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Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Jemiwizzy(f): 4:31pm On Oct 11
I don't know why men have this habit of cheating. Why must you cheat when you have a wife?

My big sis left her husband's house today because she caught her husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed.

Sometimes I think being single is the best way. All this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sister has to go through all this pain now.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:34pm On Oct 11
I express my sympathy to your sister, this might be too much to take in all at once.

Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men has this habit of cheating,why most you cheat when you have a wife,my big sis leave his husband house today because she caught his husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed,sometimes I think been single is the best way.all this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sis has to go through all this pain now.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by ReluctantAdult(m): 4:36pm On Oct 11
The reason I don't support monogamy or marriage in general. It's not a man's nature to stay with one woman.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by BBBmall25(m): 4:37pm On Oct 11
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Kekereekun123: 4:38pm On Oct 11
cheating is not new. you cant be complaining of heat inside kitchen. As your sister don leave over 10 ladies will be fighting to replace her

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by ePoster: 4:38pm On Oct 11
BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"
Reasons for cheating? What about a woman, can she have 'reasons' as well? undecided

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by thesicilian: 4:39pm On Oct 11
Why do you people keep emphasizing this matrimonial bed issue as if the ones they do outside is better? Cheating is cheating no matter where it is done and I condemn it in all ramifications.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:40pm On Oct 11
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

ReluctantAdult:
The reason I don't support monogamy or marriage in general. It's not a man's nature to stay with one woman.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 4:42pm On Oct 11
Cheating is never justifiable.

Mature couples should resolve things or even file for divorce - instead of sleeping with another person out of the blues.

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by ePoster: 4:43pm On Oct 11
Kekereekun123:
cheating is not new. you cant be complaining of heat inside kitchen. As your sister don leave over 10 ladies will be fighting to replace her
Same as corruption, ritual killings, kidnapping...doesn't make them right though.
Cheating might be common, but it's not an aspect of marriage. Your 'if you can't handle the heat, leave the kitchen' ideology is quack.
Few men would tolerate a cheating woman.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by ReluctantAdult(m): 4:48pm On Oct 11
nwaezeemmanuel:
There are successful monogamous homes.

Cheating is not in any man's gene, it is borne from a lack of self control and is just infidelity at its finest.

I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by BBBmall25(m): 4:55pm On Oct 11
nwaezeemmanuel:
Cheating is never justifiable.

Mature couples should resolve things or even file for divorce - instead of sleeping with another person out of the blues.

No One Justified That! But On The Hand, If U Know What Possibly That Innocent Man Went Through In Silent Before It Resulted To This Now. She's Saying The Man Side Now, Pls. Let Her Tell Me Her Saintimonous Sister Side Biko!

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by baralatie(m): 4:59pm On Oct 11
ReluctantAdult:
I wasn't talking about cheating in particular. What I'm saying is, our nature as men encourages polygamy. By nature I mean our testosterone and our general attraction to females. This is also prevalent in the animal kingdom so it isn't out of place.

That doesn't suddenly disappear when men get married. Therefore staying loyal is a fight against our urges and longings and since they are inherent in us, we will always be defeated from time to time.
there is no relationship between testosterone levels and promiscuity in the animal kingdom.the testosterone levels in the blood stream is to fight or flight.that is why the big cats can fight but yet the females with less testosterone are the more successful hunters because of the instinct to keep the pride alive.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by BBBmall25(m): 5:02pm On Oct 11
ePoster:
Reasons for cheating? What about a woman, can she have 'reasons' as well? undecided
This Questions Are For Simp, And From The Chief Simp Like... ***!

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Abouwaza(m): 5:03pm On Oct 11
The question is not about why are men like this
The thing is common with both sexes (ladies cheat too) and don't generalise, not all men cheat
Now ask your sister to reconcile with her hubby and pack back cos if she doesn't she will regret for the rest of her life
She will still get bleeped and before you know it, she will loose count of how many guys pounding her if she remains separated

PS who knows if your sister is also cheating, she just managed to catch the husband

Almost everybody don mad now oo

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 5:06pm On Oct 11
God bless you!

Abouwaza:
The question is not about why are men like this
The thing is common with both sexes (ladies cheat too) and don't generalise, not all men cheat
Now ask your sister to reconcile with her hubby and pack back cos if she doesn't she will regret fir the rest of her life
She will still get bleeped and before you know it, she will loose count of how many guys pounding her if she remains separated

PS who knows if your sister is also cheating, she just managed to catch the husband

Almost everybody don mad now oo

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by DenreleDave(m): 5:06pm On Oct 11
Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men has this habit of cheating,why most you cheat when you have a wife,my big sis leave his husband house today because she caught his husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed,sometimes I think been single is the best way.all this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sis has to go through all this pain now.

So what??

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by DenreleDave(m): 5:07pm On Oct 11
Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men has this habit of cheating,why most you cheat when you have a wife,my big sis leave his husband house today because she caught his husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed,sometimes I think been single is the best way.all this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sis has to go through all this pain now.

Ur sister maybe cheating too.. Who knows if she fvcks another woman husband on their matrimonial bed...

I am telling u, it is karma.. She did it for sumone and she got served too.

Case dismissed

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by ePoster: 5:08pm On Oct 11
BBBmall25:
This Questions Are For Simp, And From The Chief Simp Like... ***!
I asked you.
If a man has special 'reasons' for cheating, as you pointed out...does a woman?
You excused an awful act with a senseless comment, atleast be able to defend it. undecided

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Powerfly(f): 5:17pm On Oct 11
BBBmall25:
No One Justified That! But On The Hand, If U Know What Possibly That Innocent Man Went Through In Silent Before It Resulted To This Now. She's Saying The Man Side Now, Pls. Let Her Tell Me Her Saintimonous Sister Side Biko!


Bullshit! What makes a cheat innocent?
I'm pretty sure if the scenario swinged the opposite direction, you would have insulted the past, present and future generation of women.
Cheating in marriage is highly condemned by all and sundry. If the said 'wife' truely was a pain in the arse, what stopped him from dissolving the union so that he can freely bring in as many women as he pleases to bang. You want to vindicate him just because he is a fellow man like you. We know your type nigga. We know your type.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by GerraMeh74(m): 5:19pm On Oct 11
Am not saying this to justify the actions of the man, infedility is a terrible thing that cannot be justify no matter how cozy we try to make it look as men by saying "oh the woman might have cheated too" . Her leaving her husband because he cheated on her is not the best solution.... She should stay and find out ways in which they can work something out... The way marriages are breaking up this days is something else mehn...

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by fattprince(m): 5:20pm On Oct 11
ePoster:
Reasons for cheating? What about a woman, can she have 'reasons' as well? undecided
Her sister is cheating too. Women don't need to have reason.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Biglittlelois(f): 5:20pm On Oct 11
BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"


So there is a tangible reason for him to fvck another woman on their matrimonial bed abi? And you typed this your comment with a straight face, right?

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Biglittlelois(f): 5:21pm On Oct 11
fattprince:

Her sister is cheating too. Women don't need to have reason.


Tell God to give you back your brain, start praying......

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by GerraMeh74(m): 5:23pm On Oct 11
Biglittlelois:



So there is a tangible reason for him to fvck another woman on their matrimonial bed abi? And you typed this your comment with a straight face, right?
lol what is the big deal in this so called "matrimonial bed"? would it have been less painful assuming it didn't happen on the matrimonial bed?
Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by fattprince(m): 5:25pm On Oct 11
Biglittlelois:



Tell God to give you back your brain, start praying......
Its you who needs a brain. I'm serious, just ask your sister if she has ever cheated. Don't hear what she says its her reaction you should look at. She wouldn't want to tell you the truth cos apart from cheating keeping it a secret is what females are good at. Of course you wouldn't believe cos you are female.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by chinchonglee(m): 5:25pm On Oct 11
Jemiwizzy:
I don't know why men has this habit of cheating,why most you cheat when you have a wife,my big sis leave his husband house today because she caught his husband with another woman in her matrimonial bed,sometimes I think been single is the best way.all this cheating here and there is too much, can't believe my sis has to go through all this pain now.
See lemme tell you something.
The very moment a woman's body become weak after 2 children the man tends to get tired of her. This is because their marriage wasn't built on love. Maybe ur sis left the supposed love of her life because he wasn't ready for marriage for her current husband because he has money.
I'm nt justifying cheating. Am only trying to say most Nigerian marriages weren't built on the right basis.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Biglittlelois(f): 5:26pm On Oct 11
DenreleDave:


Ur sister maybe cheating too.. Who knows if she fvcks another woman husband on their matrimonial bed...

I am telling u, it is karma.. She did it for sumone and she got served too.

Case dismissed



You must be the man her sister cheated with, for you to know the details, expect your own karma too.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by JOACHINpedro: 5:27pm On Oct 11
Corruption will end in this country when we give 'Generalization' a break.

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by DenreleDave(m): 5:28pm On Oct 11
Biglittlelois:
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You must be the man her sister cheated with, for you to know the details, expect your own karma too.

Hope u r expecting ur karma too

Can u swear dt u av never fvcked a married man?

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by Biglittlelois(f): 5:29pm On Oct 11
GerraMeh74:
lol what is the big deal in this so called "matrimonial bed"? would it have been less painful assuming it didn't happen on the matrimonial bed?


How will you feel if you catch your wife fvcking another man on your matrimonial bed? Would it be less painful if she did it outside?

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Re: Cheating! Some Men Are Something Else by pcguru1(m): 5:30pm On Oct 11
For better or for worse is not compulsory in my opinion. Especially if one is cheating.

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