If I were you, I'll rather start getting myself acquainted with prices of kid stuffs in the market than opening this thread.

If we men cut cost on alcohol, why will it be hard for us to afford diapers and other stuffs?

Congratulations and biko don't worry but be happy.

Mrscarter:


I'm against abortion but I also understand if U can't bring a child into the world cos U cant afford to feed n supply it's needs too.
Abortion is final but where there's life there's hope...
U should be more careful next time no matter what U decide to do
If Ur sure it's yours then find a way to provide for Ur baby.

Am sure it's mine

You are not capable of catering for yourself but you are capable of bleeping and impregnating a girlfriend see your life

chinochizzy:
Am sure it's mine

If Ur sure then think hard n be sure wat U wanna do.
U can either have a beautiful child you'll love more than anything else or U can do the abortion.
I believe it's no one's business but U n Ur partners what U decide to do.

Mrscarter:


If Ur sure then think hard n be sure wat U wanna do.
U can either have a beautiful child you'll love more than anything else or U can do the abortion.
I believe it's no one's business but U n Ur partners what U decide to do.

thanks so much

Dreadlock69:


Tell am say eee be like say you wan go farm for village
Or tell say you wan make we sleep for bridge

it's too late now cuz she's already pregnant

How you won make we help you?? Soro soke werey

Op please invite us to the naming make we come drink fanta.
@chinochizzy

chinochizzy:
Hello guys am typing this with a heavy heart right now, my girlfriend is Pregnant pls am confused what should I do? Am not even financially stable yet to Carter for myself let alone for her and the baby, I've been trying to make her see reason y it should be aborted but initially she refused but now I think she has agreed, please guys how can I go about this? No insults please for matured minds.

Which is easier abortion or murder?

Op, you are being selfish for telling your girlfriend to abort a baby. Abortion comes with a lot of risks, what if your girlfriend died in the process or she lost her womb? Please never opt for abortion, i believe you two are adult as such, you should take responsibility for your actions. You saying you are not financially okay shows how irresponsible you are, you are not financially okay but you allow your testosterone to dictate your action.

Buckle down and start preparing for a soul. Daddy in the making.

#Saynotoabortion
#Saynotomurderer

Marry her..
Aborting d baby is very bad And dangerous..
To be on a safer side marry her..
A lot of men are jobless with no source of income yet they have children and they are surviving..

So it's not really a big deal to take care of d child and d mother since you have been ta long care of the mother before now..

If you're not financial okay as a woman don't goan open your legs for a man who is not also financial stable it's a disaster..

Still on still premarital sex is very BAD!!!!!!

Virginprince:
Op, you are being selfish for telling your girlfriend to abort a baby. Abortion comes with a lot of risks, what if your girlfriend died in the process or she lost her womb? Please never opt for abortion, i believe you two are adult as such, you should take responsibility for your actions. You saying you are not financially okay shows how irresponsible you are, you are not financially okay but you allow your testosterone to dictate your action.

Buckle down and start preparing for a soul. Daddy in the making.

#Saynotoabortion
#Saynotomurderer

Bro this babe made me do it, honestly she was the one that pushed me to ejaculate inside of her, even wen I give her money to buy pills she will refuse to take it. Now this is happening

healthbing:
Marry her..
Aborting d baby is very bad And dangerous..
To be on a safer side marry her..
A lot of men are jobless with no source of income yet they have children and they are surviving..

So it's not really a big deal to take care of d child and d mother since you have been ta long care of the mother before now..

If you're not financial okay as a woman don't goan open your legs for a man who is not also financial stable it's a disaster..

Still on still premarital sex is very BAD!!!!!!

I can't marry her, not now that am still finding my feet

shuwaboy:


Which is easier abortion or murder?

It's not as if we are killing someone, ok it's just a fetus

Virginprince:
Op, you are being selfish for telling your girlfriend to abort a baby. Abortion comes with a lot of risks, what if your girlfriend died in the process or she lost her womb? Please never opt for abortion, i believe you two are adult as such, you should take responsibility for your actions. You saying you are not financially okay shows how irresponsible you are, you are not financially okay but you allow your testosterone to dictate your action.

Buckle down and start preparing for a soul. Daddy in the making.

#Saynotoabortion
#Saynotomurderer

I never meant for all this to happen, honestly she was the one always insisting I cum into her even wen I withdraw she will get angry, n wen I mistakenly cum inside of her and gives her money for post pill she wudnt buy d drugs, saying she is in her safe period, I can't even think straight now

chinochizzy:
I can't marry her, not now that am still finding my feet

Well you both can have an agreement concerning d child..
I understand u and I won't judge u..
But abortion..NO..
She too knows that you don't have something tangible doing..
So d best thing is take her to your parents and tell them what happened..then you can have agreement with d people that once d child is born your family will be taking care of d child pending d time you're stable..so d girl can also have freedom and get married

I can't believe this is happening to me, it looks like a home movie to me. I didn't plan for all this, I can barely eat I've lost appetite

chinochizzy:
Hello guys am typing this with a heavy heart right now, my girlfriend is Pregnant pls am confused what should I do? Am not even financially stable yet to Carter for myself let alone for her and the baby, I've been trying to make her see reason y it should be aborted but initially she refused but now I think she has agreed, please guys how can I go about this? No insults please for matured minds.

Guy it may be a disgrace to u, her and families right now but believe me, you will be glad in the future that you didn't remove that foetus. Pls support her and keep the baby. Inform both families, everything will ease up on both of you after the initial anger and scolds.

Best wishes, and by the way, I am willing to help during the antenatal and the upbringing of ya child if you guys need help!

healthbing:

Well you both can have an agreement concerning d child..
I understand u and I won't judge u..
But abortion..NO..
She too knows that you don't have something tangible doing..
So d best thing is take her to your parents and tell them what happened..then you can have agreement with d people that once d child is born your family will be taking care of d child pending d time you're stable..so d girl can also have freedom and get married

damn man I can't take her to my parents bro, what will the old man say? He's hypertensive man, I can't contribute to his trouble

BabbanBura:


Guy it may be a disgrace to u, her and families right now but believe me, you will be glad in the future that you didn't remove that foetus. Pls support her and keep the baby. Inform both families, everything will ease up on both of you after the initial anger and scolds.

Best wishes, and by the way, I am willing to help during the antenatal and the upbringing of ya child if you guys need help!

thanks so much I really appreciate you

chinochizzy:
damn man I can't take her to my parents bro, what will the old man say? He's hypertensive man, I can't contribute to his trouble

Nawa ooohhh..you don learn your lesson nah..
But don't abort d baby..
I remember when I was in primary sch my dad lost his job and my mom has no job..
But he was able to train us through secondary sch/university and we are 5 in number.
I still don't know how he did it but all I know is that he suffered and we did to because we understood d situation at hand.
One thing I have learnt in life is when I make a mistaken I take responsible for it an try to make it right..
A lot of people are looking for a child..
If you kill that child you're a murderer and bare it in mind that you have killed before..
And again if d girl should lose her life in d abortion my dear it will be more than now.
So keep the child and manage with her..
You have made and a mistake and God will forgive u and make a way for u..just work hard..

healthbing:


Nawa ooohhh..you don learn your lesson nah..
But don't abort d baby..
I remember when I was in primary sch my dad lost his job and my mom has no job..
But he was able to train us through secondary sch/university and we are 5 in number.
I still don't know how he did it but all I know is that he suffered and we did to because we understood d situation at hand.
One thing I have learnt in life is when I make a mistaken I take responsible for it an try to make it right..
A lot of people are looking for a child..
If you kill that child you're a murderer and bare it in mind that you have killed before..
And again if d girl should lose her life in d abortion my dear it will be more than now.
So keep the child and manage with her..
You have made and a mistake and God will forgive u and make a way for u..just work hard..

Thanks man I really appreciate

chinochizzy:
Hello guys am typing this with a heavy heart right now, my girlfriend is Pregnant pls am confused what should I do? Am not even financially stable yet to Carter for myself let alone for her and the baby, I've been trying to make her see reason y it should be aborted but initially she refused but now I think she has agreed, please guys how can I go about this? No insults please for matured minds.

you dey mad ooo! How many years does it remain for Jesus to come and you want to abort your baby.

As long as is still 4weeks she can easily flush it ...very small task..

chinochizzy:
Bro this babe made me do it, honestly she was the one that pushed me to ejaculate inside of her, even wen I give her money to buy pills she will refuse to take it. Now this is happening

Maybe she wants a baby..U said ur not financially stable..is she??

Marygold6127:
As long as is still 4weeks she can easily flush it ...very small task..

how pls

WrittyWritter:


Maybe she wants a baby..U said ur not financially stable..is she??

she is working but not financially ok too

The girl might be playing a fast one on you, did u bother taking her to hospital for Lab test. To be sure...

The only advice i can you.. Is to start gathering money for antenatal and baby things.

Drizzy5001:
The girl might be playing a fast one on you, did u bother taking her to hospital for Lab test. To be sure...

I know her too well she doesn't flirt and secondly she is too matured for that kinda expensive joke

chinochizzy:
Hello guys am typing this with a heavy heart right now, my girlfriend is Pregnant pls am confused what should I do? Am not even financially stable yet to Carter for myself let alone for her and the baby, I've been trying to make her see reason y it should be aborted but initially she refused but now I think she has agreed, please guys how can I go about this? No insults please for matured minds.

When u were Fvcking her did u call us? behave Ur self young man and face Ur problems alone, since u guys don't want to have sense

chinochizzy:
she is working but not financially ok too

If u guys join resources together it may be enough to raise d child..plus u guys could get assistance from ur parents..abortion is not a gud option at all