Mandela27:
If u would rationalize sex,better dont get married.

You got into the marriage to get fvckked freely and also fvckk freely when u want.

The mistake you ancestors made, and you are now making is to think marriage is all about sex.
That's why they born pikins and raised you up like a rat.

FanOfMyself:

Just to be on their side, this brother is laying false accusations on his papa.

I laugh i grew up watching my dad always beating my mum i'm not siding anyone here it is the brutal truth

Plead:


You're a fool.

What have I done sir,,,?

Note dat I'm not the cause of your bitterness or depression,,,,,,

I drop my comment,,if I'm wrong and you wanna correct me ,, shey calling me fool is the way your brain tell you to do?

See life is so simple,,,,,,

Goan get a life,,,,,,,

Make money,,,,,

You will understand many things after dat time,,,,,,

Bye have a nice day bro,,❤️❤️❤️

Fact1:






What have I done sir,,,?

Note dat I'm not the cause of your bitterness or depression,,,,,,

I drop my comment,,if I'm wrong and you wanna correct me ,, shey calling me fool is the way your brain tell you to do?

See life is so simple,,,,,,

Goan get a life,,,,,,,

Make money,,,,,

You will understand many things after dat time,,,,,,

Bye have a nice day bro,,❤️❤️❤️

You registered in August.. Just 2months ago and you already have 1.2k+ comments yet you're preaching about getting a life. Jobless simp.

fabiano09:

you're a SIMP

You are the simp here,
You can't reason with your fried brain, the more you let a woman know that there is nothing special about her toto, the more superior you are.

Brainless fool shoutng simp just becuz it's trending on NL.

Jimbadly:


Real born again Christians don't test run before marriage. Especially Deeper Lifers.

I don't mean having sex with the man.You can use play to touch it and make a comment like " What did my hand touch now ? Wow! "

WoundedLamb:
In Africa, women are seen as being owned by their men. This wouldn't have been a problem it the men were also owned by their women. The misogyny in Africa is such that everything a man does is correct. They either make an excuse for him or they try to reconfigure the woman to accommodate the man's excesses. I'm surprised you're this shocked cause this isn't new. NL boys and men will get to the lowest point just to support men regardless of the situation. Logic does not apply here. If a man cheats, his wife will be asked to cook well or lose weight. If a man rapes, the lady will be asked to dress better next time. Wizkid is "my guy" for having multiple ladies but the ladies are 'oloshos'. The sexism down there is becoming beastly and it's unfortunate that these guys are not aware of the kind of socioeconomic environment they are creating with thier actions. They think blindly supporting anything a fellow man does makes them more manly (something they call alpha). And when you try to reason with them, you're abused.

In fact, Nigerians don't like equality. They only cry out when they are directly affected. Men think they are superior human beings. Politicians think they are superior citizens. Force people think they are superior entities. Tribe A people think they are superior to other tribes. Straight people think they are superior to gay people. Religion "A" people think theirs is superior to others. The rich think they are superior to the poor. Etc. And this will continue forever because nobody is really advocating for equal rights. Everyone is trying to create exceptions to exclude those they believe don't deserve it.

Aptly written, but wrong as regards to the earlier thread. This is because while most men were blaming the woman for putting herself in that position, they didn't necessarily say the man is right for doing what he did.

If a man made a thread about beating his wife because of sex, Men here would still take him to the slaughter...
Hope you understand.

angelfallz:


Lol, no, you don't yet understand me. I'm not trying to do 50/50, it might look like it, but I'm not.

I am trying to let the woman know that there are consequences for her actions, and for me, the best consequence for her action is hitting her back.

Like i said previously, women that grew up with men that don't take nonsense or men that taught their daughters to keep their hands to themselves do not go about hitting men.

The women that you see going about slapping or hitting men, are women who were taught that there is nothing wrong in hitting men, that they are weaker than men so they can't do damage, they are women who were taught right from childhood that there are no consequences for hitting men. You don't believe me that there women that grew up like that?
Check out the link below
https://www.nairaland.com/6170591/school-run-encounter#94771974

Lol,, aswear i can relate dat link,,,

Dat is fvcken true,,,,, aswear we boys suffer for primary school,,,,


You're right,,.


Yes she must be punish for her action but do you think hitting her back is the way,,,?


Anyway God nogo shame us my brother,,,

, ❤️✅

Dijavu97:


The mistake you ancestors made, and you are now making is to think marriage is all about sex.
That's why they born pikins and raised you up like a rat.

I know say u fall under dog specie,all sex must result to pregnancy.You no be human being else u for know about family planning and how u fit fvckk freely without fear of pregnancy,only the pleasure.Come make I roll one tie for u to smoke get sense.ANIMAL.

Plead:


You registered in August.. Just 2months ago and you already have 1.2k+ comments yet you're preaching about getting a life. Jobless simp.

Lol see me laughing on the floor,,,,


Buhahahaha,,


So because I gat over 1k comment make you think say ano get job,,,,

Haha,, aswear to God if you can go through all my posts your life cannot remain the same,, because i give advice and tell people facts,,,,, unless if I'm joking,,,,,,


The way you think is not good my brother,,,,,

You don't have such amount of posts because you have nothing sensible to post,,,,,,

As i said earlier goan get life,,,

If you make this money you will never think like this,,,,

I don't like engaging in an unproductive conversation,,,,,,,

Note my brother not everybody dey in your shoe,, don't use your life to compare with mine or any other people,,

My brother not everybody dey work with energy before making huge money,,,,,


Money will make you understand some certain things naturally,,,

Everything nah simp for nairaland,,,,,, only a fool will take dat my post as simping,,,,

Work harder bro,,,,

God will help us,,,,✌️✊✊

Love you bro❤️❤️✅✅✅

Dijavu97:



You are the simp here,
You can't reason with your fried brain, the more you let a woman know that there is nothing special about her toto, the more superior you are.

Brainless fool shoutng simp just becuz it's trending on NL.

oh you the real simp ?

Fact1:



Lol,, aswear i can relate dat link,,,

Dat is fvcken true,,,,, aswear we boys suffer for primary school,,,,


You're right,,.


Yes she must not be punishment for her action but do you think hitting her back is the way,,,?


Anyway God nogo shame us my brother,,,

, ❤️✅

She should be punished for her action, if boys are suspended for beating girls, girls should be suspended for beating boys, such rules are biased against boys.
Now, a girl that grows up in that kind of environment would not hesitate to hit a man because, she has been taught right from childhood that hitting a man has not consequences.

The bolded,
Yes, i do. It is a way of factory resetting what she was taught right from childhood.

angelfallz:


She should be punished for action, if boys are suspended for beating girls, girls should be suspended for beating boys, such rules are biased against boys.
Now, a girl that grows up in that kind of environment would not hesitate to hit a man because, she has been taught right from childhood that hitting a man has not consequences.

The bolded,
Yes, i do. It is a way factory resetting what she was taught right from childhood.

Hmmmm,,,let me agree partially with the case of her background,,,.
.
Girls from different background must not be treated dat way,,,, or what did you think?

Anyway,, it's nice chatting with you,,,,❤️❤️✌️✊


Have a nice day man ✌️✌️❤️❤️

Shortyy:
It'll be better that way. I'm not going to subject myself to perpetual suffering because I want to answer "wife" a wife is not a slave, she's your partner. A half of you.

Not all men are like that.
Stop generalizing us.

As a matter of fact, most men would rather cheat in such situations than beat up their wife.

Mypeople2:
I don't mean having sex with the man.You can use play to touch it and make a comment like " What did my hand touch now ? Wow! "

A real born again Christian doesn't touch the private part of their intending spouse. It's forbidden.

I was so ashamed when i saw that post and all the men were just praising the man.. For Christ sake, why would you even lay a finger on a woman? No matter what she did, you have no right to lay a finger on a woman..

You don't know what that means. Capitalise it all you want, doesn't touch a nerve on my body.

fabiano09:

you're a SIMP

Lorayne:
My English ain't that good. but, I think it should be ashamed "for" not "of"

Thanks

nwaezeemmanuel:
You don't know what that means. Capitalise it all you want, doesn't touch a nerve on my body.

THE GREATEST SIMPLE.



THE THING DY BA NI MAMAKII.


EVEN FOWL WHER NO GET AKURII AAI BAKI THE MENTION THE NAME.

First of all, I don't support violence against women becos of sex. Infact i totally condemn it. However under no condition whatsoever should a legally married woman deny her husband sex. I'm your hubby for god sake. I have every right to your body and you have no right to deny me.

What if she's sick?

Liposure:
I don't support violence against women becos of sex. However under no condition whatsoever should a legally married woman deny her husband sex. I'm your hubby. I have every right to your body and you have no right to deny it.

Fact1:


Lol see me laughing on the floor,,,,


Buhahahaha,,


So because I gat over 1k comment make you think say ano get job,,,,

Haha,, aswear to God if you can go through all my posts your life cannot remain the same,, because i give advice and tell people facts,,,,, unless if I'm joking,,,,,,


The way you think is not good my brother,,,,,

You don't have such amount of posts because you have nothing sensible to post,,,,,,

As i said earlier goan get life,,,

If you make this money you will never think like this,,,,

I don't like engaging in an unproductive conversation,,,,,,,

Note my brother not everybody dey in your shoe,, don't use your life to compare with mine or any other people,,

My brother not everybody dey work with energy before making huge money,,,,,


Money will make you understand some certain things naturally,,,

Everything nah simp for nairaland,,,,,, only a fool will take dat my post as simping,,,,

Work harder bro,,,,

God will help us,,,,✌️✊✊

Love you bro❤️❤️✅✅✅

Don't be stupid, bruv. Nobody complained to you about lack of money so what's all these talks about work harder and making money blah blah.

When did I tell you that I lack money? Your Foolishness is indeed beyond human comprehension.

collinsuchendu:


So I should believe the bitchy lying hoe abi? Since when did social media turn to a police station (that's if she's not guilty)

Carry your simpy mumuness and get out of my mention. Nonsense and ingredients

#EndSars
#EndBuhari
#Deathtosimps

You do not sound intelligent. The irony of this your comment is that you concluded it with #EndSars as if you are civilized enough to understand the logic of brutality against another humanbeing being a NO NO. Yet, in the same vein you are stupid.ly endorsing the brutality on another human by someone who isn't even a stranger to her. If your fellow men for SARS touch you na, you go dey cry like baby but if na to fight woman because she no open leg for your tiny preek to throway sperm, you go dey beat chest dey rack everywhere. If that doesn't define a simp, I wonder what does. Disgusting cowards.

fabiano09:

you're a SIMP

nwaezeemmanuel:
What if she's sick?

that's a different situation entirely. I can understand. But as long as she's hale and hearty, i see no reason she should deny me my right

Sure, couples should try to handle these things well and not make it look like they just married to have sex.

Liposure:
that a different situation entirely. I can understand. But as long as she's hale and hearty, i see no reason she should deny me sex.

WoundedLamb:
In Africa, women are seen as being owned by their men. This wouldn't have been a problem it the men were also owned by their women. The misogyny in Africa is such that everything a man does is correct. They either make an excuse for him or they try to reconfigure the woman to accommodate the man's excesses. I'm surprised you're this shocked cause this isn't new. NL boys and men will get to the lowest point just to support men regardless of the situation. Logic does not apply here. If a man cheats, his wife will be asked to cook well or lose weight. If a man rapes, the lady will be asked to dress better next time. Wizkid is "my guy" for having multiple ladies but the ladies are 'oloshos'. The sexism down there is becoming beastly and it's unfortunate that these guys are not aware of the kind of socioeconomic environment they are creating with thier actions. They think blindly supporting anything a fellow man does makes them more manly (something they call alpha). And when you try to reason with them, you're abused.

In fact, Nigerians don't like equality. They only cry out when they are directly affected. Men think they are superior human beings. Politicians think they are superior citizens. Force people think they are superior entities. Tribe A people think they are superior to other tribes. Straight people think they are superior to gay people. Religion "A" people think theirs is superior to others. The rich think they are superior to the poor. Etc. And this will continue forever because nobody is really advocating for equal rights. Everyone is trying to create exceptions to exclude those they believe don't deserve it.

You're the first sane human being to clearly state the obvious on this Nairaland 'Hateland', without fear of being called 'simp'.


People like you always move forward in life regardless of circumstances!

May you walk and never stumble!!!

The man fvcked up. He should have left the house the moment the wife refused him sex and go pick up a prostitute or something. This is one reason why men should have side chicks . Once wifee denies you sex just call one of side and stay with her for a month or two. Don't even drop money for food or anything. Just leave.

Dijavu97:


The mistake you ancestors made, and you are now making is to think marriage is all about sex.
That's why they born pikins and raised you up like a rat.

Most of the people here fall below the age bracket of 25years. Never been married, never been financially autonomous!

You must of necessity understand that they not only lack funds, they also lack experience. However what they seem to have in abundance is excessive vigor and fantasies. Fantasies about life, fantasies about marriage etc. They've never been there, so they brag about what they'll do when they are there. We all know reality is different from hearsay.

Some years down the lane, with some cash and age, along with a daughter here or there, the tune will change. History has it that father's are the most fierce protectors of their daughters. We all know they'll never wish or agree that their daughters be treated like trash the same way they clamor for someone else's to be treated now.

They may not admit it now, but they will eventually.

Don't stress yourself arguing with them, time will teach them lessons, good ones I hope.

Whatta guan man!


Any man that beats a woman because of sex needs to visit a psychiatrist for proper examination, no matter how Hot you are, you must respect your wife body, seek her consent before you enter into her paradise same applies to female... For married couple, please learn how to say thank you to your spouse after a successful Midnight transaction.

Wahala for who wan marry wife

Fact1:



What you said isn't valid at all,,,,,.. we're stronger than the girls,,

If a girl hit me first,,(though it can never happen),,,,,, i will not hit her back,, but if nah male blood go dey flow on ground,,,


If i hit a girl she will faint instantly,,so why will i,,,?


If i wanna try my power my fellow male dey,,,


All this nah exaggeration ,, because I'm a displined and respected guy so no girl can raise her hand to hit me,,,,,,, only if we're playing,,,,,,,,

And if she hit me first without me doing anything,, I won't return it just because she's a girl,,,

Keep deceiving yourself, till they put a knife in your gut and you definitely won’t react because she’s a girl

Shortyy:
A woman posted that she was beaten because she denied her husband sex. And all the comments from men here commended the man for beating his wife. Is this how low men have become because of sex? No atom of sympathy whatsoever! I do hope it's their normal jokes and trolling, becausw if truly this is how all men are, God will surely understand if I decide not to be with one.

Nobody bothered to know what could have led the woman to make such decision. Could it be she was sick, or she was having menstrual cramp, or she wasn't just in the mood! Fgs no matter what, bride price or no bride price, humanity comes first. How could you justify a human beating his fellow human just because of 2 minutes pleasure? Are you all beasts? Oh My God. I am disgusted.

A woman you dated, promised to love for the rest of your life against all odds. Then you turn her into a punching bag because of sex. You never married her for any other reason just for sex. How unfortunate.

Some people have sold their souls cause of sex.
Especially men.

It's a pity.