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| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:29pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Women do not rigorously shit test their men out of malice, but merely out of insecurity, out of a need to feel protected, out of a nagging sense of insecurity that they “just need to make sure” they have made the right choice and are still in a relationship with a man who is badass . As soon as a man can no longer give a woman “that safe feeling”, she will leave him and find a guy who can make her feel safe. She will then rewrite history in her memory to say the man she is leaving was always weak and that he failed in his duties to her, she will paint him as the bad guy so that it makes it easier for her to branch swing to the next guy without feeling bad or having any sense of personal responsibility for it. This is why women say bad things about their exes She has to demonise him and paint herself as the victim(See section 17) within her own mind to allow herself to carry on without hating herself. She needs him to “be the bad guy” so that she can move on. As far as she is concerned, it’s his fault she lost interest in him, regardless or despite if he did everything in his power for her. It’s always the man’s fault in the mind of a woman. She wants a man she can’t change but she tries to change him as a form of counterintuitive test of his strength, and if she succeeds in changing a man into someone who is no longer dominant she will grow to hate what she has made of him. 72 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:32pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Women want you to fall in love with them, but not so much so that you don’t make them feel safe anymore. Women want to be loved, but as a man if you fall in love and allow that to change who you are, to be overwhelmed by them and allow them to erode your identity, you no longer remain attractive. To keep a woman you must remain everything you were when she found you, despite everything, despite a tirade of emotional manipulation manifesting itself as shit tests. You see with women it’s not you in and of yourself that they are attracted to, it’s your masculinity and how that makes them feel which they find attractive. The presence of dominance is what triggers and captivates female attraction; its absence will have her discard you in search of a new source of dominance. The irrational thing about this whole sordid ordeal is that you cannot properly love a woman and let them all the way into the fiber of your being without such a love directly translating into psychological vulnerability. Agápe inherently elicits vulnerability. Women desire connection with that vulnerability whilst simultaneously, feel contempt for that vulnerability when it becomes prominent enough to translate into weakness. 36 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:41pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Men's Looks Matter More Than Women Admit, Study Shows Even if a guy has a great personality , a woman looking for a date still hopes he's at least a little cute, a new study suggests. Researchers asked young women (ages 15 to 29) to choose potential dates from a series of photographs and descriptions, while the women's mothers (ages 37 to 61) were asked to select possible boyfriends for their daughters using the same information. Results showed that a man's looks influenced both groups of women more strongly than his personality profile. This held true even if a man's profile was filled with highly desirable personal qualities , such as being respectful, honest and trustworthy . This is why during chat, a girl will be asking for your pics. She wants to check you out https://www.livescience.com/58607-mens-looks-may-matter-more-than-personality.html 27 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:24pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Guys never make the mistake of sponsoring a lady to be better than you. I have seen someone sponsored a lady to get a Bsc while he only has an OND. Or a guy who is trader sponsoring a girl to get her bachelors degree. The guy thinking he is doing her a favour and she will love him more. Wrong. You have successfully upgraded her status and made her above you. Education in Nigeria is seen as a status. Never make that mistake of making her better than you while not improving yourself. You bought her Iphone 11pro but you are using Techno Spark 4,that's utter stupidity. Female hypergamy is very binary, you are either superior, or inferior. If a woman believes a man inferior to her, he’s sexually invisible, only when a woman deems a man superior does he become visible. That is why sometimes when you were younger alot of ladies will ignore you but when you get older and increase in SMV they will now come back for you. Women want men who demonstrably exude power in a way that makes them feel inferior. When a woman feels inferior to a man, she is attracted to him. This is hypergamy at work. That is why i kept stressing that in the process of learning about women always increase your LMS. 52 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:45pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: If she is better than you she will dump you In relationships she appears to be “submissive” and “needs him.” She takes and continues to take from him, money, wisdom, energy, time, everything. She’s like a parasite, a black hole, but she frames herself as a willing accomplice who needs investment to return dividends to an eager, naive, hopeful investor. As he keeps giving eventually the man in question has nothing left to give and is dried up both spiritually and financially. Now he’s been drained of his resources she becomes aware that although he elevated her self-development, she has become more valuable than him. Better yet with the tastes she’s had and the strides she’s made, she believes she has the opportunity to become even more. Thus rather than return investment as initially promised or implied, out of disrespect and insatiable hypergamy, she will betray and abandon her prior lover to repeat the process with a new one. One who she considers to be more worthy of directing her. Effectively, this means finding an even higher level man to surpass her newer, more recent elevated status. Never make her better than you, When she is above you, She will dump you — Dpsychologist 68 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 11:54pm On Sep 08, 2020 |
Op flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. More feathers to your cap. 36 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by ibkonekt(m): 12:43am On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wae4DiqsYlk 10 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by MrGrimm: 3:57am On Sep 09, 2020 |
You have taught me a lot, I have stories of how women have looked down on me, especially when I was in the University. You are revealing incredible secrets, pls continue. 31 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:53pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: To improve your LMS. Read this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/5806096/keys-seduction-self-improvement/1 5 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 2:57pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
28.)WOMEN ARE NOT MYSTERIOUS : They are not confused nor are they mysterious. They communicate differently than we do (i will talk about the Feminine language later) They may be complex but not enigmatic. Their biggest con in human history is to make men believe they are mysterious. For centuries men do not really know women. Men have been going to war leaving women and children, hustling to work from morning to evening leaving their stay at home wives, men studied the world via science, invented alot. Men were busy doing other things but never cared to study women. Even if women are asked they never try to say the actual truth. If you try to study them they will come up with the line that women cannot be comprehended. But when you notice their behavior you will understand them. They communicate implicitly and not explicitly, they communicate covertly not overtly. A research was carried out by a man (Psychologist) who was asking women if they ever cheated on their Partner most of them deny. But when asked by a woman via a website (anonymously) the number skyrocketed. They mislead guys with advise on relationship, hence the reason the red pill don't take women relationship advice seriously. They don't say what they mean and don't mean what they say. Most advice a woman will give you will only be to the advantage of her gender. You ask them what kind of guy they like, they give you wrong advice sometimes unintentionally. 49 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:03pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
MrGrimm: I am glad to be Touching someone's life 11 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:05pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
JasperVII:Thanks bro. I am glad to be touching lives 3 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:47pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
ibkonekt: From the thumbnail of the video above who do you think is the Alpha male? Kalatium : ibkonekt : You are both right. With the way you dress and your face, body shape and body language a woman will determine if you are attractive or not. If you do not groom yourself, nor take care of your body. It is game over even before the game starts 27 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 4:05pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:The one on the right 2 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by ibkonekt(m): 4:14pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: the answer is way too evident, looks are extremely important to women. only a man in denial will think money supplements this 12 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 4:46pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:I just visited your other thread(the one you shared the link) and I must say that I am very grateful, because now I know what I must do. 5 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:11pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
JasperVII:Glad you are understanding my point. 2 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:45pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
ibkonekt:Exactly. As i will always say if you have great LMS you are half way home. 4 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by JasperVII(m): 8:00pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:Yeah. I need to work on myself, improve my LMS. |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 8:36pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: Examples of shit test ¶ “Do you believe in love at first sight?!” Translation: Are you a beta? Response: The answer to this should always be no. ¶ “How many girls have you slept with?” Translation: Do you get laid a lot or are you a sex starved beta? Response: Saying you have not slept with any girl communicates low value(male virgins are useless to women) . Exaggerate your number if it’s low. If it’s high reply with : “I’ve lost count.”, “What, today? Not many.”, “Pick a number, any number.” ¶ “Do you have a girlfriend?” – Translation: Are you a beta? (Can you get laid?) Response: The correct answer is always yes (it increases your preselection.) Women love stealing men from other women, they essentially find whatever is “in demand” to be attractive, that’s what we refer to as “preselection.” Response: “she told me not to tell anyone”, “We’re not Facebook official”, “I don’t cuddle her after sex, so no?” ¶ “I bet you have a girlfriend!” Translation: I want to sleep with you but I don’t know if other women find you hot. Response: Again, even if you don’t have a girlfriend, you should say you do or otherwise indicate that you do, to increase your perceived preselection. 49 Likes 9 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by UCMax1: 8:50pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Words of wisdom from op! you really doing a nice job.....i remain your humble follower 3 Likes |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:04pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
UCMax1:Thanks bro Knowledge is not power if it is not shared—Dpsychologist 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:05pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
29.) COMMITMENT IS MORE VALUABLE THAN SEX : Guys are cheap because they don't know their value — Dpsychologist Women need men more than men need women, and women hate this. Men want sex and at some point, a family. Women however seek masculine energy to stabilise their impulsivity, coveting paternal dominance and the sense of safety and stability that rationalism lends. (See section 9.) Just look at single mother households and older single women, they are miserable. Such women need a man to achieve even a semblance of happiness, but men often find these women to be the cause of nothing but misery. The words bachelor and spinster have opposing connotations for a reason, a man’s commitment is his prime commodity. However, because most guys think with their d1ck they end up desperate for sex. I know alot of guys that beg for sex but offer their commiment like water. It is only when something is scarce that it is desired. This results in even an unattractive woman getting all the attention she deserves. This is explained by Juggernaut law. 33 Likes 8 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:19pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
JUGGERNAUT'S LAW is the theory that the very most unattractive women receive a surprisingly large amount of attention from men, sometimes more attention than women of average attractiveness. The name of the law derives from the idea that a women's SMV is 'unstoppable' like a Juggernaut. Juggernaut law can be explained by Bateman's principle , female hypergamy, women's lower libido and greater choosiness causing an oversupply of sexually frustrated males. There is a large contingent of men whose approaches have largely consisted of juggernauting , as they feel they have no chance with women they find attractive(hence they go for unattractractive ladies) . 27 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:22pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
WOMEN ARE SMARTER(cunning) IN THE DATING ARENA Women are exploitative rather can cooperative, they will use their beauty as bait for you to give your commitment without getting anything in return —Dpsychologist In blue pill (every day) society men are made to feel bad for their sexuality, they are scorned for not being a simp( wanting to be used by a woman in the manner which the friend zone in place sets out and often shamed into compliance) , they’re scorned for their sexuality and lustful desire when in reality as a point of justice the ones who should be scorned are the women. It is this same women who ruthlessly use men as “surrogate providers” for their desires and lifestyle choices whilst not providing any return on the services he provides, or doing so begrudgingly or sparingly merely as a manipulative effort to keep him content enough to stick around. Women are notorious for giving “duty sex” or “pity sex” at beta men, the sexual scraps that essentially only the best of the best beta providers can acquire after having provided an inordinate amount of value. Yet again this results in a biased and unfair transaction between man and women even though sex does take place rather she exploits the man. 20 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:23pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Women are aware of why men do things for them, they play dumb but on a machiavellian level they are quite smart, they have high machiavellian intelligence . They play stupid for the sake of appearances so that they can squirm and escape accountability by keeping their hands clean via the employment of plausible deniability, but ultimately a woman with many beta males despite any well-placed display of ignorance she feigns knows full well what she is doing and why she is doing it, the reality of the matter is she just doesn’t care about the needs of the man so long as one or a number of her needs are being met by that man and so as long as he “fulfills his purpose in her life.” She is entirely happy to carry on exploiting his sexual desire of her whilst not reciprocating or giving in to these demands, only implicating the promise of sex to keep him around should he look likes he’s about to leave and throwing him duty sex should she really value his contributions to her life. 25 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Using a mans sexual desire for a woman and turning him into a provider for said woman without said woman giving said man any sexual access is exploitative of the mans nature and completely immoral on the behalf of the woman yet this happens all the time and society is perfectly happy to ignore, reinforce and even encourage said behaviour. Men and women are ultimately never equal in part due to the differences in our sexual imperatives let us not forget and the difference in agenda and how it is pursued by each gender is merely one significant indication of these sexually dimorphic differences in mating psychology. The friend zone however is not just a hurdle on the path to getting sex from a woman which magically disappears once sex has been attained, a woman can friend zone you even after having had sex with you and a more cunning woman may use sex as a way to secure your commitment before withdrawing it later on and simultaneously seeing if they can extract emotional commitment and resources from you without having to keep up their end of the bargain . 31 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:24pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
If you let her imperative win here within the context of a relationship or even marriage, you’re allowing her to drill nails into the coffin of your romantic arrangement as once you allow such behaviour to become commonplace she has you pegged for a chump. Allowing her to derive benefit from you without requiring sex from her causes her to lose attraction to you as there’s no value exchange. The ability for her to benefit from you without being required to service your needs causes her to lose respect, the dying attraction is often communicated in feminine language as: “ the spark’s just not there anymore“ and thus she will start the cycle all over again with another man, shit testing him to see how easily he’ll give up his commitment to her and then offering her sex to him when he maintains attraction without freely and disposably giving away said commitment to her. 21 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by IAmSkinny: 11:38pm On Sep 09, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: No wonder some colleagues I know (photographers) would gladly Fvck these broke ass girls in exchange for a photo session they cannot afford. 25 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Collins0609(m): 12:15am On Sep 10, 2020 |
perfect 1 Like |
| Re: The Red Truth by softguy1: 11:06am On Sep 10, 2020 |
[quote author=Dpsychologist post=93757478] If you let her imperative win here within the context of a relationship or even marriage, you’re allowing her to drill nails into the coffin of your romantic arrangement as once you allow such behaviour to become commonplace she has you pegged for a chump. Allowing her to derive benefit from you without requiring sex from her causes her to lose attraction to you as there’s no value exchange. The ability for her to benefit from you without being required to service your needs causes her to lose respect, the dying attraction is often communicated in feminine language as: “ the spark’s just not there anymore“ and thus she will start the cycle all over again with another man, shit testing him to see how easily he’ll give up his commitment to her and then offering her sex to him when he maintains attraction without freely and disposably giving away said commitment to her. [/quote Won't demanding sex from her make someone needy and desperate, thereby making her to lose attraction also? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: The Red Truth by Jub101(m): 11:27am On Sep 10, 2020 |
SHIT ...RED Pill is hard to swallow but I shit you not it's the hardest Truth 8 Likes 1 Share |
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