nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

He is not your friend but your ex. Give yourself some much needed boost and block him. You are married, face your home and your family. Never ever give an ex room to have conversations where they jokingly, seriously or without thinking even utter "na me give you belle? Am I the father of your kids"
Put an end to such disrespect towards your dear husband and family.

BLOCK HIM!!!

Not So Happy Ever After....Such is Life,Oga must be the very boring type of friend you never wished for...Chai#EndMarriage Abeg and find Joy.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Hahaha......funny story... You better concentrate on your marriage and leave the guy alone. Block the guy na, this kind mumu story

Openbusiness:
Oga check your watch, he b like say the battery don weak, d time dey slow.... Kikikiki , she has already started taking advantage and bombarding the guy asking for money, daz y dar wan was telling her shey na him give am belle . D girl wan chop d guy pocket and chop him 3rd leg and turn am to ATM, daz y the guy dey give am social distancing. I just pity the guy that married this OP, for him mind now he think say him get wife for house, kikikiki

That line of "am I the one that gave you belle" made me know that she's been sucking the guy's pocket and wants to continue.

stonecoldcafe:


He is not your friend but your ex. Give yourself some much needed boost and block him. You are married, face your home and your family. Never ever give an ex room to have conversations where they jokingly, seriously or without thinking even utter "na me give you belle? Am I the father of your kids"
Put an end to such disrespect towards your dear husband and family.

BLOCK HIM!!!

Well said

Lord..give me the grace to marry my wife and not someone’s wife..Amen

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

...... Talking about this nonsense is an insult to your husband big time...... U sound like you're still in love with him and would cherish the moments he responds to your messages........ Werin u dey find for ex body? U no go leave am? If u dey find friend, talk to your kids or read your bible....... U must not communicate with your ex.... This one u have started talking about how e is your 1st love..... It seems to me you miss something more than his messages...... Madam face your home and stop letting the devil play games with your head........ Let me even ask.... What kinda friends do u want your 1st love ex to be to you? Bible study partner or what....... What are u guys gonna discuss other than than your relationship? Or u are looking for an avenue to always report your husband to him whenever both of you have issues? Just why are you so concerned about the friendship of your ex? U better save your marriage and block the ex from even viewing your status self......

Op are u sure ur alright?

stonecoldcafe:


He is not your friend but your ex. Give yourself some much needed boost and block him. You are married, face your home and your family. Never ever give an ex room to have conversations where they jokingly, seriously or without thinking even utter "na me give you belle? Am I the father of your kids"
Put an end to such disrespect towards your dear husband and family.

BLOCK HIM!!!

The woman is actually a very slow one. Forgive my choice of words. The guy is intentionally trying to belittle her husband and she is too stupid to see it. Typical “I am better than your present” game. Rather than put an end to such disrespect, she is more concerned with the friendship that exists only in her head.

My heart goes out to her poor husband. She no rate am at all.

Op, after going through ur post, as a man, I feel ashamed of ur person and just pity ur husband. You have the character to cheat on ur present husband, if not now, but in future. You're not to be trusted at all. I salute ur ex. He is a real man and values his marriage.

You are just a disgrace to all responsible married women and a contradiction to human history.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Better move on with your life and forget him cos it seems you are still attached.

There is no big deal if he views your status, anyone can do that as long as you are on their contact list. Ladies make enemies out of their ex but guys don't hence the reason he views your status and he is not obliged to respond to your messages.

You're both respectively married. What biz do you still have with each other? Why are you bothered he's ignoring you? Just move on and stop trying to create problems for yourself.

Why are you still having your ex contact when you both don't communicate

Checking if he is viewing your status
Want him to talk to you
You married
Whatever you are looking for I hope you get it and face the consequences
Don't forget you have children even if u don't wanna consider yourself and your husband

Madam OP what exactly do you want from him??

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

What business do you have with your ex? Forget about that "he's a friend" sh!t.

No two people who have fallen in love before can go back to being "just friends". It is either they still love each other or they never loved each other.

imoleoluwa15431:
@op, you left the dude and married your wife and you still want him to be giving you his spotlight. You are very selfish and heart, I pity your wife.

Hmmm

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

E dey do me like say make I land you hot slap!! Filthy shameless woman!!

There's a probability Okafor's law will play out here in the long run.

djflexcy:
Madam just move on, this was same reason I blocked my ex, she won't reply my messages but when I post pictures I took with my colleague a girl she will comment happy married life. I just have to delete her number even block her

She was messing with your mind. Foolish woman!

Do not be concerned.

I tut u said you are married? face ur hubby ooo dnt cheat on him with ur ex...if u still love ur ex den Y did u marry anoda man? see how u ladies complicate issues.... dnt mess up ur marriage nd disgrace ur family oo because if an ur hibby if I see say u dey chat with ur ex...na divorce be dat oo...I no hear abeg... so dnt start a fire u knw u can't contend with the heat...

You can block him from viewing your status and move on.

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

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Am I the father of your children? I guess you de beg am money, Op respect your womanhood.

It's called ghosting. A way (if they are consciously and deliberately doing it) of getting into your head.

this post self

pocohantas:


Use that energy to tell this selfish ediot same truth https://www.nairaland.com/6181309/abuja-bride-cancels-wedding-after

Werey wan disguise...

I dont join issues with low budget female chauvinist feminist wannabe..
Last last u go still twerk for some man diik.
Tomorrow u still continue d attack

I think you need to talk to your husband about it Communication is very important in a relationship

ejanla077:

[s]I dont join issues with low budget female chauvinist feminist wannabe..
Last last u go still twerk for some man diik.
Tomorrow u still continue d attack[/s]

Do as I said or FEM!!!

nwaimoroseyaho:
When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.

It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.

When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.

But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, : am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.

I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.

We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?

Are you still emotionally attached to this your ex? Cos from your write up and coming to Nairaland, he seems to occupy a space in your heart... Maybe you're asking him for financial help and that's why he seems to be questioning whether you were pregnant for him...

Anyways, watch yourself. As a responsible married woman, you don't need any unnecessary contact with your ex...

You are all wasting your time advising her, she is head over heels in live with her ex. She's already planning on traveling abroad without her husband for greener pastures and I believe it's because she wants to be close to her ex. Check her past threads
https://www.nairaland.com/5973981/married-woman-wants-move-canada