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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Deborah98(f): 5:58am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Firstly where are you located,we may start from there,hey don't give up the child for adoption please, everything happens for a reason believe me,she may be the one to wipe your tears away,can I know your location before anything else |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Nobody: 5:59am On Aug 17, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Dshocker(m): 5:59am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: If everybody rejected you,Jesus is the only person to rescue you from your situation |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by abiodunHO: 6:00am On Aug 17, 2020 |
I am deeply moved by all you've said. I will like to offer some sort of help to you. How can I reach you? Better still send me your contact. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Saao(m): 6:02am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:bro your solution wasnt complete. Before you led one to Christ if you see her naked, cloth her first so that u can preach to her. I read it with tears in my eyes. I saw a girl that has suffered and still suffering. So u don't just bring Jesus to her, first find her a shelter, what to do, then preaching follow. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by akpumpy: 6:05am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mbdovey:She just have to pray until something happens. This is a satanic evil pattern that was designed to make you and your mother suffer and if care is not taken the generational curse will continue. I pray for you that every evil pattern in your generational tree be broken in the name of Jesus. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by agent01(m): 6:07am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:If you have not genuinely seek Jesus, I advice that you do so. Our today is the product of what we chose yesterday. Something is wrong with you! You need to seek for divine intervention and be more focused inorder to prevent your innocent child from making same mistake. Don't give your child out for adoption. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Lawrence234: 6:09am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: You are right by saying Jesus is the only solution. This young lady is discouraged and needs help. Even Jesus himself would not sound like this to her. At this point, she needs an encounter with the loving kindness of Jesus. Quoting bible may not help her much. Young lady, I pray Jesus shows you mercies in your discouraged state. Pls dnt give the child for adoption. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Donbigi2(m): 6:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
femi4: She is 21 now her child is 5 She was 16 at the time. A minor! Someone came to save her and all she had to give up was her body, you're cruel asking his. I hope you're never in Her shoes |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by chinchum(m): 6:14am On Aug 17, 2020 |
ekerintee:Obviously going to a University is not a solution to all problem. Survival comes first, she has survived for the last 21years, if she is not careful she will only survive for the next 50 years or more. At 21 years, she has 9 more years to clock 30 years. There is a reason i am recommending goal setting of getting a degree by 30 years. She may have to shed some weight along the process of survival to achieve growth. An average Nigerian is only surviving and not growing. When your only focus is survival and not growth, you simply retrogress in years to come. 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Good morning y’all first and foremost your prayers won’t get this girl out of trouble all you Nigerians offer is prayer like that pastor. Bro that girl say she dey hungry she will be homeless and her daughter may suffer but you say make she go find Jesus and break generational curse how dumb that sounds. Do you know if she and her daughter have even eaten today? Where she wan get power to break generational curse. That’s for that Sis I am really sorry about your situation I feel like I understand you and feel your pains. For the sake of my daughter how can I send you some money to start something tangible? Please reply me ASAP Shalom 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by GerogeI(m): 6:17am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo: This Lady needs help. First, Adoption might be okay, but to ensure you do not repeat this poverty cycle with your daughter, you need to be close to advice protect and help her. Also it does not solve your own problem of survival, especially if hussling means becoming a street person. Independence can be nice but you can achieve more faster with help. Myself and many others are ready to help you. 1. Find the nearest catholic church or Covent, approach the Reverend Father or Sister. They can provide a temporal hold for your daughter if you want her to be with someone till you can stand. It is better the church finds someone willing to take your child for a while and keeps tabs on them. 2. Explained to them that people wish to help you online. Let the reverend report back on this thread with their identity. With a bank account number dedicated to you, and an instruction to the bank to release not more than 20K to you monthly. Apart from lump sums for specific purposes that the church will approve. This we will all verify with the bank. 3. You should also be willing to go back to education. You can take GCE, and then we will help you with opportunity for at least NCE. You can also find a business to engage in while you get educated. Or we can offer you a job. 4. We will try to contribute enough to hold you up for the next three years or more, even as you get your bearing. Also the bank will release a lump sum for you to do some business after you get your GCE. If this works for you reply, while you try to set it up. If you work hard you can reunite with your daughter in about three years with capability to fend for her and yourself.[/quote]This Lady needs help. 2 Likes |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Goldp5988(f): 6:20am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:21am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Lawrence234: You made sense at first then ended up like the self acclaimed righteousness. Keep your prayers yall if Jesus saw her now don’t you think he will first feed her before the prayer? |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by steve11215(m): 6:22am On Aug 17, 2020 |
[Tquote author=Mizflo post=92867426] Thanks for the advice. I have lost faith in Jesus because if he was there I wouldn’t have been suffering like this . I don’t want to look for him because he has never care about me and I don’t want to know him [/quote] And this is the reason he has not come ..... You really have not welcomed him Babe nobody can help you here "only Jesus" forget the delay and look up to him |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:24am On Aug 17, 2020 |
[quote author=GerogeI post=92905739] This Lady needs help. First, Adoption might be okay, but to ensure you do not repeat this poverty cycle with your daughter, you need to be close to advice protect and help her. Also it does not solve your own problem of survival, especially if hussling means becoming a street person. Independence can be nice but you can achieve more faster with help. Myself and many others are ready to help you. 1. Find the nearest catholic church or Covent, approach the Reverend Father or Sister. They can provide a temporal hold for your daughter if you want her to be with someone till you can stand. It is better the church finds someone willing to take your child for a while and keeps tabs on them. 2. Explained to them that people wish to help you online. Let the reverend report back on this thread with their identity. With a back account number dedicated to you, and an instruction to release not more than 20K to you monthly. This we will all verify with the bank. 3. You should also be willing to go back to education. You can take GCE, and we will help you with at least NCE. You can also find a business to engage in while you get educated. Or we can offer you a job. 4. We will try to contribute enough to hold you up for the next three years or more, even as you get your bearing. Also the bank will release a lump sum for you to do some business after you get you GCE. If this works for you reply, while you try to set it up. If you work hard you can reunite with your daughter in about three years with capability to fend for her and yourself.This Lady needs help. [/quote Bless you bro she needs help and yes we all giving prayers and advice should do well and contribute a token to assist her I am on your side on this hopefully more people can be of help 1 Like |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Bar1941(m): 6:25am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89: You have problems, a lot of problems. I am a believer in Christ but simetimes we need to proffer a practical and realistic solutions to some problems before we back it with the spiritual aspect. As a christian, if someone tells you he'd not eaten since yesterday, you have some money with you and foods but you tell the person to fast so that God can have mercy on him, does that make any sense to you? Stop trying God sometimes when you need to try on your own. The mindset of people like you is what put Nigeria where it is today. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by chinchum(m): 6:27am On Aug 17, 2020 |
GerogeI:This is quite practical. I hope the Op responds to this. OP must be so strong willed to break the vicious cycle. With a goal mindset and a little assistance she will break the yoke. Everything is not spiritual like some people want us to believe. If you as a child was raised by a drunk father, if you are not strong willed , you will end up like him, no matter how much you may have hated the fact your dad was a drunkard as a child, it is not spiritual most of the times. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:27am On Aug 17, 2020 |
agent01:Leave this talk braah babe Dey hungry her daughter is hungry they are almost homeless will Jesus give her food now now she needs strength to pray nah food Dey give strength. Jesus first gave food to people people especially that fish and bread story before he start to preach for them. Saint |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:29am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Bar1941: That guy done chop bellyful nail make am Dey talk that thing too many hypocrites small time now he onopen church say he start from Nairaland |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:30am On Aug 17, 2020 |
steve11215:Steve leave talk be practical first okay send her bible money |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:38am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Bro nah you and your likes be problem way this country get even Jesus nr do reach una again when Jesus wan preach for those people shebi he feed them with fish and bread? Hypocrites too many for this country imagine likes way you get in this write up? Not quote me o I go tell you word if you try am |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by anathemiamia(f): 6:40am On Aug 17, 2020 |
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Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Gordieshegz(m): 6:42am On Aug 17, 2020 |
fattprince: E o serious Sir! Even though the baby daddy wasn't nice to the op, he did not rape her. You may talk about child abuse because of her age but you know not if she is a Northerner or if this happened in northern Nigeria. You are part of the people with the ugly mentality of using false rape accusations to settle scores with men. Wicked man |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by cooldove8: 6:45am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Righteousness89:Hypocrites too full Nigeria nah person like you run leave that girl and him daughter I sure |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by walozanga(m): 6:50am On Aug 17, 2020 |
My dear don't give up your child. GOD knows u exist that's why u are still alive. Try and soak your self in the ways of God. Nothing happens in vain. That your lil baby might be the angel, your break through. Hold on to the lil u see, work hard, save as lil as the money can come. Open ur heart and stop blaming ur past, pray often and live a clean life. Then u will see how successful u will be. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by fattprince(m): 6:53am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Gordieshegz:E ma binu. But statutory rape is rape. Well I was surprised too when I first heard about it. Consent of a minor does not hold in law so no consent equals rape. What I'm saying is if she goes to Human Rights arm of these police stations. She has a good case. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by danny34(m): 6:58am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Where are you based? You don't need to give up the baby for adoption. You need support to start fending for yourself. I need to talk to you. U can reach me on 07039650495. Mizflo: |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by MrCaesar: 6:59am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Don't give her out. save money and start a small business. You can get a job that pays a bit, you can start from there. Things will get better. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by Prettybhoy(m): 7:00am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Mizflo:I HAVE NEVER COMMENTED ON SUCH POST ON NAIRALAND, I DON'T KNOW YOU BUT I FELT SO MUCH PAINS FOR YOU WHILE READING THIS POST... I COULD FEEL YOUR BROKEN HEART, I CRIED SO BITTERLY READING YOUR POST... GOD KNOWS THAT I WOULD HAVE HELP YOU WITH ALL I HAVE IF I AM IN THE POSITION.... I DON'T WANT YOU TO GO BACK ON THE STREET AND I DON'T WANT YOU TO GIVE UP YOUR DAUGHTER TO SOME UNKNOWN FAMILY ALSO... MAY GOD MAKE A WAY FOR YOU WHERE THERE SEEMS TO BE NONE... AS FOR YOUR BABY DADDY, HE WILL NEVER KNOW PEACE TILL THE END OF HIS LIFE EXCEPT HE COMES BACK TO YOU AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by JOSH54: 7:00am On Aug 17, 2020 |
[quote author=Mizflo post=92866921]Please I need your advice. I had created this account because I am well known here with my main account because I am always active and I want to remain anonymous. Thank u for opening up but i'll like to be sincere with u, giving ur daughter for adoption is never d best because not every thing dat glitter is gold. If d woman really wants to help why demanding for ur daughter? Why not visit social welfare in ur state n explain ur situation n i know they will find solution. Pls, if u dont still understand contact me tru my email n i'll explain in details what to do. God is ur strenght n never never give up on God because God has not giving up on u. |
Re: I Want To Give My Daughter Up For Adoption by wirinet(m): 7:03am On Aug 17, 2020 |
loneprof: Best advice. Since you know the baby daddy and his contact address. Contact human rights organizations to take up the case. I don't know much about our paternity laws, but I am sure he will be asked to pay child support for the upkeep of his biological children. |
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