Ayemileto:


If he hadn't abandoned her, she wouldn't have blown

He meant it for evil, God turned it to good.

bukatyne:



Let's assume the woman is the most terrible being on earth, he can't take the kids to his parents home for a while?

Have you seen where a woman will allow you carry the kids

Hahaha, women use kids as leverage in situations like this, when marriage has broken down irretrivably ...

Palema007:
I knew he would be back! The woman and her babies are making waves, probably going to be new olajumoke ,oga quickly ran back!

So the mother's attitude is enough reason to leave his children in dilapidated house and bad living conditions with no education. Was her attitude the reason he rejected his second baby before she was born that the wife had to depend on her family to survive with pregnancy? That Man though!


Ewwwwwww!

if u are a man even if you are a lady I pray to God give you a wife that behaviors. You will see d reason why he left the wayward and disrespectful woman

Dalby:


Have you seen where a woman will allow you carry the kids

Hahaha, women use kids as leverage in situations like this, when marriage has broken down irretrivably ...

This woman couldn't feed the kids.

He should done all he could to ensure they were better off.

The man goofed.

I have seen men fight for visitation/joint custody of their kids when the relationship is irreparable.

I have seen others move on like it's not their business.

How come a recessive trait is now so dominant in the first filial generation abi dis blue eye color no dey follow mendelian pattern of inheritance?

Gordieshegz:



About 6 years ago, I ended a relationship with a girlfriend on the grounds of her waywardness.
In actual sense, I caught her making out with another guy in my very own room.

After she realised her pleas fell on dead ears, she changed the narratives. She sought my friends' help to beg me into taking her back but told them I called it quits because she failed one of her courses.

She knew I wouldn't tell what really went wrong against my principles..
Friends only got to know what was up after she got pregnant just 2months after our breakup and knew I wasn't responsible for it.

My point is this, ladies are better at storytelling and they know the society will easily take sides with them. So they use it as a tool against their men.
This wife here might truly have been wayward and got that second pregnancy for her concubine as the husband claimed. It's not impossible.

However, where the husband became insensible was neglecting his other daughter because of her mother's alleged infidelity.

And again, the husband could have lied too. But don't be too sure as well that the wife had told the truth.

Hmmmmm you may be right.

Sorry about your ugly experience though.

Medicine after death where was this man since these days? Why he didn't tell the world what he was just saying now? A lier will never enter the Kingdom of heaven

pocohantas:
Olajumoke 2.0...

Next thing he’ll start inserting himself into their photoshoots and complaining she is no more giving him respect as a horseband.

Anyway, I honestly do not think it was about the eyes. After all, he saw the eyes before marrying her. Doesn’t add up.

I said this before now that the story doesn't add up on twitter .

He did not think his kids will get to the eye colour after all it had been recessive. He became afraid any child with her will have the same eyes, of course superstition set in.
If she was wayward her living condition will be better

He should take care of his children a beg.

Palema007:
Hmmmmm you may be right.

Sorry about your ugly experience though.

I believe the husband.

That story about him abandoning his wife and 2 kids because of their unusual eye colour was just too incredible. They were born with those eyes. He married her. He slept with her. He had first child and second child and suddenly he’s afraid of the eyes? Come on.

The husband’s account is more plausible. That woman would be feeling like Agbani because of her eyes. Why won’t she cheat?

You lots saying he abandoned the children...who do you think little children would be inclined to follow between the two parents in the event of separation??

If the children naturally would follow their mother, does that mean he abandoned them??

I keep saying that all Nigeria men are devils, no woman should marry them

Openbusiness4:
The goverment of Kwara State should better not dull no ohhhh, make I know swear for una. Someone should radio the presidency before I tear Asshole Rock beta slap from here , na joke oh.......... Seriously now, the State and FG must as a matter of urgency facilitate the immediate union of the man and his wive and sponsor their family and mandate them to produce like 12 more children with blue eyes. So that the blue eyes genes can become a part of the Nigerian visible gene pool. Oyinbo no fit take black man do shakara again. We sef don get our blue eyes. It must be a federal program for the genes to be cultivated and spread in the society. I just love this

Some Fertility clinics might go behind to contact her for her eggs. Beautiful woman

It is one thing for her to have the eye colour and a different thing for his kids to have same . Both him and his family couldn't deal.
It is likely they started blaming all misfortune on the woman and the kids.

See Nigerians celebrating Caucasian features like Jesus.

IKBARUTEN11:
Thank God d husband finally tendered his own side of d story

Those objective critics who reserved their comments can nw air their say.

B4 i deliver my final judgment on this, i ve 1qstn 2 ask d husband. If ur wife was wayward and disrespectfl, were ur own children wt similar eye features also wayward?

Ur brain is short. He couldn't have taken the children with him after abandoning their mother. Would any child follow u after abandoning his mother

Most folks can't even bother to watch small clips before commenting, including the foolish bloggers.

I watched the video weeks ago. He did not chase the woman out. She left the house with the kids.

So, where is the 'abandonment'?

MUYEEKFIRST:
if u are a man even if you are a lady I pray to God give you a wife that behaviors. You will see d reason why he left the wayward and disrespectful woman

So why didn't he remain in his blackhole

dreamangel:
It is one thing for her to have the eye colour and a different thing for his kids to have same . Both him and his family couldn't deal.
It is likely they started blaming all misfortune on the woman and the kids.

Exactly. My ex neighbor used to beat his wife like crazy but the day the wife smacked their daughter cos she was rude to her, come see serious DV and rebuke.

He didn't expect his kids to have it and if by chance things are tough, the religious seers might tell him the wife belongs somewhere with that eyes.

pocohantas:
Olajumoke 2.0...

Next thing he’ll start inserting himself into their photoshoots and complaining she is no more giving him respect as a horseband.

Anyway, I honestly do not think it was about the eyes. After all, he saw the eyes before marrying her. Doesn’t add up.

Lol at inserting. But I thought it's because a pastor abi baba said she is the cause of the man's problem.

pocohantas:
Olajumoke 2.0...

Next thing he’ll start inserting himself into their photoshoots and complaining she is no more giving him respect as a horseband.

Anyway, I honestly do not think it was about the eyes. After all, he saw the eyes before marrying her. Doesn’t add up.

My Lady...

uruba23:
Ogbeni complainer Risikat done dey fine o. You better go back and hook her before it is late.

She is still innocent. Men are already flooding her fb page enticing her with all kind of things. If she steps out, thats it! This is woman. He needs to go back asap!

GeneralPula:

You have been sad all day, hope no problem?

bukatyne:


This woman couldn't feed the kids.

He should done all he could to ensure they were better off.

The man goofed.

I have seen men fight for visitation/joint custody of their kids when the relationship is irreparable.

I have seen others move on like it's not their business.

You've not seen enough
My close friend, his ex wife denied him from seeing his son for over 5 years now
This dude has tried everything humanly possible, beg her family meeting upon meeting but she has refused this guy access. She even blocked him and his friends on Facebook
And will hardly upload the boys picture just to get at him. I know how miserable this dude is
But definitely the society will always be on the side of a woman...

GboyegaD:
There are three sides to this story. His, hers, and the truth. One day, we will know which is truth. Hopefully, an objective acquaintance or family member will expose it.

before we wait for the truth, did he abandon the children? If “yes” were they also wayward?

He may have grudges against his wife but that doesn't justify abandoning his kids. If he is a responsible father to his kids at least, he probably wouldn't have lost his son who fell ill and died after they left him ( the twin of the younger girl who had black eyes by the way). He would also have been responsible for his daughter's education. His parents don't seem to care either.

The lady said she had a patent medicine shop set up for her by her parents since they couldn't afford sending her to school again at a point in time. She said her business failed due to lack of care by the husband. She spent all the money managing her home.

AfroKnight:


I believe the husband.

That story about him abandoning his wife and 2 kids because of their unusual eye colour was just too incredible. They were born with those eyes. He married her. He slept with her. He had first child and second child and suddenly he’s afraid of the eyes? Come on.

The husband’s account is more plausible. That woman would be feeling like Agbani because of her eyes. Why won’t she cheat?

A man will never accept that he was influenced by his family to abandon his kids, and we know how diabolic and unreal some illiterate can get. To the extent of blaming little things for their misfortunes.

Anyways, I think there's more to the story. However the man had no excuse to abandon his kids.

BotherMleeper:


You don't know

I don't know

That's it

No we don't but who does that? Only a wicked human being. What those kids passed through should be better imagined!

2016easy2017:

Ur brain is short. He couldn't have taken the children with him after abandoning their mother. Would any child follow u after abandoning his mother

Responsibility goes beyond having the kids with you. His daughter at 5 has never been to school. He should have taken better care of his kids whichever way.

AfroKnight:


I believe the husband.

That story about him abandoning his wife and 2 kids because of their unusual eye colour was just too incredible. They were born with those eyes. He married her. He slept with her. He had first child and second child and suddenly he’s afraid of the eyes? Come on.

No, he wasn't afraid but yielded under constant and unrelenting pressure from the superstitious family members.

The husband’s account is more plausible. That woman would be feeling like Agbani because of her eyes. Why won’t she cheat?

And yet, she and her kids lived a wretched life! She didn't embrace olosho lifestyle even in the face of hunger and lack of basic things for herself and her kids. She's a heroine

Dalby:


Have you seen where a woman will allow you carry the kids

Hahaha, women use kids as leverage in situations like this, when marriage has broken down irretrivably ...

In Nigeria, the culture gives husbands priority over the kids. But the truth is that it's easy for useless and irresponsible fathers to abandon their kids and the responsibility falls squarely on the mothers who have no options.