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Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by cooltola(m): 4:25pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
No it is not difficult and it is not easy at the same time to get a life time partner , you can use dating app but there are a lot of weirdo online who just want to have sex. It depends on your personality, social skills , good looks, friendliness, approachable and availability To get a Nigerian man to marry you is to be willing to be attractive to Nigerian men 1, Nothing wrong with shakara but is your shakara or attitude too much that you drive men away or are you friendly to talk ? 2, Do you have time to date or are you too busy with work, school etc ? 3, Are you isolated like you are a hermit who stay indoors after work or school or you are a social butterfly or you are in the middle? 4, Do you hang out with Nigerians overseas or you hangout with whites, Black American, Canadians and Mexicans mostly? 5, Do you cook well or you are the type that order and orders ? Nigerian men like women that can cook very well and I do not mean to be ignorant 6, How do you dress? Do your dress like a Deeper life woman , or you dress like Cardi B or you dress modestly? People will judge how you dress. 22 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by kponkedenge(m): 4:26pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: It depends on many factors though. For US, you should be able to see Nigerians easier than in Canada. I have many things to say, but I don't have the strength to type much now. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Omanambala(m): 4:28pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Some Nigerian women abroad are ugly in addition stuck up...i just dey laugh like gringory 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:31pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:marry me,, |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by lichocho(m): 4:32pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Make una create Canada love section na..me gat marry ooo but I de find hustling girl like me.. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Petyprincess(f): 4:33pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Parisian:Like seriously, even mod pushed this rubbish to front-page to promote bashing of Nigerian women from frustrated guys. They masturbate on any topic that bashes Nigerian women but will lick a white old granny ass for green card,these men can't tolerate shit from Africa American women,they will lick their ass to get a green card while bashing Nigerian women. Most of these guys are not sincere,some are suffering to keep their status while be deceiving gullible supposed "fans" and "asslickers" on nairaland at the same time bashing Nigerian women. Even fresh immigrants will start shouting "a white lady picked me up,payed my bills,etc Believe these people at your risk! 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by whodeyhere: 4:35pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: @ OP please don't listen to some of this people telling you marriage is not important, as matter of fact it is very important to me. The love, the affection, the shoulder to lean on, the time to laugh and enjoy the serenity of nature,the happy children, the family fun just too many to count. I want to enjoy all of that because I cherish it. So by all means, look for love and don't settle for less. 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by lichocho(m): 4:35pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Petyprincess:tru sha but u get bad mouth...u are forgiven go Nd sin no more |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Kennydoc(m): 4:37pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: If you have interacted with old people who have absolutely no one in their lives, you will understand it is not as easy as you make it. Some of those old people in care homes have family members who visit them either often or occasionally. That is very important for their mental health. Some of them have their children who have Lasting Power of Attorney in their matters. By the way, I have seen people who resign their jobs to take care of their spouses and parents full time. A man resigned his job and has been caring for his wife full time for 38 years. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by marketplacesng: 4:42pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: Please add wildlife to the list 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Tatashi: 4:42pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
I can never move to Canada or US and look for a Nigerian/African Man to marry. I dey crase? What happened to finding a God fearing Handsome Caucasian? How can you move to a developed well advanced country and search for a Nigerian man to marry... Men that are backward and misogynistic in nature. Go to America and see how Nigerian Men are slaughtering their hardworking wives esp Nurses. Pls if you want to live long as a woman you better run away from black men oh. There's this special type of jealousy they carry. God forbid 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by jaxxy(m): 4:46pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
If ure looking for a Nigerian partner Probably. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:47pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Davidonkonsults: Happy boys day |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by marketplacesng: 4:48pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Tatashi:Most of these Caucasians and aborigines have a different ideology towards marriage. Most are not ready to commit. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Tatashi: Think of the beautiful half-caste children you'll even birth. If it's to say hi to them, I'll do it with Erica's type of smile. It is worth the effort. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Amumaigwe: 4:49pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Kekereekun123: Bros, are you for real? This order of priority is unfair na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by AristocraticMe: 4:49pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Talking from my little knowledge of things. Finding a Nigerian partner is easy and still not easy at the same time..........i will explain. You said most Nigerian women are old without a husband.... one of the major reason is the STANDARD they created. Most of them only want to date someone who is a college graduate, who has his papers already and lastly they only want to date Nigerians...... (There are other wonderful people from other part of the world) but they overlook those ones.... Now getting someone with this standard is not easy..... because you as a lady must also be in that same standard. You see where the it is not easy part comes in........ so most of them get old without a partner.......... For the guys it is a little bit different............. very different............ But in summary i believe in something, Pray to God for life partner, he is the best match maker............ but we as people have a role to play.... by looking at the standard we are creating is it feasible and is it just a fairy tale standard...... because we have a role to play for the manifestation of any prayer we pray to God. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Dybala11(m): 4:50pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:What the heck will I need a gistmate for?? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Yankee101: 4:53pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
If you're female I'll advise you sort out marriage before travelling abroad Men have options. Women? Not so much. And sometimes they try so hard and end up sleeping with a guy in the hope he'll propose, they break up, he tells other naija guys, she tries another one, cycle continues etc 25 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 4:53pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:The shoe definitely fits. This is one of them. Lace it up grandma. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 4:55pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
AristocraticMe:It's not easy for men of other nationalities to bear and tolerate Nigerian women. They need us more than we need them. 10 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by abike12(f): 4:56pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
It's difficult because of the restrictions we place on ourselves. When you live outside Nigeria, try to mix with people that share your core values, not your skin color or country of origin. So many times we get stuck on wanting to marry a Nigerian or someone from our tribe that we find ourselves mingling with the type of people we wouldn't even talk to if we were still living in Nigeria. The core values are the most important, forget about stereotypes. If you're someone that believes in God, values education, professional accomplishments and family ties, then hang out with people that fit that, regardless of where they are from. From that same circle you will meet romantic partners that share the same values and date them until you find the one. If you're only attracted to black men, there are black men of all nationalities that you can meet. If you 100% cannot marry a non-Nigerian then you should get married in Nigeria before relocating. Going abroad and limiting yourself to find a husband from such a limited pool will only lead to making poor choices. The same principle stands with friendships, I stopped looking for Nigerians to be friends with and allowed myself to be friends with people in my social class that are like me and things have never been better. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Cmanforall: 4:58pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey:Do you know any real group? Fb or WA etc |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by fifi00719(m): 5:00pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Oracleforce: You have said it all |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
79733139: Nigerian women are programmed to have too much drama so become unappealing for Nigerian men abroad. You date a Nigerian woman of a certain age and from day 1 the talk is of marraige. Not long after she is married she turns into a monster because majority of Nigerian women are more interested in getting married and having children than they are in the man they marry. Plus too many Nigerian men have been (or seen friends) burnt by the system which vastly favour women in cases of divorce or seperation. In addition there foreign women will happily date you for you without pressure of marriage and finally, Nigerian men know Nigerian women are plentiful and lonely so it’s a buyers market as most Nigerian women want to marry Nigerian men. 21 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:01pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Davidonkonsults: Happy boys day 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by deji17: 5:02pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: If you find love with Oyinbo or Ghanian man, don't waste time, marry him. But I will advise you against Carribean men or women. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Davidonkonsults: 5:03pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Nooil:Happy grandma's day. |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by georgemarcus(m): 5:04pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Mbdovey: So, I got talking with a senior friend about challenges most new migrat faced in Canada and US. After several discussion, this got my attention. According to her, it's very difficult to get married or come in contact with a prospective life partner. As most Nigerian's single ladies are over age but no husband. How true is the above statement? Are there most Nigerian's single ladies than single men? As a single Nigerian in Canada or US, is it really difficult finding a life partner (a Nigerian partner to be precise)? Is it adviseable to get married to a Nigerian partner before going, what if the marriage fail due to long distance? What's the possibility of seeing more black (Nigerians) to mingle? What part has large number of Nigerians? Because it's good to plan every aspect of one's life. Pls can you help us and tell Buhari to reverse the pump price to its noramal price. Once you do that your quesion is answered..Oti hear...thanku 1 Like |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Re: Is It Really Difficult To Find A Life Partner In US Or Canada? by eejo(m): 5:06pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
There are many Nigerian ladies looking for Husband in the UK too. Overseas you spend most of your time in the office and you can't afford to spend your rest days looking for a partner. I personally know many who are ready to marry but no husband and I have suggested they should spend their vacation in Nigeria and others Countries in search of Husbands. 4 Likes |
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