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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Lovelypet28: 6:28am On Sep 25, 2020 |
I know a man that has left the shores of this country for 7 years, leaving the wife and daughter behind, seven years! I see her and shed tears, the man has not stabilized abroad yet. I see her and shed tears everyday, she cant cheat because it's a taboo in edo state. 2 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by TheMohican(m): 6:32am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Mrscarter: See madam, Apostle Paul said that it's best to stay chastised but if you can't then get married so as not to fall the into sin of fornication, @oyatz has said all the truth, if you choose not to believe it then it's your business 2 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 6:34am On Sep 25, 2020 |
BKsoul: Better get ready for real adult life and if you want the above permanently........start planning how to impact your partner’s life in a big way and you can’t just be there as a financial burden on him. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by TheMohican(m): 6:36am On Sep 25, 2020 |
MJluv: You're showing your ignorance. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by dalass(f): 6:39am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH: This is quite commendable.... You're one of a kind... Wish more men were like you. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Emotionss: 6:43am On Sep 25, 2020 |
[color=#006600][/color] erico2k2: Yes. The authorities are with his papers because he was at the wrong place and the wrong time. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Osobi32(m): 6:47am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Life is all about sacrifice, a good and wise woman should understand that. If a man can sacrifice the pleasure of being with his wife just to make sure that he provides for them then the wife should also sacrifice same thing and wait for him. Life is not balanced and u cant have it all. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 6:49am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Jonathan39: Thank you so much!!!!! MrBrownJay1 (OP) here is your answer! 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by emkz: 6:49am On Sep 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: MrBrownJay1, you have sometimes commented on some of my submissions here, and you don't look like a small fry in these matters. So I'd ask you to be as objective as possible: there are instances where the women are actually the ones who don't want to relocate with their husbands. They prefer the man works abroad for years and send them money home for them to build or run a business. By build or run a business, I mean using the man's sweat to take care of the man servicing them. They don't mind seeing their mugu husbands once in two years. Would you still call the husband a fool in that instance? Be objective, please. Someone raised a question in one of the earlier comments as to why people get married in the first place. I expected people to take it up because that is something many people don't understand but believe they do. Were it possible, I'd like to take that up by creating a thread and ask people why they married their spouses, how they knew the spouses were right from them, when they realized their lives got better because of the marriage, when they realized the marriage was a mistake and how they coped on the realization that their partner married them for the wrong reasons. I can tell you that if we sample 100 random persons, we'd get 500 random reasons why they get married or seek relationships. Underlying the reasons is societal expectation. Look at the minister of humanitarian affairs that only just got married at 46. I'd like to know her reasons for staying so long. I know women who are 50 and unmarried. Why do you people get married? Many fly into marriage without a clue as to what to do there. Many think they can carry their childish behaviour into marriage. Many think cheating in marriage is acceptable because their parents do it. Marriage is a BIG deal. Having attended many weddings ushering in a marriage, I get scared when I hear the words spoken at those events. Except I am 100% convinced, I won't speak those words to a partner. It is a big deal. Marriage is spiritual. It is the first gift God gave man. But many of us treat it with levity. I hear people saying women are cheating craftily in marriages than men. For those who sleep with other people's husbands and those who sleep with other people's wives, it may take 2, 7 or even 25 years or even at the time you are mounting, you shall face the consequences but not in the way you expect. Married women who have cheated, share your stories. Married men who have cheated, share your stories. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Yoighaman(m): 6:54am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH: Nice one bro, what is wrong is wrong, no matter how prevalent or the justification given....Kudos to you for standing for what you believe in. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by emkz: 6:57am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Peacefullove: I certainly won't find it easy. Yet, I won't disrespect myself and her by cheating. Ask people who are in such shoes, you'd be shocked that some men and women have stayed for years without sex (but are too ashamed to admit it). |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Thonee(m): 6:57am On Sep 25, 2020 |
I've been in this kinda situation b4, the woman had 4 cute kids and was still looking fresh like an agege bread, we became so close that her children called me uncle and she confided in me for everything and trusted me too. One day she opened up and confessed how she loves me to the moon & back and that she'll do anything for me, but for the fear of thunder, i used wisdom to turn her down even on the craziest day that she naked herself before me. I learnt a lot from the story of Joseph n Potipher's wife. 4 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by wisetech142: 6:58am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Naijaaaaa:Argentina..... Biko Stay where you are!! |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by fid3fid: 6:59am On Sep 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Oga... The way you dey talk rá rà rá person go know say you be small pikin. Make you write this down for book " f@ck no be by muscle." When you become a man you go understand! |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by dnawah(m): 6:59am On Sep 25, 2020 |
eejo:me self want leave, connect me o! |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by zeestone99(m): 6:59am On Sep 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: It's actually beyond that and A very big headache for most of them. They don't know if they should bring their wives over cos most of the men that did have no place to call home again abroad. Their wives sent them packing, some are living in their own house as slaves. It's complicated. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by zeestone99(m): 7:00am On Sep 25, 2020 |
[quote author=lefulefu post=94239818]probably the man might have married over there as well.Wen u see a guy overseas who is married and he"s not concerned about bringing his wife over then know for sure he has a woman there .Its not that complex when u overseas and want to bring over ur spouse to join u..except if u there illegally[/quote This is another angle. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Yoighaman(m): 7:01am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Samakus: You earn my respect...I doff my hat for you. Please keep up the good morals. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 7:01am On Sep 25, 2020 |
may God guide and protect them... I can't imagine that, it really scary o
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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 7:01am On Sep 25, 2020 |
erico2k2: You dey mind that idi.....t? |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Edusouls(m): 7:02am On Sep 25, 2020 |
That’s why you’re a human being, discipline, self control, and sense is the way to live This very complicated life, there are countless pretty young women everywhere, sleeping with a mans wife attracts omen to someone which would always catch up one day, keep up your ways it would surely attract you rewards in this life and next Samakus: |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Dreyton36: 7:02am On Sep 25, 2020 |
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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 7:09am On Sep 25, 2020 |
lefulefu: And so? This marriage sef? I think it’s for weaklings.......what do men need marriage or children for in this modern era? What is the use of a man accepting poverty and wretchedness just to stay and be around his wife? 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Dreyton36: 7:11am On Sep 25, 2020 |
To be honest no man happily leaves their wives in Nigeria to go hustle abroad, that's a sacrifice he's making for the family to better their lives in the future to come If the man remains in this shithole and nothing good is coming into the family, the wife will still abuse him one way or the other If a man travels abroad for greener pastures, the least the woman can do is to be faithful and respect the ring on her finger, horniness only comes when you think about sex, the feeling don't just come ordinarily I've seen a man bring overseas hustling while the wife here I'm Nigeria gets herself busy by handling a business She sometimes assists the husband especially when he travelled newly when his two feet weren't fully grounded A woman that will cheat will still cheat no matter how close the man is to her I have a neighbor (woman) she sleeps with any man who gives her a single smile Her husband works around our area, he's always available yet almost all the men in our area has fvcked her If she's doing all that under his nose then how's it gonna be if the man was abroad New gotv with remote control and receipt for sale Location : Lagos Price 5k 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 7:15am On Sep 25, 2020 |
lefulefu: And so? That’s the end of the world? |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 7:21am On Sep 25, 2020 |
favor2016: Ok, so the man abandon Qatar because of his wife’s pussy? Abi? |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ufotty2001: 7:23am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Mrscarter:Keep on acting like a saint and be decieving people. No wonder you register a new moniker in nairaland here to clean up your past life... I have met people like you before...!!! I bet you! what you are saying is fake and misleading.. just to lieu the innocent guys in... If you are genuine, reply me with your old account.. nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 7:23am On Sep 25, 2020 |
lefulefu: Foolish footballer guy! All men should get their heart hardened. A woman does not and will never be your property. In the western world you are nothing but partners! 2 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Mrscarter(f): 7:24am On Sep 25, 2020 |
larryking540: U mean like bad influences? Yeah sometimes ppl make choices the way their friends do. I used to be easily influenced as a teen |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ibedun: 7:27am On Sep 25, 2020 |
SUXXI: Well done SIR! However make some allowances for disappointment from the kids or your wife but good luck sha! I did the opposite, poor me but I am prepared for the consequences. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Firstcitizen: 7:27am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Samakus: You buy her kids stuff daily. Kwantinu. For Warri we talk say na from clap dem dey enter dance |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by bigblow(m): 7:27am On Sep 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: This is what you get when you ask children questions about adult stuff. How in your right mind did you contemplate the idea of even sleeping with somebody else’s wife because the husband is unavailable? Eventually, you will understand life better as you grow up! 1 Like 1 Share |
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