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Re: The Red Truth by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 22, 2020
Making sense
Re: The Red Truth by Kalatium(m): 3:30pm On Sep 22, 2020
purpinkx:


I've sent it.

Once again, I appreciate what you're doing.

Teach our young men that redpill doesn't end at getting women, its lessons can be used to improve one's life and that of the people around them.

We just have to be that strong pillar others can depend on in times of weakness.

Thank you!


Trur bro

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:40pm On Sep 22, 2020
purpinkx:


I've sent it.

Once again, I appreciate what you're doing.

Teach our young men that redpill doesn't end at getting women, its lessons can be used to improve one's life and that of the people around them.

We just have to be that strong pillar others can depend on in times of weakness.

Thank you!


Wow bro, thanks very much.

I was busy didn't see it earlier hence the late reply, however i am very greatful.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 3:45pm On Sep 22, 2020
themaestro08:


Never know we have a great OG right here on naira land. You are doing well bro.
Great OG? Lol don't you think is too much for only me?

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:25pm On Sep 22, 2020
vislabraye:


Let them continue crushing on Dwayne Johnson and the Tyler Perry. Lolz
Don't mind them. The fact is that Dwayne Johnson and the Tyler Perry will never consider them for they are way out of their league.

Do you know the first day majid michel met Genevive, he helped her hold her hand bag and was following her around. However , to her he is way below her. She once roll with ATIKU.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:25pm On Sep 22, 2020
– If you allow a woman’s motherly nature and good looks to conceal the great mental cruelty she is capable of, you will be in for a most revolting awakening the eve she opts to betray you.

– You may be unable to trust a woman, but you can trust her hypergamy – act accordingly.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:34pm On Sep 22, 2020

– Never elevate a woman beyond your station, should you help a woman to improve herself, ensure it is not to the extent she surpasses you. As the late and great Patrice O’Neal would fondly assert, a king can make a woman queen, but a queen cannot make a king. Even as esteemed as the position of queen is, it’s still beneath that of king, and this dynamic plays out universally in male-female relationships.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 4:38pm On Sep 22, 2020
– Being a weak and passive man is dangerous, it could cost you everything you hold dear, including your sanity. Next time you feel even a tinge of guilt for being a jerk to a woman, remember how devoid of sympathy hypergamy is when a man is beneath rather than above it.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:46pm On Sep 22, 2020
We ride
Re: The Red Truth by purpinkx(m): 9:09pm On Sep 22, 2020
Dpsychologist:

Wow bro, thanks very much.

I was busy didn't see it earlier hence the late reply, however i am very greatful.

You are welcome. I'll go back to ghost mode so you can do your thing.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:37pm On Sep 22, 2020
purpinkx:

You are welcome. I'll go back to ghost mode so you can do your thing.
Once again thanks for that.
I will advice you to remove the screenshot of the Transfer by now.. Thanks once again
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:50pm On Sep 22, 2020
– If you treat a woman too well, she will reward you with enough pain and betrayal to make suicide seem like a viable option – do not love too much.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 9:52pm On Sep 22, 2020
Women are naturally solipsistic. The term solipsism is defined as “the view that the self is all that can be known to exist”. It can take quite a while for a man unplugging to come into an understanding of the concept and put himself into a woman’s shoes of how she views the world around her.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:02pm On Sep 22, 2020
A woman is in her own world within her head with her emotions abounding her. What she experiences and feels is exactly what she believes everyone else feels, including men. She finds it very difficult to believe that men can be viewing and perceiving things differently to herself.

Solipsism is an “inward” focused “on me” view of perceiving things. It is why they are so attention craving. Men have an “outward” focused “on that” viewpoint. Part of this is why men and women love very differently.

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Re: The Red Truth by angelfallz(m): 10:29pm On Sep 22, 2020
IghravweIG:

I'm in that phase right now. When I started taking the redpill some months ago, I felt enraged,( I still am) at how foolish and stupid I have been all this years. How I placed the interest of others(girls) above mine and the pains I have had to go through. I feel like I'm realizing too late as I'm in my late 20s.

The only validation I have is that men usually start to peak at about this time and I'm grateful that I'm getting redpilled and this will be the beginning of the rest of my life.


Keep moving forward bro, don't let the anger define your relationship with women. Also, google and download this book, "The Rational Male Positive Masculinity" by Rollo Tomassi. You would learn a lot.
Rollo is one of the foremost contributors to the manosphere and an authentic redpiller.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 10:59pm On Sep 22, 2020
Antithetically, what man views as immature behaviour, woman perceives as mature. To a woman there is nothing more interesting and mature than “understanding herself.” Whilst man desires to understand the world, a woman desires to understand herself.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:03pm On Sep 22, 2020

It’s great that you’ve found the red pill, but if you’re stuck in your head and you lack discipline, you’ll never go beyond reading. And when your life doesn’t improve, if you’re not self-aware of why it hasn’t, you’ll blame the red pill for your lack of success rather than take responsibility for your own (lack of) success.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:06pm On Sep 22, 2020
On action:

The red pill will not fix your life, it is just a tool. How you use it will determine if you manage to refashion your life into something you can be proud of.

“A good workman never blames his tools.”

The red pill is only a tool. Knowing isn’t enough, you must do. And where you fail, you must take responsibility for your failures. If the red pill isn’t working for you because you haven’t changed your approach to life, that’s your fault, nobody else’s.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:07pm On Sep 22, 2020
To get ripped, you actually have to gym. To earn more money, you actually have to work . To get girls, you actually have to approach. But you get my point.

Knowledge is pointless without application, if you have to repeat one phrase from the entire thread to yourself, it should be this. If you are too scared to do new things, you’re a prisoner of your comfort zone.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:29pm On Sep 22, 2020
The sole propriety reason a man will get shit tested is to determine his character as a man. It can either be a covert or overt method to determine whether he is an alpha or a beta and either “just gets it” or not. It is to determine how a man will cope under pressure in a situation. A big part of unplugging is going to come with understanding when one is getting shit tested so they can deal with them efficiently and effectively.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:31pm On Sep 22, 2020
A woman will gather a wealth of information about a guy just by him passing or failing one of her shit tests. It is usually to determine how emotionally vulnerable a man is.

A woman does not want to be with an emotional man; she is the emotional being so needs an indifferent, stoic alpha she can rely on for both offspring and security. Betas are generally the emotional men; alphas are the headstrong dominant men. With that said, it is usually the beta males that fail shit tests whilst the alphas pass, although red herrings can and do happen.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:32pm On Sep 22, 2020
A woman will shit test a guy she sees as short term friends with benefits, a one night stand (ONS) or potential boyfriend material. It’s hard wired into their hypergamous, opportunistic sexual strategy to find the male with the best genes for breeding.

A man will never stop being shit tested, even into a long term relationship or marriage. It is part of her subconscious “is he the best I can do” persistent questioning of her hypergamous opportunism.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:33pm On Sep 22, 2020
If a man in a relationship or marriage fails, or persistently fails, she will gradually lose respect for him and possibly even begin to resent him. The worst case scenario is she will seek out a different male if she so has the opportunity to do so based on her sexual market value and age.

Dealing with shit tests is part of improving a man’s social skills and what the manosphere calls “Game”.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:33pm On Sep 22, 2020
A woman will never love a man as he expects to be loved idealistically for “just who he is” so a man is going to want to be able to defuse shit tests with ease if he wants to be successful with women.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 11:45pm On Sep 22, 2020
Women hate to take responsibility, they hate to admit to faults, they’re so allergic to being wrong or being exposed in some negative way that rather commonly they’ll emotionally lash out, either at you or whoever is close by and seems like a suitable scapegoat in order to cover their own asses, even when what is being said is either truthful or reasonable. Women inherently value their own sense of well-being above reality and truth, justice doesn’t factor into the equation unless she personally feels indignant about the dispute at hand.

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Re: The Red Truth by wwwtortoise(m): 7:11am On Sep 23, 2020
Dpsychologist:
The sole propriety reason a man will get shit tested is to determine his character as a man. It can either be a covert or overt method to determine whether he is an alpha or a beta and either “just gets it” or not. It is to determine how a man will cope under pressure in a situation. A big part of unplugging is going to come with understanding when one is getting shit tested so they can deal with them efficiently and effectively.

I always smell shit tests miles away.

A female friend invited me to a party on the island over the weekend. Me having a tight schedule filled with work simply told her that I was low on funds and as don't usually attend such party grooves on empty pocket. Mind you it was simply an excuse to ward her off.

She instantly insisted I come and suggested she lend me some money to turn-up.

Below was my response :

Me: babe I appreciate your offer and also would have loved to turn-up but I only borrow for business or production and not for consumption.

LadyBlue: go joor, I am beginning to think that you are avoiding me.

Brethren wisdom is profitable.

Learn to live on your own terms.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 7:12am On Sep 23, 2020
To remain in delusion is Blue Pill
To undergo emancipation is Red PIll
—Dpsychologist

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Re: The Red Truth by olatayo8296(m): 5:21pm On Sep 23, 2020
Dpsychologist:
"No men who really think deeply about women retain a high opinion of them; men either despise women or they have never thought seriously about them."
"Women love us for our defects. If we have enough of them, they will forgive us everything, even our intellects."

I have a question regarding this, I thought a man wasn't supposed to show any signs of weakness when dealing with the affairs of a woman?

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Re: The Red Truth by olatayo8296(m): 5:23pm On Sep 23, 2020
Dpsychologist:
"How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being”

"A woman uses her intelligence to find reasons to support her intuition."


Can you explain this a bit more or give a typical example?
Re: The Red Truth by olatayo8296(m): 5:40pm On Sep 23, 2020
Dpsychologist:


“ Stimulating a woman’s imaginings is the single most potent talent you can develop in any context of a relationship."

..... Rollo Tomassi



How can this be achieved?
Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 5:58pm On Sep 23, 2020
olatayo8296:


How can this be achieved?
This is related to being mysterious and keeping her under suspense. This will intrigue her imagination.

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Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist: 6:07pm On Sep 23, 2020
olatayo8296:


Can you explain this a bit more or give a typical example?
If you remember closely when i was discussing on female Psychology i talked about solipsism and rationalization.

The above sentence means that she uses her rationalizing to support her solipsism.
Solipsism has to do with her intuition, what she feels is ok for her. After she has made that decision she then find reasons to support her behavior which is the rationalizing(her intelligence).

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