Jeromejnr:

Lol..I love this chick.

ednut1:
this is false. Women of these days give only pekus without feelings. A typical guy has 2 to 3 girlfriends while the ladies have maybe 3 plus one rich sugar daddy. No emotions

Chino4NAUTH:

Your uncle did fine by taking his family over.. I'm not talking about those who take their families over with time, I'm talking of those who have no plan to do so.. Who just want their wives stay in Nigeria permanently while they're abroad.. I hope u understand better now

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

anonimi:


I thought that men are more promiscuous than women- married and unmarried

stagger:


His mind is filled with filth. He can only give what he has. Imagine his insinuations. Some people have no limits.

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

Pauladex:
You mean dog like him?

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

lefulefu:
says who? both sides are equally promiscious .just that women tend to hide their own promiscuity while men flaunt their own .About Pastor"s oyakilome"s marriage there rumours then he was having affairs with his female church members and staff.I dont know how true is this but i do know that a woman wont just wake up one morning and be suing for divorce.Most divorce tend to be the cause of infidelity and for Pastor"s Chris"s cause i might not blame him that much cos his marriage was a long distance marriage

Chino4NAUTH:
I have been hearing about women who married their husbands and the man happens to be staying in overseas or moves to overseas thereafter for economic reasons to Carter for the welfare of his family.. Why it is good and fine economically it has left a deficient emotional vacuum for the wife and children esp if it's a young family.

I have a woman in our building whose husband stays abroad but she's always looking forward to talking with me and even trying to make me her confidant but I know the risk associated and had to find my away not to get more closer to her.she has only 2 kids fresh and cute.. Mind you she's still very much pretty and young.. I never knew she was married till I saw her fine kids

Share your experience with us

anonimi:


I grudgingly agree with you, because you seem to be an experienced man on (un)married women’s equalised promiscuity with (un)married men

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

enemyofprogress:
give me her phone number biko. Helping another man’s wife especially those outside Nigeria is my calling

lefulefu:
Grave ke. .i no dey carry woman for head and i certainly wouldnt want extra luggage and disturbance when u want to travel.Most of the strong men then for benin wey i know wey no dey naija their wives have lovers who satisfy them.There will be a time ur wife will be become disillusioned with ur endless stay overseas and u making no move to bring her and the kids over.She will suspect that u probably have a woman over there and when she begins thinking like that she is at her most vulnerable moment.Any guy around who wants to strike at that point will easily strike and chop her or at that point she can easily get infulenced by a bad firend.she be human being with feelings not super woman.if u are a married and u travelling abroad and making plans to make it a permanent stay then why wont u send for ur wife and kids when u have settled? why just leave her in nigeria and be sending stipends and be giving one excuse or the other why cant bring her over.does not make sense.

Emotionss:
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I know of I woman whose husband has not return for close to 5 years now. She is still faithful as far I can tell but I do pity her because it's just a matter of time loneliness will overwhelm her.

virginprincess:
I have been noticing how you give bad advice on this forum,why you advice him to sleep with someone else wife, very bad.

Originalsly:
Hmmm.... this issue has many sides. But bottom line... if family is that important to the husband... he would never leave his pretty young family for months. Most times... things don't go according to plan.... there is no support system ... and with the last money to return home.... pride blocks the return. How can one leave for abroad and return broke?? Many do not cut their losses and remain... illegal hoping for the day when good luck will drop their way. These are the people I strongly believe get trapped abroad... the reason for their not returning... and leaving the wife and kids in limbo. But some wives be happy.... money is no problem and they be free to live as they please! But in general.... husband abroad suffers emotionally..... wife suffers more.... but most of all.... the children suffer wayyy more than we believe and it can have long term effects. Don't even ask for my source. Experience is the greatest teacher.

God1stson:

Please run from adultery. Though is neither good for the couple, the hash economic condition especially in Nigeria, is a menance to the well being of the family. Rather than stay hungry guys got to explore. It should not be a long term adventure for both parties.

anonimi:
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Michelle55:
If she can't wait, let her buy vibrator na. But it ain't an easy feat being without your spouse.

Then again, being faithful isn't something we do for our spouse like most people think, it's an individual decision to stay sane and worthy and not to turn to a public rest room where anyone can come in and deposit their spunks.

Dear men abroad about wifing our ladies in Nigeria, make una consider say body no be firewood too, make una try dey reach house at least every 6months or 1yr edakun.

As for me, I don't know if I'll be able to cope without seeing my spouse (not on the ground of sex) but I like seeing my partner every day, listen to his tales on how is day went, make him smile it off and lastly gum body

When you place value on yourself, you go wait as a wife knowing he isn't playing there but rather trying to make life easier for you and the kids.

Chino4NAUTH:

I won't mount her bro.. Let another man do... Seriously I wonder as well why men do such, living this fine young woman without any touch of a man for years.

eejo:
I left my Wife in Nigeria early this year for overseas after getting the job of my dream. My Organization is ready to move my family anytime am ready. People are leaving Nigeria because of the Economic situation and the way APC is managing the country. Don't blame the Men but the country.

lefulefu:
when u encounter different women u must always encounter married woman.there some who will even bash their husband just to get down with u even when u not interested .abegi most nigerian marriages are nothing but jokes.

virginprincess:
I have been noticing how you give bad advice on this forum,why you advice him to sleep with someone else wife, very bad.

damoobaba:


Na so you dey always give people evil advice, what kind of upbringing did you have? Iru Omo buruku wo leleyi?

MrBrownJay1:


If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?

MrBrownJay1:


That's because you failed to understand what I wrote... If wifey is already h0rny and willing to offer the toto, then we have to be honest about the situation, instead of pretending that she won't give up the toto to the 1st available Mandingo warrior.

If you believe that this is a bad advice, then so be it.



How can a man start a family then abandon the poor wife back home? I understand why many are losing their minds.

ednut1:
my uncle went to the uk in 1987. His wife joined him in 1999 after he divorced his arrangee wife. He came home every 3 years and hit the jackpot 3 times. Today all the kids are doing well abroad. He is enjoying his retirement there too. Money is very important in this life. No point staying in 9ja suffering with ur wife. She may still cheat on you.