Gamesmart:


How is it not an aspect of marriage?

ReluctantAdult:

How then do you explain the usual scenario of a male animal mating with many females? Very few species are monogamous. In fact 8 out of 10 species of mammals are polygamous and that's as a result of the steep difference in the testosterone levels between these genders.

Testosterone drives libido. A highly libidinous male isn't compatible with a female with low libido. Therefore he cools off with many different females to balance off the scales. It is what it is. You can't dispute nature.

CHoccolaTE:
98% Men are just irrationally selfish and inconsiderate evil demons.

their self centered, one sided reasoning on this thread has proven it once again. why get married when you don't have any desire to stay faithful and you expect your wife to just tolerate your infidelity and keep treating STDs?

later somebody wlll come and ask me why do I hate men.

baralatie:

there is no relationship between testosterone levels and promiscuity in the animal kingdom.the testosterone levels in the blood stream is to fight or flight.that is why the big cats can fight but yet the females with less testosterone are the more successful hunters because of the instinct to keep the pride alive.

thesicilian:
Why do you people keep emphasizing this matrimonial bed issue as if the ones they do outside is better? Cheating is cheating no matter where it is done and I condemn it in all ramifications.

xhoul:


Cheating on your matrimonial bed is the worst form of disrespect to ur spouse, i think. I av seen many married people cheating but they Neva do that in their homes, what dah hell happened to hotel rooms?

M not promoting cheating but if one wants to commit a crime, shouldn't he go a long way to ensure he is never caught, or at least sound more sane when caught

nwaezeemmanuel:
We are not like the animals, we have laws and social constructs.

This is why we cannot shift cheating to testosterone because cheating itself is a human concept and binds our relationships.

Other male mammals can have several mates, because they are not governed by so much.

nwaezeemmanuel:
By the way, adrenaline does more for 'fight or flight' responses not testosterone!

Gamesmart:


Well laws and social constructs made by humans can be stupid.

Especially when they are aimed at suppressing natural urges.

So deferring to "our laws and social construct" is not a strong enough argument.

Gamesmart:


What I know and I am highlighting is that testosterone makes men very different from women.

ReluctantAdult:
The reason I don't support monogamy or marriage in general. It's not a man's nature to stay with one woman.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Well, they have not attained relationship maturity.

Simple!

If a married man or woman cheats, it means they just could not be committed enough!

No mincing of words, it's just hard truth.

Olababee:


So it's a woman's nature to stay with one man ? Just saying.. men need to learn how to have self control

nwaezeemmanuel:
Yes! There are successful monogamous homes.

ePoster:
Nope. When you get married, do you have that in your mind?
When I use the word, I mean cheating isn't a principle or foundation of and on which a marriage is built.

Gamesmart:


That is nonsense, mate.

Trying to be in relationship in a manner that suppresses you naturality and will highly never make you happy in your lifetime does not make you "mature", it makes you "delusional" (if a kind word is to be used) or "stupid" (if one is to be blunt and truthful).

All these "maturity" are just nonsense church pastor words.

A mature person takes care of himself and his interests.

Bjornson01:
Testosterone has nothing to do with flight or a fight situation, adrenaline does.

Gamesmart:


Where?

Olababee:


So it's a woman's nature to stay with one man ? Just saying.. men need to learn how to have self control

BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

nwaezeemmanuel:
What of the laws that are not stupid

Especially the kind that punishes crime, see why you have to stay open minded

If i get you, not cheating is a way of suppressing natural urges - going by what i am reading here.

nwaezeemmanuel:
This is obvious, still doesn't cover up cheating!

baralatie:

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://medicalxpress.com/news/2011-02-testosterone-spiking-winners-mat.html&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwju34qE2a_sAhWxy4UKHdElAl0QFjAKegQIBxAB&usg=AOvVaw3FmuoB7IMP-D7ZCZtwLBur

nwaezeemmanuel:
What point are you trying to make


Mine is that cheating is wrong, and men can't excuse themselves with testosterone, nature blah blah blah

What is yours?

Gamesmart:


I never said all laws are stupid. I said laws can be stupid.

What I meant (for your last sentence) is that making laws or social constructs to "suppress natural urges" is stupid and bound to fail.

For example, making laws that homosexuals must ignore their natural urge and mate with opposite sex is stupid and will fail.

Making laws or social constructs that men (or indeed women) should be monogamous is stupid and will fail.

nwaezeemmanuel:
Everywhere

I have a very close uncle in that category, knew him before and when he married.

There are many bad ones, but because 1 egg in a crate is bad doesn't mean the rest are bad

nwaezeemmanuel:
If you don't know something, accept it and be open minded.

Gamesmart:


Mine is that an overwhelming majority of men cannot stick to one woman from one point till the end of their lives except they want to be miserable till they die. So shagging once in a while outside is healthy for them, they are entitled to it and their urge is an excuse.

If the women don't like it "tough", let her build her own happiness. They are free to focus on the negligible that will not cheat.

My only objection is men who flaunt it or do there deed disrespectfully like this bring the other girl to the house).

Gamesmart:


Oga, you are not with your uncle 24 hours.

Klinee:
Like the question I asked
you, you have not reply me.
I asked are you a guy?
Because you are sounding like a woman or impotent guy from birth.
An average man knows that he can have orgasm without ejaculation but can't ejaculate without orgasm even the caption you posted here shows exactly.
So what are your points of argument?

baralatie:

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://medicalxpress.com/news/2011-02-testosterone-spiking-winners-mat.html&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwju34qE2a_sAhWxy4UKHdElAl0QFjAKegQIBxAB&usg=AOvVaw3FmuoB7IMP-D7ZCZtwLBur