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Mrscarter:
I was around nine wen my dad's friends son was around 16/17 used to do things to me n make me touch him n told me it was a game n I knew it was wrong but couldn't tell my dad cos he was a drunk n used to beat us kids n mum and I was terrified cos the boy told me dad would go mad at me n I knew he was right. It went on around a year n one day he tried actually penetrating me n I was fighting him off and my little brother saw n ran got dad and my dad drag me by my hair n beat me real bad n blamed me. The boy only had to go to church n talk to the pastor bout it n after a few months he was allowed to babysit me again n still touched me n tried making me touch him. Eventually we moved away.
Over the years in my childhood a few of my dad's friends have put their hand dwn my pants or stuck their tounge in my ear n things like that n I was to afraid to tell dad.
My mum's brother was a drunk n tried putting his thing in my mouth wen I was around six n I was sleeping n woke up n lucky my dad got up to go to the toilet n scared him n he sneaked out. I only told my mum about this around four years ago. I've never told anyone else ever. N now that I grew up I can't stand the thought of dating anyone older than me at all it'd make me feel dirty n I just couldn't even think of it.

Ppl don't realise how it can affect you.

Comedian2019:
Op @ Mrflavvor, forget the past if you want to enjoy the present and the future.
No driver succeeds by focusing on the rear view mirror. Everyone you see has his own challenges in life. Focus on your life and make the best out of it. Stop all these self pity. Don't allow the society to decide how you think. Use your head and take charge of your life.
Above all, forgive those in your past and forgive yourself. What is in your past is in your past. That's where it belongs. Now look at the future with hope.

divinecode101:
This guy dey tell stories, fake stories

Don't waste your talent, start writing blue film scripts

MrFlavvor:
I expected immature and senseless comments like yours

Sawzer:
I'm sorry about your experience, I don't even know what to say.
I hope you heal soon and easily.

ModestGal:
Hmmn, this is why I don't want a child
What's the essence of bringing children to this world to suffer? Look at the Op, the parents would have done him a favour by leaving him in Heaven, when they knew if they bring him to earth,they will leave him for abuse

grim33:
You talk like an antinatalist let’s connect..

ModestGal:
Alright, chat me on WhatsApp 0701.784.85 & 34

ModestGal:
Hmmn, this is why I don't want a child
What's the essence of bringing children to this world to suffer? Look at the Op, the parents would have done him a favour by leaving him in Heaven, when they knew if they bring him to earth,they will leave him for abuse

Mrscarter:
I'm ok. Is just the reason I'd never date older men than me.

IntersexSherry:
From what i experienced, guys are not used to sexual molestation and rape so when such things happen to them. Doesn't affect them that much as it does to women

Funkyswagzz:
I had similar experience when I was small with our house help. Tho it only occurred once and I can't forget that day as little as I was.

Mrscarter:
I was around nine wen my dad's friends son was around 16/17 used to do things to me n make me touch him n told me it was a game n I knew it was wrong but couldn't tell my dad cos he was a drunk n used to beat us kids n mum and I was terrified cos the boy told me dad would go mad at me n I knew he was right. It went on around a year n one day he tried actually penetrating me n I was fighting him off and my little brother saw n ran got dad and my dad drag me by my hair n beat me real bad n blamed me. The boy only had to go to church n talk to the pastor bout it n after a few months he was allowed to babysit me again n still touched me n tried making me touch him. Eventually we moved away.
Over the years in my childhood a few of my dad's friends have put their hand dwn my pants or stuck their tounge in my ear n things like that n I was to afraid to tell dad.
My mum's brother was a drunk n tried putting his thing in my mouth wen I was around six n I was sleeping n woke up n lucky my dad got up to go to the toilet n scared him n he sneaked out. I only told my mum about this around four years ago. I've never told anyone else ever. N now that I grew up I can't stand the thought of dating anyone older than me at all it'd make me feel dirty n I just couldn't even think of it.

Ppl don't realise how it can affect you.

IntersexSherry:
From what i experienced, guys are not used to sexual molestation and rape so when such things happen to them. Doesn't affect them that much as it does to women

Sawzer:
What about age mate?

Mrscarter:
I'm ok. Is just the reason I'd never date older men than me.

Kobicove:
I thought you're already married?

Sawzer:
I'm confused!