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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Freelane33(m): 8:37am On Oct 27, 2020
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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Graysons: 8:41am On Oct 27, 2020
Fact1:

I don't know ,,
You're the one dat can answer dat,,,,,,,wink grin
Okay oooo but know this.
God create women for men enjoyment and satisfaction nothing more. Good day to u.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Remijuice: 8:42am On Oct 27, 2020
Shortyy:

Where in the Bible does it say to beat your wife? Stop using the bible to condone such terrible acts please. And a time where a woman Isn't in the mood for it, simply forgive and hold on. That's a Christian thing to do.
The Bible instructed Women to submit to their husband, whom God made the head of the family.


Women love pity party and blame game.
Ask her why she denied her husband sex, before you start blaming the man for being human.
Do you know that you have the ability to bring out the beast in him and also the best in him. At her age she should understand her husband better.


Note: I'm not justifying the husband beating her.



Samakus:
Why will you deny me the only thing you possibly bring to the table?

I frown at the man for beating her. If it's me, I won't beat her but you see that sex, she will beg to have it cos I won't touch her again


Na yourself u dey do man.
She has nothing to lose.

Simply deport her back to her father's house.
When people yab her 2 3 times, she go know the full meaning of Conjugal right...

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 8:51am On Oct 27, 2020
Graysons:
Okay oooo but know this.

God create women for men enjoyment and satisfaction nothing more.
Good day to u.

The word you use doesn't make sense at all,,,,,,,

But i can't really blame you,,,,,,


There's some certain things in this life dat almost everybody don't understand,,,,,

Are you God's secretary?

How did you know,,,,,?

You need to think like a sensible soul,,,,,,,

All your points are nonsense,,,,,,

That's broke guys imagination,,,,

You need to know dat not all girls are so useless as all the yeye ones that you're following up and down,,,,,,,,



Peace,,,,,,❤️❤️

Have a nice day,,,
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Lorayne(m): 8:59am On Oct 27, 2020
My English ain't that good. but, I think it should be ashamed "for" not "of"

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by generationz(f): 9:03am On Oct 27, 2020
Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

You too noticed? This is one of the reasons I hardly comment on nairaland again. A lot of the comments from men here are filled with wickedness and vile.
Women should be encouraged to use whatever means necessary to defend themselves from such animals.
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Sotland: 9:03am On Oct 27, 2020
WoundedLamb:
In Africa, women are seen as being owned by their men. This wouldn't have been a problem it the men were also owned by their women. The misogyny in Africa is such that everything a man does is correct. They either make an excuse for him or they try to reconfigure the woman to accommodate the man's excesses. I'm surprised you're this shocked cause this isn't new. NL boys and men will get to the lowest point just to support men regardless of the situation. Logic does not apply here. If a man cheats, his wife will be asked to cook well or lose weight. If a man rapes, the lady will be asked to dress better next time. Wizkid is "my guy" for having multiple ladies but the ladies are 'oloshos'. The sexism down there is becoming beastly and it's unfortunate that these guys are not aware of the kind of socioeconomic environment they are creating with thier actions. They think blindly supporting anything a fellow man does makes them more manly (something they call alpha). And when you try to reason with them, you're abused.

In fact, Nigerians don't like equality. They only cry out when they are directly affected. Men think they are superior human beings. Politicians think they are superior citizens. Force people think they are superior entities. Tribe A people think they are superior to other tribes. Straight people think they are superior to gay people. Religion "A" people think theirs is superior to others. The rich think they are superior to the poor. Etc. And this will continue forever because nobody is really advocating for equal rights. Everyone is trying to create exceptions to exclude those they believe don't deserve it.


From the beginning and till the end of the world.. There have never been any such thing as equality "men and women equal" not in as a christian, Muslim or even the idol/traditional worshipper and it cannot be.

So, if you campaign for gender equality, you'd be deluding yourself.

The fact remains that both husband and wife should do what edify the presence of God in their lives.. Many people say there is no particular rule to marriage, but I tell them there is a commandment and if you follow n keep that commandment of marriage, you will experience peace in your marriage life....

Commandment as follows:

Husband: love your wife as thyself. Men love is natural selfish, for they love themselves more.. If the man in the context loves his wife, he won't have beaten her.. because 2 has become 1. A man who beats his wife beats himself.. Only mentally derail man slaps himself.

Wife: Submit Your self to thy husband. Most Women are naturally stubborn and often display their stubbornness through action or words. A woman who submit completely to her husband will experience peace(absolutely being submissive) Again.. Men are the authority of the house.. No body whether man or woman who's the head of any place will take it slightly if his or her authority is denied or not taken.. By authority, it doesn't mean force... There is a big difference btw an Authority and Force... In most cases, many men uses force in place of authority because the wife/woman is not submissive..

Finally, Life is not a bed of rose. We should always remember that challenges and the storm of life must surely come by, how we manage the scenario is all that matters.. May God help us all.. Amen

Soty

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Dreadlock69(m): 9:05am On Oct 27, 2020
Reality check
Why should you beat someone for deny you sex even if your his spouse ,I disapprove it, if you can't control the urge please go elsewhere to quench it
However beating the woman with children or a child already brings emotional trauma to the children or child which negative energy or aura can be passed from the mother or child
I've been that child it never dies,the moment and trauma not because or anything I don't know I'm just a child then and I love my mother
But who I'm I to judge

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by angelfallz(m): 9:13am On Oct 27, 2020
Fact1:



What you said isn't valid at all,,,,,.. we're stronger than the girls,,

If a girl hit me first,,(though it can never happen),,,,,, i will not hit her back
,, but if nah male blood go dey flow on ground,,, smiley


If i hit a girl she will faint instantly,,so why will i,,,?


If i wanna try my power my fellow male dey,,,


All this nah exaggeration ,, because I'm a displined and respected guy so no girl can raise her hand to hit me,,,,,,, only if we're playing,,,,,,,,

And if she hit me first without me doing anything,, I won't return it just because she's a girl,,,wink

The first bolded
What he said is very valid.
You are enabling and encouraging violence against men.
If women see you as stronger, would they dare raise their hands against you in the first place? Women who go about hitting men do it because, they know that the man would not hit her back(no consequence for her action), if those women know that the men would hit her back, do you think they would be hitting men in the first place?

The Coloured,
who told you that if you hit her she would faint? also, what makes you think that you can't faint if a woman hits you? This your chivalry would only leave you in toxic relationships.
Women should learn to keep their hands to themselves and stop intentionally trying to provoke men.

The Second bolded,
hitting a woman back is not about trying your power, it is about letting her know that there are consequences to her actions.

The last bolded
By doing that you embolden her to, continue hitting you whenever she likes and to also, hit other men when she likes.

Women who grew up with men that don't take nonsense do not go about hitting men, quote me anywhere on my last sentence.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 27, 2020
angelfallz:


The first bolded
What he said is very valid.
You are enabling and encouraging violence against men.
If women see you as stronger, would they dare raise their hands against you in the first place? Women who go about hitting men do it because, they know that the man would not hit her back(no consequence for her action), if those women know that the men would hit her back, do you think they would be hitting men in the first place?

The Coloured,
who told you that if you hit her she would faint? also, what makes you think that you can't faint if a woman hits you? This your chivalry would only leave you in toxic relationships.
Women should learn to keep their hands to themselves and stop intentionally trying to provoke men.

The Second bolded,
hitting a woman back is not about trying your power, it is about letting her know that there are consequences to her actions.

The last bolded
By doing that you embolden her to, continue hitting you whenever she likes and to also, to hit other men when she likes.

Women who grew up with men that don't take nonsense do not go about hitting men, quote me anywhere on my last sentence.



Yes you have a nice writeup,,,,

But you mixed up some certain things,,,,,,,,


The issue of girls stronger than the boy and trying to encourage violence which involve male,,,i agree (though I don't have dat intention,,)


Your last point is not valid ,,,to me if i i didn't hit you back doesn't mean i i give you power to do dat next time,,,,,,

You saying hitting woman back ,,dat doesn't make sense at all,,,, you said to let her know she's wrong,,,

As i said earlier I can never hit any woman,,,,

So if your woman do you wrong you go hit her,,,,?

Hitting her might lead to another thing,,,,,,

For me she will land in her papa house without me accepting anybody's apologies,,,,,,,,,,


Just have it at the back of your mind dat no sensible man must raise up his mind to beat up any lady,,,,,,,

Have a nice day ❤️❤️❤️
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by fati2001(m): 9:42am On Oct 27, 2020
Freelane33:
Big F . Hendrix lover

FREEBANDZ GANGS.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by 444crop: 9:44am On Oct 27, 2020
No sir but if beating is what it takes to have that peace again.... The woman won't tell you what she does when she's in heat....
Fact1:



Understand beating abi,,,?


Okay sir,,,,smiley
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by cozy7(m): 9:45am On Oct 27, 2020
Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.
Shut your trap. Sex is one of d main reasons marriage was constituted. U treated your husband wrong. Till now, you've not said y u denied him his right, which means that u know u were wrong. If u can't give sex, why get married? JUST SHUT UP and thank God he didn't divorce u. Make amends and hv a happy home. Thanks.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by angelfallz(m): 9:45am On Oct 27, 2020
Fact1:



Yes you have a nice writeup,,,,

But you mixed up some certain things,,,,,,,,


The issue of girls stronger than the boy and trying to encourage violence which involve male,,,i agree (though I don't have dat intention,,)


Your last point is not valid ,,,to me if i i didn't hit you back doesn't mean i i give you power to do dat next time,,,,,,

You saying hitting woman back ,,dat doesn't make sense at all,,,, you said to let her know she's wrong,,,

As i said earlier I can never hit any woman,,,,

So if your woman do you wrong you go hit her,,,,?

Hitting her might lead to another thing,,,,,,

For me she will land in her papa house without me accepting anybody's apologies,,,,,,,,,,


Just have it at the back of your mind dat no sensible man must raise up his mind to beat up any lady,,,,,,,

Have a nice day ❤️❤️❤️

So if your woman do you wrong you go hit her,,,,?
What do you mean if my woman do me wrong? If my woman hits me i would hit her back. simple.

Just have it at the back of your mind dat no sensible man must raise up his mind to beat up any lady,,,,,,,
No, no sensible man would allow himself to become a punching bag for a woman, just because she is a woman. No sensible lady would raise her hands to hit a man.
If you won't allow a fellow man to get away with hitting you why should allow a woman?

Have a nice day as well.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Mypeople2(m): 9:49am On Oct 27, 2020
Jimbadly:


Lemme ask you Ekaette, what if the husband's dick is too huge, but he insists on _fucking the wife 3 times a day?
Forget that thing you are saying .You mean she did not see or touch the organ of the man before marriage ? She saw the organ before she got married ,now you are telling me he shouldn't have sex because it is big.Everybody checks these days

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Mypeople2(m): 9:50am On Oct 27, 2020
angelfallz:


What do you mean if my woman do me wrong? If my woman hits me i would hit her back. simple.


No, no sensible man would allow himself to become a punching bag for a woman, just because she is a woman. No sensible lady would raise her hands to hit a man.
If you won't allow a fellow man to get away with hitting you why should allow a woman?

Have a nice day as well.
You better go outside and dame the consequences than for you to beat your wife
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Mypeople2(m): 9:54am On Oct 27, 2020
cozy7:
Shut your trap. Sex is one of d main reasons marriage was constituted. U treated your husband wrong. Till now, you've not said y u denied him his right, which means that u know u were wrong. If u can't give sex, why get married? JUST SHUT UP and thank God he didn't divorce u. Make amends and hv a happy home. Thanks.
I said it before and I will repeat it .Any woman who doesn't want to have sex shouldn't get married

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by angelfallz(m): 9:54am On Oct 27, 2020
Mypeople2:
You better go outside and dame the consequences than for you to beat your wife

you obviously didn't read what i typed. what i and the other guy were discussing was not necessarily about what the OP typed.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Mypeople2(m): 9:57am On Oct 27, 2020
angelfallz:


you obviously didn't read what i typed. what i and the other guy were discussing was not necessarily about what the OP typed.
Okay, I apologize for that

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Graysons: 10:03am On Oct 27, 2020
Fact1:


The word you use doesn't make sense at all,,,,,,,

But i can't really blame you,,,,,,


There's some certain things in this life dat almost everybody don't understand,,,,,

Are you God's secretary?

How did you know,,,,,?

You need to think like a sensible soul,,,,,,,

All your points are nonsense,,,,,,

That's broke guys imagination,,,,

You need to know dat not all girls are so useless as all the yeye ones that you're following up and down,,,,,,,,



Peace,,,,,,❤️❤️

Have a nice day,,,
Your opinion tho lol.
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 10:07am On Oct 27, 2020
angelfallz:


What do you mean if my woman do me wrong? If my woman hits me i would hit her back. simple.


No, no sensible man would allow himself to become a punching bag for a woman, just because she is a woman. No sensible lady would raise her hands to hit a man.
If you won't allow a fellow man to get away with hitting you why should allow a woman?

Have a nice day as well.


Now i understand you,,,,,

You're trying to do 50 50

Bye have a nice day,,,,
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Jimbadly: 10:08am On Oct 27, 2020
HRHQueenPhil:
love how u called my full.name grin

Really babe? Wow. I love it when my full name is called too.

But you didn't answer the question tho.
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:09am On Oct 27, 2020
You are filled with so much entitlement.

A girlfriend is not under any mandate to give a guy her body. It's always a choice. Guys force it because they sob a lot about how much they spend and only entered the relationship to smash.

fabiano09:
a girlfriend shouldn't even deny her boyfriend of sex,talk more of a wife ,come on,be sensible

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Mandela27: 10:12am On Oct 27, 2020
If u would rationalize sex,better dont get married.

You got into the marriage to get fvckked freely and also fvckk freely when u want.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Jimbadly: 10:12am On Oct 27, 2020
Mypeople2:
Forget that thing you are saying .You mean she did not see or touch the organ of the man before marriage ? She saw the organ before she got married ,now you are telling me he shouldn't have sex because it is big.Everybody checks these days

Real born again Christians don't test run before marriage. Especially Deeper Lifers.
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 10:15am On Oct 27, 2020
Graysons:
Your opinion tho lol.

Trust me bro,,,,


I can never mislead you,,,,,

There's nothing you gain in painting girls bad name,,,,,,

We have them as our mother,,,,, sister etc,,,,,

A very useful woman dey for town but dey scarce,,,,,

We dey together bro❤️❤️


Last night my female friend sent me 5k recharge card grin




I told her i need card,,,,


That's the type of girl we must be looking forgrin

Not all the yeye girls wey full town,,,

She's kind,,,, disciplined,,and respectful,,,,,,,smiley

Trust me not all girls are useless,,wink

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 10:16am On Oct 27, 2020
collinsuchendu:


Bloody simp

Every nitwit shouting simp behind their phone screen.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 10:17am On Oct 27, 2020
Fact1:



What you said isn't valid at all,,,,,.. we're stronger than the girls,,

If a girl hit me first,,(though it can never happen),,,,,, i will not hit her back,, but if nah male blood go dey flow on ground,,, smiley


If i hit a girl she will faint instantly,,so why will i,,,?


If i wanna try my power my fellow male dey,,,


All this nah exaggeration ,, because I'm a displined and respected guy so no girl can raise her hand to hit me,,,,,,, only if we're playing,,,,,,,,

And if she hit me first without me doing anything,, I won't return it just because she's a girl,,,wink

You're a fool.

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:18am On Oct 27, 2020
Stop using words you can't grasp.

You don't know who a simp is

collinsuchendu:


Bloody simp

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 10:18am On Oct 27, 2020
444crop:
No sir but if beating is what it takes to have that peace again.... The woman won't tell you what she does when she's in heat....

Hmmmm issokay sir,,,,smiley
Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by angelfallz(m): 10:19am On Oct 27, 2020
Fact1:



Now i understand you,,,,,

You're trying to do 50 50

Bye have a nice day,,,,

Lol, no, you don't yet understand me. I'm not trying to do 50/50, it might look like it, but I'm not.

I am trying to let the woman know that there are consequences for her actions, and for me, the best consequence for her action is hitting her back.

Like i said previously, women that grew up with men that don't take nonsense or men that taught their daughters to keep their hands to themselves do not go about hitting men.

The women that you see going about slapping or hitting men, are women who were taught that there is nothing wrong in hitting men, that they are weaker than men so they can't do damage, they are women who were taught right from childhood that there are no consequences for hitting men. You don't believe me that there women that grew up like that?
Check out the link below
https://www.nairaland.com/6170591/school-run-encounter#94771974

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Re: I'm Truly Ashamed For Some Men by Nobody: 10:19am On Oct 27, 2020
nwaezeemmanuel:
You are filled with so much entitlement.

A girlfriend is not under any mandate to give a guy her body. It's always a choice. Guys force it because they sob a lot about how much they spend and only entered the relationship to smash.

you're a SIMP

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