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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by SeniorGee(m): 7:14pm On Nov 05, 2020
Irresponsible ladies open gate for irresponsible men..

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by WrittyWritter(f): 7:35pm On Nov 05, 2020
'Some women'..Be lyk say guy don't give dis one belle jp grin...But on a serious note getting married to someone because of a child is very wrong..it will affect both d man and d woman and d child at large...Plus at least d man did not reject d pregnancy..he accepted it and is taking care of his child..if he rejected it nko

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 05, 2020
MOLOTOVcockTAIL:
cool cool
Baby Mama is the way to go for any young man that wants to live long. Most marriages are now a thing of kgb vs Cia level espionage, merciless intruiges, dog eat dog, dagger and cloak etc.
Most baby Mama's has more regard in my eyes than the average deadly wives of nowadays.

Still single and contemplating though.

Baby mama is for irresponsible people my brother.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 8:14pm On Nov 05, 2020
pcguru1:


Baby mama is for irresponsible people my brother.


Its depend on what you define to be responsible ... using davido for instants wil you say he is irresponsible.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 8:19pm On Nov 05, 2020
As long as they're adults and the sex was consensual, both the man and the woman should be blamed.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Ayo2004: 8:23pm On Nov 05, 2020
virginprincess:
Zzor you are very correct, these days we have a lot of irresponsible men in our society that are not ready to take up their responsibilities as fathers.
So a responsibility as a father includes marrying the child's mother?una don see say men especially Nigerian 1's don wise up..una come dey rant,if your boyfriend give u Belle no marry u,go tie ring for him neck na grin
Radarada

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Terryishere: 8:26pm On Nov 05, 2020
Davash222:
I should marry that lady with another person’s children


Thank God I’m not responsible.
If you were a no good sorry ass dead beat dad that refuses to take care of your child, wouldn't you be thankful for a real man to come into your child's life and take on the responsibilities you were to lazy to do? I'm not saying this is your behavior I'm just saying what if.
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by virginprincess(f): 8:44pm On Nov 05, 2020
Ayo2004:

So a responsibility as a father includes marrying the child's mother?una don see say men especially Nigerian 1's don wise up..una come dey rant,if your boyfriend give u Belle no marry u,go tie ring for him neck na grin
Radarada
If he knows he doesn't want to marry her why will he get her pregnant in the first place?, if you know you got a lady pregnant you better go and marry her.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:51pm On Nov 05, 2020
Zzor:
Yes, irresponsible men are the reason why baby mama's are on the rise and sky rocketing. Men please avoid women you have no good intentions for all because of sex, don't have sex with her if you can't marry her. Some women are vulnerable and are easily carried away by sweet mouth, stop putting some ladies in a family way only to abandon them when responsibility sets in as a result of your careless actions. Some of you here are baby daddy's but will rush to condemn and discourage your fellow men against marrying any lady with a child, you insult baby mama's as if they impregnated themselves, some of you go as far as deliberately doing such only to end up telling the lady you are only interested in the child. Remember life is a circle, karma will surely visit when you least expect. To the responsible men out there, please marry that lady with a child or children as the case may be, it's a sign of strength and responsibility on her part, she had options of killing that child but chose to do the right thing. I wanted calling out some names of undercover baby daddy's who always rush to shame baby mama's here, but I reserve that for another day .
Heyaa! One Randy man has made this one a Baby Mama. cheesy

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 8:51pm On Nov 05, 2020
I agree with this in the sense that mutual consent involves mutual assumption of responsibilities.

A woman that agrees willingly to have unprotected pre-marital sex should be prepared to assume responsibility, so as the man.

DimplesLikeWow:
As long as they're adults and the sex was consensual, both the man and the woman should be blamed.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 8:57pm On Nov 05, 2020
Thing is, men should learn to take responsibility for their actions, but many put women in the family way and bail.

Women also should be educated to not just have careless pre-marital sex with a man, until the day the vow is made - just to play safe.

I say this, because some men wont just grow up and women need to be aware of that. This doesn't mean i am condoning nonsense.

virginprincess:
If he knows he doesn't want to marry her why will he get her pregnant in the first place?, if you know you got a lady pregnant you better go and marry her.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Wittyglam(f): 9:17pm On Nov 05, 2020
This is your opinion but I still beg to disagree with you. We all have choice but some people decide to be greedy.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VRlazUVaHjM
Zzor:
Yes, irresponsible men are the reason why baby mama's are on the rise and sky rocketing. Men please avoid women you have no good intentions for all because of sex, don't have sex with her if you can't marry her. Some women are vulnerable and are easily carried away by sweet mouth, stop putting some ladies in a family way only to abandon them when responsibility sets in as a result of your careless actions. Some of you here are baby daddy's but will rush to condemn and discourage your fellow men against marrying any lady with a child, you insult baby mama's as if they impregnated themselves, some of you go as far as deliberately doing such only to end up telling the lady you are only interested in the child. Remember life is a circle, karma will surely visit when you least expect. To the responsible men out there, please marry that lady with a child or children as the case may be, it's a sign of strength and responsibility on her part, she had options of killing that child but chose to do the right thing. I wanted calling out some names of undercover baby daddy's who always rush to shame baby mama's here, but I reserve that for another day .
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by shuwaboy(m): 9:36pm On Nov 05, 2020
Well I don't see the issue in marrying single mums not baby mamas ooh.
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Ayo2004: 10:12pm On Nov 05, 2020
virginprincess:
If he knows he doesn't want to marry her why will he get her pregnant in the first place?, if you know you got a lady pregnant you better go and marry her.
So u we can start hearing stories of divorce too much later and rants of how women use pregnancy to pin me down?after all,some women are baby Mamas and they are living happily grin
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 10:23pm On Nov 05, 2020
MLTR:



Its depend on what you define to be responsible ... using davido for instants wil you say he is irresponsible.

Highly irresponsible
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 10:49pm On Nov 05, 2020
virginprincess:
If he knows he doesn't want to marry her why will he get her pregnant in the first place?, if you know you got a lady pregnant you better go and marry her.
First of all, "Marriage is not a MUST"


Lemme use myself as an example... I am a single and responsible dad to my son Jason.. We (Jason's mom) had an agreement before bringing him into this world, "NO MARRIAGE, Just have my baby" and she accepted.

She's doing fine wherever she is.

My son is with me and I have peace of mind.

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Odunharry(m): 10:58pm On Nov 05, 2020
thesicilian:
angry birds have started again
Lmao. You harsh oo

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by akaahs(m): 11:10pm On Nov 05, 2020
as for me and my 5 brothers, no one ll ever marry a lady with another man child. i ll stand against such.
let them go and marry their irresponsible baby dadies
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Beverlyjean(f): 11:19pm On Nov 05, 2020
Zzor:
You all should learn how to take responsibility for your actions,stop having sex with whom you can never marry,stop shaming baby mamas,they didn't impregnate themselves


But getting pregnant is not the man's doing but the woman...its her body for goodness sake...they are ways to prevent pregnancy...pills...condoms...so y blame tge man...he only released inside...now there are aftee sex pills ... but some foolish women will rather drink bitter lemon or 7up or even salt mixed with water...how foolish...

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Liposure: 11:34pm On Nov 05, 2020
Women are as guilty as men. Afterall both agreed to have unprotected sex without thinking of the repercussion. It takes two to tango and two to share responsibility

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 12:22am On Nov 06, 2020
MOLOTOVcockTAIL:
cool cool
Baby Mama is the way to go for any young man that wants to live long. Most marriages are now a thing of kgb vs Cia level espionage, merciless intruiges, dog eat dog, dagger and cloak etc.
Most baby Mama's has more regard in my eyes than the average deadly wives of nowadays.

Still single and contemplating though.



Guy you mad grin cheesy cheesy grin grin cheesy cheesy grin grin
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by stanliwise(m): 1:02am On Nov 06, 2020
MOLOTOVcockTAIL:
cool cool
Baby Mama is the way to go for any young man that wants to live long. Most marriages are now a thing of kgb vs Cia level espionage, merciless intruiges, dog eat dog, dagger and cloak etc.
Most baby Mama's has more regard in my eyes than the average deadly wives of nowadays.

Still single and contemplating though.
Women don deal with this one o grin grin grin

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 1:31am On Nov 06, 2020
Ikillbrokehoes:
Very useless thread
Very Very USELESS I must say..
The person should tell us when SEXX became the criterion for MARRIAGE..?
If SEXX has suddenly become a criterion, why are many prostitutes still unmarried despite spreading their legs in akimbo..?

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Nobody: 5:49am On Nov 06, 2020
op, you post here has a reasonable amount of Truth in it. guys abeg make una put una self for this type of shoe.

if you the sister you really love so much got bleeped and dumped by some irresponsible low life, how would you feel??


if you Must Bleep a girl, don't fucking get her pregnant.. please! it's irresponsible, demeaning and not cool....

just wear a fucking rain coat and get it over with! remember no matter how hot you are, girls with keep coming into this Earth.... Pick one and move on...
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by ghettochild(m): 7:27am On Nov 06, 2020
Go to south Africa n see things
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by Beverlyjean(f): 9:27am On Nov 06, 2020
Hammyaladin:
op, you post here has a reasonable amount of Truth in it. guys abeg make una put una self for this type of shoe.

if you the sister you really love so much got bleeped and dumped by some irresponsible low life, how would you feel??


if you Must Bleep a girl, don't fucking get her pregnant.. please! it's irresponsible, demeaning and not cool....

just wear a fucking rain coat and get it over with! remember no matter how hot you are, girls with keep coming into this Earth.... Pick one and move on...

Getting pregnant is 20% the man and 80% the woman...i am a woman and I hv seen women that try to trap men with pregnancy by manipulating them and end up playing victim...trust me, if a woman don't wanna get pregnant, she wudnt... any woman that gets pregnant either is naive or hot pregnant on purpose... a woman cant conceive immediately a man releases inside her...it takes days b4 she can conceive... postinor is about 700 naira... take it immediately after sex and u will not get pregnant...take it a day or 2 later and u might end up getting pregnant... have y asked urself y these baby mamas for celebrities dint get pregnant b4 meeting these stars... not like these stars were their first encounter having sex....women have targets

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by coolsegun2002: 9:58am On Nov 06, 2020
Freestainworld:
What of ladies who deliberately gets pregnant for a guy just to tie him down, if you blame men for rise in baby mamas, you should also blame your fellow ladies for the rise in baby daddy's.

Sense will not kill u jarè
Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by coolsegun2002: 10:00am On Nov 06, 2020
Davash222:


Wait fess, you mean I should use my money and go marry a Nigerian lady with children? So, who will now marry the young virgin girls? Your brothers??

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by coolsegun2002: 10:09am On Nov 06, 2020
virginprincess:
A lot of girls are into prostitution today because men still flood around prostitue, if men stop carrying prostitute i bet you those ladies will change.

Can’t u women just be responsible for ur actions for once.....if u don’t stand at junctions men won’t patronize u... it’s that simple...

How can u blame men for women’s decision to sell their bodies..u advertise ur bodies to entice men...

Haven’t u heard that advertising makes people spend money on things they don’t even need... why do think companies spend huge money on adverts annually ?? It’s to entice people....

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Re: Men Are Responsible For The Rise In Baby Mama's by coolsegun2002: 10:13am On Nov 06, 2020
Beverlyjean:


Getting pregnant is 20% the man and 80% the woman...i am a woman and I hv seen women that try to trap men with pregnancy by manipulating them and end up playing victim...trust me, if a woman don't wanna get pregnant, she wudnt... any woman that gets pregnant either is naive or hot pregnant on purpose... a woman cant conceive immediately a man releases inside her...it takes days b4 she can conceive... postinor is about 700 naira... take it immediately after sex and u will not get pregnant...take it a day or 2 later and u might end up getting pregnant... have y asked urself y these baby mamas for celebrities dint get pregnant b4 meeting these stars... not like these stars were their first encounter having sex....women have targets

So women have sense like this....where have u been..??

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