Access1125:


No influence at all; things are said to make the hurt easier Brother. I communicated last with her in March after the dissolution.

Bia op, I'll advice you as a brother. Stick to your criterion and specifications. Don't allow anybody put you under pressure to settle for less....and the last and not the least, STAY AWAY FROM NAIRALAND LADIES!! They aint worth it else you'll regret it. I'm speaking from experience. A word is enough for the wise

Anyways, you come across as sincere and mature. Unfortunately, I didn't meet 2 of your criteria. I wish you the very best and may the good Lord grant you your heart desires.

SweetCunt97:
Mind you, a good lady may not have anything doing but doesn't mean she won't stand the test of time when d opportunity arises to better herself. Anyways Goodluck.

I agree with you; however, it can give a man peace knowing that your wife can comfortably take care of the home front if the unforeseen happen, God forbid ooo

YoungDaNaval:
Bia op, I'll advice you as a brother. Stick to your criterion and specifications. Don't allow anybody put you under pressure to settle for less....and the last and not the least, STAY AWAY FROM NAIRALAND LADIES!! They aint worth it else you'll regret it. I'm speaking from experience. A word is enough for the wise

Thanks for your concerns

YoungDaNaval:
You're AS? The more reason you need to stay away from that bittered evening newspapers. She's SS

Bia... You're crossing your boundaries aggressively. Watch your back.

Access1125:


It shows that we had an amicable dissolution. An ex-wife has wedded the ex-husband with another lady. It shows moving on without bitterness

It also shows coming back together, though not permently, but otherwise, especially when married to someone else, very very risky.

Access1125:


No influence at all; things are said to make the hurt easier Brother. I communicated last with her in March after the dissolution.

How recent was the dissolution?

Biglittlelois:



It also shows coming back together, though not permently, but otherwise, especially when married to someone else, very very risky.

The reason for dissolution will not allow us to come back together - permanent or temporal, as all the known options were exhausted.

Biglittlelois:



How recent was the dissolution?

6 Months ago

lefulefu:
things that we hear on nl
ex wife trying to do hookup for ex husband

Honestly. E weak me

Access1125:


6 Months ago

Uncle I think your problem might be konji.
You just got divorced, except you didn't love your wife, you need time to heal. 6 months is too recent.

YoungDaNaval:
Bia op, I'll advice you as a brother. Stick to your criterion and specifications. Don't allow anybody put you under pressure to settle for less....and the last and not the least, STAY AWAY FROM NAIRALAND LADIES!! They aint worth it else you'll regret it. I'm speaking from experience. A word is enough for the wise

As if NL men are saints.
Give your advice without bashing anyone. That's maturity.

YoungDaNaval:
@OP, PLEASE AVOID THIS EVENING NEWSPAPER NO MATTER HER GREENLIGHT ELSE YOU'LL REGRET IT. THANK YOU

You don't know me, you called me evening newspaper.
I'll pretend you didn't call me that. Be careful.

Chii59:

Honestly. E weak me

This life is very short, make peace with all men to enjoy life

YoungDaNaval:
God forbid! That girl is a snake

I choose to ignore your foolishness.

Access1125:


6 Months ago

Very recent, ok.

LegendAnselm:
no

she is not

she is nice lady

only when u ar nice also

but she is a snake only when u claim to be snake

Thanks man.
I don't bother myself with explaining myself to children. And there are so many children on this forum. 9 years ago when I got to know of this forum, things were very different. Too many diaper wearers using smartphones.

Chii59:

Uncle I think your problem might be konji.
You just got divorced, except you didn't love your wife, you need time to heal. 6 months is too recent.

My dear it is not konji as I can get it easily if that is what i want.
6 months is too short a time? - I have learnt never to judge one if you are not in ones shoe

YoungDaNaval:
You're AS? The more reason you need to stay away from that bittered evening newspapers. She's SS

This does it!
Do you want to be unfortunate in this life? Like do you really want to be useless and your generation after you?
If I take your name to God, I promise you that you will die a destitute.

Access1125:


My dear it is not konji as I can get it easily if that is what i want.
6 months is too short a time? - I have learnt never to judge one if you are not in ones shoe

My opinion. You're wearing the shoe, you know where it pinches.

Access1125:


The reason for dissolution will not allow us to come back together - permanent or temporal, as all the known options were exhausted.

I'm talking of intimacy, since you both are mutually cordial with each other, to the extent of her interest in your love life, or is she a lesbian and was found out? Since all other options for reasons is obviously exhausted.

Chii59:

My opinion. You're wearing the shoe, you know where it pinches.

Awesome, so do not see 6 months as too short a time to start a new relationship. I loved her and wish things were different for us; unfortunately, we had to part for better.

Access1125:


Awesome, so do not see 6 months as too short a time to start a new relationship. I loved her and wish things were different for us; unfortunately, we had to part for better.

I wish you good luck then.

Blackmann001:
My guyz mom was married to the hubby tho both are now old.man sees a sweet looking federal nurse then in the early 80's .alas they have lived all their lives now...the man providing for the family 100percent..(DTS wot we guyz pray for tho)

But u won't believe this old man told me one on one,he doesn't know wot the wife earns...sh has been a federal nurse for 32years now...saved up all her money and never contributing a dime to to the family....infact sh argues it out dt its a mans duty..

He said he saw hell sending 5children tru varsity..that the worst is knowing the money is in ur house and going to get a loan for a problem to b solved.....plz don't hope on working women and support..their love for money is unparralelled...

Women are extremely stingy...and egocentric when they have money...98% won't have respect for their hubby....flee from working ladies if u want peace .especially if ur not a certain millionaire by all standard for long years to come.....only a period of need ,u will know them better.......

Just because of one or two or five cases where ladies were excessively stingy, you lump womankind (almost 4 billion females worldwide) as stingy.
See how silly it makes you look?
That there is the fallacy of hasty generalisation.

YoungDaNaval:
You're AS? The more reason you need to stay away from that bittered evening newspapers. She's SS

I get it that people can disagree yes. People can trade insults, agreed.
But you went beyond that, Heck, I don't have any issues with you.
Mark today's date, you use my health challenge to insult me.
My God will surprise you.
Mark this date.

ForestHill:
Bia... You're crossing your boundaries aggressively. Watch your back.

Watch my back? I just sent you a pm. Let's meet anywhere of your choice around ph lemme deal with you

Chii59:

As if NL men are saints.
Give your advice without bashing anyone. That's maturity.

Now you're talking about maturity? Maybe I should dig out your all post and flood this place with it. Internet never forget

Chii59:

You don't know me, you called me evening newspaper.
I'll pretend you didn't call me that. Be careful.

I know you to be a nuisance on nairaland

YoungDaNaval:
Now you're talking about maturity? Maybe I should dig out your all post and flood this place with it. Internet never forget

I DARE YOU

Chii59:

I choose to ignore your foolishness.

Call me foolish again and I'll tag the mods on you. Stick to the rule

YoungDaNaval:
I know you to be a nuisance on nairaland

You've gone beyond your boundaries. I have taken your case up with God.

Chii59:

This does it!
Do you want to be unfortunate in this life? Like do you really want to be useless and your generation after you?
If I take your name to God, I promise you that you will die a destitute.

And you'll be the one to make me useless How I wish I can lay my hands on you now