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Jasbi:
I'm single and maybe we can hook up, mail me if u're interested,

CaptMarvel:
It's not easy.. Find a means dear but not one that will harm you. If ur husby divorce you, you gonna marry again, so look for a responsible man that's ready to go that lane with you.

Pancakeey:
So you plan on staying divorced? If yes then have sex.

Lol it’s only in Nigeria we try to attach so much meaning to useless things.
Have sex with whoever you want to. You won’t die. It’s not like you’re cheating or something.

I don’t know why you’re divorced but if it’s for a terrible reason then don’t go back begging because of “sex”

Realashbobby:
Unfortunately, we stayed in different city, I hate seen his face at this moment because of what he made me go through. Even if we meet now again having me is a no no for now.

Realashbobby:
Hmmmmm, I have tried this o, I am a very busy person that work 8 to 6pm but I can't help it jawe

Realashbobby:
I got your mail notification jasbi. I don't want to be identified with fornication of any kind ni.

WrittyWritter:
6pm..no late na.plus it depends on d kind if films u have been watching..or books u have been reading..conversations u have been having..if dey are related to anything sexual konji go come..
.But I advice u to hold it till ur divorce is legalized..imagine u have sex with someone den u and ur husband cancel d divorce.. ..it no go make oo..don't let sexual desires cloud ur mind..be in control of ur body don't let ur body control u..dat is all I can say



Thank you, I Appreciates


Thank you so much. I appreciate.

PS..U can also get a intimacy gadget.

Jasbi:
No qualms dear. I'm actually single that's why, But I mean it tho

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

Realashbobby:
Thank you Captmarvel. I will try ooo . If no be konji wey dey worrying person

Realashbobby:
I got your mail notification jasbi. I don't want to be identified with fornication of any kind ni.

Fussion1000:
You don't want to commit fornication or use cucumber......... U separated from hubby and hate seeing his face..........impossible to reconcile again because it involved family already.......... You don't want to go back to ur ex boyfriend........... You don't want to Bleep stranger............. You can't stop thinking about sex


Maybe you consider suicide. At least to have peace and let ur body rest perfectly.



NB. You and hubby divorced for whatever reasons, he had moving on with his life and fucking freely, you stay in one conner subjecting yourself for unnecessary tension.

If you Bleep he doest stop him not to come back if God willing and if you don't Bleep he may not come back.

You ask urself how long will you wait to suppress the urge.

Some people quoting and giving advice that is not practicable, in which they themselves won't be able to follow, God created sex as integra system of human design, when one reach that stage it must manifest and one need opposite gender to quench it, provided one his Norma human being.


Holy holy woman, for now you are at peak of stage when you need regular sex, no amount of prayer, fast reading of bible, bath wen urge is coming, can quench the urge, provided ur body system is functioning effectively.

pcguru1:
Sometimes it's not compulsory to make a comment.

Fussion1000:
And its not always that ur opinion must override, very easy to give advice , how many that will do the advice that he himself is dishing out.


She sought for public opinion, and not private from you alone.

pcguru1:
trash. this is about the suicide statement, don't play dumb

Fussion1000:
That's last option, she is not ready for other options. She was refusing every option yet she failed to hold her body, what option you need me to give, mind you, I said MAYBE ,even I asked to consider suicide, its advice .

Fussion1000:
You don't want to commit fornication or use cucumber......... U separated from hubby and hate seeing his face..........impossible to reconcile again because it involved family already.......... You don't want to go back to ur ex boyfriend........... You don't want to Bleep stranger............. You can't stop thinking about sex


Maybe you consider suicide. At least to have peace and let ur body rest perfectly.

NB. You and hubby divorced for whatever reasons, he had moving on with his life and fucking freely, you stay in one conner subjecting yourself for unnecessary tension.

If you Bleep he doest stop him not to come back if God willing and if you don't Bleep he may not come back.

You ask yourself how long will you wait to suppress the urge.

Some people quoting and giving advice that is not practicable, in which they themselves won't be able to follow, God created sex as integra system of human design, when one reaches that stage it must manifest and one needs opposite gender to quench it, provided one his norma human being.


Holy holy woman, for now you are at "peak" of stage when you need regular sex, no amount of prayer, fasting, reading of bible, bath when urge is coming, can quench the urge, provided ur body system is functioning effectively. Even masturbation cannot replace man when it comes to sex to satisfactions.

Pancakeey:
So you plan on staying divorced? If yes then have sex.

Lol it’s only in Nigeria we try to attach so much meaning to useless things.
Have sex with whoever you want to. You won’t die. It’s not like you’re cheating or something.

I don’t know why you’re divorced but if it’s for a terrible reason then don’t go back begging because of “sex”

BestAccessories:
You still love and deeply care about your ex-husband.

Getting in touch with an ex-boyfriend for sex is even worse than having it with a stranger.

To be sincere with you, you need to let go before you can move forward.

You're still hurting, sad and yet to get over what happened.

If he has filed for divorce already, you need to start healing and start moving forward.

There is nothing wrong in moving forward, it hard but you will survive.

Find a support system, family members or a trusted friend to pour out your heart and empty whatever you're still holding back.

Yes, you have a new label but that shouldn't stop you from loving yourself or rediscover yourself.

The transition isn't going to be easy, you're going to face many rejection but never ever loss focus.

If you don't want any man to have sex with you yet, please do get a vibrator and any other means healthy to satisfy your sexual needs.

However, on the long run, you will need to rediscover yourself, forgive yourself, take note of mistakes made in the past and the lessons you gained during the process before moving forward.

The earlier you start your healing process the better.

fabiano09:
well if you need a volunteer with no strings attached to shine your congo,shoot me a dm

Temmylee01:
shoooooooooooooots hmmmm, most of y'all bashing the lady ain't ah reallll shoooooooooooter... mama see i know ur plight, you haven't divorced yet which still makes you a house wife until both of y'all sign the paper you are still a married woman. now listen don't go back to ur ex ( bad thought) and let the divorce issue play out and why you're waiting and conji is holding you do this
1 * anytime it comes drink cold water (thirsty or not)
* and locate the rest room and urinate it out...any urge u might have automatically die down
2 if you you really want to have and feel the orgasm and u don't want to be with any man for now..... you will have to get a toy in an adult shop, if u have problem getting that I can link you though am in abj... it all narrow down to what u want. I hope I tried.

Fussion1000:
You don't want to commit fornication or use cucumber......... U separated from hubby and hate seeing his face..........impossible to reconcile again because it involved family already.......... You don't want to go back to ur ex boyfriend........... You don't want to Bleep stranger............. You can't stop thinking about sex


Maybe you consider suicide. At least to have peace and let ur body rest perfectly.

NB. You and hubby divorced for whatever reasons, he had moving on with his life and fucking freely, you stay in one conner subjecting yourself for unnecessary tension.

If you Bleep he doest stop him not to come back if God willing and if you don't Bleep he may not come back.

You ask yourself how long will you wait to suppress the urge.

Some people quoting and giving advice that is not practicable, in which they themselves won't be able to follow, God created sex as integra system of human design, when one reaches that stage it must manifest and one needs opposite gender to quench it, provided one his norma human being.


Holy holy woman, for now you are at "peak" of stage when you need regular sex, no amount of prayer, fasting, reading of bible, bath when urge is coming, can quench the urge, provided ur body system is functioning effectively. Even masturbation cannot replace man when it comes to sex to satisfactions.

uruba23:
I understand what you're going through, but I have two worries you falling prey for a sugar coated man who just want your juice with no real emotional investment and your husband sending spy around you to nail you for infidelity. I wish I have a better advice but I really don't.

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.

Realashbobby:
Dear Romancelander,

I need candid and mature advise, insult is not welcome please.

I am a lady of above 30 years old and recently separated from my husband of 4 years with just a kid. The man has been the only man in my life since when I was 17. We got Married 4 years ago and later got separated recently. He has petitioned me and filed for divorce.

It's been like a year now that I had sex last and konji is worrying me, like I am feeling like having sex but my problem is I don't want have sex with any other man. It's a problem for me. I can't imagine seeing another man touching me. But I spent the whole of my day thinking about it.

Recently, I thought of getting in touch with my old boyfriend that we got attracted each other to just have me and also I met an old man of about 55 years who has been asking me for sex but I am not pleased with the man having my body.
Or is there anything to calm my urge for sex?

Please advise.

Note: I just created this account for the purpose of this subject.