OlawaleBammie:


U re rong jare!!

All I know is that it's not every husband and wife meets themselves offline, majority are online and they are doing fine.



Odabo.

Whatever

Chii59:

Whatever

must u reply??

Chii59:

Still there was a toasting and an offline meeting.

I met my ex-wife in her office f2f. People still see me as married and I am still maintaining that status.
I can toast ooo, but again I tend to see kids below 28 outside of my circle of influence

Access1125:


I met my ex-wife in her office f2f. People still see me as married and I am still maintaining that status.
I can toast ooo, but again I tend to see kids below 28 outside of my circle of influence

That means you've not yet announced your status.
Kids below 28. Guy, stop underrating people.
Even that 28, you think its a hallmark of maturity?
E be things o.
I don see men around your age range, more than 10 years my senior that were so immature and indecisive I had to pack myself out of the situationship.

OlawaleBammie:
must u reply??

Yes. Why are you polite to me tonight?
Normally you're one of the guys with sharp mouth so wetin you chop this night?

Chii59:

That means you've not yet announced your status.
Kids below 28. Guy, stop underrating people.
Even that 28, you think its a hallmark of maturity?
E be things o.
I don see men around your age range, more than 10 years my senior that were so immature and indecisive I had to pack myself out of the situationship.

I do not want a trophy wife as I consider anyone below 28 as such relative to my age, 38 and will be 39 before this year end. I consider 10 years as a huge generational gap

I dislike gossips, especially in offices and churches, hence the reason I do not want to announce my availability

Access1125:


I do not want a trophy wife as I consider anyone below 28 as such relative to my age, 38 and will be 39 before this year end. I consider 10 years as a huge generational gap

I dislike gossips, especially in offices and churches, hence the reason I do not want to announce my availability

Happy searching

:Not Everyone can confront a woman physically/offline madam ma.Well he's been married before, didn't he toast her?

Bikochi:
See how they have confused op. He's just switching sides. Oga maintain ur stand. There's nothing wrong with marrying a working class lady and she contributing to the home. Guys these days don't want a liability.

The only issue here is you are a divorcee and that would scare any lady.

Why can't you talk to ladies physically? Abi you met your ex online too?
I'm sure there are ladies around you. Church, work place, malls, etc. instead of subjecting yourself to nairaland ridicule and exposing yourself to gold digging elements.

I wish you the best of luck

uncle i lov ur name

Access1125:


Thanks once more. I would have married a Pharmacist or support my wife to become one if I were him, as oppose to allowing my wife receive peanuts in the bank.

I love smart women that can actually withstand any discussion and challenge your thought processes in a respectful manner though; I married one before, unfortunately we parted mutually as a result things beyond our control. At the end of the day, we all want to be happy

Plz explain that things being beyond control. And let's realize am not wrong...woman hardly are able to handle success and still b humble to hubby.....

Ur life,ur decisions!

Chii59:

Uncle you came to the wrong place.

would u mind to marry him?

Chii59:

What irreconcilable differences will make you get divorced and your ex wife is trying to matchmake you with someone else?
Abi is one of you queer?
Whatever it is, a divorcee is a no no for me.
I hope you get your heart desire.
Still, it would be best if you can go about it the traditional way-toasting and wooing in person.
Well what do I know? Good luck.

may he should start wooing u traditionaly....the way am seeing u




u can make a gud family thanks

Chii59:

Yes. Why are you polite to me tonight?
Normally you're one of the guys with sharp mouth so wetin you chop this night?

Aahhh!!!

So I don't mark me?? And a no come get sharp mouth laidat o , well, am sorry if I might have offended u with my words before., So sorry ma'am .





Well, dem give me rice chop but e no get meat nor fish.

oluwabunmi61010:
:Not Everyone can confront a woman physically/offline madam ma.Well he's been married before, didn't he toast her?

You know how dem take meet??

See, no b everybody get tym for women's wahala o

My guyz mom was married to the hubby tho both are now old.man sees a sweet looking federal nurse then in the early 80's .alas they have lived all their lives now...the man providing for the family 100percent..(DTS wot we guyz pray for tho)

But u won't believe this old man told me one on one,he doesn't know wot the wife earns...sh has been a federal nurse for 32years now...saved up all her money and never contributing a dime to to the family....infact sh argues it out dt its a mans duty..

He said he saw hell sending 5children tru varsity..that the worst is knowing the money is in ur house and going to get a loan for a problem to b solved.....plz don't hope on working women and support..their love for money is unparralelled...

Women are extremely stingy...and egocentric when they have money...98% won't have respect for their hubby....flee from working ladies if u want peace .especially if ur not a certain millionaire by all standard for long years to come.....only a period of need ,u will know them better.......

Access1125:

Thanks a lot. Never say never

bro i av seen a wife for u






dont doubt me




















am not an ordinary person
















she will build ur home
















she will bring peace to ur family



















she will not fail












..who is she?
















fortunately he is a nairalander












wetin be her name?!















her name is

























CHI59







SHE IS UR WIFE




doubt me and blame ursef

This matter ehn e b thing o.. as God for directive I really dont have anything to say..

Blackmann001:
You don't even know what u are asking for...!

Working ladies have even bigger problems...they want to drag the man position with you whilst not spending a dime...

U never see anything my brothet

Not all of them are like this. Hard to see a submissive successful lady though.

SocialJustice:
Not all of them are like this. Hard to see a submissive successful lady though.

Tank God u know that!....

He is rich already as he claims...all he needs is peace of mind in his home....submissive non argumentative lady is the least he shld desire......

They are pain in the ass and home breakers!

LegendAnselm:
uncle i lov ur name

Blackmann001:


Tank God u know that!....

He is rich already as he claims...all he needs is peace of mind in his home....submissive non argumentative lady is the least he shld desire......

They are pain in the ass and home breakers!

True, money makes most women act funny.

Blackmann001:


Plz explain that things being beyond control. And let's realize am not wrong...woman hardly are able to handle success and still b humble to hubby.....

Ur life,ur decisions!

I would prefer to make it a private discussion, only on interest.

My ex was a very successful lady and yet very submissive

Thanks

LegendAnselm:
bro i av seen a wife for u







dont doubt me





















am not an ordinary person

















she will build ur home

















she will bring peace to ur family




















she will not fail













..who is she?

















fortunately he is a nairalander













wetin be her name?!
















her name is


























CHI59








SHE IS UR WIFE





doubt me and blame ursef

Lol. I would kinda agree with you to a certain extent, but I suspect she is a young girl for my age. Thanks anyways

..

lefulefu:
the lady no like ur elder bro.From the way u describe their relationship its like she was forced to marry ur elder bro.when a woman is pushed against her will to marry a man she no fancy she can make life hell for such a man. even if the man pamper her with gifts and money e no go move her.

My dear Brother... I wonder why most Nigerian men tolerate silly attitude from their wives or girlfriends.. abi na the fear of loneliness..
For me nobody is indispensable.. You mess up I address your attitude without hesitation..
Once a partner shows act of Toxicity or rudeness.. I call your bluff..
Imagine a woman that also earns but would never spend a little from hers to compliment the Man's effort when it is necessary..
Sometimes I don't blame this guy's here shouting the Alpha, Simp & Beta Slogan..
Na God help that guy give am courage to divorce that Foolish wife of his..
Paddy mi... How your Ukwu's e dn try small oo

Nawooo...am in shock

Blackmann001:


Its easier said than accepted...my main guyz elder bro has a 4 big pharmacy stores at akure.(you shld know how the revenue flows na)....he also wanted a working class lady just for the personality...sh is a very clean banker..

He buyz every big needed food stuffs at home..bag of rice,tin tomatoes cartons, beans,garri, big oil, detergent, etc...and still drops 4k daily for food.

Can you believe that the day he failed to drop it.a working class banker wife..gave him food with one meat citing money not enough..and couldn't put enough stew for the small house help of the house...that day.gen had issues and he called repairer home DTS house he spent all his money at hand.. Cuz he doesn't return with money except food money...

Bro u no may not get money rich dix guy.....has three cars..built 3commercial houses at akure,(Igbo's guy from Enugu state). Has up to 15 sales persons..on a daily revenue of 200k...

But that small attitude vexed him and he confronted the i-too sabi wife..who started doing logic.. Dt day ,he hated the lady..and 3months later they were divorced cuz the lady refuses to apologise say he is the man and shld regularly provide for family...

The lady earns 90k from the bank!

Very true...she does not love d man.Money is not everything

lefulefu:
the lady no like ur elder bro.From the way u describe their relationship its like she was forced to marry ur elder bro.when a woman is pushed against her will to marry a man she no fancy she can make life hell for such a man. even if the man pamper her with gifts and money e no go move her.

May God grant you ur heart desire.Amen

Access1125:


I met my ex-wife in her office f2f. People still see me as married and I am still maintaining that status.
I can toast ooo, but again I tend to see kids below 28 outside of my circle of influence

Hard to believe

Blackmann001:
My guyz mom was married to the hubby tho both are now old.man sees a sweet looking federal nurse then in the early 80's .alas they have lived all their lives now...the man providing for the family 100percent..(DTS wot we guyz pray for tho)

But u won't believe this old man told me one on one,he doesn't know wot the wife earns...sh has been a federal nurse for 32years now...saved up all her money and never contributing a dime to to the family....infact sh argues it out dt its a mans duty..

He said he saw hell sending 5children tru varsity..that the worst is knowing the money is in ur house and going to get a loan for a problem to b solved.....plz don't hope on working women and support..their love for money is unparralelled...

Women are extremely stingy...and egocentric when they have money...98% won't have respect for their hubby....flee from working ladies if u want peace .especially if ur not a certain millionaire by all standard for long years to come.....only a period of need ,u will know them better.......

6 years and no kids? Hope the tools are working properly though

The OP probably don't want kids, hence his insistence of a working class lady who wouldn't have the time fir such.

What stops a working class lady from resigning immediately she's married to you?

Timafee:


You come across as very open minded and progressive. For the fact that you didn't list ethnicity as a criteria, I doff my hat to you.

I think I know someone who ticks the boxes you listed. Independent, working, decent and virtuous woman.

Sent you a PM

Quite surprising for an anambra man. I used to feel they all archaic in their reasoning