Wettoid123:


we are in the same boat if the brother of the wife is getting married the man can willingly give out something to the boy but not tax or must

Obviously the family didn't treat him well when he was marrying their daughter. We don't even know what part this same son played in the guy's marriage matter.

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

Firstly, your parents are shameless and unscrupulous for allocating a quota for THEIR SON-IN-LAW to contribute, towards your brothers wedding.
I would do the same thing this guy did.

Only u wan use ur hand spoil ur marriage ooo. Let that man be. Ur family has milked him now u still want him to contribute money marry for ur brother. If ur brother is not prepared for marriage let him wait

Hmmmmmm!

larryking540:


abi you should be asking how much the younger brother added to the Bride price list ,it seems most Nigeria are ignorant of how Igbo tradition plays ,....try make friends with Igbo people then you will not their tradition better ,the op Bride price even small ,a family friend of my payed roughly 700k including the Ghana must go of wrappers and tubers of yam ,last last the marriage no even get head, everybody don Waka e seperate way

My advice I blame you for challenging or quarreling with ur husband over ur brother's wedding. U are a woman and shud have gently rapport with ur hubby to assist in a way that he will give whatever he can render to assist ur brother. Ur parents on the other hand are not helping issues because in ur own time they refuse to reduce cost for ur man and u should understand that he was hurt but still I don't justify him hurting u for what ur pple did ok. I will advice u go to ur husband plead with to forgive and let go remind him how much he said he loves you and show him how much he is ur world, let him understand that you are with him forever, shower him with love cos he is ur super man now. Then I promise you he will calm down and assist ur brother with whatever he has ok..... Please avoid quarrel cos ur marriage is too young for this acting like strangers to each other..... Best of luck

Jeffrey12:
Nairalanders, What's your take on this?
What would have been your reaction towards this matter, If you were the husband?

https://twitter.com/SmartAtuadi/status/1272275117280759810?s=19

fineboynl:
any man that need compulsory contribution to get married he is simply not yet ready to get married.

don't force it, when it's time to get married everything will be so easy. no stress or running around.

it's only burial that people can be obligated to render help

Not true , it's the families that are at fault. Once there's understanding between the man and his intended wife and they can afford a quiet wedding devoid of fanfare then they are good to go , all these traditional ceremonies that require an arm and a leg should be abolished.

LadySarah:


It's not bride price. it's the family's demand.
When we went for my coursemates trad, the father demanded 300k after the BP was paid. He had to pay itoo after over 4 hrs that guests have been waiting. We didn't even eat cos the family chopped the money meant for catering and presented one stupid looking colored half cooked rice without meat. Shame catch her that day
The guy was very livid! Someone that paid her school fees from yr 2 to yr 5 yet no mercy from the father.


Poverty and greed is the cause.

Big stupid daft Afonja lies

PrecisionFx:



Big stupid daft Afonja lies

O Dika ibu onye ara? Onye bu Afonja? I Kam buru Igbo?Eziokwu o na afu gi ufu n'nti?

Onye ara!

I think you are an ingrate for expecting your hubby contribute such amount. You are lucky, come to my tribe with such amount as bride price....You will remain single till God knows when...120 ko 7m ni. For this kind time

ImaIma1:


Obviously the family didn't treat him well when he was marrying their daughter. We don't even know what part this same son played in the guy's marriage matter.

true talk cos one good turn deserve another.

Is ur brother's wedding his wedding?

Mosminic:

The lady obviously has a mental issue or she's still a child. Who would sit down, replay the thought and still think the husband is at fault. The man is in grave danger really

she feels because the husband doesn't send money to her parents (the way he sends to his own parents), that it's the right of the husband....if you check vewi well, dis kyna women have nothing to bring to the table rather than sex

Better go and apologize to ur husband. So he was not responsible and he got married to you?
You are not even ashamed of urself, you are supporting your father so ur husband will spend the money he is struggling to make a better future for himself and his family. Odikwa egwu

LadySarah:


O Dika ibu onye ara? Onye bu Afonja? I Kam buru Igbo?Eziokwu o na afu gi ufu n'nti?

Onye ara!

Eze ndi apari mechipu onu dere, onye isi ndi Afonja. Remove ur mouth from igbo matters n stop talking nonsense. U know nothing about my culture, speak not from ogbomosho again.

There is no single community in igbo land where the father of the bride commands a prospective son in law to pay 300k, it's a hopeless lie from the pit of hell. Shut up....He had to pay it after 4 hours , as in he was not even told before that day...keep mute n stop spreading nonsense n hopeless lies

Mstick:
What kind of shameless family is this? Since your brother doesn't have money to sponsor his own wedding isn't it obvious that he shouldn't be getting married?!

Calling your husband irresponsible because he refused to bear your brother's responsibility shows that the entitled mentality of your family is hereditary.

You got her so bad ....she can hear your warning shots.
The family collects all cash from the guy,when he is getting married to their daughter,Oya now ...

Make her own brother clear his own bill too. Wetting connect Alqaida with Mammy water

The father and all other family members need to receive sense.

EmekaBlue:
70k and he don marry.

See me over 100k and i no fit save.

Aye mi o. I need counseling

. Oh brother Emeka I pity you and sorry for your life

yassjib:
. Oh brother Emeka I pity you and sorry for your life

Help me naw...is not to late

biko advise me

Dyt:

more seriously, I can't tell you this if I see you in real life. Even your physic is Wow! You're really beautiful

Blyzz:
more seriously, I can't tell you this if I see you in real life. Even your physic is Wow! You're really beautiful

Appreciate

Dyt:


Appreciate

I'm a shy guy u know ! Have a great time always. Thumbs up.....

Dyt:


Appreciate

Hi, I'm plus today , finally in my late 20s..... God is wonder!

Blyzz:
Hi, I'm plus today , finally in my late 20s..... God is wonder!

We are birthday mates?


Happy birthday to us

Dyt:


We are birthday mates?


Happy birthday to us

Wow, unbelievable. I just saw it now, I've been offline since morning. Happy Birthday To You! wishing you love, peace, wisdom and above all new wealth!!




I know she'd be catching fun and celebrating already

Dyt:


We are birthday mates?


Happy birthday to us

How's your day going? Are you a Muslim?

Blyzz:
Wow, unbelievable. I just saw it now, I've been offline since morning. Happy Birthday To You! wishing you love, peace, wisdom and above all new wealth!!




I know she'd be catching fun and celebrating already

Thank you, I hope you had a good day too

I had meetings upon meetings, I had planned to go out but I am here in my bed almost dozing off

Dyt:


Thank you, I hope you had a good day too

I had meetings upon meetings, I had planned to go out but I am here in my bed almost dozing off

Oh, so sorry abt that.
Yes, I had a good day working myself out in my compound. You know I'm planning to relocate from a rented apartment to my unfinished building, so I've been in my compound doing clean up since morning. I got home not too long before my last quote. Although I got calls and birthday wishes, I'm happy to be plus one today. But I'm getting older

I believe you had your dinner already? If yes, then get some rest since you're tired of the day's work.

Dyt:


Thank you, I hope you had a good day too

I had meetings upon meetings, I had planned to go out but I am here in my bed almost dozing off

I'm sure you're already asleep, good night and sweet dreams

Dyt:


Thank you, I hope you had a good day too

I had meetings upon meetings, I had planned to go out but I am here in my bed almost dozing off

Hello Mrs Dyt, good day. I've relocated to my house.. I thank God for everything, I'm praying for open doors so I can complete the rest of the house... Reach me in Prayer!

Blyzz:
Hello Mrs Dyt, good day. I've relocated to my house.. I thank God for everything, I'm praying for open doors so I can complete the rest of the house... Reach me in Prayer!

Congrats
May God give you the grace to finish it up