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Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by wisdomkid: 1:10am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Most guys shares an innate fear for women, and you're already stating yours. Most boys attitude towards girls who say they have "old male friends" automatically changes because it's closely related to having a hmmmm daddy. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Oturatetuala(m): 1:24am On Oct 08, 2020 |
If he's giving you cold attitude, you too give him hot attitude... Simple. |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 2:17am On Oct 08, 2020 |
old male friend? I am not being critical that u took up a job but then this issue of old male friend..as in ur ex? u said u have a fiancee and u still connecting with ex u know how it is in naija as soon as ur ex knows u have a fiancee and u about to get married he go still wan nack to get a final taste and he might just be using this matter as u being his site supervisor as a reason to get into ur pants why not just avoid ur exs so as not to put an issue in ur relationship would u feel ok if ur guy was now meeting his exs as well under the reason of one business deal or the other? anyway na ur relationship sha |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdolfHitlerxXx: 4:37am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Neurotika: It was a deliberate loss of memory. Women conveniently forget when they know the circumstances are very inappropriate. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdesewaAde(f): 5:56am On Oct 08, 2020 |
CosmicPhoenix:so how has my previous post gotten to do with this ? I may take any bullshit from you,but I won’t take calling a lair,you are free to just pass if you don’t have anything to say |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdesewaAde(f): 5:58am On Oct 08, 2020 |
lefulefu:Nope ,not an ex boyfriend Can’t you have male friends without thinking of sexual benefits in Nigeria? I’m no more getting you guys |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 6:15am On Oct 08, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:ok just a normal male friend? i thought it was an ex boyfriend.well just talk with ur man why u need to do the job.I am sane human being he will understand |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdesewaAde(f): 6:17am On Oct 08, 2020 |
lefulefu:Thank you sir I really appreciate,but I already stopped the job |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by TheUndercover: 6:18am On Oct 08, 2020 |
AdesewaAde: It proves your story doesn't add up and probably you're trying to hide something. Don't try to prove you're right. You're very wrong. You just came to post your story here to get validations for your actions because some people might support you and to boost your ego. You're just being emotional in your writeup so people can believe you. Don't try to emotionally manipulate or blackmail the man. Another person might have done even worse. That's a stupid thing to do. You have to apologise sincerely with words and actions to your man. I'm not saying you shouldn't work, but forgetting to tell your man that kind of development? That's not acceptable. You should have seek permissions from him before anything. You can't just decide some things on your own. You guys are together for a reason. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 6:19am On Oct 08, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:ok for peace to reign either way its all for the best 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Damitism: 6:23am On Oct 08, 2020 |
White knights plenty for here. |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by IjebuWarrior: 6:52am On Oct 08, 2020 |
AdesewaAde: Keep deceiving urself, we sabi una type 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Olakunleyakub(m): 6:54am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Why there is nothing wrong to make your own money, I must say that you deliberately decided not to tell him about the new development cos the guy has been turning down ur business financial request for a while now and you think this is the time for you to proof to him that you are not a Leaches neither a parasite.madam pls calm Down. On a final note, Pls follow the advice of the first Lady that commended.. Be careful and wary of that ur old freindooooooooooo cos only few men do something for women this days without expecting something in return from them ooooo....pls be reminded that the strongest of all women falls wen they faces a constant temptation and what are those temptations 1.money 2.fake or assurance from men Solution Pls be humble and find a way to appeal to him til he wil learn how to be calming down! AdesewaAde: 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Bennysam: 8:19am On Oct 08, 2020 |
If you stop this lie and tell us the truth , it will be better for you me us because you will get a better advice |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by femi4: 8:21am On Oct 08, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:He wants you to be solely dependent on him for EVERYTHING...... Run away from such men, else you ll end up without purpose in life |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by YoungDaNaval(m): 8:27am On Oct 08, 2020 |
iamadonis2:Lmfao |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 8:41am On Oct 08, 2020 |
This story reminded me of my close friend, a site engineer cum lecturer, last year he was constructing a big house for a guy that based in europe, he contacted a man to supplying gravel, sand, etc. The suppler with his wife leaved near the construction site, before you knw my friend got familiar with supplier wife, .......my friend flashed money in present of supplier wife, twinkle of eyes! Pant shifted severally, it got to a point that marriage almost collapse bcs supplier later knew, the wife even ready to abscond with my friend, she had melted for strange man with fake love, who will soon leave as soon as construction work finish. |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 08, 2020 |
AdesewaAde: Anyway, it still doesn't explain how such a vital detail was skipped. Just take am easy with am.... |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by mosdii(m): 10:37am On Oct 08, 2020 |
SweetBuns: 'Keep collecting his benefits but keep him at arms length'. What an advice from a typical Nigerian farm tool...let her continue to collect then one day, she will be obliged to pay with something. |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Ayo2004: 10:41am On Oct 08, 2020 |
So an old male friend will just tell you to supervise the site after just meeting you a long time....that guy na Sharp guy,I neva hear of this trick oo ,maybe your boyfriend is aware of all these tricks used on girls 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Samakus(m): 10:46am On Oct 08, 2020 |
Y mosdii: As in eh. That advice weak me seriously. I always tell my kid sisters, if his gifts are good for you, let him be good for you. There's no free meal even in Freetown 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Silentgroper(m): 11:01am On Oct 08, 2020 |
SweetBuns:Lawd jeezuz. men don suffer |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdesewaAde(f): 12:18pm On Oct 08, 2020 |
Bennysam:Hey yo I’m not lying,what will I gain from lying,if I don’t need you guys advice,I won’t bring the issue down here,that’s how the whole thing happened |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by cicodeblazzer(m): 2:22am On Oct 09, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:My dear quitting the job is good but not an important consolation here and now. Always discuss your plans with your man/husband with all sincerity and openness(that is called submissive respect for your man/husband as ordained by GOD) and seek his permission and approval(with all humily& loyalty). This is a contentious relationship-breaker caused by ills of feminism. My dear, if you really love him and value your relationship above all things, drop your ego, manipulative&war of will skills etc and continue apologizing to as well as appealing to him heart2heart till he forgives. Ideal Men can be anger-drunk but are cured by the humility of their woman apologizing to them and seeking their face.Dont forget an ideal virtous woman apologizes wheda she offended u or not just to save her marriage/relationship and keep her man away from the hands of delilahs lurking outside. God help u both dear.SHALOM 1 Like |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by RedPanthar: 7:17pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
AdesewaAde: Hope you both resolved it? |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdesewaAde(f): 7:28pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
RedPanthar:Yes ,thanks so much |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 7:33pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:He Is Just Being Childish. People Like Dis Don't Like Their Women Working Or Doing Anything To Get Money 4 Demselves. Dey Prefer Giving Money To Their Women So As To Av Control Over Dem. |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by LINTUNE(m): 7:34pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
if u were in his shoes, what would u do?..lets be frank here .u claim u chat with him always, yet u forgot to tell him of ur new found job?, what kind of lame excuse is this .. |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Freelane33(m): 7:35pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Most of you criticizing the husband on here una weldone oooo oooo . There is something I’ll like to tell una . To every home there are always rules or laws . Na everybody know as he dey take handle him own family matter . Leave the man alone let him coach his family to wherever he likes . Woman you’re at fault . Why will you forget to tell your man that you secure a job in the first place oh but you’ve never for once forget to remind him of money he promised you : you are at fault . Beg him well well and don’t let the mistake repeat itself . There are few good men out there . I’m one of them sha . God bless all the men on here taking good care of dem family ... 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by AdesewaAde(f): 7:44pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
Truvel:you are right,we were having some conversations long time ago and he stylishly told me that men are to make money while women are to keep the house. I’m having a second thought about the relationship now,cause I’m a type of woman that I can’t stay without working,I’m not used to that |
Re: He Is Giving Cold Attitude by Nobody: 7:54pm On Oct 23, 2020 |
AdesewaAde:Let Me Be Honest With U Even Dough My Words May Sound UnHealthy To U. If U End Up Marrying Him, Den U Would See His True Colours. Dis Kind Of Likes Controling Their Women Like Robot. 1. He May Set Laws & Boundaries 4 U. ( He Chooses Who U Should Make Friend With, Talk With, Play With Etc.) 2. U May Find It Difficult To Give Ur Opinion Or He May Not Want To Hear U. 3. U Will End Up Feeling Like U Are In Prison. 1 Like |
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