Hello Good afternoon fellas!

There's this Young girl of 22 I met on the road and I was attracted to her cos she was so irresistibly gorgeous in her moderate way of dressing and her voluptuous figure.

So we exchanged numbers, communicated on WhatsApp and calls, few weeks later we met at an eatery, like I've been told that first impression matters, so i dressed well and got some perf with a nice fragrance sprayed on my body then I got some malts for us to drink, when I ordered for Ishi-Ewu and the waitress informed me the price was 3k, she rebuffed and told me I shouldn't buy it cos twas so costly, so we took just malt and departed.

Now ever since we met, she has been bombarding me with Calls and tons of messages, even in her office during working hours She'll still be calling like thrice in the morning and I now observed she's going crazy.

Now about Social media, I lied to her that I wasn't on Facebook while I've been anonymously spying on her and then I came to realize that she has a boyfriend who stays in the same state but a far away Local Government.

Now the girl is asking me if I have a girlfriend of which I denied and she is now littering my pics all over her WhatsApp status as she begged me to take a selfie with her of which I reluctantly obliged.

So the crux of the matter is that I asked her if she is dating and she denied it and told me she's single, I kept on pestering her to tell me the truth and she said she's dating but she is no more interested in the guy again, meanwhile the guy in question still loves her.

So is this a green light for me to ask her out?
I'm 27.

Never trust a dick hopper that lands on your dick ...

Thank me later

Just let me know when you come back to make a new post complaining so I can comment

As for now.... I'm speechless

she is 22? be careful man, Girls at this age explore a lot. Even our own Nairaland mr Explorers is a rookie in comparison

@rudynerdy
Did you ask her for the definition of a boyfriend?
Meanwhile when a girl deny they don’t have a boyfriend it means they are ready to vibe with you. Either as FWB or make you become an investor in their life, Or rarely they want a new chassis. Don’t trust people who wanna eat their cake and have it. If she likes you genuinely she would tell you what’s up.
The choice is yours on which you choose.
Moreso, OP, Do you also have a girlfriend you are hiding also??

Ehya sorry

ask her out but love with your head rather than with your heart, the probability of her cheating on you with another guy is high especially with her other boyfriend. Unfortunately most Nigerian girls double date so just go ahead with her.

Since she's not married,then she didn't lie when she told you she was single,shes a wise lady

Be careful before I call you a simp

take heart.

Zzor:
Since she's not married,then she didn't lie when she told you she was single,shes a wise lady

Hoes

Dawgg:
Hoes

rubbish,was she supposed to say she's married?thats so much for an ordinary yeye boyfriend

Zzor:
rubbish,was she supposed to say she's married?thats so much for an ordinary yeye boyfriend

Another psycho ISIS feminist spotted

All gyals are single till a ring is up on em fingers
Just use your 9 steadily hastily and quickly then move on. No one is loyal anymore not even the you the guy

RudyNerdy:

Now the girl is asking me if I have a girlfriend of which I denied

op did you not lie to her too?? why are you now vexing

stanliwise:
@rudynerdy
Did you ask her for the definition of a boyfriend?
Meanwhile when a girl deny they don’t have a boyfriend it means they are ready to vibe with you. Either as FWB or make you become an investor in their life, Or rarely they want a new chassis. Don’t trust people who stick with in middle.
Moreso, OP, Do you also have a girlfriend you are hiding also??
The choice is yours on which you choose

I don't have any gf.
To respond to the bolded quote above I Think you're actually right because when she was sick she needed money for drugs and some few provisions and though she didn't ask me directly but the way she relayed the whole issue to me I knew she needed it so I got her drugs and some food provisions worth 4k.
I think maybe if she tells me she has a boyfriend then perhaps I'd lose interest and no more care for her again or maybe she is also interested in the future prospects maybe She'll like to be engaged/married to a lawyer.
And as for the FWB you're also right cos she really wants to know where I stay and pay a visit.
So what's your counsel? run away from dating her right?

aluyapreston:
she is 22? be careful man, Girls at this age explore a lot. Even our own Nairaland mr Explorers is a rookie in comparison

you're right, just that she's already done with school at that age and the dude she is dating is also well established but dunno why she denied him because of a student like me

durubennie:
Ehya sorry

lol why

Ask wetin out? Oga fvck her brains out and pass her to the next guy.

Drabeey:
Be careful before I call you a simp

I'm redpilled.
Ubunja dey learn work wey me I dey

Dawgg:
Another psycho ISIS feminist spotted

ISIS?
lol guy you wicked die

JasperVII:
Ask wetin out? Oga fvck her brains out and pass her to the next guy.

best advice ever.
If he asks that girl out it will end in tears and a premium one

RudyNerdy:
I don't have any gf.
To respond to the bolded quote above I Think you're actually right because when she was sick she needed money for drugs and some few provisions and though she didn't ask me directly but the way she relayed the whole issue to me I knew she needed it so I got her drugs and some food provisions worth 4k.
I think maybe if she tells me she has a boyfriend then perhaps I'd lose interest and no more care for her again or maybe she is also interested in the future prospects maybe She'll like to be engaged/married to a lawyer.
And as for the FWB you're also right cos she really wants to know where I stay and pay a visit.
So what's your counsel? run away from dating her right?

what do you want?

spamb0t:
best advice ever.
If he asks that girl out it will end in tears and a premium one

The OP sef. He knows she lied about not having a boyfriend and yet he's planning to ask her out. Tomorrow his next thread will be "a girl I loved for so long broke my heart, what should I do"

As slawormir always say "real niggars don't lament over a bitch that has been f*kd before just swim your own and leave it for the next niggar to swim too ....

Which state is that...


Let me know if it is my babe

Nowadays, relationship is like politics, girls are like politicians. My guy use your head

RudyNerdy:
Hello Good afternoon fellas!
There's this Young girl of 22 I met on the road and I was attracted to her cos she was so irresistibly gorgeous in her moderate way of dressing and her voluptuous figure.
So we exchanged numbers, communicated on WhatsApp and calls, few weeks later we met at an eatery, like I've been told that first impression matters, so i dressed well and got some perf with a nice fragrance sprayed on my body then I got some malts for us to drink, when I ordered for Ishi-Ewu and the waitress informed me the price was 3k, she rebuffed and told me I shouldn't buy it cos twas so costly, so we took just malt and departed.
Now ever since we met, she has been bombarding me with Calls and tons of messages, even in her office during working hours She'll still be calling like thrice in the morning and I now observed she's going crazy.
Now about Social media, I lied to her that I wasn't on Facebook while I've been anonymously spying on her and then I came to realize that she has a boyfriend who stays in the same state but a far away Local Government.
Now the girl is asking me if I have a girlfriend of which I denied and she is now littering my pics all over her WhatsApp status as she begged me to take a selfie with her of which I reluctantly obliged.
So the crux of the matter is that I asked her if she is dating and she denied it and told me she's single, I kept on pestering her to tell me the truth and she said she's dating but she is no more interested in the guy again, meanwhile the guy in question still loves her.
So is this a green light for me to ask her out?
I'm 27.
cc lefulefu Martinez39s

My brother, be careful. Lots of guys have been there before you. What you see is not always what you get.

so the boyfriend in the far away local govt didnt question her when she started littering ur pics on her whatsap dp?

lefulefu:
so the boyfriend in the far away local govt didnt question her when she started littering ur pics on her whatsap dp?

maybe it was littered in the whatsapp status and if you go to settings you can block someone from viewing your status and even profile picture...girls do it alot, when they post their side guy they will just block their boyfriend from viewing it, you'll just see empty profile pic

Brother please run ooo, cause when you fully fall in love you will regret it ooo, I just ended that kind of relationship some hours ago so I'm talking from experience, this one has 2 boyfriends I no about the one before me but the one that disvirgin her she still dey go collect private prick ooo when he calls.
So bro except you want to eat and clean mouth

czarr:
maybe it was littered in the whatsapp status and if you go to settings you can block someone from viewing your status and even profile picture...girls do it alot, when they post their side guy they will just block their boyfriend from viewing it, you'll just see empty profile pic

some guys don suffer sha
but any reasonable guy who is dating a girl and he tries to check her status wen something pops up and he's unable to cehck it cos of something the girl placed to block him from viewing he will naturally get curious and ask his girlfriend what is her action for her doing such.Except maybe the guy is just doing an open relationship with her sha.i dont think its a wise idea for op to involve with a girl like this.A lady who is deceitful doesnt make a good partner.except maybe he wants to chop and clean mouth