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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Sep 08, 2020
79733139:


They prefer good women who come in all races. If they meet a good woman (of another race), they would grab her instead of putting a lot of effort to track down a good Nigerian woman (my cousin is an example).

Are you talking of the Nigerian men that are always killing their Nigerian wives?

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Pearly255(f): 4:02pm On Sep 08, 2020
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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by googlepikins: 4:03pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.



I was introduced to one in Canada recently, but she's 5 years older than me. I don't want someone older than me

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by cray91(m): 4:03pm On Sep 08, 2020
dont mind the stupid african mentality. dem dey take marriage as if, if person no marry e no go make am for life
sherylbakky:
The way we Africans carry marriage matter for head ehn

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by passiveincome01: 4:04pm On Sep 08, 2020
hmmmmm
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by TheRedpillguy: 4:04pm On Sep 08, 2020
Hehe wow, what to get married in countries with Feminist laws. Yeah so that you can have access to mans hard earned money. Men in those countries are not dumb. Marrige for men is a scam.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Sep 08, 2020
79733139:
A lot of single Nigerian men in Canada are NOT going out of their way to look for Nigerian women to marry (or even Nigerians to become friends with). Those Nigerian men have friends of other races and girlfriends (and wives) of other races.


they are looking for papers that is why

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Sep 08, 2020
Must you marry a Nigerian?
Then come back home or let your people in Nigeria do the runs for you.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by GarangDeMabior: 4:05pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
It's important though.
Very Important
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Gokoyer0(m): 4:06pm On Sep 08, 2020
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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by CocaineLord(m): 4:07pm On Sep 08, 2020
Is marriage compulsory?

Was Jesus ever married? What about Apostle Paul? Popes? I'm not against marriage but I feel happiness is all that matters... Most women nowadays see marriage as an opportunity to be free from some burden...That's why there are less marriages and more divorces nowadays.

On the other hand, some women don't even wanna get married... We have so many successful and rich women who don't give a fvck about marriage...To some, marriage is overrated(Why marry when I can have a kid or children and enjoy my life)

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Xavie(m): 4:07pm On Sep 08, 2020
Adex2442:



Nigerian women are so boring in their conversations
Fact...only few
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Larrykaysail(m): 4:08pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

make den go right way. Girls plenty for here , na me dey run for them
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Jaqenhghar: 4:10pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
Marrying a Nigerian is good to me. My thought though
You will always find someone. There is a vibrant Niggerian community there. Be easy on yourself.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by kentzz(f): 4:11pm On Sep 08, 2020
There's no harm in trying. Please if it's easy lemme know so I can try as well. ��

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Onieda: 4:12pm On Sep 08, 2020
Heck no...As a lady, maybe. There are lots of women to choose from if you're a guy. Between African American, Hispanic, caucasian and African women, the lest of your worries is finding a lady.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by malicampus1: 4:12pm On Sep 08, 2020
Am not that sure
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 4:12pm On Sep 08, 2020
If I leave this country, why would I get married? And to a Nigerian woman at that? God forbid. An entitled breed with the mentality of leeches. When you date even other African women, you will understand how pathetic a bulk of Nigerian women are. Countries like Kenya, Lesotho, you will see humans beings there. Not these hypocritical parasitic prostitutes.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Parisian: 4:13pm On Sep 08, 2020
Leave them to keep deceiving themselves.

They will realize when they're old and gray. I even met a Nigerian man married to an american japanese who had three kids for him.

They seemed to be happily married or so I thought but the man confided in me that he'd love to settle with a Nigerian woman as a white women can never compare to a Nigerian woman. Meanwhile his oldest kid was about 17 at the time and the man was already in his 50s, Lol.
Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by boogietrends: 4:14pm On Sep 08, 2020
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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Parisian: 4:14pm On Sep 08, 2020
Brace up for frustrated redpillers who don't even have passports complaining talm bout, "Nigerian women are arrogant bla bla bla"...

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by monfizzy(m): 4:14pm On Sep 08, 2020
Can’t say about the US&Canada but in the U.K. finding a Nigerian partner is a whole lot of task. I and most of my friends if not all have had no success in finding a partner throughout the years and it’s frustrating coz going to Naija to seek a partner and the challenges of them misbehaving once here as made us strike out that option. I think the dynamics of western way of life makes it strenuous to get into a relationship as everyone seem occupied with hustle with very little time to socialise.

I’ll advise however that anyone seeking to relocate abroad should shun the idea of getting married at home as it won’t work long term due to distance. You don’t need any baggage left behind while you’re moving to a journey of uncertainties in search of a better life.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Shegson12345(m): 4:15pm On Sep 08, 2020
Na black market every where jorr.
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nephilim: 4:17pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

overaged with no husband. Most of them their husband is here in Nigeria, hustling to make it lolz! And if we connect them now they will say they are interested in an abroad person, and they keep waxing older. The ladies from those places they went to are still struggling to have a family put together talkless of a stranger from another continent to hijack their man! Lolz and I trust my Nigerian guys in those countries, their eyes are way up!

Anyway I'm open to serious relationship from any serious person among them, don't forget I'm a Nigerian in Nigeria.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by flyca: 4:17pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

Babe, if you have been on NL for sometime now, you would have noticed all the negetivity towards ladies here by the guys, they come under the umbrella of “Red Pills”. “Nigerian girls are bad” “Nigerian girls are bad” buhahaha. Bro!, there are good Nigerian ladies, but you they will not see them because the good ladies are with good Nigerian men! tongue So babe, don't be sad when they bash you here.

Wanting to be married is noble, so whatever trashtalk you read here, do not feel bad for expressing that idea (albeit in a wrong space).

If you are born and raised in Nigeria, if you have the Nigerian thing in you - in my opinion - marrying a well-raised Nigerian man is the better option for you.

Same advice I will give a Nigerian man! But sometimes, “white woman” too dey shaak them! But in the long run, it is better to marry someone from your own culture and background. Someone that you will not feel inferior to, someone that will not feel that marrying them is a privilege, someone that deeply understands you, someone that you share a cultural connection with, someone that you will not constantly be under pressure to impress, someone that understands the meaning of marriage the way you understand it etc

See eh, it's not even only Nigeria to Nigeria, every country to every country, every culture to every culture or at least similar. Not someone that has different customs, different food and lifestyle, different values, different parentage. If you watch TLC's 90 Day Fiance, you will notice that most clashes are cultural not financial.

I met my Nigerian husband abroad. I had options from other countries and I am sure he had other “white girl” options too. But we decided to be with each other and it has turned to be a very good decision for me. We get to experience new things from the same perspective of life (travel, food, language you name it). If our passports are getting rejected at the airport, they are rejecting both of us TOGETHER!

The first time I met my in-laws eh ...... PEACE. Whenever my mom-in-law speaks Igbo to me, I feel a deep connection. Well, this is my own cent!

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by HappyCanadian: 4:18pm On Sep 08, 2020
In Canada maybe yes, but I'm sure it won't be so in bigger cities I have my reasons

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by pansophist(m): 4:18pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
I don't know why most men keep saying marriage is not important. What happened when you're old? who will stand by you? Who will take care of you? We all need each other. In as much as marriage is not the ultimate, it's very important.

Perhaps you mean companionship is important. Yes I agree, but not marriage, especially in the west for men. It doesn't favour men at all. I also live in the west and i will never get married. Me and my partner are unmarried couples, and thats how its gonna be for life.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Omooba77: 4:19pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.


Many are getting married, please visit RCCG Church near you.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by omobaba1759: 4:19pm On Sep 08, 2020
Let's Marry


Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by nextstep(m): 4:23pm On Sep 08, 2020
Nothing is difficult. People just make things difficult for themselves.

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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Sep 08, 2020
Mbdovey:
So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband.
How true is the above statement?
Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men?
As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)?

Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance?

What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle?

What part has large number of Nigerians?

Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life.


I can only speak for Canada, even at that it depends on the province as there are some with a large number of Nigerians and problems with most Nigerians is they enter under the refugee status.

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