I am an introvert, but i decided to change my mindset this year, I started asking girls out, I've talked to four different girls of my intention...
Sadly, they turned me down, they said they have a boyfriend.... I'm not happy about it.

Congratulations!

Very funny.. Why not lie down in tears and beg them to date you?

tunjilee003:
I am an introvert, but i decided to change my mindset this year, I started asking girls out, I've talked to four different girls of my intention...
Sadly, they turned me down, they said they have a boyfriend.... I'm not happy about it.

Go read your books small boy

Zzor:
Go read your books small boy

don't add salt to my injury.

Palema007:
Congratulations!

on what?

Correct! Na small boy e be! If you approach any lady and tells you she doesn't have anybody, that means something is wrong with the lady. They told you they have boyfriend and you turn your back and go house? You need to be taught! Maybe you're still under 18 self.

Zzor:
Go read your books small boy

thankmyGod:
Correct! Na small boy e be! If you approach any lady and tells you she doesn't have anybody, that means something is wrong with the lady. They told you they have boyfriend and you turn your back and go house? You need to be taught! Maybe you're still under 18 self.

A lady who does not have a boyfriend has something wrong with her? As in na abomination to be single without any drama? Nawaoooo

the woman imprinted in your soul is not what is out there. in my opinion money serve's you better and your soul loves you best.

That's is it! 99.98% of them are all engaged in one way or the other. The guy is still having a very feeble �. With time, he would summon courage. Sweetcunt97, I'll DM you. Thanks

SweetCunt97:
A lady who does not have a boyfriend has something wrong with her? As in na abomination to be single without any drama? Nawaoooo

thankmyGod:
Correct! Na small boy e be! If you approach any lady and tells you she doesn't have anybody, that means something is wrong with the lady. They told you they have boyfriend and you turn your back and go house? You need to be taught! Maybe you're still under 18 self.

See reasoning! Typical Nigerian mentality, life is all about prick and pussy! So aside the fallacy that any lady who is single and declares it has something wrong with her you also do not know what Self-respect is. Pity!

If a lady says she's taken what should he have done rather than walk away? He should have followed her home right or better still go to her parents house to fetch water and pound yam for them. You all really need Orientation on this section!

thankmyGod:
That's is it! 99.98% of them are all engaged in one way or the other. The guy is still having a very feeble �. With time, he would summon courage. Sweetcunt97, I'll DM you. Thanks

Sweetcunt does not accept dm. Thanks

Wa gbayi. Thanks

SweetCunt97:
Sweetcunt does not accept dm. Thanks

Welcome to the realities of being a young man. It's filled with rejection, friend-zoning, hunting and romantic isolation

But the question is, what will you do about it? If you're still below 25 years, then don't be too harsh on yourself, as girls your age are at the peak of their sexual attractiveness and men ranging from the age of Ned Nwoko downwards to your age are chasing after them, and you simply no reach in the vastness of romantic options scattered around her.

Chances are, you're broke at that age, still lack the confidence and sophistication that comes with being a man, and in any relationship with girls your age, you're only bringing your presence and deek to the table, unlike men older than you that brings more. This is the primary reason why girls since forever go for older men. "Showing up" is women contribution to relationships, not men. So calm down, become a man by having something good going for you, and with time, you also will cast your net on young girls and guys their age will be frustrated as well, wailing and moaning, and gnashing their teeth.

Also, as you grow, girls your age will beginning giving you chance, because they wanna settle down, tired of fun, and old men are financial, not marriage material and not that attractive. Then it's left for you to start enjoying Yourself as your romantic options opens up a bit by bit, and it does last longer. Na turn by turn. No vex, pele

tunjilee003:
on what?

You won't understand the beauty in singlehood until you get hitched.

Anyway if that's what you really want, just calm down, build yourself, and approach women the right way.Sometimes you don't need the direct approach (wooing a lady) to get positive feedback.

Just talks or real talks?

pansophist:
Welcome to the realities of being a young man. It's filled with rejection, friend-zoning, hunting and romantic isolation

But the question is, what will you do about it? If you're still below 25 years, then don't be too harsh on yourself, as girls your age are at the peak of their sexual attractiveness and men ranging from the age of Ned Nwoko downwards to your age are chasing after them, and you simply no reach in the vastness of romantic options scattered around her.

Chances are, you're broke at that age, still lack the confidence and sophistication that comes with being a man, and in any relationship with girls your age, you're only bringing your presence and deek to the table, unlike men older than you that brings more. This is the primary reason why girls since forever go for older men. "Showing up" is women contribution, not men. So calm down, become a man by having something good going for you, and with time, you also will cast your net on young girls and guys their age will be frustrated as well, wailing and moaning, and gnashing their teeth.

Also, as you grow, girls your age will beginning giving you chance, because they wanna settle down, tired of fun, and old men are financial, not marriage material and not that attractive. Then it's left for you to start enjoying Yourself as your romantic options opens up a bit by bit, and it does last longer. Na turn by turn. No vex, pele

and when you get to this stage do not forget to avenge your younger self you are honor bound to do so

frank800:



and when you get to this stage do not forget to avenge your younger self you are honour bound to do so

Haha, I know that feeling. All those sexual tension accumulated throughout the years, na one innocent girl body he go unleash am on. And the circle continues.

pansophist:
Welcome to the realities of being a young man. It's filled with rejection, friend-zoning, hunting and romantic isolation

But the question is, what will you do about it? If you're still below 25 years, then don't be too harsh on yourself, as girls your age are at the peak of their sexual attractiveness and men ranging from the age of Ned Nwoko downwards to your age are chasing after them, and you simply no reach in the vastness of romantic options scattered around her.

Chances are, you're broke at that age, still lack the confidence and sophistication that comes with being a man, and in any relationship with girls your age, you're only bringing your presence and deek to the table, unlike men older than you that brings more. This is the primary reason why girls since forever go for older men. "Showing up" is women contribution to relationships, not men. So calm down, become a man by having something good going for you, and with time, you also will cast your net on young girls and guys their age will be frustrated as well, wailing and moaning, and gnashing their teeth.

Also, as you grow, girls your age will beginning giving you chance, because they wanna settle down, tired of fun, and old men are financial, not marriage material and not that attractive. Then it's left for you to start enjoying Yourself as your romantic options opens up a bit by bit, and it does last longer. Na turn by turn. No vex, pele

Good one bro....you said everything all


But why say Pele??

Ablemax:



Good one bro....you said everything all


But why say Pele??

I said "pele" because the thing de pain na? I know that place really well. Every man should experience it, unless he has a model look and girls flocks to him. Even a model man sef do not enjoy the abundance women enjoy. Compare the attention male celebrities get, that's what women enjoy on average.

So women generally do not understand the romantic lack men do experience from young age, unless they are like 40's above, they can understand, past their peak. So yeah.

Sorry about that, find another introvert like you maybe you could work out some things together.

you still new in thd game, if you keep asking, all girls have a boyfriend and u dnt expect them to tell you that they are single especially wen dey dnt fancy u..

No need to rush, just relax and everything will just fall in place. I don't know the stage you re in, but if u re still in your early 20s, then no need rushing to have a girlfriend, a time will come when u will be the one choosing the one u will like to date, na them go they rush you, For the main time just focus on improving yourself and enjoy your singlehood to the fullest

Its not the end of the world. There are many fishes in the river. Just work on yourself.

pansophist:
Welcome to the realities of being a young man. It's filled with rejection, friend-zoning, hunting and romantic isolation

But the question is, what will you do about it? If you're still below 25 years, then don't be too harsh on yourself, as girls your age are at the peak of their sexual attractiveness and men ranging from the age of Ned Nwoko downwards to your age are chasing after them, and you simply no reach in the vastness of romantic options scattered around her.

Chances are, you're broke at that age, still lack the confidence and sophistication that comes with being a man, and in any relationship with girls your age, you're only bringing your presence and deek to the table, unlike men older than you that brings more. This is the primary reason why girls since forever go for older men. "Showing up" is women contribution to relationships, not men. So calm down, become a man by having something good going for you, and with time, you also will cast your net on young girls and guys their age will be frustrated as well, wailing and moaning, and gnashing their teeth.

Also, as you grow, girls your age will beginning giving you chance, because they wanna settle down, tired of fun, and old men are financial, not marriage material and not that attractive. Then it's left for you to start enjoying Yourself as your romantic options opens up a bit by bit, and it does last longer. Na turn by turn. No vex, pele

lol if fit no even reach your turn if u don't improve yourself in totality.

maybe its the way u dress or ur behaviour
there are some guys who act like weirdos when they approach girls and such weird behaviour could scare the crap out of the girl
just act natural,smile and be friendly
dont act like a perverted creep that she might mistake u for a ritualist or rapist
act right and yu will get a girl

Uwa bu nke na akpaa onye...oyobachukwu.

lilmonarch:
Very funny.. Why not lie down in tears and beg them to date you?

like that bricklayer in owerri that spent all his bricklayer money to train a girl in school?

lefulefu:
maybe its the way u dress or ur behaviour
there are some guys who act like weirdos when they approach girls and such weird behaviour could scare the crap out of the girl
just act natural,smile and be friendly
dont act like a perverted creep that she might mistake u for a ritualist or rapist
act right and yu will get a girl

I acted nice but I still get rejected. .

thankmyGod:
That's is it! 99.98% of them are all engaged in one way or the other. The guy is still having a very feeble �. With time, he would summon courage. Sweetcunt97, I'll DM you. Thanks

That's not her picture in the profile, in case you don't know.

Jimbadly:


That's not her picture in the profile, in case you don't know.

I'm sure he knows.