Sarah20A:
please take it easy on your fragile heart you know your brain is already useless

you wouldn't want to hurt the only remaining vital organ that's keeping you alive

GoodFaith:


I am a dam good man
Good provider
loving
With values, moral and consideration you lack
I am looking forward to my 90th birthday little girl
I guess God will not make you get to my present age with your Bleep attitude

GoodFaith:


Yes little bitch
You will sure be a fool for life
If you carry on like a dumb bitch
Life is about learning
You don't have what it take to learn but just big mouth
So kiss little bitch

joyandfaith:


you lack value, moral and consideration. if you have any of the above, you would not be asking a pregnant woman to be cooking for some visionless married men who derive joy in gossip.
I pray for you to live long so that you can die lonely and in misery because you shall reap what you sow.

joyandfaith:


an idiot is 57 old man spitting meconium-stained vomitus in a faceless forum. jobless old man!!!!

joyandfaith:


you lack value, moral and consideration. if you have any of the above, you would not be asking a pregnant woman to be cooking for some visionless married men who derive joy in gossip.
I pray for you to live long so that you can die lonely and in misery because you shall reap what you sow.

GoodFaith:

Yes you are very right a faceless forum Because you can't do this mess face to face

GoodFaith:


She failed as a wife to manage this issue
Lot of great mothers and wives
break fire wood 7 months pregnant
may God bless the hard working women and mother
Some big trouble became big because the wat it was manage
WORDS
How people use change can make thing change from bad to good

GoodFaith:


I can pay somebody to take care of me
But with your Bleep up attitude
I must tell you you are going to have a hell of hard time in life
If you don't change and learn kid

CanadianNaija:


He has started dying already. Do you think someone that sounds as bitter as him has a peaceful marriage?

He doesn’t o. He’s thinking of ending things.

The things fear won’t let him say to her at home he’ll come her and flex his mouth muscles with it. Micro dick aggressions is what’s worrying the wretched fool.

Rich man my ass, that’s why paying common 20k to reduce an inconvenience is inconceivable to the idiot.

wany:

To the maid or under age girl you married, cause it can't be said to an adult.warp primitive brain.

SirMichael1:
Yes. To a beautiful wife with a cute daughter.

Palema007:
Wao that's deep! You hardly act like one, as a matter of fact with the way you act on this forum I used to take you for one of these "pencil trousers" boys . Lol very sorry about that.

Hope You have been able to convince your wife.

Agbegbaorogboye:
I must say i'm disappointed with a lot of comments I read here.

1. The gathering is one of gentlemen who are members of an organization and who hold a monthly meeting to discuss issues of common interests. That's networking and social bonding.

2. The meetings are held in members' residences, being rotated amongst them. By implication, each member gets to host an average of once in two years. This is a very suitable idea for a homely interface which reinforces the fact in them that they are responsibly married men.

3. I'm sure the husband for the past 1year and 8months has visited the house of others and eaten there with the rest of the members. The wives of the host at such meeting must have also played the same role he is asking of his wife. If contrary were to be the case, i'm sure he won't be so insistent on it.

With the above three, it will be obvious to anyone with a modicum of sense of responsibility and reciprocity that changing the trend when it gets to his turn will raise eyebrows among the members and he'll end up looking like a sort of killjoy among his peers.
It's a sacrifice albeit one that the wife who is the hostess should embrace in this case. Or which would she prefer? That her husband spends sunday evening smoking weed and drinking at a joint or discussing life's issues with fellow responsibly married men?
I really fear for the women we have nowadays. I do. If you are irritated by the thought of a communal gathering in your house by responsible people, then I beg to ask what sort of gathering you will prefer in your house.
If the wife feels the task is too heavy, she should be the one to suggest catering services to the husband. Or better still get some friends to help. I have attended birthdays of kids from families who can't afford caterers and the wives are the ones who take up the entertainment in such cases.
But to read the kind of insults some people who I suspect are women throw at the gentleman for asking his wife to help him entertain his guests in his house, I suspect we may be steadily building a generation of Jezebels and not Sarahs. Even a certain Sarah20A is in on the nonsense. How discomforting.
As for me, it's obvious that from the ladies of these days, family and communal values are presently being eroded and they are beginning to see themselves as "alpha females" which in all honesty is a cause for concern for our children.

Thank you.

Sarah20A:
if the societies are breeding Jezebel as daughters then what will you say about the monsters in male forms ,the so called Alpha males who always want to manipulate their way into getting what they want?

The truth is that the societies are breeding more monsters than Jezebel

Women are not that wicked , complicated,senseless, and inconsiderate as some of this frustrated Alpha males portrays them.

You guys should try to understand and respect
your women ,try to communicate and play more often. I'm sure if the husband was more conversant with her he would have solved the minor issue with her instead of bringing it here for every dick and harry to masturbate on.

Sarah20A:
dilapidated pu...ssy nigar

cooooooks:
Show her you can be independent.

Do the cooking yourself.

Or get some people from church to do the cooking with you for less than the caterer. Be careful if it is a woman you get because cooking sometimes brings people together.

Chii59:

Don't bother yourself. Op is a stubborn man, and his wife is equally stubborn.
If your woman served them the first time and now says no, and you don't have her mumu button to get her to agree, then their problems goes beyond just cooking.

Hathor5:

Hathor5:
I love this thread. It shows how much unpaid work wives perform that their husbands could not afford if they were to be charged.
But some of them will still have the audacity to threaten their wives to send them out of his house.

GoodFaith:


She failed as a wife to manage this issue
Lot of great mothers and wives
break fire wood 7 months pregnant
may God bless the hard working women and mother
Some big trouble became big because the wat it was manage
WORDS
How people use change can make thing change from bad to good

Sarah20A:
I'm literally laughing out my lungs by your level of suicidal thoughts and frustration.

Being an old hag is a full time job or do you think is easy to make a wailer out of a useless piece of rag like you?

Pu.....sssy Nigarr

Agbegbaorogboye:

If your problem is with the fact that he brought it here, I can understand with you. But I want to believe he brought it here for us to learn from and to also get a perspective not to necessarily take all the advice and opinions hook, line and sinker.

Having said that, you seem to believe the cure to alpha males is jezebellic females. I fear for that. Two wrongs don't make a right.
On this particular matter though, the wife is wrong. No excuse about it. Do you mean that the remaining nineteen wives who are members of that same church like her are simply stupid by entertaining her husband and the other men and she's the only wise one?
If she considers the gathering a worthless one, why hasn't she spoken to her husband about it for the past one year and a half he's been attending? Talk about communicating and understanding.
Am I to accept that if her family members were to always visit at year's end to celebrate new year with them she would have told them off by now?
Everything does not have to be about us or to our benefit and convenience in a relationship talk more of marriage. There are some roles women play that men cannot and vice versa. It doesn't make one better than the other. It only emphasises uniqueness and why we need each other.
As some people have pointed out here, it's the responsible men that face this kind of problems. Do you know I have a friend who invited his former girlfriends to cook and serve at his son's birthday because the wife was not cooperating? As a matter of fact, he even still cheated with one of them the week before that.
You women should know what you want.

TheCork:


WOW..I love lessbian. Great
So how long u been lessssbianisim & when did u no it will be yor career to chase women?

cooooooks:
When elephants fight, the ground suffers.

They should be careful o.

My guess is the first time, she was still new and wanted to be the stereotypical 'perfect' wife. I mean, she cooked virtually alone whilst 5 months pregnant??

There might be more to the story. Does she even like the church?

cooooooks:
I will fight with my wife see if she wants to break firewood at 7 months pregnant.

God forbid.

Chii59:

I realised it was a good thing I did by refusing to reply to DM from most nairaland guys. Their quality of thought is so poor. So poor.
Someone is extolling the virtue of a pregnant woman breaking firewood at 7. Imagine.

Chii59:

Don't bother yourself. Op is a stubborn man, and his wife is equally stubborn.
If your woman served them the first time and now says no, and you don't have her mumu button to get her to agree, then their problems goes beyond just cooking.