pocohantas:


Ironically, some of the feminists I know are doing their men well. It is you guys with non-feminist gfs creating threads upandan.

“What I saw in my gf’s phone. I am fainting.”

“My gf is smelling of condom, what do I do?”

“I bought her phone, now she is no more picking my calls.”

I don’t know what is the problem. Maybe you guys have your definition of feminism muddled up or there is something you are not telling us.

They confuse feminism with misandry

ewoh,! Undiluted truth

What caught my attention is "stop repeating the mistake your mother made" now is pastor trying to tell us women of old made mistakes? .And here I was thinking the bar for marriage was set by the tolerant ,non-voicing, obedient,do whatever I say ,women of old


You see I stopped taking these preachers serious the day a female preacher said " if you are the bread winner ,go out win the bread and bring it for daddy to share" lol Daddy that doesn't have hand to win bread but has hand to share. I was nearly tempted to ask her if she forgot that a man who cannot take care of his family is worse than an infidel, but make e nor be like say I dey rude


These are the same women who will think just because you choose to stand up for yourself and not be used as a bought commodity ,you are not virtuous enough and will go to hell fire .


Notice how the woman gets to give something invaluable,that cannot be quantified, "respect and honour" while all the man needs to do is take his wife and children out .

Nice one Pastor.. #Respect

Fact.

is this the tithe and seed sowing and loving woman that preaches money and seed ?

Not moved by any of these. Teach people the Bible or give a Bible based teaching on marriage, every other thing will fall in place.

We just need to move from the era of head and exciting teaching to what does the God of the Bible says.

If a man is drowning, he doesn't care who shows up to rescue him, whether such is a male or a female.

dhardline:
No matter the amount of do's and don't you preach a heart that has not been renewed can't not work out this things that is why what you are 'preaching' is not the gospel but a cosmetic man centered teaching. Please ma, step down from the pulpit you are not supposed to be there and not just you but also all women who call themselves pastors and all preachers of 'prosperity gospel' . The Bible you teach from does not permit it but you ignore its teaching for the sake of your pride and introduce psychology and motivation. Giving men hope in their sins and proclaiming men to be safe when they are close to eternal damnation. This is part of the reason men make gest of the gospel of Christ.

Juliearth:





Not that I am a feminist, but most "boys" here do not understand what true feminism entails.

do most ladies evenUnderstand what feminism is? So what do you expect?

Very valid.


But it easier said than done.


But all these feminists will disagree

truthsayer009:
She sings for her husband in the morning shouldn't be taken literally, It's just unrealistic.
Who has time to be singing for husband after many years

Singing for her husband may not be literal. It could mean an early morning kiss, massage, cuddle or the other action.

Juliearth:



Feminism is defined as political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. While this may sound fair and just, I am not in tune with it because equality is injustice. Equity is more like it. Equity entails allocating responsibilities to an individual or a gender (as in this case) based on strength. For instance if you give a five meter ladder (equality) to three men of different height to climb or stand on, the tallest of the three men would have more advantage than the shortest. But giving each men a ladder that corresponds with their height (equity)would make them have the same view.

Even God is not an advocate of equality, but equity and that was why he made man the head and the woman the neck; He made man the general overseer and the woman, the manager.

this is a theoretical definition of feminism.. Go to the western world where feminism came. From and see how they practice their feminism. Feminism to them is close to misandry

IamWonderful:
Marry a virgin, I repeat marry a virgin and have at least 90% guaranteed happy home if you aren't an idiot

Marry a woman with good upbringing. Being a virgin isn't a guarantee that she would be a good wife. Some virgins are just dragons in a cage waiting to be released. Same narrative goes for village wives.

ednut1:
Many today want to eat their cakes and have it. marriage is rules based. if both parties cant stick to the rules why marry. parents and society should stop forcing or blackmailing people to marry too

Exactly. Put in the work and get the desired results.

A lot of the points are biased and contradictory. A man that sleeps around is not born again but a woman that does the same is an idiot and a prostitute. She should remember Rahab the temple prostitute from Jericho who helped the isrealite spies is an ancestor of Jesus Christ and Jesus himself never talked about prostitutes in such manner despite them being everywhere even around the temple (i.e temple prostitutes). They were not even his problem for one second which is evident in the way he ignored the people that brought forth an adultress/fornicator to be judged and stoned. The hypocrites in the form of saducees and pharisees were his problem. She should emulate him and condemn the modern hypocrites we have today instead there are plenty of them in the house of God.

The bible marriage are traditional marriages else where so I do not understand that.

Teaching that women should be working wives to avoid the mistakes their mothers made (that is the only mistake I can think of) when she knows full well that in our society a lot of men don't allow their wives to have carreers and that is the bigger problem.

The whole thing about respect, honour and the rest are in order but they are biased cos she also knows that these demands are not given by her or other pastors in equal measure to men.

Lots of women are already doing more than all she said but they get a cheating and ungrateful husband in return. I am waiting for the day that such teachings will center around men to appreciate, serenade and encourage their hardworking wives..but no these pastors seem to derive joy from giving only such teachings like the ones from this pastor.

sirjamesjnr:
Will definitely show it to my girl. Lol I expect a fight. She is still the best. Can't breathe without her.

Can't breath without her? No mortal should be able to have such power in your life.

@Zzor and others shey na dey hear, do not disrespect your husband because he is short.

Not short like but because you are taller, that doesn't make him short.... Words on marbles

pocohantas:
Naija men after reading this be like;


“Pastor Funke...”

this kind talk can sweet men die . Everyone is busy telling her , correct, you are on point !!

Where are the empty husbandless feminists?

TheSent:
If a man is drowning, he doesn't care who shows up to rescue him, whether such is a male or a female.

Matt 7.22Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
23And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.

I hope this verses will give you cause to reason, your works will not save you or anybody else. There is a way for this race to be run and it's fully written in the scriptures. If you decide to adjust it because it 'sounds good' to you and not in agreement with scripture then you have totally missed it. Women can in no doubt minister to people about Christ but not in the position as the 'head of a church'.

How I wish I could get that Kind of Marriage

If your Christianity does not work at home, don't export it.

This is Shaba!

Ladycewhy:
What caught my attention is "stop repeating the mistake your mother made" now is pastor trying to tell us women of old made mistakes? .


You see I stopped taking these preachers serious the day a female preacher said " if you are the bread winner ,go out win the bread and bring it for daddy to share" lol Daddy that doesn't have hand to win bread but can hand to share. I was nearly tempted to ask her if she forgot that a man who cannot take care of his family is worse than an infidel, but make e nor be like say I dey rude


These are the same women who will think just because you choose to stand up for yourself and not be used as a bought commodity ,you are not virtuous enough and will go to hell fire .


Notice how the woman gets to give something invaluable,that cannot be quantified, "respect and honour" while all the man needs to do is take his wife and children out .

Her messages are exciting messages for her audience and just so she can trend.

It's easy for her to give head teachings and not Bible based ones.

I don't know when the calling involved teaching outside what the God of the Bible says.

Juliearth:



Feminism is defined as political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. While this may sound fair and just, I am not in tune with it because equality is injustice. Equity is more like it. Equity entails allocating responsibilities to an individual or a gender (as in this case) based on strength. For instance if you give a five meter ladder (equality) to three men of different height to climb or stand on, the tallest of the three men would have more advantage than the shortest. But giving each men a ladder that corresponds with their height (equity)would make them have the same view.

Even God is not an advocate of equality, but equity and that was why he made man the head and the woman the neck; He made man the general overseer and the woman, the manager.

Equity is fairness and Justice. That's is Canon of civilization and all religion.

If Feminism was a socio-political movement (like you truly believe) then they would not be any issue with it because it would be conforming to status-quo.

Rather Feminism that is propagated by most feminist is equality in treatment, privileges and right between Male and female

Ironically, like you pointed out, equality doesn't exist even between Male and Male... Or the female sex. Some are short, some are tall, some women are educated while some are not.

In practice you can't even treat 2 people equally...

So tell me practical application of the equity you are talking about between the sexes.

Juliearth:





Marry a woman with good upbringing. Being a virgin isn't a guarantee that she would be a good wife. Some virgins are just dragons in a cage waiting to be released. Same narrative goes for village wives.

Where is the good upbringing when Virginity has gone to the dogs? committed fornication without remorse, slept with series of men and then start comparing me with other men or boys she committed fornication with, a lady that fine it difficult to commit fornication have insignificant or no tendency to commit adultery.

babyfaceafrica:
this is a theoretical definition of feminism.. Go to the western world where feminism came. From and see how they practice their feminism. Feminism to them is close to misandry

What I appended up here is an ideal case scenario. I am an idealist. Let's just say agents of darkness parading themselves as misandrist are trying to soil and foil the the union called marriage, thus the reason why this feminisim madness is the rave of the moment. My take is that a woman who is as hardworking as a man CAN attain the peak of her career, if she can handle it. I also believe that a woman cannot be president because it goes against God's injunction for man...

iamyemiakins:
Feminists going through this thread like...

lolzzzzz wetin you want make Dem do

King44:
@Zzor and other shey na dey hear, do not disrespect your husband because he is short.

Not short like but because you are taller, that doesn't make him short.... Words on marbles

lol This Mr shorty again

babyfaceafrica:
do most ladies evenUnderstand what feminism is? So what do you expect?

Most ladies are not in tune with the feminism madness, so its really unfair to judge them based on what they don't believe in.

Nauttyprof:


Her messages are exciting messages for her audience and just so she can trend.

It's easy for her to give head teachings and not Bible based ones.

I don't know when the calling involved teaching out what the God of the Bible says.

lol, these preachers make me laugh, the way they will use hell fire to threaten and bully women into being door mats in their homes eh ,you will be shocked.

I think it's more like a show off ,make dem for talk say na me dey virtuous pass ,na me go first go heaven as obedient wife

prekumohtim:


this kind talk can sweet men die . Everyone is busy telling her , correct, you are on point !!

Few days back, many of them insulted the woman for one of her messages. Today she is correct. This just shows how subjective humans are.

Question is... Who are the idiots?