you are both mad....

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

go curse ur family members... werey.

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Binhamid:


Are you saying I should dump her and move on?

being a simp should be criminalise.

Your girlfriend have been cheating on you since secondly she is not sorry that she cheated. She is only sorry she was no smart enough for you not to suspect her.

Palema007:
Must everything be on Nl? My girlfriend this, my girlfriend that. May I not meet babies in guys bodies in Jesus mighty name! Ah!

live and let's live. Avoid such threads if it irritate you, Nairaland isnt your room where you could lament all the time abeg make we hear words, this sounds similar to what you said on the thread that made frontpage yesterday

just listen to yourself....Nah u start the stupidity and u here complaining when u are at the receiving end.....besides,change the relationship status to flirting...

this your grammer don weak me,I don't know what to comment again.

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

You and your girl should walk naked on the next AKE market day. The gods will settle your case

abokikhalifa:


You and your girl should walk naked on the next AKE market day. The gods will settle your case

You are very mad sir. I'm sorry I am the one informing you. And she is now my ex. She fit do the waka alone

Haywhymido:
live and let's live. Avoid such threads if it irritate you, Nairaland isnt your room where you could lament all the time abeg make we hear words, this sounds similar to what you said on the thread that made frontpage yesterday

Your pain has been noted, and the range of your agony measured. I prescribe you take several steps back and learn to mind your business.

when you nurture a cub, you get a lion. you get my point?? considering your distance apart ,work schedule and your open relationship palaver... I don't think y'all are destined for each other, because you see me, I cannot tell my woman to go on dates, wey everybody body d scratch am anyhow this days!

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Bro ask her to tell u d truth of wat happened dat night, tell her d only way to take her back is for her to be completely honest with u, wen she eventually open up to u den u can think it through if u want her back or not because the truth is if u accept her back without her telling u d truth, ur mind will never rest u will always wonder wat happened between dem but if she fully open up to u den u can decide if u want her back knowing fully well wat she did n it will also help u heal better

Artiiclebeast:
Hmmm

The babe collect well and her only regret is that she gave room for you to suspect.

She'll only get smarter and adjust her timing to avoid your monitoring spirit.

Shine your eye...

I dey tell you.

One girl like that had a video call monitoring spirit.

She'll come and collect, then go home around 10PM for their video call.

It's hard to prevent someone from doing what they want to do.

I remember when I caught one of my ex cheating, she was crying and wailing begging me to forgive her, I buried my head in my palms and raised my head up and I caught her laughing at me.

donbrowser:

He loves her but he doesn't know girls yet. He's doing gentle guy. I was very stupid before too

Lols you are not stupid na

Haywhymido:
live and let's live. Avoid such threads if it irritate you, Nairaland isnt your room where you could lament all the time abeg make we hear words, this sounds similar to what you said on the thread that made frontpage yesterday

They are scared because with such threads popping up more, the redpill enlightenment will spread. I don't really blame them, they turned relationship to a business transaction; hence are afraid of going bankrupt.

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Most Advice Here Is Crap!
Not all women are heartless or wicked
There are good women
Follow your Heart and Spirit
No mind them
Lastly : Pray

Palema007:
Your pain has been noted, and the range of your agony measured. I prescribe you take several steps back and learn to mind your business.

If you have actually minded yours in the first place, we wldnt be here. Now run along, girl

OKOATA:

I remember when I caught one of my ex cheating, she was crying and wailing begging me to forgive her, I buried my head in my palms and raised my head up and I caught her laughing at me.

Kai, see 'see finish'. The hoes have never been loyal

Haywhymido:
Kai, see 'see finish'. The hoes have never been loyal

While I buried my head in my palms and saying why did you do this? Why did you cheat, this one de laugh me say see brother wey mumu. As I raised my head up I caught her laughing and she began to cry her crocodile tears again.

@poster, we ladies dnt behave like guys. loneliness can push a woman to sleep wit someone she abhors and ur asking her to date is a red flag. I mean,who does that, she's human and can feel Hot too.
truth is, she was banged, ffucked hard and tidied properly,now she regrets cos she does love you. forgive her and take her back,never to allow her date men if u really want to marry her. if u ain't for marriage,pls tell her.
we all make mistakes.

OKOATA:
While I buried my head in my palms and saying why did you do this? Why did you cheat, this one de laugh me say see brother wey mumu. As I raised my head up I caught her laughing and she began to cry her crocodile tears again.

Na their way! They like eating their cakes and having the next person's own. You had two options then either to break up with her outrightly or continue to dey chop and clean mouth! How did it end?

Sparkle777:
@poster, we ladies dnt behave like guys. loneliness can push a woman to sleep wit someone she abhors and ur asking her to date is a red flag. I mean,who does that, she's human and can feel Hot too.
truth is, she was banged, ffucked hard and tidied properly,now she regrets cos she does love you. forgive her and take her back,never to allow her date men if u really want to marry her. if u ain't for marriage,pls tell her.
we all make mistakes.

really Well okafor's law states "what has been fu*ked can never be unfu*ked. Another states "a once fu*ked pu$$¥ can still be refu*ked it's only a matter of time"

op run for your life, you came across a hoe, let her loose if you dont want a HBP to kill you.

1) your girlfriend slept in another man's house.

2) she knew she was going to sleep there hence the early calls and the short call. So it was something she already planned.

3) no matter how you explain it (boredom or whatever you call it) the fact that you guys go on dates with other people means the two of you are in an open relationship.

4) we all know she more than just slept there that night.

5) long distance relationships cannot be open if you want it to be serious.

6) you have two options in my opinion. Breakup for good or forgive her and stop having an open relationship if you can't take the consequence of it.

What were you expecting? How can you allow her go on a date and not expect her to be tempted? That clearly doesn't makes sense. People don't go on a date because of boredom.

912:
1) your girlfriend slept in another man's house.

2) she knew she was going to sleep there hence the early calls and the short call. So it was something she already planned.

3) no matter how you explain it (boredom or whatever you call it) the fact that you guys go on dates with other people means the two of you are in an open relationship.

4) we all know she more than just slept there that night.

5) long distance relationships cannot be open if you want it to be serious.

6) you have two options in my opinion. Breakup for good or forgive her and stop having an open relationship if you can't take the consequence of it.

What were you expecting? How can you allow her go on a date and not expect her to be tempted? That clearly doesn't makes sense. People don't go on a date because of boredom.

I dey feel you bro

Artiiclebeast:
Hmmm

The babe collect well and her only regret is that she gave room for you to suspect.

She'll only get smarter and adjust her timing to avoid your monitoring spirit.

Shine your eye...

hmmmmmm

Binhamid:


Chaii

the cookies has been well tasted... Yummy

Naso dem dey cry bro

People have given good advice. It up you to man up move on.
....

Binhamid:
Good evening, I stay in a different state from my girlfriend and we see like once in 3 months. She has a tight work schedule and I also do. We also try to make 3 weeks out of December our mini-honeymoon each year. Everything was good because we communicate and tell each other everything. Even if I hang out with female friends or go out on dates due to boredom I do tell her. The one time I kissed a girl due to the fact that I was drunk I told her and I apologized. We had a long fight but we settled. She also tells me everything even when she go on dates. Because I used to tell her who she can go out with and when she should come back, I encourage her to do this because I always feel she might be bored sometimes and male company is okay as long as they are reasonable fellows. So lastweek she went out with this fellow she mentioned briefly to me about, and when I called her in the night I noticed she was acting somehow. Usually we talk for two hours every night and she never declines video call? That day she called me earlier than usual, we start our call by 10pm and she called me by 8pm and she told me she will call back. She called again by 11:00 and we did not talk for more than 7 min. When I requested for video call she declined. That was when I knew she was not home. So I texted her that I knew she is not home. She called me back the second day that she just saw my text that she is sorry and that it was because of curfew that she stayed at the guy's place and all. That she does not know how to tell me blah blah blah. So I broke up with her. And she has been crying and saying sorry since. I still love her, and I actually believe her story a bit, but I'm still angry. Am I overreacting should I take her back or leave her to enjoy her life.

This thing no be fiction na something wey dey vex and pain me. If you talk rubbish I go use the vex curse you.

Bro let me tell you the bitter truth since love is blinding your eyes.
1) They had sex that night, in fact they had hot steaming sex.
2) That guy will be the real nigga very soon.
3) Long distance relationship is thrash, only few of them leads to marriage.
4) Forget the rubbish she told you about curfew, since she knew curfew was by 10pm, why did she not schedule the date earlier so that she could leave early and start heading home.

Please don't let me abuse you bro, someone is cheating and it is glaring and you are saying you love her.

Bro don't fall my hand please

Wordsfrombimpe:



You don't love her and you know the truth

A guy that loves someone the high rate of his mumu button will be 100%

Long Distance Relationship is patience and understanding this two things if you can't then let go and find someone In your location. If you love her then fight for her and settle

Please dead this narrative, it is very obvious that she cheated.

Sometimes I find it funny when someone cheats on you and they tell you that if you love her, you are meant to forgive her.

Please you all should dead that narrative, how will you fight for your love when she is already cheating. If she really loves you, she won't entertain such rubbish.


So because I love a lady, I should not uses my senses at all, ma'am I don't think you know what you are saying.

Because I love a lady, I should entertain all her rubbish because my mumu button is suppose to be 100%


Please find something better to say

Y'all were in an open relationship...lol.... But one question is, did the guy lamba her?

IMAMofPEACE:



Please dead this narrative, it is very obvious that she cheated.

Sometimes I find it funny when someone cheats on you and they tell you that if you love her, you are meant to forgive her.

Please you all should dead that narrative, how will you fight for your love when she is already cheating. If she really loves you, she won't entertain such rubbish.


So because I love a lady, I should not uses my senses at all, ma'am I don't think you know what you are saying.

Because I love a lady, I should entertain all her rubbish because my mumu button is suppose to be 100%


Please find something better to say

useless women! them always said this line to attract simps "if you can't love me at my worse then you don't deserve my best "

there are 7 billion people in the world then why will you be fighting for one piece of trash!

there are many fishes in the River.

Binhamid:


Should I block her or something. Because she keeps calling me crying and begging. But I feel blocking her will be petty. And I'm scared she might hurt herself or have problem concentrating at work.

lol.You are falling for her emotional blackmail.