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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Mandela27: 9:29am On Nov 09, 2020
Nice one

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by LikeAking: 10:21am On Nov 09, 2020
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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Jmk9292(m): 11:21am On Nov 09, 2020
ubunja:
How Femininity Works.

PROLOGUE.
Femininity is a woman's True Power. And not many women have it. What many women have is vagina power.

Vagina power is the power a woman has over men that is rooted in men's weakness for her vagina. Men HATE AND RESENT that power. Because it is exploitative - it preys on men's weakness and lack of self control by making them act stupid for the benefit of women.

Femininity is something different.

A DIFFERENT TYPE OF POWER.
First of all femininity DOES NOT turn men on. It is not sexual.

Secondly, femininity DOES NOT mean feminism. Feminism kills femininity.

Thirdly femininity DOES NOT mean "female". Female is gender. Femininity is energy.

All genders carry that energy.

But women carry the most of it.

Femininity is the energy of a woman being fully, proudly and unapologetically woman. It is an atmosphere. A mood. A tone. An aura. A presence. That is carried by "a woman who is everything a man is not". This energy men instantly pick up on and gravitate to. But it decreases when a woman does things that are typically associated with men or she bears traits that are typically associated with men.

Like when a woman puts on hairstyles associated with men (shaved head, Mohawk, short hair), when she dresses like men (revealing clothes, pair of jeans, pants, sneakers, caps), when she does things associated with men (whistling, cussing, swearing, coarse jokes), when she misbehaves like how men misbehave (tattoos, smoking, drinking, going in and out of jail), when she uses the vocabulary of men (words like "bros", "dude", etc), when she uses hand gestures that men use (high five, peace sign, thumbs up sign and gangster hand gestures) and so forth.

All these things carry masculine energy. Meaning they look good on men. But make a woman look less of a lady by making her look more like a man. They block her feminine energy. They make a woman appear like she's one of the guys - "tough", "strong" and "hardened" - things a woman MUST NEVER be associated with if she wants to cultivate her femininity.

A Feminine Woman is a woman in a certain state that brings out certain qualities from within men that other non-feminine women are not able to bring out.

THINK OF IT THIS WAY:
If a woman dates a weak man who can't take charge, is always complaining, blames everything on everyone everytime and never makes any decisions - an effeminate man - she'll find herself taking charge, making all the decisions and being the leader in the relationship. His softness brings out her hardness. His ladylike behavior brings out her manlike behavior.

We have both the Masculine and the Feminine in all of us, regardless of gender. But our gender determines which one has dominance. As does our personal circumstances: For example, a woman living in poverty will be masculine. And so will be a first born daughter. And the single mother. And the single mother's daughter.

SO, when a woman deals with effeminate men who are in their feminine (acting like women), her own Masculinity - long dormant - comes out to compensate for their lack thereof. She's forced to take charge, be in control, run things and solve all the problems - which is something that a woman rightfully resents because it's exhausting and she's not built for it. She ends up tired, bitter, resentful, irritable, short tempered, emotionally unstable and beset by high BP and depression because she's operating under undue pressure.

Feminine men make a woman masculine.

SO IN THE OPPOSITE WAY:
When a capable and manly man deals with an overbearing, aggressive woman who's full of masculine energy obsessed with control, is competitive, argumentative, raw, blunt and flaunts her independence; the man will wilt like a flower, become reserved and take the backseat. That will be him becoming emasculated. Him being forced into his feminine. Because his woman is in her masculine. She's making all the decisions and running the relationship.

When that relationship ends, the next woman that man will date will find him a weak man who can't take charge, is always complaining, blames everything on everyone everytime and never makes any decisions - an effeminate man. His Ex, being masculine, brought out his feminine.

Masculine women make a man feminine.

BRINGING OUT A WOMAN'S FEMININITY.
Now, when a woman dates a man who's in control, who gets things done, a man so in charge of his world that his presence alone makes her feel peaceful, secure and carefree - like the weight of the world has been taken off her shoulders and she feels like a little girl all over again hanging out with her all-capable father, that relationship will bring out a side of the woman that no other relationship before has brought out. She'll be tender, kinder, softer and gentler. She'll be more peaceful, more delicate, more girly, more playful, more colorful, more vibrant, more trusting, more rested and more alive - all this is her entering into her femininity, for the first time.

A woman's femininity is her place of rest. In the sense that she is in her element. Where she must be. Where her body, her characteristics and her mind are in truest harmony.

It is in her femininity that a woman flourishes.


BRINGING OUT A MAN'S MASCULINITY.
When a woman offers a man softness, gentleness, a safe space and harmlessness- when she's not aggressive, not overbearing and not defensive - when she's not bold, not blunt, not direct and not confrontational - when she's not forceful and not headstrong - when she comes tender, delicate, girly and, playful - - - - > which is her femininity, the man will not feel challenged but encouraged. He will find it extremely easy to lead, extremely easy to take charge and extremely easy to be the Head.

He'll find it a joy and an honour to protect, defend and provide for the woman.

Without the woman even asking. Or suggesting it.

The man on his own finds himself acting more grownup and more manly around her. She has that effect on him. By simply BEING IN THE STATE THAT SHE IS IN - which is being feminine.

The man becoming grown up and manly around the woman IS HIS MASCULINITY COMING OUT.

He is entering into his masculine. Because his woman is firmly in her feminine.

This is the power of femininity. It brings out a side of a man no amount of sex, no level of beauty, no number of achievements and no size of ass and boobs cannot. When a woman is soft, her man becomes strong for her. So her softness is not a weakness but her power that makes a man do for her. Her power is SOFT POWER.

FEMININITY IS DYING.
But feminine energy in the world is a dying energy.

Feminine energy is being extinguished by powerful forces in business, civil society, media, sports, politics and government who see it as a relic of the old world incompatible with the values of modern progressive society. Modern progressive society - through Women's Empowerment - encourages women to work for their own money so they don't have to depend on anyone (something good and proper) except for one big problem: Careers are built in the image of men. For a woman to match a man's career success she has to make massive sacrifices in her lovelife, and delay, or even cancel, marriage and child birth.

Furthermore, worklife is optimized for masculine traits. Entering the workforce women have to think, speak, act, dress and function like men - they have to disregard their own feminine traits, like feelings, intuition and unpredictability, because these are a liability in business. Instead they have to be logical, predictable and unambiguous - which floods them with masculine energy.

What woman climbing the career ladder is tender, soft and gentle? What successful woman is girly, cheerful and vulnerable?

Ambitious and successful women bear the hard traits that bring success: Aggressiveness, boldness and they're headstrong. The very traits that define masculinity or what men are. By adopting these traits, women lose their femininity and become masculine.

It is the successful woman who'll say, "Anything a man can do I can do". Which signifies a woman fully in her masculine.

ALSO, FEMININE ENERGY IN THE WORLD IS DYING BECAUSE Femininity is costly.

Here is the strange nature of Femininity:
Poverty destroys femininity. And also Success destroys femininity.

The two extremes are detrimental to femininity.

A poor woman and a successful career woman are both masculine. One is masculine for survival. The other is masculine for success.

Poor girls who have lived perpetually difficult lives develop a thick skin and a whole roster of manly traits to survive. They become aggressive, headstrong, stubborn, direct, argumentative and in-your-face; losing their girliness as manliness takes over. All these they need to survive. And all these are contrary to female nature. Because all these are masculine traits.

Poor girls radiate masculine energy.

They live in the poor side of town of which the poor side of town makes women masculine because there's no safety and it's all about survival. Poor girls dress to be practical. They have no use for makeup. They wear men's clothes and perfumes because "these last". They have the simplest hairstyles that require as less attention - and last as long - as possible (those are usually manly hairstyles). Their nails are never done because it's not practical. They reach their 20s not even knowing how to walk in heels. Their mannerisms, their vocabulary and their attitude is all about survival. Which is masculine.

A girl growing up poor dreams of a Knight In Shining Armour coming in on a horse, sweeping her off her feet, delivering her from poverty and into the lap of luxury. But that fantasy is likely to never come true.
Not because she's cursed with everlasting poverty. But because the cares of life and the constant struggle to survive have erased her femininity. And a girl needs her femininity to pull high value men. To attract men who have money she has to erase every manlike trait she acquired for survival until she's soft, vulnerable and peaceful.

Even in the rags to riches story of Cinderella the Prince first meets Cindie as a princess - someone in the lap of luxury and comfort - who arrives in a nice horse-drawn carriage complete with attending staff, not some sooty sweaty barefoot girl in rags breaking under the burden of kitchen chores. Our girl had to erase all traces of poverty and project luxury.

HYPERGAMOUS FEMININITY VS TRADITIONAL FEMININITY.
Looking luxurious is at the center of Hypergamous Femininity. The gold diggers' femininity.

This type of femininity is achieved through Leveling Up and is costly because its aim is to get money, and to get money you have to look like money. This will involve expensive clothes, moving to the rich part of town and even a woman getting cosmetic surgery. So the women who cultivate this type of femininity reserve it for men who have money to get a return on investment.

On the other hand, women who are feminine because they believe in old school conservative values cultivate "Godly Femininity", "Biblical Femininity" or "Traditional Femininity". Which is a more laid-back, girl-next-door, type of femininity that isn't tied to hypergamy. Something a Pastor's daughter will cultivate.

WORKING FOR MONEY VS MARRYING FOR MONEY.
So, femininity is costly because a woman needs money to be feminine but she can't work for that money herself because working for it will make her masculine, and she can't be poor because poverty also brings out a woman's masculinity.

The more money a woman makes the more masculine she becomes (and the harder it is for her to practice hypergamy because the less men are on her level and the less she actually needs a man). However the more money a woman is given the more feminine she becomes. Because femininity is a receiving energy. Hence the stay-at-home wife will be the MOST FEMININE woman.

A woman who wants to be a businesswoman needs to be masculine because the world of moneymaking is optimized for masculine traits. But a woman who wants to marry a businessman needs to be feminine because masculine successful men respond to feminine women. That is why gold diggers - because they pursue businessmen - are at the forefront of the current Femininity Movement.

HOW DOES A GIRL KNOW SHE HAS LOST HER FEMININITY?
Femininity is a woman being everything a man is not. Female masculinity is a woman being a man. As a woman you know you've lost your femininity when men treat you as "one of the guys".

When as a lady you walk into a room and guys see you but just continue with their coarse, sexist and crass jokes, if as a lady you join a group of men but the atmosphere doesn't change to become respectful and restrained, when they can watch porn infront of you, when they can touch you and tease you anyhow, when they feel free to prank you, when they discuss and articulate the nasty things they did or wanna do to other women - when men do such things in your presence, they no longer respect you as a lady because there's nothing about you for them to respect.

They consider you one of them.

When a Feminine Woman walks into a room, all the fuckery stops. The crass jokes, the pranks, the explicit talk, the porn videos, all stop at once. Because she carries with her an atmosphere of no nonsense. She brings with her a certain mood that gives her dignity that commands men's respect. Her entering sets a certain tone in a room. Men are afraid even to touch her. No guy presumes to greet her with a hug because she presents in such a way that discourages overfamiliarity.

HOW DOES A WOMAN REACTIVATE HER FEMININITY?
Femininity is a woman being everything a man is not. You activate your femininity by accentuating/emphasizing/magnifying that which differentiates a woman from a man. That which women have that men don't have. That which women can do but men can't do.

For example:
Men can't have long nails - you always have classy pretty nails, eg French tips. Remember, the way women look at men's shoes to determine his class, salary etc, men look at women's nails for the same reasons. As long as your nails are not done, you're like a guy trying to impress wearing flip flops.

Men can't have long hair - you're always with a good weave or an expensive wig.
Men can't wear makeup - you never so much as go to the store without applying something.
Men can't wear heels - your shoe collection must centre around high heels. Sneakers and tennis shoes are only for sports and the gym.
Men can't wear skirts and dresses - you throw out ALL your jeans, trousers and pants, and get only dresses and skirts especially in feminine colours and feminine fabrics

But it goes deeper because femininity starts inside...

Femininity is you, a woman, sitting in the car while your man fixes the tire in the rain alone because he must know who to call. Femininity is you sitting in the dark waiting for your man to return from work to replace the bulb. Femininity is never giving your man any money because he has his friends for that.

All this may sound cold and harsh but to keep a man you have to make a man feel like a man by letting him fix problems to impress you. He must see you as useless when it comes to repairing stuff around the house. Because if you get into the habit of fixing stuff guess who'll be left feeling useless - - - - - > your man.

Women don't have any idea how emasculating it is for a man to get home and be told, "the drain blocked and I called the repair man to fix it. It's OK now". YOU NEVER EVER DO THAT. What you tell him is, "the drain is blocked, I wanted to call so and so, but I waited for you".
This activates the hero in him. You're not adding to his burden, you're giving him a chance to save you.
As a woman never let another man save you infront of your man. It wounds his masculinity. The same way it wounds a woman's femininity when her man praises another woman's cooking. Even his own helpful son praised by his mother can leave a man feeling somewhat replaceable.

You have to show a man that you need him because he desires to impress you by being useful to you. Helpful Wives go above and beyond to rescue their man but are always shocked when the man, instead of showing appreciation for their efforts and sacrifices, he rushes off to cheat with some useless bimbo who doesn't even boil water. But the man likes the useless bimbo because she doesn't try to solve his problems for him, which makes him feel like a man when he solves his own problems unaided by a woman.

The more tangible a woman's help is, the more masculine it makes her and the more emasculated her man will be and the more he will cheat on her with someone useless. Which is all kinds of ironic and crazy.

It is also ironic that when a woman financially supports a man, he will oftentimes be disrespectful and abusive towards her. We see it everytime and it's puzzling and goes against all logic - until you understand how masculinity and femininity work.

The core of masculinity is to provide and protect because men are richer and stronger. When a man is provided for by a woman, it may appear like the ultimate relationship for him, but deep down his masculinity feels threatened because he can't provide. And so to assert his masculinity, the man becomes violent to remind his woman that he is stronger - even though she is richer.

LEARNING TO RECEIVE.
Femininity is a receiving energy. Because masculinity loves by giving. This is true regardless of who carries which energy in the relationship. The masculine will provide. The feminine will take.

Many women, especially women who grew up poor, have forgotten how to receive.

I come from a background of poverty. But luckily we had successful relatives who gave us a helping hand here and there.

One of these relatives was a female cousin who was a police officer whose husband worked at a bank. In my younger years this couple, every December, would ask me to housesit their home as they went on Christmas holiday. They would give me money and fill the fridge with food, telling me to take care and not starve myself.

After two weeks they would return to see I hardly spent the money they gave me and barely ate anything from the fridge. It made them feel bad because it made them look stingy. Which they were not.

But I had a hard time accepting their generosity.

The reason I didn't spend a lot of the money they gave me or eat a lot of the food they left me, was because of Guilt. I was so used to being broke and not having enough to eat that when I tried to spoil myself feelings of guilt overwhelmed me. I always felt like I was not worthy. Especially knowing that my siblings back home were surviving on the simplest of meals. That guilt blocked me from enjoying the blessings in front of me.

Suffering and poverty had destroyed my ability to receive. And it sucked.

I had to heal.

Girls and women who grew up in poverty go through this same thing. They have a problem accepting generosity. They feel guilt when given good things because they feel they don't deserve good things because they never had good things.

They have lost the ability to receive.

They need to heal.

Because until these women heal, they can't enjoy masculine men whose joy is in giving.

# MGTOW
# TheRedPill


200 Likes and the next writeup "IF THE MILK IS FREE" gets published. Milk picks up from where "The Sweetest Thing In The Universe" left off.
You're very much in order....... Thumps up

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Nobody: 11:40am On Nov 09, 2020
Jmk9292:

You're very much in order....... Thumps up
must u quote the whole write-up? undecided

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by nobodii: 12:07pm On Nov 09, 2020
miracood:
must u quote the whole write-up? undecided
i bin wan talk, but you've said my mind
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by bologzy(m): 12:48pm On Nov 09, 2020
bot suppose dey ban people wey dey quote long write up. Why can't you mention the poster name and add your comment? Some people dont know when to use the quote button sha.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Nov 09, 2020
There's always something to learn from this guy's posts. Thumbs up!




Time to reactivate the femininity! grin

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 12:57pm On Nov 09, 2020
Where are those ladies who termed Redpill thread as women hater thread

The feminists self aren't enjoying the shell they forced themselves into...

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 1:10pm On Nov 09, 2020
Akposy:
I agree to disagree here.

This is just a post to make women feel weak, totally dependent and have no say in a relationship.

The average Nigerian man is always seeking to control the female. This ain't supposed to be. The only control a man need is SELFcontrol. Control yourself, everything will fall in place.

Poverty makes men weaklings...i agree with this. But this does not mean your wife or girlfriend shouldn't be successful! Many African men have been applauding Mrs Harris (USA VP - Elect), these same men will not allow their wives and girlfriends grow, succeed and become a lady of impact because of their huge insecurity, envy and love of dominance. Everybody deserves and should aim for Independence.

Although you made some good points, you should quit trying to miseducate youngsters. A woman is never your property to control.
Respect, trust and loyalty is the key not these dominance and weakling things.

At the emboldened, if you notice this no matter ow soft a man flesh is it cant be as soft as that of a woman that alone should tells you more about nature.

The post never mean woman should not have a say in their relationship, it's actually talking about both parties should face their primary assignment/role.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by jimmychang: 1:26pm On Nov 09, 2020
Akposy:
I agree to disagree here.

This is just a post to make women feel weak, totally dependent and have no say in a relationship.

The average Nigerian man is always seeking to control the female. This ain't supposed to be. The only control a man need is SELFcontrol. Control yourself, everything will fall in place.

Poverty makes men weaklings...i agree with this. But this does not mean your wife or girlfriend shouldn't be successful! Many African men have been applauding Mrs Harris (USA VP - Elect), these same men will not allow their wives and girlfriends grow, succeed and become a lady of impact because of their huge insecurity, envy and love of dominance. Everybody deserves and should aim for Independence.

Although you made some good points, you should quit trying to miseducate youngsters. A woman is never your property to control.
Respect, trust and loyalty is the key not these dominance and weakling things.


Bro calm down,a normal human will know that what he wrote is not hundred percent applicable...I believe that the ideal woman should have feminity with some touch of masculinity here and there.

Thanks Ubunja

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by doscar(m): 1:38pm On Nov 09, 2020
Ubunja is an angel on earth. Bravo bravo

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by DontBullshitMe: 1:46pm On Nov 09, 2020
Another 10/10 masterclass.

All this may sound cold and harsh but to keep a man you have to make a man feel like a man by letting him fix problems to impress you

100%.

What women fail to realise is that right from time, a man's life is always about the opposite gender - to satisfy and impress the feminity in women. Appear helpless to him and allow him be the saviour.

Funny thing is : this article benefits women more than men.

Faultless writeup. Ubunja

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by dotunibrahim7(m): 1:49pm On Nov 09, 2020
Ubunja the great...thanks man

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by luwiizy(m): 1:54pm On Nov 09, 2020
ubunja my man. I spent time reading through this post and i can tell you most of what you write about your personal life really really relates to me, from losing your dad and feeling worthless about yourself due to poverty mindset. BRO YOU TOUCHED MY HEART.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Liposure: 2:01pm On Nov 09, 2020
Concise and logical writeup

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 2:57pm On Nov 09, 2020
healthserve:
Dawg cool


The surge in Alpha-Females won't let pure feminism be


Sup Ubunja. Another Masterpiece


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it's crazy because the Alpha Female IS the most feminine woman. That diva that is put forward as the Alpha Female is really a masculine woman.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by heniford2: 3:00pm On Nov 09, 2020
nice write up
Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Greenarrow01(m): 3:01pm On Nov 09, 2020
Akposy:
I agree to disagree here.

This is just a post to make women feel weak, totally dependent and have no say in a relationship.

The average Nigerian man is always seeking to control the female. This ain't supposed to be. The only control a man need is SELFcontrol. Control yourself, everything will fall in place.

Poverty makes men weaklings...i agree with this. But this does not mean your wife or girlfriend shouldn't be successful! Many African men have been applauding Mrs Harris (USA VP - Elect), these same men will not allow their wives and girlfriends grow, succeed and become a lady of impact because of their huge insecurity, envy and love of dominance. Everybody deserves and should aim for Independence.

Although you made some good points, you should quit trying to miseducate youngsters. A woman is never your property to control.
Respect, trust and loyalty is the key not these dominance and weakling things.


I couldn't quite you on your diary.. buy I will quote you here.... Pls what is the recipe for that coffee/donut stuff..
It is fucking mad
I beg you.. don't just drop zpictures alone.. recipes plsssssss
Bleep
Can I have your number pls.

I have tried and enjoyed your coconut bread before..

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 3:05pm On Nov 09, 2020
punisha:

U write well.
Can't believe it read this all and didn't criticize but identify with your points
Nice one.
the world is hungry for femininity and Masculinity but as we go forward they'll be harder and harder to maintain. But especially feminine women have a lot to gain. I'm gently setting my daughter on that road. Step by step. By the time she's 15 she needs to be already feminine to a great extent.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 3:10pm On Nov 09, 2020
Mubbyleey:
This is a masterpiece ubunja... No wonder why i do find myself drawn to feminine girls. Weak "feminine" girls gives men some sort of purpose, by trying to protect them, give them comforts, by always trying to impress them.

They "feminine girls" bring out the best in men...
I wish all women could cherish their "femininity". But bad economy is hindering men from during the necessary things, like offering protection, providing comforts for their women etc...

Poverty turns men into weaklings, and makes women masculine! I believe in an environment where men thrives a lot, there won't be such thing as feminism. Women will accept their roles and their reality.

But because of the inability of men to serve their purposes, women finds it hard to stay true to their femininity & their reality.

not "Weak" feminine women, it's SOFT.

Remember softness does not mean weakness. Water is soft but it wears away a rock. That's the nature of femininity.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akinbahm(m): 3:18pm On Nov 09, 2020
DontBullshitMe:
Another 10/10 masterclass.



100%.

What women fail to realise is that right from time, a man's life is always about the opposite gender - to satisfy and impress the feminity in women. Appear helpless to him and allow him be the saviour.

Funny thing is : this article benefits women more than men.

Faultless writeup. Ubunja

Them (ladies) go still come masturbate on it forming it benefits guys more smiley what do I know self? cool

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by kurupt1: 3:44pm On Nov 09, 2020
ubunja:
and women are happiest in their femininity. But feminine women will mean women submitting to men and to feminists Submission =Being a Doormat. Even though that can't be further from the truth.

All women will submit depending on how powerful the man seems, besides submission to the right man is the key to happiness for women

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Santinho: 3:51pm On Nov 09, 2020
God bless Amigo! Your words are filled with wisdom. Kinldy mention me when you drop again. A thousand likes for you bro �

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by TheRollingStone: 4:00pm On Nov 09, 2020
Insightful and interesting.....

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Theslumflower: 4:11pm On Nov 09, 2020
So basically being feminine is associated to being a dumbo. SMH

I hope all of you men raise your female kids to be one. Raise her to be highly dependent on men, raise her to be have a notion that being a housewife with zero skills is what makes her more "feminine".


Human nature has it to always prey on the weak. When a man find a woman as weak, a "yes sir", naturally instincts has it that she's gonna be taken for granted. Ask housewives with no source of income how it is for them at home.

Ubunja is an intelligent man, I give him that but being versatile in explanation and not using one aspect to explain is what he really needs to work on or rather consider.

A lady can still be feminine without acting like a dumbo. Sometimes u need your woman to act smart and be able to defend and take care of serious things when you are not around. And please I'm not talking about fixing bulbs and shiii, I'm talking about real business.

There is nothing like a feminine lady with a little bit of smartness and a little bit of "bougieness" in her. It's sexy.

The main thing is knowing the right time to bring out these two sides.


Maybe you should teach these men how to stop being insecure. That is the underlying factor here. Insecurity because they "feel" their masculinity has been ripped from them, when rather they should appear stronger and take charge as the men they are.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 4:19pm On Nov 09, 2020
miracood:
I'm 19 but already reading and heading to the advise of great men!! I believe I'm in the right path towards my success in life..

I started understanding the manipulations of women from an early age of 16..

I also became redpilled at that same age..
Without even knowing that TRP ever existed, I first heard about TRP during this lockdown..

Ubunja, keep the good works going man!
you started early. You got a headstart that many men don't have. You're blessed.
Remember always put yourself first and you'll be okay.

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Nobody: 4:33pm On Nov 09, 2020
ubunja:
you started early. You got a headstart that many men don't have. You're blessed.
Remember always put yourself first and you'll be okay.
Ok, thanks man

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by ubunja(m): 4:35pm On Nov 09, 2020
Akposy:
I agree to disagree here.

This is just a post to make women feel weak, totally dependent and have no say in a relationship.

The average Nigerian man is always seeking to control the female. This ain't supposed to be. The only control a man need is SELFcontrol. Control yourself, everything will fall in place.

Poverty makes men weaklings...i agree with this. But this does not mean your wife or girlfriend shouldn't be successful! Many African men have been applauding Mrs Harris (USA VP - Elect), these same men will not allow their wives and girlfriends grow, succeed and become a lady of impact because of their huge insecurity, envy and love of dominance. Everybody deserves and should aim for Independence.

Although you made some good points, you should quit trying to miseducate youngsters. A woman is never your property to control.
Respect, trust and loyalty is the key not these dominance and weakling things.
I guess you read the writeup with your own preconceived notions. Because I clearly stated that how it's not about men vs women but Masculinity vs Femininity.

Either way a woman will work for a man. In the house or in the office. She will still report to a man. She Chooses which man she's happy to submit to. See, you never thought of it this way...

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Mubbyleey(m): 4:55pm On Nov 09, 2020
ubunja:
not "Weak" feminine women, it's SOFT.

Remember softness does not mean weakness. Water is soft but it wears away a rock. That's the nature of femininity.
Hmmm you're full of wisdom ubunja, this is exactly what women don't know, they see femininity as "weakness" whereas it's not... This ignorance makes them hate what they are, without them knowing "femininity" is a superpower!!!

In reality, we both "men & women" share almost equal amount of power. We compliment each other by staying true to our nature! This alone would make women accept the nature of things, instead of them trying to become men.

This is what they "women" are missing, this post is more an eye opener to women, especially to "women of understanding" because i believe most still won't get this. It's not their fault, they're just slaves to their emotions...

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by Akposy(m): 5:23pm On Nov 09, 2020
ubunja:
I guess you read the writeup with your own preconceived notions. Because I clearly stated that how it's not about men vs women but Masculinity vs Femininity.

Either way a woman will work for a man. In the house or in the office. She will still report to a man. She Chooses which man she's happy to submit to. See, you never thought of it this way...
For the first paragraph,
Okay. There's no problem.

I think the second paragraph is vice versa and also not completely true. However, I agree with choosing who she wants to submit to. The power of choice

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by stanliwise(m): 5:28pm On Nov 09, 2020
jpslick:
Reading Ubunja's Miseducations has educated me far more than my 5 years in school did.
At first glance you may think his teaching is just about handling women, but if you're wise, you'll realise that it goes far beyond that, because the truth is; as a man, once you can master how to handle women, you have mastered how to handle your Finances, your career, your health, and your Ambitions.
GOD BLESS YOU UBUNJA, PLS KEEP IT COMING �
Only if you could spot the garbage in this post then you would have realized you’re just pathetic

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Re: UBUNJA's MISEDUCATION: (2020) Femininity. by stanliwise(m): 5:33pm On Nov 09, 2020
Akinbahm:


At the emboldened, if you notice this no matter ow soft a man flesh is it cant be as soft as that of a woman that alone should tells you more about nature.

The post never mean woman should not have a say in their relationship, it's actually talking about both parties should face their primary assignment/role.
How has soft skin describe a women nature?

More so you should read about estrogen

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