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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by dalass(f): 3:01pm On Sep 05, 2020
roybanjo100:
Can a monkey live on a banana tree without eating it?

Abi oh. Can you keep a goat and yam without the goat doing justice to the yam?

There you are grin cheesy grin

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Sarita01(f): 3:01pm On Sep 05, 2020
Yes,most besties have sexual relationships.it might not be sex but at some point they might have romanced each other.its hard for two people of opposite sex to just be friends without having some form of romantic relationship,almost impossible(especially in Nigeria)besties are assistant boyfriends.

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Goalnaldo(m): 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2020
Almost a similar question was asked on trend fm yesterday but without the sex part. I'm a very jealous person, I won't allow my girl to keep a male bestie and I won't keep one either.
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Krexpah(m): 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2020
Yes very possible I have one female bestie for over 7 years now even my friends think we do have sex but that’s not true we are very close as very close

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by frugal(m): 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2020
illicit:
Yes if the guy is impotent

wink

Or confirmed gay cheesy
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by emmanuelpopson(m): 3:02pm On Sep 05, 2020
I'll answer in this 9ice lyrics..

Ere ki laja n bekun se....
meaning..


what kinda play is the lion having with a dog...
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by abdullahi45: 3:03pm On Sep 05, 2020
Ningen:
If I'm not my girlfriend's bestie, I'm wasting my time. Yes, I'm so possessive. It's me or not me.

Absolutely!! Which one is nonsense bestie..

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by sidvinci(m): 3:03pm On Sep 05, 2020
Yes....actually mine is married. Set your boundaries and maintain that self respect. At a point the husband thought something was fishing. All her family member knows me. Yes you can be bestie without having sex

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Segzy19: 3:03pm On Sep 05, 2020
Yes
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by skywalker240(m): 3:04pm On Sep 05, 2020
illicit:
Yes if the guy is impotent
wink
even when the guy is impotent, his tongue and fingers are not.

for peace to reing, no male bestie o.
it is even better your girlfreind keeps a lesbian bestie than a male bestie
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Nerro042: 3:04pm On Sep 05, 2020
I know people will come here and say i have a male or female bestie and bla bla bla. But the plain truth is that it's not worth the trouble. It brings up problems to your male/female bestie's relationship. Can anyone here sincerely tell me that they will be cool with their partner having a really close friendship with the opposite sex. If there is, then y'all simply deceiving yourselves.

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 3:05pm On Sep 05, 2020
humilitypays:
leave that young man alone, that's his own strategy, face your own, every malam must carry his own kettle grin

Strategy to fuq pussy? shocked

Thats a weak one,if ya ask me.


Lemme ask you this...if you travel out and that guy is your best friend,can you TRUST him to watch over your family for one year?

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by abdullahi45: 3:06pm On Sep 05, 2020
Deborah98:
Keeping a sugar cube thinking it won't attract ant, that's what your statements imply,it is very wrong for me to have a male bestie when I already have a boyfriend,if he isn't my bestie,I wonder what he is then.

You are absolutely correct.

All I see is people trying to have affairs in a coded and less suspicious way.... That phrase irritates me "he is just a bestie" and your husband is what? just a father of your children right.. To me it is a no no, for either of the gender, my wife should be my wife and my bestie...

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by kastgeraldino: 3:07pm On Sep 05, 2020
But hope you are aware that those your male besties do want to sleep with you. Unless you want to act naive. If you doubt it, try to give them ass and see if they won't collect

Ejenavi18:
It's possible op.
Just like someone said up there, it depends on what the friendship is built on.
I have male friends whom I'm very close to, more like besties but we have boundaries.

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Ibkay32(m): 3:07pm On Sep 05, 2020
Leezah:
A real man must be able to control his mouth. Don't ever expose what you had with a lady in secret, sleeping with you doesn't mean she is cheap. Every woman is expensive and has a secret admirer that wants to settle with her at all cost.

Treat a lady right.
✍️��

what you saying here isn't correspond with the topic...can a girl have male bestie without having sex ??

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by SAMBARRY: 3:08pm On Sep 05, 2020
haiti007:
The ladies should get such secretive partner in their boyfriends or brothers. Male besties most times lead to FWB
can a yam and goat be friends?

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Sep 05, 2020
With the extreme dullards youths gringrin we see nowadays, that is impossible simple.
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Ibkay32(m): 3:10pm On Sep 05, 2020
chocboi78:
My bestie has a boyfriend buh av made moves to bang her multiple times.. She just haven't given in..Yet

keep on making attempt bro...you will surely win
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Deborah98(f): 3:10pm On Sep 05, 2020
Thanks sir and remain blessed,if you can't keep up with the bestie stuff and leave sex out of it then there's mix up somewhere, like I said my husband or boyfriend should be my bestie,I wonder what he is then if I don't see him as such.
abdullahi45:


You are absolutely correct.

All I see is people trying to have affairs in a coded and less suspicious way.... That phrase irritates me "he is just a bestie" and your husband is what? just a father of your children right.. To me it is a no no, for either of the gender, my wife should be my wife and my bestie...

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Xavie(m): 3:11pm On Sep 05, 2020
GeneralKoko:


I don't know about others but my bestie has sucked my diccc more than 18 times
grin grin grin right now if woman wants me to be her beastie, I'll gladly agree

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by chocboi78(m): 3:12pm On Sep 05, 2020
luminouz:
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People like you are dangerous to have around. Why making multiple mumu moves to sleep with her? Get your own gf and if you have feelings for your bestie, tell her or stay away. Hiding under friendship to lay wait for her vulnerable moments ain't cool. It reeks of desperation.

lol..ure funnny..
do u know the basis of our friendship??
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Nerro042: 3:12pm On Sep 05, 2020
sidvinci:
Yes....actually mine is married. Set your boundaries and maintain that self respect. At a point the husband thought something was fishing. All her family member knows me. Yes you can be bestie without having sex


Well i wish your future wife her own bestie. Amen

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Sep 05, 2020
obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

It all depends . I have known a lady for about 11 years. I'm her best friend and she relates with me as if am her fellow lady(I don't like It sha ...quite embarrassing ). She sometimes help me out with my chores even at late night hour. She tells me everything about her life & relationship. It's quite deep and embarrassing(the way she relates with me). On relationship level(assumption of being together ) we don't agree at all..cat and dog. If you asked her, who's your best female friend, she will point her hand to me(very nonsense girl grin).

People think and react to things differently. I have friends that can't keep ladies as bestie, they must go in. It just can't work. Such friend won't also allow their girlfriends to have men as bestie.
Different strokes for different folks which highly depend on individual behaviour
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by sammyranking(m): 3:13pm On Sep 05, 2020
Very possible my dear I’ve had a female bestie over 5yrs despite our closeness and everything we never did have sex. But bad eggs have populated the world
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by louiziana(m): 3:13pm On Sep 05, 2020
Alexaonfleek:
Me personally can't have MALE bestie when I have bf ooo.
Hell I can't even have a male bestie sef

I trust my self control but I don't trust these penis people and their testosterone cheesy


You get sense, are you from Agbor?
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by stanliwise(m): 3:13pm On Sep 05, 2020
obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?
Rare
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Marketiner(f): 3:14pm On Sep 05, 2020
Lol
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Sarita01(f): 3:14pm On Sep 05, 2020
BiggyB242:
Women like male friends because they get favours from them. Male friends wants to remain bestie hoping to smash in the nearest future.
Thank you,that's so true.women are friends with guys mainly for the financial benefits they'll gain,besties are really just assistant boyfriends,they literally do everything a boyfriend does(go outings,free food,cuddle,talk partner,pay some bills,give gifts),any woman who says she can't be friends with girls only says that cos she knows she won't benefit from the girl,been not secretive is not the reason why women prefer males friends cos men too love gossip and everything u tell them might have been discussed amongst his male friends.

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by luminouz(m): 3:14pm On Sep 05, 2020
chocboi78:
lol..ure funnny..
do u know the basis of our friendship??

Basis?

I'm being logical here...unless you both agreed to be FWB,I see no reason for the 'trying repeatedly to fuq her but she never gree yet' part!!
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Cockyguy11: 3:15pm On Sep 05, 2020
obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

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Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by Lighthammer(m): 3:16pm On Sep 05, 2020
It's nearly impossible...
i have upto 3 female bestie and if not for my self control,would have bang em all
Re: Can A Girl Have A Bestie Without Them Having Sex? by socialmediaman: 3:18pm On Sep 05, 2020
obembet:

I want you to know that there are people that have strands and the know that not every water is drinkable, some waters a gutter water some are rain and are tap water, the key to it all is self control

That’s why they say the good ones are not yet born. They haven’t been born yet so no go area. grin grin grin

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