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Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by ExBanker: 6:51pm On Aug 20, 2020
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Hezzyluv: 6:53pm On Aug 20, 2020
But it is obvious that the girl don't love you, she sees you as her succour. If not, how will she be offended because u refuse to give her 7k after u have promised them 50k by month end?


I call your condition extreme rule grin

But seriously, run for your life before you bankrupt

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by EmptyGarden(m): 6:53pm On Aug 20, 2020
Dem still dey pick the beans akara don dey smell...

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by JOACHINpedro: 6:54pm On Aug 20, 2020
episode what is this

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by UDUJ(m): 6:56pm On Aug 20, 2020
grin grin grin grin grin Mad people full this forum sha cheesy

ExBanker if this is true and you succeed in smashing both of them I will award you The Man of the Year position grin

I swear your name will be engraved in the hall of fame.

Lwkmd cheesy

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by timmydavids(m): 6:56pm On Aug 20, 2020
what did you smoke?

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by emkz: 7:00pm On Aug 20, 2020
Bad guy. Did you mean like a 3some with two sisters?

Your story was sweet until you got to the twist which landed on the wrong side. A man I know who bonked two blood sisters has been crippled for 15 years since the act. I am not saying his condition is the result of bonking two sisters, I am just telling you what I observed.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by nifemi25(m): 7:01pm On Aug 20, 2020
This your condition na die

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by quolahpoh: 7:06pm On Aug 20, 2020
I can't stop laughing man.. grin grin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MrSensor(m): 7:07pm On Aug 20, 2020
Now he wants both of them and if they agree, the mother is next. grin cheesy

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 20, 2020
See the type of men this generation has produced smh

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by MJBOLT: 7:17pm On Aug 20, 2020
I'm sure you have spent close to 100k on your babe alone in less than 3 months,add her sister so you can spend close to 500k undecided

Una think say sex na everything

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Aug 20, 2020
I wanted to give some advice but I remembered I shouldn't cast my pearls to pigs speak less of randy simps
Bro, a simp is
- a man who controls a woman with his money not by his standards
- a man who pays for sex from his lady
- a man whose woman insults him over his own right
- a man who doesn't know that the more he shares his semen, the weaker and less attractive he would be as semen contains vitamin B12 which is necessary for the body growth and attractiveness
- a man who brought himself so low that his lady insults him alongside her sister
- a man who thinks ladies hate sex
.
I drop the pen here

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by SageMK: 7:32pm On Aug 20, 2020
Lmao. This is hilarious.
Who's next on your list — their ancestors?

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by CAPSLOCKED: 7:47pm On Aug 20, 2020
Reucy:
Just because of
ordinary 75k someone has the effontery to demand such.

ORDINARY, YET JUST LIKE THOSE TWO GIRLS, YOU DON'T HAVE IT.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by ERCROSS(m): 7:50pm On Aug 20, 2020
Mad ooohhh. grin grin grin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Emmatee1816(m): 7:55pm On Aug 20, 2020
EmptyGarden:
Dem still dey pick the beans akara don dey smell...
which kind mumu(unrealistic) adage is this 1?smh

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by YorubaPrince: 8:24pm On Aug 20, 2020
The condition sef too dey light if you ask me. Tell dem make dem go find another pretty friend come join make you dey baptize dem with holy ghost fire and correct ponron! grin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Iamtoyosii: 9:05pm On Aug 20, 2020
O je aburo o tun ko fegbon grin

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by hollarunji08(m): 9:21pm On Aug 20, 2020
OP, I swear you're a fool, Donut think we are fool as u??, Anyway, pls next episode

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Privatepart00: 9:26pm On Aug 20, 2020
Take the money and give your mum or sister.

Sex is the only thing worrying you.

Someone’s brother reasoning like a dunce.

Tufiakwa .

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by EmptyGarden(m): 9:30pm On Aug 20, 2020
Emmatee1816:
which kind mumu(unrealistic) adage is this 1?smh

Look for cold sniper drink, no be me cause your problems for this life.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Andrew13: 9:39pm On Aug 20, 2020
You are a real nigger

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Emmatee1816(m): 9:43pm On Aug 20, 2020
EmptyGarden:


Look for cold sniper drink, no be me cause your problems for this life.
so sorry you met the wrong person.i don't do 'online troll'.....I just stated what I felt about Ur adage.No harm intended.however,I am sorry if you found it offensive.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by SeunDobo(m): 9:58pm On Aug 20, 2020
no go dey spend for any girl friends or fiancee na just your turn dey we still leave you for better offer only spend money on your woman when you are married ... you be mumu paddy mi ... the just dey used you as a maye

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ejenavi18(f): 10:02pm On Aug 20, 2020
Haba!
Op this your condition get as e be o.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by EmptyGarden(m): 10:07pm On Aug 20, 2020
Emmatee1816:
so sorry you met the wrong person.i don't do 'online troll'.....I just stated what I felt about Ur adage.No harm intended.however,I am sorry if you found it offensive.

Abobi calm down... Why so serious? All this English for 1 post. I'm too excited to be offended o.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ahumanbeing: 10:19pm On Aug 20, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be fvcking the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the pigs who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by stormborn28(m): 10:27pm On Aug 20, 2020
OP is pvssy now your biggest reward? One, you started the relationship on a stepping land. Here you are trying to plug yourself into a gorge. FYI you think you are wise with your condition whereas if those conditions are accepted, you will be crossing river Styx. Kindly retrace your steps and cut whatever contact you have with those ladies

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by VicM6: 10:31pm On Aug 20, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be fvcking the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
attention seekers.... werey

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