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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Nobody: 11:58am On Oct 25, 2020
Heavensent01:


it doesn't determine the number of guys that want to go into a relationship without sex, it has to do with your principles and your stand in relationship


the woman I got married to, resisted me with all words and actions for 3years before we had sex, I wasn't her first man but I'm sure after her assessment and my zeal to introduced her to my people and urge to know her people she felt trust and it was after 3years of relationship


why can't other ladies adopt such? ladies should stop opening legs for men under whatever disguise, priority must be set rights. a man that can't stick to your policies is not fit to ride with though I know lady in their late 20's and early 30's might want to do all things to pleased men because of age but priority must be set right
it seems you still live in the 80s.
I have nothing else to say to you

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Angelacruz: 11:59am On Oct 25, 2020
MyTototear:
how old is he? Is it the first time you caught him cheating? What was his reaction?
yes
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 11:59am On Oct 25, 2020
Lol, so cheating is the reality.

For the sake of peace, don't think of settling down and just stick to promiscuity full term. I sincerely hope this mindset gets changed.

I'm sure you have a back story or unforgettable experience that is behind your claims

Obierika:


@Angelacruz
What this guy is telling you is fiction and only happens in fairy tales...the real world is different especially here in Nigeria!

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Angelacruz: 11:59am On Oct 25, 2020
Obierika:


@Angelacruz
What this guy is telling you is fiction and only happens in fairy tales...the real world is different especially here in Nigeria!
never say never
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by MyTototear: 12:02pm On Oct 25, 2020
Okay
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Heavensent01(m): 12:08pm On Oct 25, 2020
Descortes:
it seems you still live in the 80s.
I have nothing else to say to you


men and ladies are more wayward in the 80's than in this modern age. my grandparents lost 6 of their kids to Genotype dichotomy and that ignorance played till late 90's


ask your Elders, in those days ladies gave birth for many men during 80's

ladies set your priority Right, no man has right to sex you without proving his commitment, so is up to you to submit yourself to be used by regular guys

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Blessedboy23(m): 12:14pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?
He is not the only guy in this world na
Go date other guys that are smart
Forget about him
That what you suppost to do joor cheesy cheesy

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Daguccizgreat(m): 12:21pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?
I will tell you this, If You're convinced he loves you and he does not abuse physically then you have to forgive him and give him another chance. I know it's hurts but you have to do it since you love him. If you Keep quiting your relationships because your partner cheated, my dear na long journey you dey oo. A lot of we men find it hard to resist the urge of cheating even though they love their partners. This Life no just balance

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Jozzy4: 12:23pm On Oct 25, 2020
Daguccizgreat:
I will tell you this, If You're convinced he loves you and he does not abuse physically then you have to forgive him and give him another chance. I know it's hurts but you have to do it since you love him. If you Keep quiting your relationships because your partner cheated, my dear na long journey you dey oo. A lot of we men find it hard to resist the urge of cheating even though they love their partners. This Life no just balance

And who told you females don't have urge to cheat too ? Or are they not sexual beings ?

Just admit it's lack of self control and stop forming the lie of it's man's nature. Lack of self control simple

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by WrittyWritter(f): 12:23pm On Oct 25, 2020
Wat exactly do u want us to do..U already broke up with him..Abi na move on u wan hear..Abi want us to start insulting him or wat

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by iLegendd(m): 12:25pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?

Sorry.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:29pm On Oct 25, 2020
This mentality subjects many women to slavery and emotional wreckage.

Love should not cover up infidelity. It commands faithfulness, reciprocity, self control. Stop being apologetic to men that cheat.

Daguccizgreat:
I will tell you this, If You're convinced he loves you and he does not abuse physically then you have to forgive him and give him another chance. I know it's hurts but you have to do it since you love him. If you Keep quiting your relationships because your partner cheated, my dear na long journey you dey oo. A lot of we men find it hard to resist the urge of cheating even though they love their partners. This Life no just balance

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:32pm On Oct 25, 2020
Many men think this way on this platform.

It's almost obvious that most of them cheat on a daily basis and want to get away with it. They claim to be men because they give in to their urge whenever triggered and will never claim to be men for having self control.

Jozzy4:


And who told you females don't have urge to cheat too ? Or are they not sexual beings ?

Just admit it's lack of self control and stop forming the lie of it's man's nature. Lack of self control simple

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Liposure: 12:32pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I can't stand a cheating partner
you couldn't stand him cause you found out. Do you know how many times he might have cheated on you without your knowledge. Yet you stood by him. The fact is people cheat until they are caught

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 12:34pm On Oct 25, 2020
Descortes:
lmao
I bet ya he's cheated on you more than twice.. you only just know about this one

N that's funny..how?
Why laugh at someone's pain?
Will U like someone to laugh at your pain?
Let someone U trust for years betray U n then laugh at your pain n see how it would feel.
Chai
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Daguccizgreat(m): 12:35pm On Oct 25, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
This mentality subjects many women to slavery and emotional wreckage.

Love should not cover up infidelity. If you think it should, you don't know what love is.

I don't know how old you're but I have to tell you this. If she goes into marriage with that mentality to quit if her partner cheats then she should get ready to marry as many men in her life as possible. I condemn cheating but the truth is that if all the married women whom their husbands cheat quit their marriages then single mothers will litter every where all over the world. Even God forgives and gives a second chance

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by JasperVII(m): 12:35pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Notatribalist(m): 12:36pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?
You did the right thing dear..you sound like a good girl ,don't know why some guys don't value good girls,when I am here searching for girl for years..Move on

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by JOACHINpedro: 12:36pm On Oct 25, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
This mentality subjects many women to slavery and emotional wreckage.

Love should not cover up infidelity. It commands faithfulness, reciprocity, self control. Stop being apologetic to men that cheat.



I wish there will be worldwide erection seizure for all the unmarried for 2yrs. Relationship wey last that long should be endorsed and recommended for marriage.
My Opinion though

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Notatribalist(m): 12:39pm On Oct 25, 2020
Daguccizgreat:
I don't know how old you're but I have to tell you this. If she goes into marriage with that mentality to quit if her partner cheats then she should get ready to marry as many men in her life as possible. I condemn cheating but the truth is that if all the married women whom their husbands cheat quit their marriages then single mothers will litter every where all over the world. Even God forgives and gives a second chance
Bible allows divorce on the ground of adultery, so nothing wrong if she quite on such ground. Stop supporting what's wrong, if we don't want our women to cheat we should not cheat either. They have emotions like we men..

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:40pm On Oct 25, 2020
I know how forgiveness works. Marriage is not for everybody, so don't paint singleness like it's a problem.

Even the Bible doesn't recognise marriage in every famed individual, e.g. Paul.

A woman that leans towards accepting a cheating man may end up being cheated on again. She said he was her boyfriend, for 2 years! 2 years!

Please, marriages have happened where both partners never cheated. It's not a dream, it's not fiction. It's a reality for the very few that understand it.

Daguccizgreat:
I don't know how old you're but I have to tell you this. If she goes into marriage with that mentality to quit if her partner cheats then she should get ready to marry as many men in her life as possible. I condemn cheating but the truth is that if all the married women whom their husbands cheat quit their marriages then single mothers will litter every where all over the world. Even God forgives and gives a second chance

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:41pm On Oct 25, 2020
God bless you

I know some here will challenge my masculinity for going against cheating, but the truth must be told

Notatribalist:
Bible allows divorce on the ground of adultery, so nothing wrong if she quite on such ground. Stop supporting what's wrong, if we don't want our women to cheat we should not cheat either. They have emotions like we men..

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by FanOfMyself: 12:42pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs.He cheated on me with another babe.It's hard to move on ,i wrote this with a bleeding heart.Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl.Y would he treat me like this?Am going insane.What should i do nairalanders?
Probably you weren't good for him. That's the bitter truth. Move on, you might find someone else
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 12:42pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I can't stand a cheating partner

It breaks trust wen Ur partner cheats. Especially after years together.
If I was you I'd think with your head not your heart if he tries come back.
Most cheats will do it again.
But everyone's different n ppl make mistakes n wen U love someone so long isn't easy....
I think maybe he cheated only cos he lusted for that girl but who's to say it won't happen next time hes attracted to someone else.
If I was you I'd move on n take it slow next time U meet someone else n get to know wat they're capable of.
If U do move on just keep busy to take Ur mind off of him n over time you'll feel better.
Other than that there's no cure for a broken heart.

N no matter wat guys on here say it's Ur fault n crapp like that, nothing justifies cheating n no matter what U didn't force him to take his preek outta his pants so ignore em

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:43pm On Oct 25, 2020
Bullshit! A cheating man will cheat regardless.

FanOfMyself:

Probably you weren't good for him. That's the bitter truth. Move on, you might find someone else

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 12:45pm On Oct 25, 2020
Obierika:


She's only telling you to move on cos she is boyfriendless...misery loves company.

This is Nigeria not America, here it's normal for men to have more than one woman.

The main thing is that the guy needs to be mature and discrete about it.

This is the gospel truth!

But if a girl has more than one guy she's a hoe?

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by liveyourlife007(m): 12:45pm On Oct 25, 2020
don't call me up- MABEL
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 12:46pm On Oct 25, 2020
That is their reasoning grin

Mrscarter:


But if a girl has more than one guy she's a hoe?

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 12:46pm On Oct 25, 2020
Heavensent01:



point out my hypocrisy here in that post? in so many years I've kicked against a lady opening their legs for men that haven't show a lot of commitment in a relationship, the reason is because I've been preaching to guys around me to stay away from over used pússy


in every broken relationship, the lady tends to lose more than guys, both in time and body. I can settle you or your sister without knowing the situation of your pussy look, some pússy lips had Lost their value in look


I'm waiting for my hypocrisy in my uncensored and obvious facts

U talk bout women as if they're used furniture. Wats a guy who's slept with many women then? Do their dickks look used n less of value?

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 12:48pm On Oct 25, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
Your gospel truth is a gospel lie.

"here it's normal for men to have more than one woman"

What bullshit!


He has no morals no mind him.
Ppl like him can't know real love...it's his loss undecided

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Bigdik70inch2(m): 12:48pm On Oct 25, 2020
Angelacruz:
I can't stop crying.I did noting wrong

Maybe..u were forming too good girl for him..

Every guy..need at least a touch of bad girl Oo..

I plan cheating on my gf soonest too sha..

She too dey prove good girl to me..

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Angelacruz: 12:50pm On Oct 25, 2020
Bigdik70inch2:

Maybe..u were forming too good girl for him..
Every guy..need at least a touch of bad girl Oo..
I plan cheating on my gf soonest too sha..
She too dey prove good girl to me..
I don't know

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