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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Kayharry(m): 10:58pm On Sep 24, 2020
Na only one you go choose. If the man stay with the family and no money to feed them na still the woman go complain .sex or live good.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 24, 2020
erico2k2:

U know pig pikin aske him mama why she put nose 4 potor potor nah pig mama tell am say wen E old E go know why.
Sailors nor get wives abi? or U too want thier wives to go sea with them too abi??
do sailors stay in the sea for ever? cheesy..and talking of many of these guys who work in oil rigs for months hope u know the ones who are married their wives sleep around with reckless abandon cheesy.some of these men even know their wives sleep around but they have resigned themselves to fate.Most times if u have a profession that requires u travelling all the time its wise just getting a baby mama.Footballers who travel all the time to meet their games engagements if its a long trip some of them bring their wives with them.There are some medical doctors who do their jobs travelling to different regions..u have heard of doctors without border abi? some prefer marrying each other in the same profession and if the man has a passion for travelling so also will the woman.they will travel together and do their profession together.It sucks when u as a man travel for so long a time and u just live ur wife and kids for months.Sooner or later her will power will crack and men who specialise in sleeping with married women will swarm over ur wife like ants around sugar grin

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by anonimi: 10:58pm On Sep 24, 2020
MiddleDimension:

But Oyakhilome did it. He told his wife that one country is too small to for the both of them!

Touch not our anointed o- in sheeple’s voices tongue grin


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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by InvertedHammer: 10:59pm On Sep 24, 2020
lefulefu:
probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there cheesy.Its not that complex when u overseas and want to bring over ur spouse to join u..except if u there illegally
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Talking from inexperience.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by virginprincess(f): 10:59pm On Sep 24, 2020
larryking540:


some guys are like that ,fire way day quench never meet am
i reall pity him.
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by larryking540: 11:00pm On Sep 24, 2020
Michelle55:
If she can't wait, let her buy vibrator na. But it ain't an easy feat being without your spouse.

Then again, being faithful isn't something we do for our spouse like most people think, it's an individual decision to stay sane and worthy and not to turn to a public rest room where anyone can come in and deposit their spunks.

Dear men abroad about wifing our ladies in Nigeria, make una consider say body no be firewood too, make una try dey reach house at least every 6months or 1yr edakun.

As for me, I don't know if I'll be able to cope without seeing my spouse (not on the ground of sex) but I like seeing my partner every day, listen to his tales on how is day went, make him smile it off and lastly gum body cheesy

When you place value on yourself, you go wait as a wife knowing he isn't playing there but rather trying to make life easier for you and the kids.
thank for been real babe

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by franchasng: 11:00pm On Sep 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?
all humans need to be liberal about sex, don't take it too serious, if your wife or hubby meets someone she or he fancies and she needs some cooloff, please let her get some dick, life is too short.


Marriage now should be open for partners to sample others without stigma, that way, society is happy.


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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:01pm On Sep 24, 2020
larryking540:


oga I don't understand u ,a young guy should go sleep with someone's wife ? why kin guy u be self ?
but many young guys do it.na the way way many of these young sugar boys dey take feed for abuja or abi i lie?
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Ndipe(m): 11:01pm On Sep 24, 2020
The other way round . . . husband in Nigeria chasing contracts or is in politics, while the wife is abroad because of the good educational system . . . is the one that I have noticed which I think is quite common.
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by larryking540: 11:01pm On Sep 24, 2020
Mrscarter:


Going without sex isn't that hard.
I don't see how ppl can't do it.
It's no big deal. It depends on your priorities in life and how important your wife/husband is to you and how much you love them

if u occupy the lady with one or 2 tins back home sex will be the last tin she will think of all day , except she has some virus call a friend's

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:03pm On Sep 24, 2020
Michelle55:
If she can't wait, let her buy vibrator na. But it ain't an easy feat being without your spouse.

Then again, being faithful isn't something we do for our spouse like most people think, it's an individual decision to stay sane and worthy and not to turn to a public rest room where anyone can come in and deposit their spunks.

Dear men abroad about wifing our ladies in Nigeria, make una consider say body no be firewood too, make una try dey reach house at least every 6months or 1yr edakun.

As for me, I don't know if I'll be able to cope without seeing my spouse (not on the ground of sex) but I like seeing my partner every day, listen to his tales on how is day went, make him smile it off and lastly gum body cheesy

When you place value on yourself, you go wait as a wife knowing he isn't playing there but rather trying to make life easier for you and the kids.
have u forgetten we nigerians are pretenders grin grin grin grin..which nigerian man go gree buy vibrator or tell im wife to buy vibrator cos he wants to travel grin.its like u have forgetten how will abhor masturbation but do it in secret anyway grin grin grin grin.A white guy would be more practical and buy his wife intimacy gadgets if he is travelling for a long time but a nigerian man if im wife dare suggest such he will call her demonic grin grin

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by sircatherine45(m): 11:03pm On Sep 24, 2020
OP gimme the married woman number.
I'm good in knacking married women
it's my hobby
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:

If you don't mount her, someone in the area eventually will. Body no be firewood. Only a foolish man would go at the other side of the world for years and expect his wife to patiently wait. What kind of evil man would even expect that of a wife?

Brownjay you be fool grin grin
That na advice? You're a drunkard cheesy cheesy

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by franchasng: 11:04pm On Sep 24, 2020
lefulefu:
probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there cheesy.Its not that complex when u overseas and want to bring over ur spouse to join u..except if u there illegally
what if the man abroad doesn't have a legal paper to bring his wife and kids over

You should know that not all Nigerians living abroad have full legal resident permit to start the process of bringing their wives and kids over, not that they are married abroad and don't want their wives and kids to join them.


You are polluting the minds of such ladies right now, be mindful of what you post on forums like this, especially when it's a family issue oh, hmmm

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MemoriesAndMe: 11:06pm On Sep 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


Because they value MONEY above everything... So they have no problem abandoning their family to go chase some whatever, far away from their family. I fully understand why such desperate woman fall prey to men.
Its not always all about money bro, what about if he wants a working system for his wife and kids? Many wont travel overseas if the system in Nigeria works, hence less families will be torn by the distance barrier.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by erico2k2(m): 11:06pm On Sep 24, 2020
lefulefu:
do sailors stay in the sea for ever? cheesy..and talking of many of these guys who work in oil rigs for months hope u know the ones who are married their wives sleep around with reckless abandon cheesy.some of these men even know their wives sleep around but they have resigned themselves to fate.Most times if u have a profession that requires u travelling all the time its wise just getting a baby mama.Footballers who travel all the time to meet their games engagements if its a long trip some of them bring their wives with them.There are some medical doctors who do their jobs travelling to different regions..u have heard of doctors without border abi? some prefer marrying each other in the same profession and if the man has a passion for travelling so also will the woman.they will travel together and do their profession together.It sucks when u as a man travel for so long a time and u just live ur wife and kids for months.Sooner or later her will power will crack and men who specialise in sleeping with married women will swarm over ur wife like ants around sugar grin
I sense you are a young man who is not married yet, so I wont expect you to know the meaning of marriage commitment if you did your opinion would be different and you will respect marriage more.if you are criminal minded in the school of thought that believes cheating is a derivative of absence then no matter what the case may be, once you are away you will cheat or you will think ur wife will cheat and from my experience, I know where that leads to!

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:07pm On Sep 24, 2020
larryking540:


if u occupy the lady with one or 2 tins back home sex will be the last tin she will think of all day , except she has some virus call a friend's
her friends would always chip in and disturb her on the issue.there friends who even will link the lady to other men.If a man is unfortunate to travel for a long time leaving his wife and kids at home he should try as much as possible to communicate with them reguarly.Try and do a video call with them when u have time..video calling more better than normal call..Some guys would be giving excuses that it will make them look week or look lihostingke woman wrapper..but then we are talking of wife and not just ordinary gf.Assure her u still have her in ur heart.that might do the trick.thankfully we live in a age of andriod and iphones so videocall no go too hard.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by larryking540: 11:09pm On Sep 24, 2020
lefulefu:
her friends would always chip in and disturb her on the issue.there friends who even will link the lady to other men.If a man is unfortunate to travel for a long time leaving his wife and kids at home he should try as much as possible to communicate with them reguarly.Try and do a video call with them when u have time..video calling more better than normal call..Some guys would be giving excuses that it will make them look week or look lihostingke woman wrapper..but then we are talking of wife and not just ordinary gf.Assure her u still have her in ur heart.that might do the trick.thankfully we live in a age of andriod and iphones so videocall no go too hard.

yeah definitely ,thank God for social media,I wonder how ladies lived back in the 90s when no social media ,
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by larryking540: 11:11pm On Sep 24, 2020
lefulefu:
but many young guys do it.na the way way many of these young sugar boys dey take feed for abuja or abi i lie?
my brother I kw that for sure ,i keep telling myself ,I am not ready for marriage at the moment,even if I do ,I will definitely spend time like 2 years home with business running smoothly for me ,and I hustle for my kids mostly
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by enemyofprogress: 11:12pm On Sep 24, 2020
franchasng:
see that your long konji prick go soon hook inside something, watch and see, I go see you for front page of nl soon angry
something must kill a man grin grin

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by semyman: 11:12pm On Sep 24, 2020
eejo:
I left my Wife in Nigeria early this year for overseas after getting the job of my dream. My Organization is ready to move my family anytime am ready. People are leaving Nigeria because of the Economic situation and the way APC is managing the country. Don't blame the Men but the country.
Fake info
PDP goon spotted
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:13pm On Sep 24, 2020
erico2k2:

I sense you are a young man who is not married yet, so I wont expect you to know the meaning of marriage commitment if you did your opinion would be different and you will respect marriage more.if you are criminal minded in the school of thought that believes cheating is a derivative of absence then no matter what the case may be, once you are away you will cheat or you will think ur wife will cheat and from my experience, I know where that leads to!
pls didnt u read op"s story about his married neighbour with kids whose husband is overseas already disturbing him for sex? sadly thats how many marriages in naija with the husbands overseas tend to be.A number of their wives sleep around...except the very few who still try to keep the communication strong but then its not easy o.u are many kilometers away and ur wife is in nigeria all alone.the bedroom is cold and she is lonely.no man to hold and her friends laughing at her and urging her they have guys they can hook her up with..tell me why wont she fall.Except ur plan is to sujourn in ur adopted foreign country for a short time or u making plans to bring her over then she can still hold on..only then oo.But to be dere for donkey years with no sight in plan to bring her to join u she will become disillusioned and with what her friends are putting in her mind she will begin to doubt and suspect weda u have a new partner there with u then she will fall.Its not a new thing..it happens all the time.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by larryking540: 11:13pm On Sep 24, 2020
virginprincess:
i reall pity him.

na wa oo,I distance myself from such friends , thank God for social media ,I do advise guys if u find your self in a country that doesn't give citizen ship ,just try communicate often ,and try set up a running business for her to occupy her mind and soul for the whole day because last last na the kids we day chase the money for ,make they kw suffer like us
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Sensini123(m): 11:15pm On Sep 24, 2020
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You raised some points but what I must tell you is that hoes don't stop. Even after passing hoeing stage, a how will always jump at the opportunity of tasting a new dick, even while married. If she has truly stopped, then she's not a hoe[What has been bleeped, can not be unfucked .
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by toprealman: 11:16pm On Sep 24, 2020
Samakus:
I have one that is my neighbour currently. Moved into my apartment in January this year and my next flat neighbour is a pretty young woman with very young female twins. They were about 9 months old when I moved in. God knows I love pretty children. These kids have not seen their father before.

There's no amount of temptation I have not faced from this woman. But i have always had a principle of not touching another man's wife. Her twin kids thinks I'm their father cos I buy them things almost on a daily basis while returning from work. Sometimes I pity the young pretty woman. It's not easy for her but I can't help.

Anytime she sees a lady visit me, if you see her face eh lolz. But, it is what it is
Her face is normal. Your mind is playing games with you.
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by starwiss(m): 11:17pm On Sep 24, 2020
its a curse to sleep with someone's wife, karma will definitely return the favour. drink water and mind your business.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Ayemileto(m): 11:17pm On Sep 24, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


Because they value MONEY above everything... So they have no problem abandoning their family to go chase some whatever, far away from their family. I fully understand why such desperate woman fall prey to men.

Lol. sometimes this isn't the case.

I think it's mostly due to the family law there, and the way their courts seems to favour women more than men, especially in case of divorce.

Some men are not willing to take the risk of taking their wife there.

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by erico2k2(m): 11:18pm On Sep 24, 2020
lefulefu:
pls didnt u read op"s story about his married neighbour with kids whose husband is overseas already disturbing him for sex? sadly thats how many marriages in naija with the husbands overseas tend to be.A number of their wives sleep around...except the very few who still try to keep the communication strong but then its not easy o.u are many kilometers away and ur wife is in nigeria all alone.the bedroom is cold and she is lonely.no man to hold and her friends laughing at her and urging her they have guys they can hook her up with..tell me why wont she fall.Except ur plan is to sujourn in ur adopted foreign country for a short time or u making plans to bring her over then she can still hold on..only then oo.But to be dere for donkey years with no sight in plan to bring her to join u she will become disillusioned and with what her friends are putting in her mind she will begin to doubt and suspect weda u have a new partner there with u then she will fall.Its not a new thing..it happens all the time.
your 1st line is exaggeration and assumption, pls show me where the Op said she was disturbing her for SEX?

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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 11:18pm On Sep 24, 2020
larryking540:


yeah definitely ,thank God for social media,I wonder how ladies lived back in the 90s when no social media ,
the 80s and 90s was really tough grin.there was this lecturer then i was a kid.he travelled to uk for his Phd and during that time he got rumours that his wife was cheating on him.Though his wife aways disrespected him then when they were together in naija but dere was nothing about cheating.when he went for his phd and came back he heard news about his sleeping with another fellow lecturer in his work place.He got mad and chased her but their catholic priest called the man and talked strongly to him.He accepted her back sha but the man died some few years back.He was cleaning his car and when he bent down to clean his car tire he collapsed and died.Some ppl were saying it was high blood pressure.Ever since the priest reconciled him with his wife he was never a hppy man

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