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If she's not into you, she's not into you! Don't stress yourself over these girls! They are not worth it, get yourself one that is worth it, spoil her and watch others flock around you.

She's not a lesbian. You're a simp

proclinician:
Is it when she start to slap you in public you will relax?

I wonder ooo

properties4sale:
Are u rich? Do u have a car? How comfortable are you?

The Nigerian society is such that it has configured everybody to be out for taking advantage of the next person with any opportunity they have. Ladies with the advantage of the pussy they have beneath them are out for someone that can really take care of them. Someone they can fleece. So u should check whether you have all of that.
If u don't. Then try working harder so u can and get any lady u want.

not rich, no car yet but career wise I'm successful and you and I know that's the criteria Nigerian girls are looking for.

Account2Many:
not rich, no car yet but career wise I'm successful and you and I know that's the criteria Nigerian girls are looking for.

Well, now you know that's not the criteria, u can see for ur self.

Sheflex4real:
I believe it's best if you just let it slide. In situations like that, just learn your lesson as much as you can and try to forget the experience.
Personally be it a Guy or a Lady, if we have an agreement to meet up for whatever reason, and the person couldn't make the appointment for whatever reason with no heads up. I live the venue after five minute and I'm never going to reach out not until they do. Same thing with calls there is no way I call you more than once if you missed my calls. I believe there are two reasons while someone will missed your call either them Dont see it or Dont wana talk, I Dont see how calling more than once will help. So if the person return the call after Five years then that's when we talk. its not pride it called self respect. It's funny now 95% of my called get answered and the remaining percent get returned. Funny story I once collected one very good looking girl's number that stylishly told me that it her main line and she get lots of calls on it, she is charging it at home in other word if I called and she couldn't pick I should called back. I smiled and told her that's not going to be a problem. My number will be the only one that called once. LOL

It important to note that I also treat people the way i want to be treated.

I hope this helps.

wisdom.
Thanks so much bro

Giftexx:
She probably went to another guy's place.. u kept disturbing their action with ur calls.

ibechris:
Why can't she politely tell the guy say she no want any relationship rather than trashing the guy.

The girl messed up.

God bless you for this comment.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
With the way things are going, many will end up unmarried.

why do you say that

Sparro:
Dear poster, You deserve more than you got. The signs were blinking red, you knew it but you still decided to act 'no retreat, no surrender'.

Your type are very silly. I have a younger sister of about 24. I know some of her toasters who are dull-minded like you. She will put up all the signs of no-interest but they will keep pestering her life. It is so irritating.

Everything is now digitalized including toasting and relationships. If one party shows any sign of apathy, just let them be.

toasting digitalized

AdeniyiA:
Well, initially some ladies aren't easy catch like that, but you've got to press on if you really like her, fortunately you have her number already. Send her messages, morning and before she sleeps... Eventually you might win her.

I too do not like being rejected because I might switch off completely and not many could be as lucky as I was, i could say I proposed to my wife the very day we met
No wasting time chasing after babes

men like you,should be crucified,.............you mighty simp

You called a girl 4 times?

Openbusiness:
See, let me tell u something, it's not like the girl wasn't interested in you, but you missed your way and got....emm....wars dah word Americans use.....emm.....yeahhhhh, you got cockblocked . Let me share u one lil secret about women in this generation that I discovered. They all have this 1 bestfriend in the whole world, and if you can get this her bestfriend to like you, as in win this her bestfriend over to your side, then it is finished. Just relax, her bestfriend will make her start chasing you for dinner dates and hangouts. I mean normal girls oh, this applies to normal girls only, not HOELOSHO typa gehs So, first and foremost, u gotta know d kind of girl u are dealing with. Cuz if u deal with an hoelosho girl like a normal girl, *buzzzzz* u got Blockedzone . Typical hoelosho girl language, "straight to d point", no dilly-dallying. Daz all d hint I will give u, figure out d rest on ur own. So u gotta play ur game like a mirror, relate with her d kind of person she is: square peg in a square peg, not round hole. So anyway, back to d hack that works for normal girls. They are all the same. You want to win her, u gotta go through her bestfriend....All of them have the same bestfriend. They can't do without their bestfriend, she's glued to her bestfriend 24/7, her bestfriend knows all her secrets and fantasy and naughtiness and pretension, her freaky freaky side and every bad thing she hides from everybody else while forming goody goody . And their bestfriend is.........
..........
...
....................her
.......
....
......
.... PHONE
So before u start planning all this one on one interactive session, make sure u have already done ur homework with her phone. If she doesn't like chatting u on phone, she won't like u chatting u in real life either.

nor vex bro,but I nor see one single sign of sense in this your comment

Openbusiness:
See, let me tell u something, it's not like the girl wasn't interested in you, but you missed your way and got....emm....wars dah word Americans use.....emm.....yeahhhhh, you got cockblocked . Let me share u one lil secret about women in this generation that I discovered. They all have this 1 bestfriend in the whole world, and if you can get this her bestfriend to like you, as in win this her bestfriend over to your side, then it is finished. Just relax, her bestfriend will make her start chasing you for dinner dates and hangouts. I mean normal girls oh, this applies to normal girls only, not HOELOSHO typa gehs So, first and foremost, u gotta know d kind of girl u are dealing with. Cuz if u deal with an hoelosho girl like a normal girl, *buzzzzz* u got Blockedzone . Typical hoelosho girl language, "straight to d point", no dilly-dallying. Daz all d hint I will give u, figure out d rest on ur own. So u gotta play ur game like a mirror, relate with her d kind of person she is: square peg in a square peg, not round hole. So anyway, back to d hack that works for normal girls. They are all the same. You want to win her, u gotta go through her bestfriend....All of them have the same bestfriend. They can't do without their bestfriend, she's glued to her bestfriend 24/7, her bestfriend knows all her secrets and fantasy and naughtiness and pretension, her freaky freaky side and every bad thing she hides from everybody else while forming goody goody . And their bestfriend is.........
..........
...
....................her
.......
....
......
.... PHONE
So before u start planning all this one on one interactive session, make sure u have already done ur homework with her phone. If she doesn't like chatting u on phone, she won't like u chatting u in real life either.

And for girls that don't have best friends, how does this your theory work on them?

Account2Many:
I've already deleted the number and moved on but I'm still pained.
I know the time she closes from work and I know the path she takes home, I may likely block her

Likely block her flow what, in fact you need to be dealt with more than this.

You bleeped up, gee

She gave you signs from the beginning. And you still went ahead


One thing I learnt from ubunja is to never force yourself on girls. They will use it against you. God save you say she no wreck you

A lady asked you why you are disturbing her, you still went on to ask where she was... Lol ha haha haha you got what you deserve!

One thing I've noticed about you guys is You always place your interest at the center, it is always about you! About when you call, when you get to meet a lady, how you want the date etc... You don't have the self respect /esteem to be patient and be wanted, you are always imposing yourselves where you aren't wanted. Little wonder most of you either get disrespectful turn downs or you get "magarized"

I think its high time you lots take several steps backward and for once try to be valued. It won't hurt if you don't call or meet up that light skinned girl immediately, you won't die if you take out time to get a girl emotional invested in you till she request a meet up. You won't die nah!

Dem never born her (in rudeboi's voice )

Sixfeetbelle:
And for girls that don't have best friends, how does this your theory work on them?

Lol... I couldn't even read that crap to the end... So after meeting a lady, you start the ultimate search to know her best friend. Like "keeping up with my crush's best friend " lol.. These guys try too hard!

BornSnner9:
That's why I like myself..

Any girl wey I come in contact with wey begin dey do like patience ozokwor.. I go just delete their contact.. I cherish my peace

Me too

Sixfeetbelle:
And for girls that don't have best friends, how does this your theory work on them?

which girl in this Nigeria above 18 years will you see that doesn't have a smartphone? I'm not talking about village girls oh. City and urban areas. All of them do, or let's say 97% do. The maybe 3% who don't have are negligible.

Palema007:
Lol... I couldn't even read that crap to the end... So after meeting a lady, you start the ultimate search to know her best friend. Like "keeping up with my crush's best friend " lol.. These guys try too hard!

Funny enough I didn't read it till the end. Just saw where he mentioned best friend and decided to ask question that applied to me.

Nigerian men are funny creatures tbh. And their ego that makes them think they're "above" is majorly their undoing. They actually believe what worked for lady A should work for lady B forgetting that there's something known as "individuality"

Openbusiness:
which girl in this Nigeria above 18 years will you see that doesn't have a smartphone? I'm not talking about village girls oh. City and urban areas. All of them do, or let's say 97% do. The maybe 3% who don't have are negligible.

I'm confused. How does best friend and smart phone relate?

theophilusj31:
nor vex bro,but I nor see one single sign of sense in this your comment

it's not for everyone to understand. Your mind has to resonating at a woke mental frequency to get it

Palema007:
A lady asked you why you are disturbing her, you still went on to ask where she was... Lol ha haha haha you got what you deserve!

One thing I've noticed about you guys is You always place your interest at the center, it is always about you! About when you call, when you get to meet a lady, how you want the date etc... You don't have the self respect /esteem to be patient and be wanted, you are always imposing yourselves where you aren't wanted. Little wonder most of you either get disrespectful turn downs or you get "magarized"

I think its high time you lots take several steps backward and for once try to be valued. It won't hurt if you don't call or meet up that light skinned girl immediately, you won't die if you take out time to get a girl emotional invested in you till she request a meet up. You won't die nah!

coming from a lady, i'm impressed

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Palema007:
A lady asked you why you are disturbing her, you still went on to ask where she was... Lol ha haha haha you got what you deserve!

One thing I've noticed about you guys is You always place your interest at the center, it is always about you! About when you call, when you get to meet a lady, how you want the date etc... You don't have the self respect /esteem to be patient and be wanted, you are always imposing yourselves where you aren't wanted. Little wonder most of you either get disrespectful turn downs or you get "magarized"

I think its high time you lots take several steps backward and for once try to be valued. It won't hurt if you don't call or meet up that light skinned girl immediately, you won't die if you take out time to get a girl emotional invested in you till she request a meet up. You won't die nah!

[/s]stop being stupid and learn to reason with your sense for once.
Why didn't she put a call through to let me know she wouldn't be able to make it?
If your daft brain can't reason properly then get the fucck outta this thread.
Ewu

Sixfeetbelle:
I'm confused. How does best friend and smart phone relate?

your smartphone is your bestfriend.

you didnt realise you were a simp all these while.

LedRock:
No one is talking about how rudely the girl behaved, she had an agreement with him and disappointed, there is no need shouting and cursing when you reject someone. I have many girls that shoot their shots at me and I reject them without any commotion.

No wahala na all these simp guys dey make all these girls feel fly.

I guess a lot of people are just toxic, and they resonate with each other. That's the same reason why you see many people donating money to that Erica lady on big brother and they won't talk of Nengi's manipulation, only Ozo's fault.

So OP, just assess people's attitude to life before you get close to them.

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Sixfeetbelle:


Funny enough I didn't read it till the end. Just saw where he mentioned best friend and decided to ask question that applied to me.

Nigerian men are funny creatures tbh. And their ego that makes them think they're "above" is majorly their undoing. They actually believe what worked for lady A should work for lady B forgetting that there's something known as "individuality"

Lol... Same here, i don't have bestie but i have friends. Even with friends they will most likely tell you the truth you should have picked up from signs or direct responses from Me. Going to Cambridge to study my friend in order to get to me is a complete waste of time. My friends will even mock you for such childish move. If I like you, you will know. If I don't you will also know, very clear and simple.

The bolded is very true! To them, they must be the one to control how everything goes. One thing i find annoying about them is that "Let's meet up " question /command they are always eager to dish. And i begin to wonder, if i had ever shown the intention or interest to meet up. Some, I practically correct that the question should be "would you like to meet up"? And not "let's meet up" like you own the oxygen I breathe. Seriously there are many ways these guys expose themselves to exploitation and ridicule because of their silly egos.

Individuality, diversity, dynamic level of exposure, philosophies/principles, so many factors to consider when trying a new theory but all these excludes the typical Nigerian Man who sees everybody as the same. Sadly when he get caught up in his delightful ignorance, everybody except him is at fault. So unfortunate.

Account2Many:
stop being stupid and learn to reason with your sense for once.
Why didn't she put a call through to let me know she wouldn't be able to make it?
If your daft brain can't reason properly then get the fucck outta this thread.
Ewu

Here we go again with the entitlement mentality and never taking responsibility attitude. A lady you've known for months never for a second called or flashed you. Even when you do and she misses it, she never called back. Anyone with a brain that reasons will know he or she isn't wanted. But like the Black monkey you are you kept on imposing your self on her till she grudgingly accepted a hang out.

That lady owed you nothing! It is only out of respect she would have called you to cancel unfortunately she doesn't have any for you. You never placed yourself on that pedestal to start with. Dude grow some esteem and stop being entitled! Next time, don't force yourself on people!

Account2Many:
I met this pretty tall and gorgeous looking girl 3 months ago, we exchanged numbers but she hasn't been calling which is a sure sign that she isn't into me and I understood.
I'm the only one that has been doing all the calls and checking up but she has never for once flashed, even when she misses my calls she will never call back.
So I recently came back after I travelled cos I'm on my annual leave, I called her and told her I'll like to see her, she said she isn't always chanced but obliged to see me after she closes from work by 6pm then she'll drop by a certain rendezvous we agreed on.
So by 5:30pm I got myself well dressed went to the ATM withdrew some cash, and waited for her but she closed from work and went directly back home without calling me, I waited till 7pm and since I didn't see her calls, I now called thrice, she wasn't answering, then I later called the fourth time and she picked the call and started blasting me with words like "why am I disturbing her life? am i that jobless? go find a job and all those profane words"
I now asked her where she is and she responded that where she is it's not important to me" I should stop disturbing her life and go get something useful to engage in.
Mehn after she insulted and embarrassed me on phone I just kukuma ended the call and went back home.
[s]I'm suspecting she's a lesbian.
Honestly I'm so ashamed of myself, it's not easy coping with rejection or insults from female folks[/s]

So the ones who sacrifice thier puna for your directionless dick are those confirmed not to be lesbians