did the VERY RIGHT THING.
bros should live alone b4 bringing a lady into his life.
with the way mothers are trying to control their children's home, it is advisable to separate yourself from your extended family; while laying the foundation 4 ur nuclear family.

if I get the guy number,


I for tell am,

to stop calling that your sister or seeing her for 2months,

and see who looses,

marriage favours women only,




he will get an apartment now, and 6months later the woman floods the house with her own family members including OP,
all surviving on the man,


rubbish and hushpuppy

Timbers:
Ogun kill you and Hmmmm there

Bros,me and you no get issue before nah

Mgtowmonk:
can't your sister rent an apartment with her own money?
The guy is doing her a favor by marrying her yet she still dictating how he should live his life

The issue is that the man don't want to leave his mum place

J111333:
Yea, your sister is doing the right thing. The man should at least kill his mum or chase her away before planning to get married so as not to discomfort his wife.

Biko advise your sister to keep waiting on the Lord for a good man.

#ILMOVON
#Attitude
#Bliv

You took the words outta my mouth bro
The man is a weakling and a simpleton ..
Na him suppose cancel the marriage on her refusal to do as he said not she cancelling it..
DT girl na toxic fellow ..
I pity the weak men clowns of this generation..

She is doing what suits her and that's what matters....

And to me, I think she is right though....

Ur Sister Is A Fool. I Would Advise Dat U Advise Her 2 Accept D Marriage Proposal. She Should Excercise Patience, Otherwise She Would Regret.