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hamxee33:
Sorry dear, we are polygamous in nature Daz why Islam oks 4 wife. Alhamdulillah for the gift of Islam cuz it save me the headache of cheating!!!

yes he should have take another wife instead of cheating,it was unexpectedly to my sis

Shortyy:
Then why cheat? If it's not in the bible?

I don't condole cheating but I won't buy that men and women are equal in marriage

Poloyanabo2:
No wahala, I'll always nag and beat her if i can...Lol

Just nag. Regarding domestic violence, that's something women endure. So you would have to accept that too. And being verbally abused, for your weight and how you aren't as attractive as you once were.

Women dey try sha, I don't cheat and i don't support cheating too but the society is set-up in a way that makes it impossible for tables to be turned.

I agree. But you realize how hurt women would be when men try to justify their actions. Rather than excuse cheating, why not try to limit it? Females have as much heart and ego men have. No one want's to be cheated on. So many ladies have ended their lives as a result.

I got no regard for men that cheat, its speaks a lot about your value sysem.

Same here. It's fvck up when why turn around to play the victim card. It's either the woman/devils fault or it's genetic. Wtf!

RealEzee:
thanks for taking out time to respond bud

aiit can we say to be fair, u leaving a cheating partner is right as a man , which can imply that a woman leaving a cheating husband is right too?

In a way, a loving woman who has not cheated on her man doesn't need to stay and work out anything with a cheating man which is in form the highest form of disrespect , who if the tables were turned won't work it out with his cheating wife, true or false?

Well since you pointed out religion, citing Moses in particular, can that apply to a non believer?
can you prescribe something that a non believer will find satisfactory in this instant tho speaking about what a loving woman should do to a cheating husband ?

Boss, the problem you are having with my responses is that you are not getting what I'm implying. The foundation of the problem is that you believe man and woman are equal. Which is very untrue. Okay let me cite real life experience for you. A guy was arguing with his babe in front of our hostel. Next thing she slapped the guy. Guys were having a gist in another part. Well the guys talking looked at the side of the lovebirds and immediately resumed their talk when they saw it was the boy that was slapped, some even laughed but when this boy retaliated by slapping the girl he was beaten by these guys there. You see why didn't they leave them to thrash it out like equals. Simple because they aren't equal. A man is meant to be dominant why a Lady is to be submissive.

demmymoney:
I don't condole cheating but I won't buy that men and women are equal in marriage

That's where the trouble is. Man and women aren't equal. Mentally, physically, matrimonially, culturally. The problem starts when you put a woman on a pedestal with a man or you try to cage a man to a women's level.

fattprince:
Boss, the problem you are having with my responses is that you are not getting what I'm implying. Simple because they aren't equal. A man is meant to be dominant why a Lady is to be submissive.

A submissive lady just got killed by her dominant husband. The thread is on FP and I am sure you viewed it, please use this energy to go give your voice on how women should WORKOUT such marriages. We are waiting, Sir.

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We seriously need to be guided.

nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

demmymoney:
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fattprince:
That's where the trouble is. Man and women aren't equal. Mentally, physically, matrimonially, culturally. The problem starts when you put a woman on a pedestal with a man or you try to cage a man to a women's level.

Does the gender not being equal has anything to do with a man having the right to cheat but a woman doesn't?

bdchange:
Does the gender not being equal has anything to do with a man having the right to cheat but a woman doesn't?

Or does it have anything to do with the effects on the other partner?

Will HIV and Gonorrhea say “women are not equal to men, so we won’t infect the wife?”

Seeing that they are all christians, I guess they believe in hell. Will hellfire be lowered for cheating men?

I will really want to know what part of inequality erodes common sense and conscience. Fattprince can put us through.

pocohantas:
A submissive lady just got killed by her dominant husband. The thread is on FP and I am sure you viewed it, please use this energy to go give your voice on how women should WORKOUT such marriages. We are waiting, Sir.

Oh! I'm sorry for the dead. Please don't get me wrong. When I say dominant and submissive I meant them mentally. Not physically. I don't support violence. It's like in your place of work. You can't say you want to be dominant with your Boss not it wouldn't work. But your Boss can't be abusing you physically and you are waiting for someone to tell you to resign or leave. Real men don't beat their wife. They punish them mentally. That's after reprimanding them and the said woman isn't sorry or keeps repeating it after saying sorry(please cheating from a woman isn't forgivable). If a woman is abused physically she should leave the man. Same way a man should leave a cheating woman.

nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

Cheers!
There is no excuse for bad behaviour.

Shortyy:
Hmm OK

your digits please?

This is so sad.

Jemiwizzy:
yes he should have take another wife instead of cheating,it was unexpectedly to my sis

He can't just take another wife if he claims to be a christian and took an oath of marriage in the biblical sense. Another option is to inform his fiancee before marriage that he is polygamous in nature, which means he might likely marry another wife or more wives. By so doing he won't fall under these pretenders of men that hide under men are polygamous in nature so they can cheat.

BabbanBura:
You go school so?

no I didn't,please father can you help me with educational level,

baralatie:
you see now ! you have come down to sex drive syndrome?

sex drive in animals does not make them promiscuous!

Why not just shut up since you knows nothing.
You are sounding so stupid and daft arguing what you don't know.

pocohantas:
They quote the part of the bible that is convenient, like “women SUBMIT”, then they skip the “thou shall not commit ADULTERY”.

Oh, lest I forget, they take responsibility for their actions by blaming women, nature and devil.




Yes, but the wailings no go be here sha.

I don't remember jayz blaming nature or devil, he took responsibility, presently offset is going thru the same phase n taking responsibility, ... if you love tu face songs listen to the ones he dedicated to annie, he took responsibilty. instead of shifting blames a real man wil rather marry a 2nd wife, cumma beat us naw
Buh what happens when jada cheated, we heard blockbuster grammar ; ENTANGLEMENT.
women should drop the mentality of i can eat my cake n still have it.

Some men are very faithful. It varies but most of them are flirts. Always hornyy

Poloyanabo2:
You can seclude blacks or even Nigerians if that's what gives you joy, but fact remains women got no major acheivement or contribution apart from childbirth...
They only started making waves this century with the rise of the simps all over the world.
The simps are also behind this feminist movement... let the simps hands-off and feminism will die a natural death.
And one last thing...Don't quote me again.

do you know how many girls feminism has helped.
From FGM to child marriages to girl child eduction. It's even tackled the issue of women not being allowed to work.
Be grateful. With feminism, your daughter, wife and nieces have a sane society that acknowledges their human rights.
Feminism doesn't start and end with 'romance'. Educate yourself.

pocohantas:
Or does it have anything to do with the effects on the other partner?

Will HIV and Gonorrhea say “women are not equal to men, so we won’t infect the wife?”

Seeing that they are all christians, I guess they believe in hell. Will hellfire be lowered for cheating men?

I will really want to know what part of inequality erodes common sense and conscience. Fattprince can put us through.

Okay. I give up. Though I still believe in my sentiment sha.

nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

U dont know anything. Study d bible very well n reason ur biology very well.

DaInferno:
there has to be a reason for cheating?

see this oga o, so ur wife gives you her reason for cheating and you cool with it because it was a "reason"

LMAO!!!
Chai, u wicked o.

ePoster:
do you know how many girls feminism has helped.
From FGM to child marriages to girl child eduction. It's even tackled the issue of women not being allowed to work.
Be grateful. With feminism, your daughter, wife and nieces have a sane society that acknowledges their human rights.
Feminism doesn't start and end with 'romance'. Educate yourself.

I didn't list romance there, and being a simp is not all about romance, a simp would want to support any woman to any level in life at the expense of his fellow men with little or no personal gains
Don't mention me again, this arguement you're trying to restart didn't start from here you mentioned me, kindly go to the starting if you want to argue.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Heck!Males don't need to reach orgasm to reproduce.

Where'd you get your info from?

It's the peak of sexual pleasure, not all sex leads to orgasm - when will guys get this!

Are you sure you are a man.

ePoster:
do you know how many girls feminism has helped.
From FGM to child marriages to girl child eduction. It's even tackled the issue of women not being allowed to work.
Be grateful. With feminism, your daughter, wife and nieces have a sane society that acknowledges their human rights.
Feminism doesn't start and end with 'romance'. Educate yourself.

Feminism hasn't done anything yet in this part of the world. Are you talking about equality where men can cheat because is in their nature but women should be hanged if they dare it? The supreme court verdict recently passed on women having possession on her husband's properties is still not accepted by some traditional rulers which boils down to the inferiority they believed is attached to the female folks. As long as our tradition and culture is still the focal points to decide what makes a man and a woman, then we still have a long road ahead of us before we will meet our counter-parts in the western world.

A lot of men don't know what orgasms are or even feel like.

I repeat! Not all sex leads to orgasm

Orgasm is influenced by several things

Klinee:
Are you sure you are a man.

Funny enough most women that walk away from a cheating spouse end up almost all the time dating another married man and this is the one million dollar question begging for an answer.

Was the divorce necessary in the first place ?

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

So there should be a reason for cheating on his wife on their matrimonial bed?
Like seriously?

98% Men are just irrationally selfish and inconsiderate evil demons.

their self centered, one sided reasoning on this thread has proven it once again. why get married when you don't have any desire to stay faithful and you expect your wife to just tolerate your infidelity and keep treating STDs?

later somebody wlll come and ask me why do I hate men.