ojuu4u:




Its not principle oga, but hypocrisy + self deceit.

Are you sure you know the meaning of hypocrisy mister ?

culf:



hope you're enjoying your day?

I am o, thanks very much.

Mavrick2012:
for you to have that opinion,it means you are one of such ladies na

people have different views on different things, people claim to have besties, but some in disguise r friends with benefits.

Zeion422:
Not in nigeria

na Nigeria you talk oooooh holy holy nation

Yes, if the bestie is eunuch.

ojuu4u:



If you are logical to yourself, according to ur story, she stayed in ur house for two days because she wasnt in any relationship lately, meanwhile she was in a relationship b4, but her guy kept complaining because of u,.......now the guy had dropped her, she is back to square one, all in the name of foolish male bestie, and don't forget, day by day she is approaching menopause...... .......

If u sincere to urself, don't u see urself as obstacle?
Don't u see her as a foolish girl?

Won't she regret be ur female bestie on the long run?

You are going overboard with this your statement. I have already explained to you the necessity of balancing both areas. Moreover the guy she lost was probably her first guy and she has had other relationship after that. So because she has a new relationship now, others that have being important in her life should be discarded?? Is that what you will do if you are in her position?

guyman13:

na Nigeria you talk oooooh holy holy nation

the country holy well well bro

Aimerosa25:
I am o, thanks very much.

that's good. you're welcome

Zeion422:
the country holy well well bro

too holy I tell you

I've read through most of the comments and find it amazing why people think it isn't possible.

My bestie of over 10 years now is female and has been that friend that sticks closer than a brother. She has been constant and consistent and I've come to trust her for the best advice and feel my secrets are safe with her. I see her as a fellow guy and we're very close, and never for once have we even kissed let alone think the unthinkable.

Diamondniyi:

Maybe she no fine

Lol! What a damsel, she is so beautiful with light complexion. But well trained couple with moral values.

lamalama:
you are certainly going to have sex with her sooner or later.If not today its going to be much much later.

Lol! I dnt see that happen in d next 10 years to come. I cnt share what belong to my wife with anybody. My wife satisfy me enough. So, why do i need to dishonor her by sleeping with another lady. Even her creator will not forgive me if i does that.

Lecturebidz:


Hope when you discover your wife has a male bestie in the same light as you, it won't poke your ego?

Lol! I believe my wife and have trust in her and God. If she av any male bestie i will nt cross with her You might not believe this but am telling u the truth.

culf:



that's good. you're welcome

thanks

No, I don't think so. I could give you the privilege of being my bestie just for a day, kemimarch16. But first you must promise me that you have at least attained puberty, and preferably crossed 18, and that your thighs are warm enough to receive of my ministration .

Me and my bestie nack twice in a week and I knw her boyfriend wella, tho she confess to I nack her better than her guy, I felt am only helping her sha.

emmmyN:
No, I don't think so. I could give you the privilege of being my bestie just for a day, kemimarch16. But first you must promise me that you have at least attained puberty, and preferably crossed 18, and that your thighs are warm enough to receive of my ministration .

Bollocks
it is me and your mum that's on the same level not ant like you so bugger off ant

Daguccizgreat:
Are you sure you know the meaning of hypocrisy mister ?

*Gugu" it and relate it to ur comment, I only pity ladies who people like you bestie because on the long run, they are the victims in useless and deceitful so called friendship.

bdchange:

You are going overboard with this your statement. I have already explained to you the necessity of balancing both areas. Moreover the guy she lost was probably her first guy and she has had other relationship after that. So because she has a new relationship now, others that have being important in her life should be discarded?? Is that what you will do if you are in her position?

She will still loose the new relationship so far you still be hee bestie.

If truly you like the lady and you don't have intention to be her husband in future,..... find a way to stop be her bestie, a month is enof to discharge a woman, if you take that bold step it may hurt her initially but she wouldn't regret.

With you in Picture, she will never concentrate and gives needed support and sacrifice to make her relationship work, .....again with you in picture, her guy will never see her as a serious lady who is ready for serious and committed relationship.

If two of you are not best of friends ,world will not come to an end.


A word is enof for a wise!

ojuu4u:


*Gugu" it and relate it to ur comment, I only pity ladies who people like you bestie because on the long run, they are the victims in useless and deceitful so called friendship.

Do you think every man you come across is loose ? I'm married and my principles towards other women remain intact. Get that mister

Daguccizgreat:
Do you think every man you come across is loose ? I'm married and my principles towards other women remain intact. Get that mister

' I don hear' .....bye..........but b4 you go, testosterone and other hormones in ur body can easily overwhelmed ur principle. If that fails, Satan is always around the corner to jump into negligence situations, you may not believe but is happening.


My Bible says fleeeeeeeeee and not run, or walk,or craw ......but for ur own case, you are not even craw but "playing with..... ...... .... ..
Uhmmmmmmmmmm..............self righteous and self deceit you need deliverance from those two spirits....




Bye. Its a free world nobody will arrest u for be a bestie even assistant boyfriend is allowed ,wen the consequence comes too.....

ojuu4u:



She will still loss the new relationship so far you re still are bestie.

If truly you like the lady and you don't have intention of her husband in future,..... find way to stop be her bestie, a month is enof to discharge a woman, if you take that bold step it may hurt her initially but she wouldn't regret.

With you in Picture, she will never concentrate and gives needed support and sacrifice to make her relationship work, .....again with you in picture, her guy will never see her as a serious lady who is ready for serious relationship.

If two of you are not heat of friends ,world will not come to an end.


A word is enof for a wise!

You did not answer the question I asked you in my last post. I don't know the scenario you are creating in your head right now. We hardly see these days because both of us is busy with work and other things. She even stay very far away from me, so I don't understand your point. You are saying it as if I am holding her down for what ever reasons you created in your head. We didn't even see for up to 7 months due to work and you are here telling me to leave her alone..nawa ooo

Daguccizgreat:
Do you think every man you come across is loose ? I'm married and my principles towards other women remain intact. Get that mister

Sorry to pokey nose in your matter. Please your case is different since you are married. You can't be married and give much attention to another woman more than your wife. It is not reasonable, it is not logical and it is emotionally bias. There is no rationale behind such acts. I told my very close friend that immediately she becomes married or I become married then she should expect less communications and contact from me likewise I will also expect same from her. There is no way I can have a wife and say my bestie will be more relevant than her.

bdchange:

You did not answer the question I asked you in my last post. I don't know the scenario you are creating in your head right now. We hardly see these days because both of us is busy with work and other things. She even stay very far away from me, so I don't understand your point. You are saying it as if I am holding her down for what ever reasons you created in your head. We didn't even see for up to 7 months due to work and you are here telling me to leave her alone..nawa ooo

Whc means u guys are no longer bestie now

Kemimarch16:
Bollocks
it is me and your mum that's on the same level not ant like you so bugger off ant

I like it when little things whine; turns me on. Right now I'm feeling sexy; come be my cum bucket, bitch .

bdchange:

Sorry to pokey nose in your matter. Please your case is different since you are married. You can't be married and give much attention to another woman more than your wife. It is not reasonable, it is not logical and it is emotionally bias. There is no rationale behind such acts. I told my very close friend that immediately she becomes married or I become married then she should expect less communications and contact from me likewise I will also expect same from her. There is no way I can have a wife and say my bestie will be more relevant than her.

You are getting it wrong. We have been very good friends even before I met my wife and for your information she's not more relevant to me than my wife. My wife is too precious for me but my bestie is my confidant aside from my wife

emmmyN:


I like it when little things whine; turns me on. Right now I'm feeling sexy; come be my cum bucket, bitch .

Son of bitch u don't have the balls to roll with me,I roll with your mother.continue to use your thwart mother to play kite.i pity the smelling virginal that gave birth to u

Kemimarch16:
Son of bitch u don't have the balls to roll with me,I roll with your mother.continue to use your thwart mother to play kite.i pity the smelling virginal that gave birth to u

An abuse has gone beyond normal when you bypass the abuser to someone who knows nothing about the situation. Please refrain from attacking the parents, they might be good people irrespective of the kind of son or daughter they have. I believed only children do these sort of things.

Yes .... very possible

Daguccizgreat:
You are getting it wrong. We have been very good friends even before I met my wife and for your information she's not more relevant to me than my wife. My wife is too precious for me but my bestie is my confidant aside from my wife

Confidante [n. fem.]: One to whom secrets, especially those relating to affairs of love, are confided or intrusted; a confidential or bosom friend.
That above is the meaning of confidant according to oxford dictionary. Now my point is this; I don't say you should not have bestie, but the limit of the person being your confidant should be cut short immediately you get married. It is more dangerous being opposite sex. I believed your spouse now should take that position. Read my first post on why my bestie lost his guy because of our close relationship. I never knew by then but I know better now.We are humans and emotions run through our body though differently but you must consider the other person's emotion if you are not bias towards your judgement. Some people might still argue that the partner is insecure if he or she doesn't trust their partner, which I consider rubbish. Sometimes we put ourselves in situations for catastrophe then we blame the devil for the consequences. That is why I don't forgive a cheat because I believe it is a premeditated act.

Aimerosa25:
thanks

beautiful night rest to you

bellenornor:
I have 2 male besties. We never got intimate and we NEVER will.

I had two during nysc

It almost happened

Two from church

It almost happened too

Very close

Now I no do again