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obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Obierika:
It's just like asking a goat to watch over a piece of yam for you

UyaiIncomparabl:
Idiot. Your wife needs to see this.

haiti007:
Never!! I can't
There is 80% chance that something might might happen

Alexaonfleek:
E hu n mma
I hope you enjoy it

roybanjo100:
Can a monkey live on a banana tree without eating it?

cray91:
To Whom it may concern! There's no such thing as bestie or getting advice from opposite sex it's all scam!

A shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on!

Go argue with your dick or pussy

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Liposure:
sometimes, the yam can eat the goat

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

aloyin:
well, it is possible. I am married with beautiful wife and children and i av a female bestie that we are very close to the extend that people that don't knw my wife thought she is my wife. We are very close to the extend that we dnt keep any secret for each other and i av NEVER see her pant. And we've been friends since 2016. So it is possible!

haiti007:
Never!! I can't
There is 80% chance that something might might happen

nuelsam:
lol..... asking this typa question is just like asking a primary school pupil of he wants to eat biscuit..... women are emotionally fragile.....they get carried away with words easily...their vulnerability is on a high! u wanna hear the truth? I bleeped 3girls who claimed that I was their bestie....

haiti007:
The ladies should get such secretive partner in their boyfriends or brothers. Male besties most times lead to FWB

Deborah98:
Keeping a sugar cube thinking it won't attract ant, that's what your statements imply,it is very wrong for me to have a male bestie when I already have a boyfriend,if he isn't my bestie,I wonder what he is then.

bdchange:
I will use my case as an example. I have a very female close friend. We met during my last year in secondary school which is over 10 years now. We became very close that we spend time at each other's house. Our family knows each other, she lives third street from mine. Sometimes she stays late in my place and I also do the same. She later had a bf. She was having issues with the bf because of me but I never cared since we were just friends. We did a lot together and talked about many things. Later I started having feelings for her in which she knows. I later controlled myself because I decided to value the friendship than starting a relationship which may have grumbled later on. We went to university differently and still communicate. Right now we are both matured and still close. She later told me of recent what transpired between she and her guy because of me. She really loved the guy but he doesn't want to believe that she was just a friend with me. According to her, he always complained that why is she in my place all the times. Whenever he visit or calls, it is either she is with me or I am with her. I couldn't understand the guy's perspective by then but now I know better. I sat her down and explain some certain things to her in which we both got wrong. I told her now I would have acted otherwise and she was also insensitive towards the guy's emotions. I told her no friend should be closer to you than your bf or someone you claim to love. You must be able to balance your friendship with your relationship. She was in my place this year and spend two days in my house. I only allowed that because she was not in any relationship as of then. I told her I won't allow it if she is in a relationship for reasons I explained to her. We are still close till now and have never had sex or any romance for over 10 years now. So, yes you can but it must not be with everyone.

obembet:
I want you to know that there are people that have strands and the know that not every water is drinkable, some waters a gutter water some are rain and are tap water, the key to it all is self control

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obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Ningen:
If I'm not my girlfriend's bestie, I'm wasting my time. Yes, I'm so possessive. It's me or not me.

Sarita01:
Thank you,that's so true.women are friends with guys mainly for the financial benefits they'll gain,besties are really just assistant boyfriends,they literally do everything a boyfriend does(go outings,free food,cuddle,talk partner,pay some bills,give gifts),any woman who says she can't be friends with girls only says that cos she knows she won't benefit from the girl,been not secretive is not the reason why women prefer males friends cos men too love gossip and everything u tell them might have been discussed amongst his male friends.

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Alexaonfleek:
Me personally can't have MALE bestie when I have bf ooo.
Hell I can't even have a male bestie sef

I trust my self control but I don't trust these penis people and their testosterone

BiggyB242:
Women like male friends because of the benefits and the attention they get while the guy wants to remain as a bestie hoping to smash in the nearest future.

Daguccizgreat:
Funny you. There are still a few men with principles who have self control.