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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Aug 21, 2020
Never heard a story so dumb. You made them scrape all they had and put it into that apartment. Chai if I were a girl ehn I'd rather be asexual because 60% of the men of nowadays are hopeless and empty shells moved by libido.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by AustineJohn908(m): 10:53pm On Aug 21, 2020
Bro what you did isn't fair. that is an evil offer from you

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Jaqenhghar: 10:54pm On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
Its not harsh. Its very Okay.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by giftylyn(f): 10:54pm On Aug 21, 2020
Yeeeei! Jaw wide open shocked
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Obynolee(f): 10:56pm On Aug 21, 2020
Ahumanbeing:

Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.


Don't you think that this wouldn't degenerate into this if the girl did not shown him that all she cares about is his money (wanting to turn him into an ATM)?.
Don't you think that he might have a good intention of helping out?,are you not seeing anything wrong in girls looking at a man and seeing an ATM instead?.
Remember, he only gave a condition which can only be accepted by a LovePeddler.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by HappyCanadian: 10:56pm On Aug 21, 2020
Anyway, nobody is holy but things are happening in Nigeria.. I doubt if men can do without requesting s..exx from ladies no matter the way
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 10:57pm On Aug 21, 2020
victorian:







He pain am!

My boo is a confirmed real man, as in over correct guy!

He knows who he's dating. Google my real name and u will understand what I'm talking about. My class u can't have anywhere in the world!

You think it's all about sex? I pity u!

I don't date broke hungry guys.

U no reach!


You didn't still answer my questiongringrin


What have you offered in the relationship other than sexgringrin.

No wonder ur face is finer than ur Braingringrin
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by sircatherine45(m): 10:57pm On Aug 21, 2020
The babe is worthless, her sister is worthless OP, if them agree, dump their sorry a** If them no gree, give them the 50k and still dump their sorry a**
It's a win win for you
It's a lose lose to you if you f**k them

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Ladycewhy(f): 10:57pm On Aug 21, 2020
Lord come down and see the kind of men left on earth ,smh.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by victorian(f): 10:57pm On Aug 21, 2020
NkemChukwudi:


Thank you for the comments.

Still something must be wrong with your boo. Is he one of the politicians robbing our people and country to impress poverty stricken women? Or is he inadequate in some ways and thinks money is the only means to get you? Something is surely wrong somewhere.







He's not a politician. He works smart for his money and God always blesses him.

He sees me a rare diamond , my achievements as top notch! My pedigree? Pure blue blood, my beauty and looks glow like the moon and loves me to the moon and back.

He rarely ask for sex cos he's a very busy guy but always available for me.

Very extremely successful delta guy.

He's called money never runs dry. Aka Mr Capable! cheesy
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Mccullum: 10:58pm On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?

You're very heartless, if you want to discontinued with the relationship, stop bullying with your unreasonable conditions.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by sircatherine45(m): 10:59pm On Aug 21, 2020
victorian:








He's not a politician. He works smart for his money and God always blesses him.

He sees me a rare diamond , my achievements as top notch! My pedigree? Pure blue blood, my beauty and looks glow like the moon and loves me to the moon and back.

He rarely ask for sex cos he's a very busy guy but always available for me.

Very extremely successful delta guy.

He's called money never runs dry. Aka Mr Capable! cheesy




Reduce the urge to shalaye

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Mozenge1: 10:59pm On Aug 21, 2020
nifemi25:
This your condition na die

What about some people that bang there own sister ?

De will go blind for 15 years
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Mannylouis: 10:59pm On Aug 21, 2020
the op is either an ijebu man or from mbaise.
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by sircatherine45(m): 11:00pm On Aug 21, 2020
Randy91:


You didn't still answer my questiongringrin

What have you offered in the relationship other than sexgringrin.
No wonder ur face is finer than ur Braingringrin
She dey shift goalpost na Worthless bitc**s on a faceless forum
Feministic eediots!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by redsun(m): 11:00pm On Aug 21, 2020
grin grin grin

Since you are taking care of the two of them, you may be right in your demand. But whatever happens, help them to start off that business in a better location because that could help them to become a little more independent and less burden to you.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Rilwayne001: 11:01pm On Aug 21, 2020
OP is a deranged fellow. And the mumu mod that pushed this to FP is not okay too. SMH
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by victorian(f): 11:02pm On Aug 21, 2020
Randy91:



You didn't still answer my questiongringrin


What have you offered in the relationship other than sexgringrin.

No wonder ur face is finer than ur Braingringrin







Who are u, that I should explain myself to?

What have u achieved In this life?

How many properties do u have?

How many life's have u impacted positive influence on?

How far have u gone in your career?

If u can answer these questions wit admirably works to show for it, then I can welcome u into my prestigious class and answer your stupid questions .

WTF!
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by theophilusj31(m): 11:06pm On Aug 21, 2020
MrSensor:
Now he wants both of them and if they agree, the mother is next. grin cheesy
Asin ehnnnn,the guy na 7 star general for MUGUlity
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Shancca: 11:07pm On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?


Please don’t forget to post the sequel to this story. I take God beg you.

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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Seaman222(m): 11:08pm On Aug 21, 2020
Omg
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by olatunji390(m): 11:08pm On Aug 21, 2020
Baztardmods:

I am 99% sure they will agree.. even if they don't want to just because of their recent predicament

Believe me, they will. The elder sister will betray, after the elder sister agree with him, he will only pretend to have forgotten and forgive the younger one, and start smashing both sisters
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Lastmankc(m): 11:09pm On Aug 21, 2020
Ahumanbeing:

Dirty piece of shit, you can't get a girl to genuinely love you so you use money to buy sex, you promised them 50k and because of that promise they've made a payment of 30k and you're talking about sex?
Useless piece of shit, go n bleep your mum cuz obviously you can't control your dick.
I pity the men who'll come and support you or call you a "man", you're just a whôre and you are a simpleton, aside that you're indecisive and dumb.
haaaaa

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by ayamsuperstar: 11:10pm On Aug 21, 2020
Keep us posted about the outcome
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by bigtt76(f): 11:10pm On Aug 21, 2020
Entitled people... Let go, not worth it. Make den nor spike your food with sniper.




ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Lastmankc(m): 11:12pm On Aug 21, 2020
Chii59:

Honestly, I fear for the kind of young men in this generation.
You want two sisters for 50 thousand, just because one is your gf. Did anyone put a gun to your head to give money?
Don't start what you can't finish.
Hanty, stop this hasty generalization before I break your head

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Hedgedog: 11:12pm On Aug 21, 2020
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nerdfrost:
angry angry guy just leave the girl man....shes playing u,dont be a simp...dont do what u about to do man...its not good at all,let the girl go


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Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Aug 21, 2020
Thanks you have a gf

Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Aug 21, 2020
ExBanker:
Nairalanders, I want you to judge if the conditions I gave this girl is okay or it is too much

I met this girl around June this years. I really liked her. As I was asking her out, I was always taking care of her. Buying her stuffs, giving her allowances and supporting her. Then the relationship started last month officially when we smashed. I continued to take good care of her. But note that before we officially started dating, she showed half interest. She wasn't really into the relationship. When we started dating, she showed same attitude.

Her much elder sister is a hair dresser. Like 7 years older. She lives with the sister. The sister shop is in one hidden corner. They hardly get customers. So both of them are always broke. I have being supporting them. This month, their rent is expiring. They intend to move to a better location. The new shop is N75k per year. My girlfriend asked me for support. I said I will give them N50k by August end. Since they were expecting N50k from me, they gathered all the money they have home and abroad and paid advance of N30,000 for the new shop to secure it. Last week, my girl asked me for N7k for something. I told her I don't have. I am gathering money for the N50k. It is a lie sha. the money is already there.

She then asked me to borrow her. She will pay me back. So I gave her. By weekend, she was acting funny. I told her I am tired of the relationship. She should forget it. It turned to quarrel. Then she left. We quarreled on phone till Monday. I think they felt bad that I am leaving out of the deal to help them secure the shop. On Monday, the sister called to quarrel with me too. Imagine.

After everything, today, my girlfriend called to apologize. I told her that I have forgiven her. But, for our relationship to continue, there is one condition. She asked me what condition. I told her that despite the fact I have being supporting her and her sister, both of them still had the gut to talk to me anyhow. I will only continue the relationship if I will be having sex with the 2 of them. She was shocked. She wanted to start talking nonsense. I told her to shut up and relay my condition to her sister. Let the sister call me to tell me if she agrees.

Is my condition too harsh or it is okay?
No Ur mad......
Secondly she only wanted your help that y she returned
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Floreate: 11:16pm On Aug 21, 2020
The condition is harsh as well as immoral
Re: Please Help. Is The Condition I Gave My Girlfriend Too Harsh? by Coldfeets: 11:16pm On Aug 21, 2020
JOACHINpedro:
episode what is this

Na still Season 1 o!

Maybe na episode 1 wey just finish watching.

Make I just get ready for the next episode.

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