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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Mrscarter(f): 8:36am On Sep 25, 2020 |
ufotty2001: This is my first time on nairaland. Lol I'm not a saint. I'm just me. I'm loyal and why's that so hard to believe. Not every person is the same. I don't want to lure anybody in lol. I have someone already. Why would wat I said lure anybody in. I don't know how your mind thinks. Why U think I need to lie? But it doesn't matter U can believe wat U like cos I know the truth n that's what matters. Maybe you've never met a girl who can control themselves before? Maybe U can't control yourself? So U think everyone is the same. I pity U there that U think the worst of ppl. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by DexterousOne(m): 8:43am On Sep 25, 2020 |
ednut1: I agree |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by DexterousOne(m): 8:49am On Sep 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: You are so right |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Mrscarter(f): 8:50am On Sep 25, 2020 |
lefulefu: I dnt mean going without with Ur husband/wife lol. If Ur away from them then abstaining n being faithful. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by professore(m): 9:04am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH:WOW, if this is real...you have my respect brother. As for me, I always remind myself never to put a woman who loves me in this kind of situation. It is like ignorantly giving the devil chance. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by alfarouq(m): 9:05am On Sep 25, 2020 |
As a married Muslim man traveling abroad to study or work without going with your family, the longest you can be away from your family without traveling back to visit them ( wife especially) is 4 months, after that, it is a sin, you can visit and travel back later on but you have to visit or take them to you at least every four months. 3 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 9:06am On Sep 25, 2020 |
ednut1:Guy dey careful make sense no kill you. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by sammysmiles(m): 9:08am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH:one time like that I was trying to advice a young man going overseas and leaving his wife and daughter here in Nigeria on this forum that family first before any unpredictable hustle but everyone was not seeing things from mine own perspective... |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by emkz: 9:08am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Hokage123: Many of them do so because they feel the abroad women are too exposed, and fear that bringing home-based women abroad would give the women the exposure of the abroad-based women, which they feel is potentially calamitous. Because if there is gbege, they might lose everything they worked for to the abroad woman. In some cases, the women don't want to relocate because they have ulterior motives. When I was in the UK, someone I was seeing in Nigeria refused to relocate and had shady behaviour. She was extorting me and funding her relationship with my sweat. She was putting her head on a married man's chest while talking to me on the phone. For her, relationship was a game. I knew but played along but stopped sending her money. I returned home and broke up with her. She fought me for breaking up with her. Some do it because they want to return home and settle and won't want to start a family late. The ones I have issues with are those who run parallel families at home and abroad. So listen to everyone's story before making a strong statement. I have seen a case where a woman started a relationship and had to go to the US for her graduate studies. Her then fiance paid part of her fees. They are married today and are counting 16 years. I also knew a woman from the Haiti who took a break from a relationship with her husband who had cheated and was abroad for two years. She didn't cheat but the husband cheated away. She returned to him and tried to work things out until the woman her husband was sleeping with disrespected her again. She left the marriage and left Haiti. She is in Canada now and married someone sensible. So I advise caution when dishing advise, especially in things you have no experience. It works for others and fails for others. Do what works for you. Life does not have the same manual for everyone, you shall reap everything you sow. That is my own manual. Edited. 3 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by thuxzwda1: 9:09am On Sep 25, 2020 |
ednut1:"she will still cheat on you"...bliv me |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by samsolite(m): 9:13am On Sep 25, 2020 |
lefulefu: ... 2 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Philipxxxx0: 9:13am On Sep 25, 2020 |
The best thing now is baby mama's |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by samsolite(m): 9:14am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by samsolite(m): 9:17am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Arcbox: .. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by IamPlato(m): 9:17am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Samakus:try contactin the man and tell him his wife needs attention. if he doesnt respond then bang the woman so you can show the man that he is stupid and save her the trouble of sexual torment |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Nobody: 9:28am On Sep 25, 2020 |
emkz:Nna eh, your wisdom will never go down...I know a woman right now , whose husband cheats ti the extent of renting an apartment for a sidechick in the same street they live, when she got to find out, she forgave, she works in a good company, all the properties this woman has, are all in her husband's name. as in, me sef i weak, but one thing i have come to find out is that our level of loyalty varies. LOVE IS LIKE BUILDING A FOUNDATION, so many things are attached with loyalty and trust, endurance and patience being some of the major factors, when you build your love foundation well, at a stage, there are things you will no longer be scared of... and if the foundation is faulty, sooner than later the marriage will collapse, then the partners start living a lie. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by SweetBrownBuns: 9:35am On Sep 25, 2020 |
BKsoul:. Truth |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by lereinter(m): 9:37am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by lereinter(m): 9:40am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Parisian: How will a wife be a slave to a husband who's not around for a long time But Thank God you have wise up |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Izabel(f): 9:41am On Sep 25, 2020 |
zexy2030:Nonsensical. You seem so sure of your facts. Maybe you were a female in your past life. Joker 3 Likes |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Shaev7(m): 9:44am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Chino4NAUTH:Stand on your ground bro. it's not good. I have them here. In fact, they run after young guys. To me I can't leave my family. They are my first and immediate community. That ideation is futuristically risky. 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by kelmicheal: 9:47am On Sep 25, 2020 |
There is nothing wrong here, the facts that the woman has two kids even if the husband is far away so the children will be her companion. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by jalonwins: 9:54am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Samakus:Na Love Machine sure pass |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by edunaragold(f): 9:55am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Na your sister Bleep her joor Pls take just be helping her service her engine oil. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Ginomel(m): 9:58am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Samakus: If the world is about sex, it could have been a better place than having violence. (Berlin and Amsterdam come to mind) The only discouragement is the increased immorality and the low spirituality that will prevail due to sex abuse. Imagine if married couples of the world will always indulge in mutual sex (not rape) don't you think the world will be better off without violence. Unfortunately, all things can never be equal. Because once there is a sexual abuse, miscreants will be born and they will turn to terrorists/violence. But imagine a world of clean romance, there would be more peace in the world. The question is, can we ever have a clean and approved romance?? 1 Like |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Dpundict: 10:02am On Sep 25, 2020 |
cooooooks:Wtf!!! Friends to munch and chew on my wife? No. Never ever |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Ginomel(m): 10:04am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Mrscarter: Let's just say you are doing it for yourself and your belief. But simply know that your partner might have his own belief and coded actions too. Simple truth. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by MiddleDimension: 10:21am On Sep 25, 2020 |
bukatyne: https://www.pastoranita.org/blog/108-happy-anniversary-to-the-best-couple-in-the-world You can read it here. She was 'submissive' and listened to her 'head' for over 17 years that one country is too small for them both. The result, she became sad to the point she lost all self esteem. This is the danger daddy freeze saw in oyedepo's teaching. He pointed and ibiyeomieand enenche came for him. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by ufotty2001: 10:24am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Mrscarter:I don't blame people like you.. I blame guys that make people like you look valuable.. running your mouth like a bug of pig that was thrown inside the ocean.. |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by SnazzyBaba(m): 10:24am On Sep 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Ode, dont follow your dream because of toto. Man dey Naija, dem dey poke him wife...woman wey go look outside go look... |
Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by Klass99(f): 10:37am On Sep 25, 2020 |
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Re: Wives Living In Nigeria And Husbands Abroad: My Encounter by dataclime: 10:46am On Sep 25, 2020 |
Samakus:Trouble version 2.0 loading bro! Be careful with your attention on her and the children. Èṣù ò nílé (Devil no get house). Na anywhere wey them allow am e dey stay. I rise! |
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