7)smv demands that you be the best in everything you are involved

a very good smv sets you apart from competition

9) your smv creates the every environment you exists in,even to the extent of conditions that exist in it ( that is how people talk to you...the hate,the pain&the happiness all of these are being created by your smv)

10) high smv makes you a leader (that is ;it puts a leadership skills in you)..

11) a high smv makes you rich and puts you among the elites....if not billionaires sef

enough with the importance .....lets set the pace in this set piece!.... NEXT:: STRUCTURE OF SMV

dollarstays:
enough with the importance .....lets set the pace in this set piece!.... NEXT:: STRUCTURE OF SMV

I wouldn't like to interrupt you but you posting all these will likely derail the thread. We should wait for the OP to do that

well! You are right let's wait for him to exhaust the topics he has listed first then we will ask him to explain smv in great details(i think that should be when he recovers).....and by then your friend @ joker09 that thinks going out is against redpill might have been tired of waiting.....but i promise i wouldnt post again lets wait for him

Guys, I want you all to elaborate more on this bugging matter on my mind, it is affecting homes in a negative way, of how most men ignorantly don't know how they lost their respect to their children from when these kids become teenagers. Most men out their are complaining how their children mostly the sons are always siding with their mothers against them. Two men few days ago came to my dad and complained that whenever they come back home from work and barge in on their wives n children discussing, they will stop their conversion implying that they want the husband to know what they are discussing abt if he even ask. Some children are even insulting their fathers at every little altercation even though their fathers are the ones who go out to source for the live hood of the family. How did we educated married men to stop their children from siding with their mothers from an early age, cuz I don't think kids will have an interest to enlighten themselves by reading something like the redpill when most of their interest is to be chasing the only beautiful gals on d street.

@eagleeyes1 .......the follow are the answer you seek for;
BASICS:
1) the way a man loves woman is the same way woman loves her child
2) a man is respected not loved while a woman is both loved and respected(blue pill world)
3) as a man you expected to be the provider and the leader of the family while a woman is expected to nurture the family with love and affection
4) a man is expected to hold the family frame (that is what you want to family to be) while a women was meant to follow the frame you put on....

Akinbahm:


At the bolded, Yahoo boiz have spoilt market in taking a lady out on a date cause now average 9ja girls u take out on a date has only one motive which is to have a share in ur money nd make the move to the nearest rich dude not all though but majorly.

If you are dating the girl already there's nth wrong in taking her out nd that should even be seldomly just to change ur tactics "the way u start with a woman is the way u gonna end with" if u attract a lady with money 4gt abt it such relationship would be run with money even if u start it with s3x u will still run it with s3x choose the one u know u can easily part with nd wont end in tears.

At the italicized, that's the undiluted truth once a lady choose you herself there's no shit u wont test the lady with nd she will still be with u that's why u see those girls in toxic relationship still craving for guys dealing with them badly because they chose the guy.

How do you make a lady choose u, work on ur SMV build yourself emotionally, physically, psychologically and financially.

Getting a lady numb and chatting her via watsApp doesnt turn u a simp but the way u go with it can make u one.

How do u go about it let's assume u gt a girl contact on Monday never make the attempt of calling/messaging her that same day u can call/msg her on Thursday or Friday to form u are a busy type nd make the call/msg simple.

You not calling her immediately would compel her to divert her attention towards u cause she will be expecting ur call or message and when u finally break the nut of calling her she will form by asking who are u bla bla after telling her who u r she might still feign ignorance of not knowing u sha dont loose nd guard play along (she remember everything) u can just follow it with am so so save my contact I wont do any introduction when next I call gonna gt in touch with u later and hang up that's my line u can make yours it not necessary u use mine.

Wow. Nice one wiseman! Food for thoughts. I’m glad you also aware about the average Nigerian girls mentality. And yes yahoo boiz and sugar daddies have really spoilt these girls. You are so right! They have really disappointed me by trying to extort me in the name of ‘dates’. One of them once told me to buy food for her sister while we were on date, she still billed me for money for her business and even tried to lure me to an atm, I had to decline, I dropped her off and that was the last time I heard from her. These things keep recurring the moment u take them out on dates, some will deliberately not have anything to do with u intimately but you’ll keep going on multiple dates, then u get tired. When I got frustrated, I devised a strategy by not taking them out again at all, I do phone calls alone, I try as much as possible to have my way with any girl I meet after the first 3 days of meeting her, all I do is get her phone, call her and check on her, if she likes me, we’ll at least kiss in her place or mine or do the do. This is what works for me until I met few girls lately and this strategy didn’t work at all, they all didn’t want to meet up, low interest? I don’t think so. I figured they expect a date, that is why I have rethink and try to find an adjustment. I pick a lot from what you have said and I’ll save them on my left palm. I know what to do now. Thanks a lot!!

why children sides with their mother:... note:: a fear and respected man is a loved man and honoured man

if you fail in your responsibility as a man like allowing your wife to be seen as the both the provider and nurturer of the family love, my brother you are done for ...

This issue runs deeper than you think and Nigerian men are majorly to be blamed.

Assuming the father is not a deadbeat and he is doing all he can to provide for the family, the major mistake is trying to run things in the shadows.

Guys make the fatal mistake of using Father-Mother-Children chain of distribution in running the affairs of the family.
The children will be at the mercy of the machinations of the middleman in this case the mother.

If you are providing, make sure your children know who the Lord of the house is and no rebellion is allowed.


Which right thinking child will chose to gossip behind the father who he/she will have to face in person during the weekend to collect next week feeding allowance?

EaglesEyes1:
Guys, I want you all to elaborate more on this bugging matter on my mind, it is affecting homes in a negative way, of how most men ignorantly don't know how they lost their respect to their children from when these kids become teenagers. Most men out their are complaining how their children mostly the sons are always siding with their mothers against them. Two men few days ago came to my dad and complained that whenever they come back home from work and barge in on their wives n children discussing, they will stop their conversion implying that they want the husband to know what they are discussing abt if he even ask. Some children are even insulting their fathers at every little altercation even though their fathers are the ones who go out to source for the live hood of the family. How did we educated married men to stop their children from siding with their mothers from an early age, cuz I don't think kids will have an interest to enlighten themselves by reading something like the redpill when most of their interest is to be chasing the only beautiful gals on d street.

your work as man::
1) even when you decides to share the providing aspect of your marriage with your wife never get cut let it be down such a way that you have the glory at the end
2) never allow the love for family weakens you as a man .....when i say love is a game of feelings that also implies in marriage women knows this they never stop playing ....you will always be shit tested even in marry till you die

be the provider never expect to be loved because as a man you were meant to be respected ,honour and even the every least feared

dollarstays:
@joker09...let me not deviate from the main stuff............now you should that one of the importance of being a redpiller is for to know your worth as a man and be in control of the frame in which people operate around you.....you can be a beta male or an alpha male so long as that frame you are operating is been controlled by you (NoTe: simping is when you are operating in another persons frame without your knowledge be it male person frame or be it a female simping is simping).....extra point to note:a female can die or kill herself for an alpha beta male...trust me on this one.... Being an alpha beta male is the type of male that beyonce was referring to in her single "poison" i think you should listen to it an imagine yourself doing that to her...

Hmmn. Deep! Thanks for the input bro. I’ll make and adjustment. I think there just need to be a balance in everything. Thanks!

for example:: yul edochie once said that he wanted to stop school just to go be a radio mechanic of which mum agreed but his father( pete edochie) on hearing this beat jesus christ out of his brain and today he is thankful for it ...imagine if the father didnt lead him then.....by today he will be siding with his mother

TheUndercover:


Taking a girl out on a date doesn't invalidate TRP philosophy or make someone less alpha. What invalidate the teachings is taking a girl on a date just to impress her especially a girl you just met because you feel you don't have her attraction and you think you can earn it by doing that. If you are to take a girl on a date, then you must have verified the girl is attracted and interested in you before making that move. Women are attracted to you mostly on the first meet so you should know where you stand through her body languages and actions before thinking of a date.

You should be the one to decide the success or failure of that outing.
Texting a girl on WhatsApp too doesn't make one a Beta, just don't do what SIMPs do. For example, if you just collected a girl's number, don't call her on that day, call her maybe 2 days after and don't show your desperation or act like you haven't seen a lady before. Always act cool and always expect 'No' for an answer so you can move on quickly.

If you collected the number and found out its the same number she used for her WhatsApp account, don't text her through WhatsApp, even if you see her suggestion on Facebook don't add her. The first time you talk after collecting her number, call her (after few days) and ask her or suggest it will be better if you guys can talk better and ask if this is her WhatsApp number or something similar, her response and actions towards you will know how you'll determine your next move.

Deep! I learned a lot from this. Learning don’t stop. I thought I knew a lot of these things but it’s quite obvious that we keep learning everyday. I ruled out date coz of disappointments from d female folks. Swallowing the redpill made me see dates as a beta move but I understand that I have to make adjustment with everything now. I’ve not been the one to be patient with girls since I swallowed the red pill, if they can’t play to my rules, I delete! in fact I pick some up and have my way with them that day or within 3 days but lately that move hasn’t been working on the girls I met. The girls that seemed really into me when I just met them wouldn’t let me have my way with them immediately, but it used to work on some tho... Something changed, perhaps they want more, I’m a catch too and I really believe in myself. I realize I just have to find an adjustment, yes I’ll do Dates now and I’ll digest all you’ve said. Thanks for the input.

dollarstays:
@ joker09.....taking a girl on a date is part of your SMV that falls in amplifier( which comprises of your status and money)
note: going out on date does not necessary mean you are going there to go and get shit tested by her....going out on date should mean one thing to you,that is to see if she is worth your commitment ....

Deep. Noted bro. I’ll make adjustments. Thanks!

@joker9 My own opinion. You can take a girl you are already in relationship with out anytime anyday as you want it But, Don't tell a new girl you are about to start a relationship with that you want to take her out. Instead tell her you are going somewhere ,let her follow you. Find an interesting place you can think of but not a bar or chill out joint. It could be a birthday party, your brother or friend is celebrating something and you want her to tag along. IT MIGHT BE A LIE OR TRUE. Tell her all the interesting things that will happen there and tell her to come along with you. If its not true, come up with a story along the line that the event won't hold again. The story should be done after the both of you are set to start going. Use this opportunity to take her to wherever you wish to take her to for enjoyment or for the purpose that suit you.

I do this based on my instinct and the situation.

Once you tell a girl you are taking her out, you implies that you want to impress her and this kind of thing is not good to start a relationship however, it depends on the kind of girl you are dealing with and your pocket at the moment.

Note: whatever you are doing with a new girl, don't mention outing to her. Its boring, this is what a lot of guys have done for her. Its obvious your own won't make a different rather you should suppers what other guys have done for her in the past on outing . The mention of it will bore her subconsciously, she may be delighted outwardly telling her friend about it.

There are lots of ways to get them ladies hooked up and not only by going out for to chill, you just need to play your card well.

My advice to guys out there. As long as you are a guy you must constantly work on your game. Game makes you accessible to women faster and it makes things easy for you in a relationship. Understanding women very well and that is what we have been exposed to in this thread and we guys must also learn to deal with women issues in a relationship based on the knowledge we have about them.

WOMEN = PROBLEM

When a guy has a girlfriend automatically, he has a problem. Weather he spends much on her or not. The time and attentions he sacrifices is equivalent to wealth.

My case for instant: I spent 3 years in a relationship, including flirting with side chicks, I didn't have any tangible success despite the fact that I was making 50k a week.

My life changed when I broke up with my girlfriend. I started developing myself in the aspect of SELF DEVELOPMENT AND RELATIONSHIP SKILLS. within the period of 3 months I have achieved what I couldn't achieve in 3years. Now, imagine I had spent 3years developing myself.

I have come to understand that life is not all about making money. There are other important areas we must also pay attention to in life rather than waking up every morning rushing to work for daily bread. We men must also make out good time to develop ourselves in the area of financial knowledge, social values and relationships.

If you focus on making money alone without understand the games of life you had been wasting all money especially on relationships. As a man who as always wish to have a BEAUTIFUL GIRL AS A GIRLFRIEND AND YOU ALSO WISH TO Bleep AS MANY HOT CHICK THAT COMES YOUR WAY this as always been our fantasies , we rather accept this fact or we deny the truth. if you don't understand relationship games you will be wasting all your money, attention and resources on women, later you will be blaming your village people WHICH WAS MY OWN CASE but I didn't blame my village people rather I took responsibilities of my failures in life generally especially women.

Even as am making little or no money am enjoying presently more than when I used to make much money. I now understand that the game of life and relationship palava can render a man's life useless even though he is making much money.

95% of yahoo boys that had made good money had gone broke afterward and majority of them had indulged in evil things and atrocities which lead many of them to using ladies to renew their sacrifice because they want to maintain there flamboyant lifestyle. They think that physical cash is the only thing they need to keep up with the good things of life. Beyond this, money is not the only thing a man need to get what he needs in life. What a man needs most in life is financial intelligence. Financial intelligence helps a man to get certain things that money can also get. What money can get for you, you can also get it with lesser or without money if you put your financial intelligence to work.

Now, back to relationship. I so much believed that I can succeed with relationship and womanizing with little or no money. It has worked for me and it has worked for a lots of guys I know very well and it can work for any body. You just need to develop yourself and upgrade your relationship games simple.

Am not talking about not spending on your woman at all. Am talking about the unnecessary responsibilities women would put on your head in the name of relationship. And even the responsibilities you put on yourself head because you want to impress her. Most of the time, the guy is the one forcing himself to show off.

Your money is for you and your future plans, mother, father that have been there for you always and not to be wasted in the name of relationship and womanizing. This can only be achieved if you know what you are doing.

My advice to men out there - keep developing yourself in the area of finance, appearance and women. If you can solve women problems you have solved 50% of your life problems. Life is not all about impressing women to show her that you are equal to the task just because you don't want to be considered as a broke guy. Most of this things will come to you with ease if you play your card well.

THIS IS MY OWN CONTRIBUTION TO THE MEN'S WORLD. this thread is about helping men to achieve greatness in life generally.
However, I stand to be corrected. And am willing to learn more from you guys.

Joker09:


Wow. Nice one wiseman! Food for thoughts. This is what works for me until I met few girls lately and this strategy didn’t work at all, they all didn’t want to meet up, low interest? I don’t think so. I figured they expect a date, that is why I have rethink and try to find an adjustment. I pick a lot from what you have said and I’ll save them on my left palm. I know what to do now. Thanks a lot!!

At the italicized am the most fool man earth u could ever imagine.

At the bolded, kudos to you baba, I still wonder why some guys still believe in taking a new catch for a date imagine a guy takes 5girls averagely for a date in a month and spend roughly 30k approximately 60girls in a year which is 300k the probability of getting 10 down out of the 60 is slim.

Let's even assume he gt down on 10 (60k) got him what he wanted nd wasted (240k) from business point of view that's a great loss. That's why I dont buy date stuff package so much though they are some girls u r left with no choice than to take them on a date just that one has to apply wisdom to it.

Note: for every rule there's an exception

@pstarogood you stand very correct .....leting a girl know that you are taking her out makes her think you a simp already because she will starting you want to please her.......but once you invite to your regular activity she will start looking for a way to improve her herslf for you which is pleasing you

the trust about date is that this girl know that dates is not a guy trying to please a girl so that she will accept you....she has already accepted once she is already there with you........your work is to carry your charm,intelligent to the venue socialize well with your everyday people as normal....just banter and drill her on the things that makes her qualify to be your women .......these girls knows this thats why when the question is not coming their way they will turn the table around.....be wise my fellow nigga....its important to the redpill family

and as for the upgrade @ pstargood that you had in your life thats how a standard man should have his relationship run that why SMV is so so so important once you have swallowed the red pill.....infact i cant see myself without a well granded SMV .....nigga stop chasing a girl and just concentrate in upgrading your smv and you will see that redpill is not a rule but a lifestyle that comes with your standard in life....hustle wellas

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Joker09:


Deep! I learned a lot from this. Learning don’t stop. I thought I knew a lot of these things but it’s quite obvious that we keep learning everyday. I ruled out date coz of disappointments from d female folks. Swallowing the redpill made me see dates as a beta move but I understand that I have to make adjustment with everything now. I’ve not been the one to be patient with girls since I swallowed the red pill, if they can’t play to my rules, I delete! in fact I pick some up and have my way with them that day or within 3 days but lately that move hasn’t been working on the girls I met. The girls that seemed really into me when I just met them wouldn’t let me have my way with them immediately, but it used to work on some tho... Something changed, perhaps they want more, I’m a catch too and I really believe in myself. I realize I just have to find an adjustment, yes I’ll do Dates now and I’ll digest all you’ve said. Thanks for the input.

You mentioned about trp not working on some girls you want to move with.

From my knowledge and experience, I have learnt something. I want you guys to understand that not every girl you want will be ready to do something with you. Some of this girls are not just ready so, forget weather you use redpill or not. In your quest to get laid don't respect that you will get laid by all the ladies you use redpill on simply because you think that red pill works on all of them. Some girls are not just ready, some are going through horrible things in their lives. Some are lesbians. For some, you are not just their type no matter what, weather you are rich or handsome.

Thinking that red pill would work on all girl is like saying that all girl will Bleep all the redpillers that would come her way.
Notwithstanding, redpill effectiveness and validations is never disregarded.

Am not saying that is what you think or said but that has been the thought of most people that learnt about trp.

One thing that works most of the time is your ability to go for what you want without thinking of the rejection.

Learn to go for what you want without restrictions. The major problems of guys have always been how to woo ladies .I Don't mean wooing only the ladies at neighborhood, working place, on social medias because you have easy access to them. But the orientation to woo any lady that comes your way anywhere at all. In the bank, At ATM stand, in the market, restorerant, in the church, public transport, on the road coming one on one with you, sudden appearing out from a corner. I mean the orientation to woo any girl you come across with the right knowledge of what to say to her and not being afraid of rejections.

Every man that wants to succeed better with ladies must learn this not because of fooling around with any lady he comes across with but to have the confidence to get any lady he chooses whenever he wants.

But, its unfortunate that a lot of guys are only confident to woo ladies they are close to or may likely not reject them. Some even seek greenlight before shooting shot.

Thank God I have passed that stage. Now, I chose who to woo because I want her, if I don't woo her it simply means she is not my type of girl or I don't need her at that time. I don't need any greenlight or to be in a comfortable environment to woo any lady. I embrace rejection like my daily food nevertheless my chances of being rejected are very slim because I know how to use the right words and apply the right strategies.

This is not to pride myself. Am only saying that for us to have ABUNDANT MENTALITY we need to learn to get as many girl we want without any form of deprivation.

I believe that trp is for us to know the nature of women and avoid being manipulated by them. Is not all about getting any woman you come across with or any woman you want as girlfriend and expecting them to succumb because you are a redpiller.

I stand to be corrected.

How do I loosen up a girl who is pretending to be holy as in she's telling me all these "sex is sacred" kinda thing. But I swear I don't buy her act. This girl is super hot and I know she is already collecting gbola somewhere else. How do I unveil the slutty side of her Real niggas in the house.

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@ xfactordv.....in actual sense this how you started with her( remember:: women are fluid in nature) or should i say how she views you in sexual market (in sexual market once a girl says she is not into sex, she is simply saying its not that i dont want sex but it cant be with you)......what to do:: if you are already dating her it is good to use dread on her (create abundance within you) let her feel it that your commitment can move anytime without looking back....(if she doesnt respond to this let her go that hole wasnt met for and plus you wont like after swallowing the redpill you will still start simping all over again)

but if you not in a relationship with her let her be.....just go and increase your smv once your smv meets the standard she is looking for ...trust me you will know...remember they are the gate keepers of sex and you are the gate keeper of commitment....