illicit:
Yes if the guy is impotent

Someone should help me out. I have some former female colleagues that we call each other regularly or occasionally. I do attend their family parties every other now and they attend mine. They share intimate details with me every other now like when they experience domestic abuse and I give them advice over the phone. Is that an example of a bestie?



Let me learn.

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

However .. you can't trust a goat and yam put together

Respect!! you sound like a motivational speaker lol.
Would like to know ya better

Leezah:
A real man must be able to control his mouth. Don't ever expose what you had with a lady in secret, sleeping with you doesn't mean she is cheap. Every woman is expensive and has a secret admirer that wants to settle with her at all cost.

Treat a lady right.
✍️��

Respect!! you sound like a motivational speaker sha lol
Would like to know you tho

Leezah:
A real man must be able to control his mouth. Don't ever expose what you had with a lady in secret, sleeping with you doesn't mean she is cheap. Every woman is expensive and has a secret admirer that wants to settle with her at all cost.

Treat a lady right.
✍️��

Sarita01:
Yes,most besties have sexual relationships.it might not be sex but at some point they might have romanced each other.its hard for two people of opposite sex to just be friends without having some form of romantic relationship,almost impossible(especially in Nigeria)besties are assistant boyfriends.

you are just sitting on the fence.. The simple truth is they will Fvck... No two ways about it

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

OP obembet let's be besties and we won't have sex �
Cross my heart

nuelsam:
lol..... asking this typa question is just like asking a primary school pupil of he wants to eat biscuit..... women are emotionally fragile.....they get carried away with words easily...their vulnerability is on a high! u wanna hear the truth? I bleeped 3girls who claimed that I was their bestie....

Very right. It will be hard . Women always keep fine boys as besties n end up marrying rich guy which most time are ugly ones

Absolutely not. Especially in Naija. You have a male “friend” y’all are fucking.

dasparrow:
Some people here reason like they have goat brains. First of all, not everyone is a fan of sexual intercourse. Secondly, not everyone will be automatically sexually attracted to a person just because that person is a member of the opposite sex/gender. Thirdly, not every person lacks self control.

We are human beings after all and just because you are friends with someone of the opposite gender does not mean you will desire the person's private part. I don't know how some of you reason. This is why in the western world, some women have gay men as besties. That way, no one will have to worry about a platonic relationship turning sexual.

what you are strongly claiming is a very small fragment of the society that possess the characteristics you described above. So why take the risk?

I used to have one in those days she was my friends x girl friend we where so close that she passed the night many times in my house.

Na small thing remain I for nip her to the Board. So yes it's possible but e hard Sha ooo

Liposure:
she will be cheating on you

with her fellow chic?

nah, i'll take my chances.

If a woman has the right partner, she doesn't need another man as bestie. If you can't do amebo with your boo forget it,that's not relationship.

Lemme not quote Usher Raymond - u make wanna . . .

Elxandre:

Better marry her.

Na stranger you wan go marry abi.

Nope..I see her now like a sister to me. No feeling at all. You know the feeling you have when you are around your blood sisters, that's what I get when I am around her.

obembet:




I want you to know that there are people that have strands and the know that not every water is drinkable, some waters a gutter water some are rain and are tap water, the key to it all is self control

Lalasticlala

I think all bananas are good bananas and monkeys who have easy access will always end up eating it. Stop setting up the field and stopping the players to play

JOACHINpedro:
I had a bestie and I never tried bleeping her.
I'm not a he-goat na

No, you are a she-goat

humilitypays:
the problem is many ladies love to eat their cake and still have it.


They want a rugged guy for a relationship and a cool guy for a bestie, at the end, the rugged guy officially gets his own share of the national cake as boyfriend and the bestie gets his own coded share as an unofficial sex mate tagged bestie, it's a win win for guys, I am searching for pretty female besties too

Badt Guy... Na church u fit see ooooo... But Jesus fit arrest u in the process

No sex no spending then no Wahala

obembet:


So are u saying u can now allow ur wife/girlfriend to have a male friend as bestie. Or u thinks something will happen?

Bros remove wife nau how can ur wife have a male best friend shuuuuu.

Bestie NA scam...

Its just like keeping a � goat and yam in the same room

I have a male friend as my close friend in fact I will call him my bestie and we don't Bleep each other.so yes is possible to have a male bestie without sex as far as u know ur priority or limit.

Well people's personalities and perceptions to stuffs like this will always be different.

These 3 terms, Friends with benefits, friends and lovers; are very different.

It's best to make these things clear from the beginning and it all boils down to what connects the friendship in the first place.

Yeah it's true that there are guys you can confide in like brothers.

You didn't grow up together... And he is just a friend Its possible... But mostly he is either harbouring a behind the curtains motive or is a simp...or he is ....









GAY

I'm a guy and my best friend (bestie) is a girl. People thought that we would never last as besties without getting intimate, but this is our 4th year and none of that has happened.

Enough said

Aimerosa25:
Of course yes, it depends on what d friendship is built on.

True!!

obembet:


So are u saying u can now allow ur wife/girlfriend to have a male friend as bestie. Or u thinks something will happen?

No o...nothing will happen,they will just be smiling at eachoda.

Daguccizgreat:
On the contrary I have a female bestie whom I have known for a long time but we have never initiated sex. It's all about principles I think

I bleeped all..... principle my foot.
At a point In your bestie journey, you'll sense sexual frustration.... and that's when I waste no time.

Male bestie spoiling relationships since 1900

Nooo,yesss

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Your male bestie will want to f*uck you if he sees the slightest opportunity! Plutonic relationship between a woman and man can be successful ONLY if the woman keeps it that way!

No man wants to be a "bestie" to an unattractive woman. They're are "bestie" to only women they're attracted to, because they hope that one day the p*ussy may be theirs.

So a relationship that's not mutual is not a true one. That's why I believe men can't honestly be besties to women.

If you have a so-called bestie tempt him to see if he's a true bestie by offering him sex. He will fall for it immediately!